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When I am in the line at the grocery store and politics comes up (Original Post) Eliot Rosewater Apr 2018 OP
Why have I never MichMary Apr 2018 #1
Lucky you! Ohiogal Apr 2018 #2
If It Happens Again, Don't Make an Excuse Leith Apr 2018 #7
I was thinking the same thing. Has never happened to me in all my many years. WillowTree Apr 2018 #3
You must not wear your Pink Pussy Hat shopping like we do. NCTraveler Apr 2018 #4
Nah, my comments are to be put down whenever possible Eliot Rosewater Apr 2018 #9
I wore my hat to Publix once. NCTraveler Apr 2018 #16
Hey, I have been a fan of yours for a long time! Eliot Rosewater Apr 2018 #17
Same here leftstreet Apr 2018 #6
Ive never experienced this either I never talk to anyone else in line other than excuse me anneboleyn Apr 2018 #10
Being a local, low level politician, I get approached too often in stores here. Invariably... George II Apr 2018 #15
At one of the grocery stores where I shop Ohiogal Apr 2018 #5
Political proselytizing is as effective as religious proselytizing. LanternWaste Apr 2018 #8
In todays climate, it is probably best to avoid political chitchat while waiting in line. Grammy23 Apr 2018 #11
No thanks, my country is under attack from Nazi's and Putin, I will speak out and not Eliot Rosewater Apr 2018 #12
I've had it happen GallopingGhost Apr 2018 #13
I have LG earbuds in all the time as I am listening to a podcast or Sirius Progressive Channel Eliot Rosewater Apr 2018 #14
Why do you feel it's necessary for complete strangers to know your political thoughts? DrunkInTheAfternoon Apr 2018 #19
Where in fuck do you think you are? This is a discussion site, and politcs are what we discuss.... marble falls Apr 2018 #20
I must be special Eliot Rosewater Apr 2018 #21
You are. marble falls Apr 2018 #22
............ Eliot Rosewater Apr 2018 #23
The grocery store?? GulfCoast66 Apr 2018 #18

MichMary

(1,714 posts)
1. Why have I never
Fri Apr 6, 2018, 12:32 PM
Apr 2018

encountered a political discussion in a checkout line? They apparently seem to happen quite frequently.

I think I would avoid controversial discussions with complete strangers. The closest I've ever come was when I saw a lady with a few huge skeins of yarn, and I asked her if someone was getting an afghan for Christmas. (Yes, someone was.)

Ohiogal

(31,999 posts)
2. Lucky you!
Fri Apr 6, 2018, 12:45 PM
Apr 2018

I seem to be accosted by Trump loving loonies more often than not! They are total crazies. I wish they'd leave me alone! My hubby says I must look like an "easy mark" for them to lay out all their crazy.

One time the guy followed me out the door yammering away and I was afraid to go to my car for fear he'd try to accost me, so I made up the excuse that I forgot something and went back in the store.

Leith

(7,809 posts)
7. If It Happens Again, Don't Make an Excuse
Fri Apr 6, 2018, 01:10 PM
Apr 2018

Tell him flat out that you are going to get the store manager or security to make him stop bothering you.

I learned a long time ago that raising a fuss works in your favor. If you are a female shopper being bothered by a male shopper, passer-by, or some guy hanging around, it is easy to keep the high ground and victim status.

Do not be afraid of making a scene. What's the worst that can happen? People look at you? They're doing that already. You have the advantage - use it!

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
16. I wore my hat to Publix once.
Fri Apr 6, 2018, 01:46 PM
Apr 2018


I love your comments. All of them. Even the ones I don't like. You rock!

leftstreet

(36,108 posts)
6. Same here
Fri Apr 6, 2018, 01:04 PM
Apr 2018

Never happens

Brief comments about the weather, the loooooong wait lines, whatever - but never politics

anneboleyn

(5,611 posts)
10. Ive never experienced this either I never talk to anyone else in line other than excuse me
Fri Apr 6, 2018, 01:27 PM
Apr 2018

or “thank you” — small little social pleasantries. I seem to be missing all the excitement.

George II

(67,782 posts)
15. Being a local, low level politician, I get approached too often in stores here. Invariably...
Fri Apr 6, 2018, 01:42 PM
Apr 2018

...despite the initial intention of the discussion, it eventually gravitates toward trump. That's where I cut it off.

Ohiogal

(31,999 posts)
5. At one of the grocery stores where I shop
Fri Apr 6, 2018, 01:02 PM
Apr 2018

They have TV screens hanging from the ceiling near the checkouts .... I guess they figure if you're in a long line it gives you something to watch. Most of the time they have them on the Food Channel, but once in a while they have them tuned to a news channel .... so naturally the idiots are going to comment on whatever's showing.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
8. Political proselytizing is as effective as religious proselytizing.
Fri Apr 6, 2018, 01:16 PM
Apr 2018

Political proselytizing is as effective as religious proselytizing. God bless!

Grammy23

(5,810 posts)
11. In todays climate, it is probably best to avoid political chitchat while waiting in line.
Fri Apr 6, 2018, 01:28 PM
Apr 2018

You just never know who is in that line with you. Remember, even nutcases have to eat and shop, too. So that grandfatherly guy behind you might be packing heat. Or be planning to follow you home. 😳 I once had a lady behind me at the check out opine if I could afford the basket of food I was waiting to buy. I was tempted to tell her I couldn't and that the check I was about to write would bounce but after regaining my composure I assured her I could. But it was a very bizarre interaction. So beware of interacting with total strangers. You never know who walks among us. 😵 🤭 👀

Eliot Rosewater

(31,112 posts)
12. No thanks, my country is under attack from Nazi's and Putin, I will speak out and not
Fri Apr 6, 2018, 01:30 PM
Apr 2018

just online.

I know it is dangerous and not for everyone. But I cant live with myself any other way.

GallopingGhost

(2,404 posts)
13. I've had it happen
Fri Apr 6, 2018, 01:35 PM
Apr 2018

a couple of times. One older guy didn't like my pin depicting Trump as Mussolini. When I see his orange ugly mug staring at me from a magazine cover, I flip it around, and I've noticed most people around me just smile. And I'm not in a heavily blue area.

Eliot Rosewater

(31,112 posts)
14. I have LG earbuds in all the time as I am listening to a podcast or Sirius Progressive Channel
Fri Apr 6, 2018, 01:36 PM
Apr 2018

but when the opportunity is right I will start up a pretend conversation as if I am on the phone and I will talk about what the liar did that day, or the people he harmed that day.

It usually ends up starting a conversation with someone, or at a minimum they will hear me say this stuff.

 
19. Why do you feel it's necessary for complete strangers to know your political thoughts?
Fri Apr 6, 2018, 02:19 PM
Apr 2018

Proselytizing is annoying no matter which side you're on...

marble falls

(57,083 posts)
20. Where in fuck do you think you are? This is a discussion site, and politcs are what we discuss....
Mon Apr 16, 2018, 03:59 PM
Apr 2018

Why are you trolling this member?


Elliott is a wonderful, kind, informative poster. We have rules here about harassing members.

GulfCoast66

(11,949 posts)
18. The grocery store??
Fri Apr 6, 2018, 02:03 PM
Apr 2018

Never had it happen there.

But, I am a middle aged white guy with a beer belly. I drive a truck and wear jeans and boots when the Weather is cool.

Very, very occasionally, like a handful, I have had someone make assumptions and drop a pro trump statement. Once in an auto repair shop and a few times in a bar.

The first few times I no answer but now I have my answer down pat...

“I am a social Democrat. I want health care for all Americans and want to cut the military in half. I do not support Trump”.

Or something along those lines. The I turn around and disengage. Works like a charm.

Shuts them up and removes their crazy idea that all white people think like them.

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