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There is a distinction to be made between a term being inoffensive, and a claim that certain people shouldn't find the term offensive.
The term is meant to refer to a group by skin color, and is therefore as offensive as any other term used to refer to any other group. Yes, it is. It's certainly not used as an honorific, or as a term of endearment, or in any way meant to confer any sort of dignity. It is therefore offensive, and any effort to separate it from other racial slurs is fatuous.
What people seem to mean by "inoffensive" in this regard seems to be "you haven't the RIGHT to be offended, because privilege." I guess that's a matter of opinion, which is fine. My opinion is that is bullshit.
Trust Buster
(7,299 posts)TreasonousBastard
(43,049 posts)Dreamer Tatum
(10,926 posts)If that were true, there would be absolutely no depression, anxiety, insecurity, rage, despair, sadness, or even melancholy present in any white person. Don't like your circumstances? Why not? YOU'RE WHITE, after all.
We know the opposite is true, of course.
DanTex
(20,709 posts)Anon-C
(3,438 posts)boston bean
(36,460 posts)White people who are racist are.
Dreamer Tatum
(10,926 posts)Didn't think so.
boston bean
(36,460 posts)Dreamer Tatum
(10,926 posts)That worked nicely.
boston bean
(36,460 posts)great day to you!
procon
(15,805 posts)It's an insider joke, yeah?
Without a cautionary explanation, the intended targets of that racial stereotyping aren't even aware that they are the brunt of a jeering taunt. What great fun, everyone gets a big laugh. That's divisive and exclusionary.
If it looks like a duck, swims like a duck, and quacks like a duck, then it probably is a duck.
boston bean
(36,460 posts)creeps.
I'm all set. But thank you for your concern about it.
ehrnst
(32,640 posts)In a passive agressive way of course, and you evade any direct calling out on what that is.
No surprise.
The courage to actually own ones own statements is so rare amongst those who consider those who aren't white boys uppity.
Your intent is divisive and well, let's just say the opposite of inclusive. Clearly.
ehrnst
(32,640 posts)demeaning posts to Effie, aren't going to own their statements when shown a mirror.
No surprise.
You're going to find a lot of "uppity" types on DU, procon.
It's a progressive website, Honeychile.
Trust Buster
(7,299 posts)Lunabell
(6,781 posts)Sooooo, "black folks" aren't racist. They may have prejudice, but aren't racist.
askyagerz
(901 posts)Racism is also blanketing an entire race with a stereotype. It comes in many forms. I have been seeing lots of blanketing here on DU.
When someone says white people do this its really no different then a racist saying all black people do that.
Most people on DU have always fought hard for minorities no matter what our skin color.
EffieBlack
(14,249 posts)What you're describing is prejudice
askyagerz
(901 posts)Its racism. Who cares what we call it and at what line prejudice becomes racism. Its all wrong. And as progressives we should be above this stuff. We are all friends here.
I know all about being judged. I might be white but I come from the bottom and trust me. I was treated like shit from my white community until I fled out west. I was constantly being pulled over and jailed over stuff I didnt do. I feel your pain. Its B.S. and I am am here to stand right beside any of you.
No one cares about the word wypipo but for some reason it always seems to come with the phrase "white people". Now that's what is kind of disrespectful because you are comparing your fellow comrades like we are like those asshole trump people just because we also happen to be white.
Its like you are comparing us to pond scum. Why would you do that lol
EffieBlack
(14,249 posts)again doesn't mean you're using it correctly.
But, whatever. I guess in the end, it doesn't matter what I think, since I'm not likely to ever encounter you in the real world.
EX500rider
(11,434 posts)I know there is a attempt to change the definition to that but here is the correct definition:
A belief that race is the primary determinant of human traits and capacities and that racial differences produce an inherent superiority of a particular race.
https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/racism
askyagerz
(901 posts)I understand their traits and habits. And ive seen racists of every color.
askyagerz
(901 posts)What is that even supposed to mean? Like I said I have your back anytime you need. You obviously don't have mine. If you can't see how blanketing a entire group of your fellow du'ers with trump nuts is betrayel then I guess theres no hope
Bok_Tukalo
(4,397 posts)It is a weak argument no matter how seductive.
wasupaloopa
(4,516 posts)These are DU ideas I think. Not universal truths. You do a lot of splanin and bullying I think and in that you are wrong.
I feel that you feel you come from some position of authority because of you happenstance but in reality you have an opinion as do all of us.
I still feel positive toward you and like reading your posts if it means anything
EffieBlack
(14,249 posts)Im applying the definition developed by the scholars, experts, practitioners, advocates and activists who have studied, analyzed and worked to develop the depth of scholarship that has informed this issue for more than a century
askyagerz
(901 posts)Or a combination. The point is its all tit for tat. One hand washes the other. Racism is prejudices ugly older meaner brother. Like I said i grew up with plenty of racists people around me. I know what makes them tick and all their traits like blanteting racial issues.
I dont need a scientists to give me a checklist to properly identify a turd . If anything listen to what an anthropologists has to say about the issue because its a lot deeper then most people realize.
You know I have never let anyone get away with being a racist in front of me. I always confront them and always try explain why they are wrong. Have even come to blows in bars over what I felt is right. I have great friends of many colors. That is my real world.
Demsrule86
(70,983 posts)By definition it is about power.
Eliot Rosewater
(32,530 posts)COMMON SENSE dictates racism cant exist without power.
Prejudice can.
wasupaloopa
(4,516 posts)way you use it is coercive. If a person does not agree with you they lack common sense.
EffieBlack
(14,249 posts)youll find its written in a whole lot of places.
Bok_Tukalo
(4,397 posts)It does not make it so.
EffieBlack
(14,249 posts)media.
Quantum physics, philosophy, the law and other areas are studied and analyzed and the opinions of people pontificating but who have never actually studied it dont trump the people who have actually studied it.
Bok_Tukalo
(4,397 posts)Sort of like the Many Worlds Theory, metamodernism, and whether or not a sitting president can be forced to court though a subpoena, there is still a great deal of debate.
Eliot Rosewater
(32,530 posts)Unless they are in countries where BLACK people have the POLITICAL and societal power, then no doubt you will find some racists.
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Eliot Rosewater
(32,530 posts)Bok_Tukalo
(4,397 posts)I think there is a word for believing such things.
Demsrule86
(70,983 posts)The police, Starbucks, gym , job discrimination etc...there was a lynching recently did you know that? We live a life of privilege. Thus the term wypipo has no effect on a white population unlike the N word.
Bok_Tukalo
(4,397 posts)Power is meaningless in the context of individual traits.
EffieBlack
(14,249 posts)Bok_Tukalo
(4,397 posts)Only a culture or society.
A racist in the United States is not a racist in South Africa? I think the individual is a racist regardless of where they are and that trait does not change depending the political and cultural context where they find themselves.
Demsrule86
(70,983 posts)individual traits. You can be a jerk if you are a Person of color who dislikes White folks or maybe it is understandable given the treatment they receive...whatever. You can't be racist. You don't have the power to change the circumstances of the White America.
gollygee
(22,336 posts)We don't have a society where various races are viewed equally. We have a racial caste system with white people on top and people of color below. Things that enforce or hold up that racial caste system are racist.
nini
(16,706 posts)2 different things though one leads to another
George II
(67,782 posts)lark
(24,119 posts)I was emphatically told by the poster who originally defined this (offensive) term that, despite what he said in his OP, wypipo are not necessarily either racist or animal lovers, thereby negating everything said in the original post. So this leaves me with all white people are wypipo, regardless of their mindset, caring, activism, or anything. So, it's just a random insult for any white person? Like we don't already have enough labels to separate and denigrate others? SMH
boston bean
(36,460 posts)lark
(24,119 posts)Are people who attend Black Lives Matter rallies considered racists?
boston bean
(36,460 posts)ie people who cant seem to grasp the full experience black persons face.
I run into people all the time who dont want to get it fully. But are on the right side sometimes. Take my neighbor for example whose wife had a baby before they met. The daughter is now an adult. And he doesnt get her experience. And took great offense when I attempted to explain he might be missing something in trying to understand her point of view.
EffieBlack
(14,249 posts)Ok.
Trust Buster
(7,299 posts)EffieBlack
(14,249 posts)Please feel free to step into this thread to define your terms: https://www.democraticunderground.com/100210585465
Trust Buster
(7,299 posts)Derogatory terms IS NOT and SHOULD NOT be the mission of DU. Its just that simple.
tonedevil
(3,022 posts)EffieBlack
(14,249 posts)How do you define divisive and what is the actual divide you think is caused.
ehrnst
(32,640 posts)I hope she's appropriately "grateful" to you for that.
ehrnst
(32,640 posts)xmas74
(29,757 posts)By the use of the word "wypipo". I know the difference and I catch myself using it regularly, especially in my neck of the woods.
DanTex
(20,709 posts)I think it's funny all these "white people" getting their panties in a wad right here on DU. Our privilege is glaring.
deurbano
(2,955 posts)Since I have no history of being discriminated against because of my race, not to mention no painful history (or history at all) with this particular expression, this just sounds kind of funny to me. I have been discriminated against because of my gender, however, and I have had painful experiences with certain misogynist expressions, so I did feel under attack here when those words (and attending sentiments) were on display. (I can't remember the last time I felt under attack that way, though, so the situation seems to have improved....but I don't participate as much as others, so my experience may not be universal.)
Eliot Rosewater
(32,530 posts)at how my privilege and power for over 200 years might affect my observation of race and so on.
When asked to do that I come away with an ENTIRELY different view of just about everything.
But, that is me, and you too it sounds like
Almost makes it PAINFULLY CLEAR why any politician or group of voters who says ECONOMIC issues are more important or equally important to race, why they would say that.
ehrnst
(32,640 posts)HopeAgain
(4,407 posts)I have yet to experience any discrimination of any import. I can loiter where I want, get stopped for a traffic violation and rifle through my glove compartment while the cop walks up and patiently waits for me to locate my insurance and registration without putting his hand on his gun. If someone likes to use the word wypipo, I can't see how that affects me in any way. I'm not hurt, I'm not affected particularly negatively and it's not likely that I will suddenly be required to pay in advance of getting my meal at a Denny's because someone did. If someone who has suffered blatant and insidious discrimination uses that term out of hostility and anger, I can't say I blame them.
xmas74
(29,757 posts)I've used the word several times when describing certain people. A recent example was of a Confederate flag waving group organizing a cook out as a membership drive. I had no idea until I drove to a local park for a hike and saw nothing but pick up trucks, flags and smelled burnt hot dogs. My first response? "Damn wypipo gotta ruin my hike."
Crunchy Frog
(26,929 posts)on DU. Whatever is the current groupthink is what gets enforced, rather than the TOS.
This is a real problem with a jury system that operates without transparency or accountability IMO.
Trust Buster
(7,299 posts)sarah FAILIN
(2,857 posts)Those in the group making racist comments are the ones on the jury depending on when you report something and who has posted on the thread. The rules are enforced by the rule breakers.
NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)Nobody.
Demit
(11,238 posts)Eliot Rosewater
(32,530 posts)Demsrule86
(70,983 posts)white people which on the face is not offensive...and there has been a veritable meltdown here. Why? Seriously disturbing. This is not an attack and the question is why are so many threatened by this?
TCJ70
(4,387 posts)...associated with it. It's redefining the phrase "white people" to equal racist. That's what rubs me the wrong way about it. That puts it in a different category to words like cracker or honky or whatever other slang terms for white people exist.
If someone were to write an article inventing and describing the term blapipo with a bunch of negative aspects tied to it, it would be lambasted and deemed entirely unacceptable even if the author says of course I dont mean all black people... And that response would be well earned.
At the end of the day, race based insults arent cool. No matter who the target, or the speaker, is.
Demsrule86
(70,983 posts)I just don't see it as an issue. I personally don't believe in race...but sadly we do classify people by manmade racial characteristics like skin color ...no one minds when it is Latinas or Blacks who are categorized...but for white folks...there is a meltdown over a simple from what I can tell abbreviation. I don't find it insulting personally. I am a white person...you want to abbreviate it as wypipo...OK don't care.
TCJ70
(4,387 posts)Its not just a shortening of white people. Its a rebranding. And it shouldnt be acceptable no matter the race being used.
Demsrule86
(70,983 posts)I fail understand how you find what amounts to a joke insulting....unless oh dear God...tell me you don't kiss your dog on the mouth!!!!! (Sorry couldn't resist). It is supposed to be funny.
Demsrule86
(70,983 posts)hlthe2b
(106,213 posts)to divide us. sigh....
groundloop
(12,210 posts)In my feeble little brain this seems like exactly the kind of tactic a troll operation would use to weaken us.
leftstreet
(36,256 posts)nini
(16,706 posts)That's what the perpetually outraged fail to acknowledge. All this outrage that how dare a whole 'race' of people be labeled isn't the problem really.. admit it. It's that Black people called out that type for their fakeness.
There are certainly white people who are of that type wypipo describes - we all know it and those types annoy the hell out of me too. It's made so many people uncomfortable that the point of the term is being proven right here on DU by many.
It's unbelievable that DU has so many posters who fail to acknowledge this and continue to be so butthurt. Being perpetually outraged must be a hobby for some.
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KatyMan
(4,278 posts)n/t
Demsrule86
(70,983 posts)DanTex
(20,709 posts)What's actually offensive is a discussion about race that ignores the relative positions of privilege versus repression of the races in our society.
Your twisted logic would imply that "wypipo" is as offensive as the n-word, which is of course insane given the violent history of slavery and discrimination that the n-word endorses. Whereas the term "wypipo", like the term "whitesplain", is in fact use to refer to people who perpetuate that history through their privileged obliviousness.
Dreamer Tatum
(10,926 posts)I said it's offensive.
Show me a sense, any sense in which 'wypipo' is meant in a kind manner. You can't. It's offensive by design, so you can come behind and say that anyone who calls it offensive hasn't a right to call it offensive, because someone else was offended by something else.
In that respect it's not even a word, really. It's a device to draw attention to a grievance.
DanTex
(20,709 posts)Dreamer Tatum
(10,926 posts)It is as bad. Because we are supposed to be past the n-word.
Show me the metric you use to determine which word is worst, by the way. Is the n-word 3% worse? 27% worse?
DanTex
(20,709 posts)ehrnst
(32,640 posts)before they are killed or tortured?
Is "whypipo" something you feel a need to use a euphemism for, such as you do for the N word?
I rest my case.
EffieBlack
(14,249 posts)on the relativity scale.
That'll leave a mark.
Cha
(305,128 posts)Anon-C
(3,438 posts)Thanks for being willing to tell the truth.
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)My opinion is that a lot of people have found This Week's Topic to illustrate how offended and/or oppressed they are by discussions of racism.
Of course, that sentiment can be plainly seen only after looking beyond the pretense. Without that pretense, there's little more than rationalizing a petulant pretense of martyrdom.
Last week, we had the remarks of tv newsperson from ten years ago, the week before that was the Horrible Offensive Joke at the Correspondents Dinner.
Next week, someone will find the new "Hey! We're Allowed To Be Offended By This!" chickenshit.
Demsrule86
(70,983 posts)skin....really/not really.
WhiskeyGrinder
(23,749 posts)Dreamer Tatum
(10,926 posts)I suspect I'd implore you to change, however.
WhiskeyGrinder
(23,749 posts)Response to WhiskeyGrinder (Reply #34)
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Inkfreak
(1,695 posts)Soxfan58
(3,479 posts)WEpipo. All inclusive.
True Dough
(20,123 posts)sweetloukillbot
(12,578 posts)YessirAtsaFact
(2,112 posts)Because of my skin color and alleged privileged status, its okay for a member of another ethnic group to call me a name. Im not supposed to take offense.
But if I use the N word, because of the color of my skin Im a horrible racist. I deserve whatever I get.
Yes , I know the difference in history of oppression regarding the N word.
That difference does not make calling me names right or fair. It certainly doesnt take away my right to be offended.
BTW, if the goal is to offend me, youll have come up with a better word.
Wypipo just sounds dumb.
ehrnst
(32,640 posts)and don't feel a need to with Wypipo, says it all.
If wypipo was the last word that thousands of white people heard before they were killed or tortured by mobs, then there would be a double standard.
But it's not, so to say that there is a double standard sounds like a desperate attempt to justify one's own discomfort with some sort of outrageously insensitive and tone deaf, not to mention innacurate, false equivalency.
YessirAtsaFact
(2,112 posts)ehrnst
(32,640 posts)Exotica
(1,461 posts)confusion and divisiveness. That is a the epitome of a classic shit-stir. The stirring continues when you have a now-divided group start to turn on each other, with the leaders of one side or the other (in this case I see it more with the purveyors of the wypipo meme) turning it into some sort of combination purity test and a dominance scheme (ie. subtle hints in a direction that if you dislike the term you are somehow suspect).
I, as a PoC, am never going to use it. I have far better things to do and I think "racist" and "privileged" are already useful word tools for my kit. I don't need cloudy, amorphous hipster-net-speak neologisms to fight my battles for what I believe in. I so hope this claptrap doesn't become a "thing" here in Europe.
Just my two cents.............
appalachiablue
(42,863 posts)I like that, seriously.
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Somebody buz me once we move on from white privilege and into male privilege, ok? That'll be the day.
Thom H. and a few others have mentioned this for years but haven't managed to get there yet.
Exotica
(1,461 posts)I also would love to see a world where white privilege is dispersed to the ash heap of history. It is going to take centuries more, if ever, for this to happen, as it is a way for the dominant power structure to organically keep control. I personally, being a multi-racial/cultural melange, represent a biological way out in terms of end-games, but anti-miscegenation practices, no matter if we speak of "white" Europeans here in Europe itself (especially the Eastern part), or in the Western hemisphere, are still a powerful blocking force at tap-root levels.
BlueWI
(1,736 posts)The racial politics of this site are consistently divisive with a throwback tone. It's distressing but oddly fascinating to see nominally progressive thinking web posters struggle so much to achieve common courtesy and reasonably clear critical languages to describe identity. Imposing the silly term Wypipo on others doesn't help.
walkingman
(8,301 posts)probably because of "white privilege" and because the GOP is made up of mostly WP. Being a white guy myself I am somewhat disgusted by the amount of racism, misogyny, and just plain nastiness by many Whites simply based upon ethicity and skin color. BTW - this is not new but I think the GOP has clearly used tribalism to push their greedy agenda.
TygrBright
(20,987 posts)betsuni
(27,255 posts)TCJ70
(4,387 posts)...associated with it. That's what rubs me the wrong way about it. That puts it in a different category to words like cracker or honky or whatever other slang term for white people exists.
If someone were to write an article inventing and describing the term blapipo with a bunch of negative aspects tied to it, it would be lambasted and deemed entirely unacceptable even if the author says of course I dont mean all black people... And that response would be well earned.
At the end of the day, race based insults arent cool. No matter who the target, or the speaker, is.
LexVegas
(6,549 posts)mercuryblues
(15,077 posts)means racist. It also includes black people like Omerosa, Ben Carson, and Diamond and Silk.
You can't change the definition of the term to make it fit into a perceived slight.
TCJ70
(4,387 posts)If you respell a phrase that encompasses an entire group and say it means racist...that seems like a problem to me.
mercuryblues
(15,077 posts)it is a subset of white people.
The kind of person that would walk up to an Asian and ask them where they are from. You know because of the color of their skin, they couldn't possibly have been born in America.
It is the person who laments about black on black crime, but has no idea what the white on white crime rate is.
It is Diamond and Silk doing political ads for white supremacists.
it is the white person who screams go back to Africa.
By saying wypipo is a way to mean NOT ALL white people.
TCJ70
(4,387 posts)I don't know what to say about that.
mercuryblues
(15,077 posts)entire race. IT IS NOT. The very definition is.... a racist person. When you say it is a descriptor of an entire race, you are saying all whites are racists. You can not redefine a word to suit your perceived slight.
TCJ70
(4,387 posts)Wypipo is a somewhat phonetic respelling of white people.
You said Wypipo mean racist.
I'm not redefining anything. The author of the article explaining this term and you are redefining things.
mercuryblues
(15,077 posts)Last edited Mon May 7, 2018, 04:30 PM - Edit history (1)
About the term.
fragile white folks who complain constantly about having to endure such things as Black history month, Black Lives Matter and that the BET Awards, the NAACP Awards and even the Soul Train Awards are inherently racist because they are limited to black people.
According to theRoot, not everyone is eligible for these honors. Only the small subset of white people called wypipothose who trade in privilege, hate and what our panelists call white people stare eligible to receive a nomination.
https://www.eurweb.com/2016/12/2016-annual-wypipo-awards-nominees-winners/#
No one exemplifies white tears more than the woman with mediocre grades and below-average test scores, so blinded by her entitled privilege that she took the University of Texas System all the way to the Supreme Court. When the highest court in the country heard her legal argument that minorities benefiting from affirmative action took her spot, they took one look at her transcripts and suggested that she use them to dry her eyes and enroll in a community college.
You know wypipo will let a dog lick their mouth but won't sit next to a black person on a plane.
IOW it is the exact opposite of all white people.
Tobin S.
(10,420 posts)And, from what I can tell, this term doesn't really fit into that category anyway. But that kind of thing has never bothered me. I've never even given it much thought. It doesn't seem like something to use up a lot of energy on.
angrychair
(9,689 posts)Im not exactly sure what the hell Wypipo means nor do I care. Ive seen a couple posts using it but I try to stay out of triggered DU OPs, regardless of the issue, as there is rarely a winner.
When we as a group (DU) get on these subjects we tend to abuse each other pretty harshly, some move on and some do not. Some quit and some take a break.
Im desperately trying to keep my focus on trump and his administration and republicans in Congress.
Getting this bunch out of office will go a long way to helping make our country a better place for everyone.
progressoid
(50,734 posts)I think a lot quit and take a break. Permanently.
DU's activity against this shit storm of an administration should be at it's peak. Instead, it's mired in these petty squabbles.
left-of-center2012
(34,195 posts)Any other posts,
other than the recent 'Wypipo' threads,
pointing out people based on their skin color would immediately be deleted from DU.
"Humorous" name calling against Asians, Native-Americans, African Americans, etc based upon their skin color is racist,
and so is referring to white people as 'Wypipo'.
And attacking or mocking those who find it offensive is also disgusting.
Over recent months we have seen 'progressives' attacked;
we have see men attacked as 'misogynists';
and now we're seeing white people mocked as 'Wypipo'.
It's as if some posters intentionally set out to alienate other DU members.
I thought DU was one place where Democrats could come together to support each other and other Democrats.
But there seems to be a segment of posters who enjoy name calling and attacking other members for sport.
It divides us and separates us. And I don't understand why DU allows it to continue.
And I don't understand why some members think it's OK, and even funny.
Substitute Wypipo with any other skin color, and tell me it's OK and funny.
kwassa
(23,340 posts)"The term is meant to refer to a group by skin color, and is therefore as offensive as any other term used to refer to any other group."
As offensive as the word "white"?
"Yes, it is. It's certainly not used as an honorific, or as a term of endearment, or in any way meant to confer any sort of dignity. It is therefore offensive, and any effort to separate it from other racial slurs is fatuous."
Does "white" convey honor or endearment or dignity?
Riddle me that.
wasupaloopa
(4,516 posts)I am amazed at the ideas that people I usually agree with have on this subject and that on this I dont agree.
There needs to be some description other than political correctness to describe their position and all I can come up with is group think splanin. It is a form of bullying folks into compliance.
I know they mean well because they are anti racist but in this they are wrong in their actions not in their beliefs.
To them I say, it is ok not to like the slang in question. The OP is not racist so put you weapons down.
PatentlyDemocratic
(89 posts)Enough with idiotic racial terms.
bettyellen
(47,209 posts)SpicyBoi
(162 posts)Just get out. You obviously don't get what we've been fighting for.
treestar
(82,383 posts)back in the 70s. It was used in comedies by black characters. White people have no reason to be afraid or concerned. However, if offended, it seems to me that has to be accepted on the ground that anyone gets to decide what offends them. If dominant groups are excepted, then say so. But that can create an argument over dominant groups and who they are, as it is not always very simple.
We already have a pretty good term - "Deplorables" (Thanks Hillary).
mokawanis
(4,471 posts)thankfully, they do run their course and fade out. At least y'all aren't still fighting about the cover of Sports Illustrated. That one was a doozy.
left-of-center2012
(34,195 posts)wonkwest
(463 posts)One one side, you have people who believe denigrating someone based on race is wrong.
On the other, you have people who reallllllllllly feel like they need to denigrate others based on race, and if anyone objects, they feel like a binky is being taken away.
So, who's the racist here?
Hint: Not the people who don't think racial slurs are ok.
BlueDog22
(366 posts)For what it's worth. I don't really see it as a racial slur, but personally I do think that it seems like an ignorant slang. My parent's taught me how to act, I have a high standard for my own conduct (that I sometimes fall short of), and using that kind of slang would not satisfy the lessons my parents taught me.