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FSogol

(45,488 posts)
Mon Apr 2, 2018, 08:26 AM Apr 2018

A tale of our times? I posted a huge note for the thief who stole my bike. Then my doorbell rang.

My bike was stolen a week ago Saturday. It was half my fault, half my husband’s fault, and 100 percent the fault of the person who stole it. Left with a lock, a front wheel and a heavy heart, I did the only thing I could think of: I decided to leave the thief a little note.

Okay, it was a big note. Armed with yellow paint, I crafted an 8-by-3-foot cardboard sign and hung it across the entire front of my landlord’s Brooklyn brownstone (with his permission). It said:



“To the person who stole my bicycle
I hope you need it more than I do.
It was $200 used, and I need it to get to work. I can’t afford another one.
Next time, steal a hipster’s Peugeot.
Or not steal! PS: Bring it back.”


Here's what happened:

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/inspired-life/wp/2018/03/16/i-posted-a-huge-note-for-the-thief-who-stole-my-bike-then-my-doorbell-rang/?utm_term=.31432a60c7a3
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A tale of our times? I posted a huge note for the thief who stole my bike. Then my doorbell rang. (Original Post) FSogol Apr 2018 OP
Nice story Angry Dragon Apr 2018 #1
Great, heartwarming story Glorfindel Apr 2018 #2
Anytime. As long as people are still doing nice things for strangers, this country isn't really FSogol Apr 2018 #6
Maybe this was a Scarsdale Apr 2018 #3
My advice to this person would be to learn how a bike lock works Spider Jerusalem Apr 2018 #4
please read the entire story. barbtries Apr 2018 #5
By far, MOST in this country are decent people. The shitty ones just get the press. 7962 Apr 2018 #7
+1 uponit7771 Apr 2018 #21
That's quite a story, and bike theft has gotten out of control IronLionZion Apr 2018 #8
One of my daughters lives in New York City DFW Apr 2018 #9
Grew up in NYC (Queens) njcpa1978 Apr 2018 #13
Apparently, that blood can be acquired, or else it is passed down in DNA DFW Apr 2018 #15
Welcome to DU, njcpa1978! calimary Apr 2018 #20
THANKS, FS, and BROOKLYN, elleng Apr 2018 #10
I hate to be "that person" that criticizes this nice story but I will be Happyhippychick Apr 2018 #11
Yeah, you do have a point there. nt 7962 Apr 2018 #23
What a great story! PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 2018 #12
You have to have a long enough chain to loop around a pole and through the front and back wheel. brush Apr 2018 #14
Wow.. I was crying and laughing Cha Apr 2018 #16
Great story! Thanks for posting! misanthrope Apr 2018 #17
Great story, DiverDave Apr 2018 #18
cool story Demovictory9 Apr 2018 #19
Most people are genuinely good Lee-Lee Apr 2018 #22

FSogol

(45,488 posts)
6. Anytime. As long as people are still doing nice things for strangers, this country isn't really
Mon Apr 2, 2018, 08:57 AM
Apr 2018

going down the drain, imo.

Scarsdale

(9,426 posts)
3. Maybe this was a
Mon Apr 2, 2018, 08:56 AM
Apr 2018

blessing in disguise? Real feelings of people came through. The thief should have "bad karma" follow them. Many good deeds came from one bad deed.

 

Spider Jerusalem

(21,786 posts)
4. My advice to this person would be to learn how a bike lock works
Mon Apr 2, 2018, 08:57 AM
Apr 2018

you should be using it to lock the rear triangle, not the front wheel; if you have quick-release wheels, that's your bike gone (and even if you don't it takes like a couple of minutes with a hacksaw or angle grinder to cut the wheel).

barbtries

(28,799 posts)
5. please read the entire story.
Mon Apr 2, 2018, 08:57 AM
Apr 2018

it won't take long. we need these reminders that humans are good. they're terrible, and they're wonderful. i'm in tears yet again.

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
7. By far, MOST in this country are decent people. The shitty ones just get the press.
Mon Apr 2, 2018, 09:15 AM
Apr 2018

Amazing stories like this are not hard to find. And SO many charities get funded by other good people.
But people and media focus on the bad seeds; the crook, the racist, the abuser, etc. But THEY are the MINORITY. WE are the MAJORITY.

IronLionZion

(45,453 posts)
8. That's quite a story, and bike theft has gotten out of control
Mon Apr 2, 2018, 09:44 AM
Apr 2018

In my case, my bike was locked to a bike rack with a U-bolt and a thick cable through the front wheel and someone who wanted to earn bad karma still managed to steal it out of my apartment building's parking garage. It must have taken some skill from an experienced professional.

The karma cycle and good people who helped is great. I chose to stew in bitterness, which was less helpful.

In big cities it's probably not worth owning a bike these days when there are bike-share and ride-share services to get people to school/work with less risk.

DFW

(54,405 posts)
9. One of my daughters lives in New York City
Mon Apr 2, 2018, 10:02 AM
Apr 2018

Sometimes people who don't live there (in some cases have never been) ask her how she could possibly want to live a place like that.

This is how and this is why.

njcpa1978

(114 posts)
13. Grew up in NYC (Queens)
Mon Apr 2, 2018, 11:03 AM
Apr 2018

Grow up here and it is in your blood. The military talks about 'situation awareness'; New Yorkers have it from birth. The subway smells like people and give me a 'dirty water dog' with mustard and sauerkraut anytime. And yes, that is a garbage truck picking up a load at 2:00 in the morning.

DFW

(54,405 posts)
15. Apparently, that blood can be acquired, or else it is passed down in DNA
Mon Apr 2, 2018, 11:57 AM
Apr 2018

My grandparents grew up in New York City, but my generation was mostly all born in the South. My daughter was born and grew up in a typical old 1000 year old small town in the German Rheinland, still considers it her home town. It is about as far away from New York culturally as it is geographically. She fell in love with NYC as a small girl, visiting briefly every year with her great-grandfather, who lived to be 102 (she was 13 when he died), and was supremely proud of his bi-lingual blonde German descendants (he fought in the trenches against the Germans in 1917 and 1918).

calimary

(81,318 posts)
20. Welcome to DU, njcpa1978!
Tue Apr 3, 2018, 04:54 AM
Apr 2018

I spent a long hot steamy summer working there, getting set up in a new job before being transferred with it back to the West Coast. It's a whole different world.

Happyhippychick

(8,379 posts)
11. I hate to be "that person" that criticizes this nice story but I will be
Mon Apr 2, 2018, 10:57 AM
Apr 2018

I think she was a real jerk for encouraging a thief to steal a bike from someone else. So really I think she got a lot of kindness that she didn't necessarily deserve.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,862 posts)
12. What a great story!
Mon Apr 2, 2018, 11:01 AM
Apr 2018

Anne Frank said it best when in the last entry of her diary she said that she believed with all her heart that people were good.

brush

(53,787 posts)
14. You have to have a long enough chain to loop around a pole and through the front and back wheel.
Mon Apr 2, 2018, 11:07 AM
Apr 2018

And of course a good lock.

Just doing the front wheel is and invitation to the thieves.

Cha

(297,311 posts)
16. Wow.. I was crying and laughing
Mon Apr 2, 2018, 09:48 PM
Apr 2018

at the same time.. Mahalo for this, FSogol.. I needed it! Beautiful story of human kindess

DiverDave

(4,886 posts)
18. Great story,
Tue Apr 3, 2018, 02:14 AM
Apr 2018

I have one
Got hurt in Wintersvile Oh, got moved out of my truck (alot of stuff)
Got a rental that the company paid for.
They would pay for gas, I could use my fuel card.
First stop out of the gate, got fuel.
They wouldn't take my card, after about 45 minutes trying to get payment
to them, the manager got pissed.
I didn't have enough to cover it.
One of the customers paid it, didn't even meet them.

There is kindness everywhere. Just not where we can always see it.

 

Lee-Lee

(6,324 posts)
22. Most people are genuinely good
Tue Apr 3, 2018, 07:44 AM
Apr 2018

Even those on the right, as much as we disagree with them, are verbally good people who will more often than not stop and help people in need.

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