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LuckyCharms

(17,425 posts)
Mon Jul 2, 2018, 05:29 AM Jul 2018

The 4th of July is hell.

It's my poor dog, he does not tolerate loud noises well at all. He is inconsolable, and I've tried about everything. Distracting and soothing soothing loud music, melatonin, etc.

It's not the fireworks per se...they are over relatively quickly. But rather, it's the drunks in the neighborhood setting off all kinds of explosives at all kinds of hours.

I don't understand the obsession with things that go boom.

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The 4th of July is hell. (Original Post) LuckyCharms Jul 2018 OP
They're all little boys with little toys ... then they graduate to AR-15s YOHABLO Jul 2018 #1
Are you making an assumption that only males play with fireworks? Throck Jul 2018 #7
For the most part DownriverDem Jul 2018 #22
previous cats would bury themselves under beds or couches. pansypoo53219 Jul 2018 #2
I have one cat who disappears at the first sign of loud noises. forgotmylogin Jul 2018 #23
Is he sensitive to thunder and lighting as well? Throck Jul 2018 #3
I'm awful with loud noises myself sakabatou Jul 2018 #4
My Cairn Terrier was the same way, he freaked out and was inconsolable during thunderstorms Rhiannon12866 Jul 2018 #5
My son was at a family party (his wife's side)...he got married in October so Demsrule86 Jul 2018 #6
Try the Thunder Jacket. It really works. boston bean Jul 2018 #8
We live in Florida and have one, it helps sometimes. Since there dewsgirl Jul 2018 #10
Benedryl? Lulu KC Jul 2018 #9
This is likely genetic Drahthaardogs Jul 2018 #11
Last year we discovered putting a white noise machine turned up really loud next to her crate RamblingRose Jul 2018 #12
My cats get upset, too, and we're miles from the biggest fireworks display in the area. Vinca Jul 2018 #13
Thunderjackets work SouthernIrish Jul 2018 #14
thunder shirts never worked for us, Brainstormy Jul 2018 #21
Just posted on Facebook Brainstormy Jul 2018 #15
ha!!! heaven05 Jul 2018 #17
When we lived in Northwest Indiana, we had an orthopedic surgeon phylny Jul 2018 #19
have you heard of a thunder shirt heaven05 Jul 2018 #16
One of our dogs does as well. theaocp Jul 2018 #18
Zeus Dog feels your dog's pain zeusdogmom Jul 2018 #20
My dogs beeline it for the bathtub. Maybe it will help yours to be there too. mahina Jul 2018 #24

Throck

(2,520 posts)
7. Are you making an assumption that only males play with fireworks?
Mon Jul 2, 2018, 05:59 AM
Jul 2018

I know a couple of left handed women.

forgotmylogin

(7,527 posts)
23. I have one cat who disappears at the first sign of loud noises.
Mon Jul 2, 2018, 08:29 AM
Jul 2018

Storms, yelling, fireworks.

The other cat I actually took in as a stray a year ago ON 4th of July, so she's wary but not terrified of fireworks.

Throck

(2,520 posts)
3. Is he sensitive to thunder and lighting as well?
Mon Jul 2, 2018, 05:56 AM
Jul 2018

One of our dearly departed Shepherds could hear a storm way before our human ears could. She would even react to thunder, fireworks, gunfire on TV. Cuddling her was about the only thing that comforted her. She was our most emotional dog.

Your dog is lucky to have you that understands this.

Rhiannon12866

(205,237 posts)
5. My Cairn Terrier was the same way, he freaked out and was inconsolable during thunderstorms
Mon Jul 2, 2018, 05:58 AM
Jul 2018

And reacted the same way to noises like fireworks. If anything like that was going on, he couldn't be left alone, sometimes my entire family would rush home. We have fireworks around here too, both official ones close enough to hear and sometimes from neighbors. I can remember taking him to work with me on July 4th and when there was thunder. It was far enough away and you couldn't hear a thing there, that was the only solution I came up with.

Demsrule86

(68,555 posts)
6. My son was at a family party (his wife's side)...he got married in October so
Mon Jul 2, 2018, 05:59 AM
Jul 2018

this was the first big family thing... cousins I think and an aunt/uncle. Well the aunt told her son-in -law not to set off firecrackers until she saw to the dog...he didn't hear her and did it anyway...she responded with with a 'I fucking told you not to do that...what is your problem' and other verbal abuse...then the son-in-law got mad at his wife because she didn't defend him. The uncle got mad at the aunt because he created a scene...long story short ...the guest all found reasons to leave ASAP and Aunt, Uncle, daughter and son-in-law all slept apart...guys on the couch...My son said it was super embarrassing.

dewsgirl

(14,961 posts)
10. We live in Florida and have one, it helps sometimes. Since there
Mon Jul 2, 2018, 06:43 AM
Jul 2018

Are thinderstorms almost daily, she usually ends up hiding under anything she can get her self under.
The 4th of July is like a war zone for her, last year she ended up, hiding in a closet upstairs(she never goes up there, ever) I have her benadryl and she was wearing the thunder jacket.
I stay home while the rest of the family goes to see the fireworks. I feel so helpless, she shakes constantly, doesn't want physical contact and just looks at me like this is my fault somehow.

RamblingRose

(1,038 posts)
12. Last year we discovered putting a white noise machine turned up really loud next to her crate
Mon Jul 2, 2018, 06:52 AM
Jul 2018

did the job. Maybe a fan on high would work too.

She's a Cairn Terrier Dachshund mix.

Vinca

(50,269 posts)
13. My cats get upset, too, and we're miles from the biggest fireworks display in the area.
Mon Jul 2, 2018, 07:15 AM
Jul 2018

I've never liked them myself. I remember being a little kid at a fireworks event holding my hands over my ears and screaming and crying. Now, at nearly 70, I'm freaked out by thunder and I blame it on those fireworks.

SouthernIrish

(512 posts)
14. Thunderjackets work
Mon Jul 2, 2018, 07:27 AM
Jul 2018

Especially if you put it on the dog before the the noise begins. If you have a large wind tunnel fan, turn it on. It creates white noise. So much better than music. Mix both of these with benadryl. All 3 together make a big difference.

Best of luck to your baby. These idiots around here have fireworks for about 5 days straight. We live in the city limits wjere it is illegal.

Brainstormy

(2,380 posts)
15. Just posted on Facebook
Mon Jul 2, 2018, 07:36 AM
Jul 2018

To all those preparing to get your annual juvenile jerk-off thrill by exploding fireworks and terrorizing horses, wild animals, and household pets (especially mine!), I'd like to say that I hope, at the very least, you lose a little finger.

phylny

(8,379 posts)
19. When we lived in Northwest Indiana, we had an orthopedic surgeon
Mon Jul 2, 2018, 07:58 AM
Jul 2018

and dentist who lived across the street. Every damned 4th of July, we'd have stuff blowing up. Two men who made a living with their hands - what idiots.

We had a dog back then who couldn't even go out because she was terrified. The next day, all their blown up crap was all over our lawn. So, my husband and I would gather it and dump it on their driveways.

 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
16. have you heard of a thunder shirt
Mon Jul 2, 2018, 07:54 AM
Jul 2018

for dogs. My dog does not have one, but I've read up on them. Yeah my problem with mine is the same. I just sit with him. I listen to a lot of new age. It seems to quiet him down. Hell some of these damn firework noise's upset me. Especially the very loud booms.

I see what disrespect I had as a kid for our veterans. Live and learn I guess. Good luck with your furry companion. I just get my fans going, close my windows, turn up the ambient sound to muffle the explosions and let him find his 'safe' spot under my desk.

The obsession is, I think, all because the person setting off these explosions are powerful when setting off big booms and noises.

I commiserate. It's heartbreaking to watch a dog not understanding the noise, I know.

theaocp

(4,236 posts)
18. One of our dogs does as well.
Mon Jul 2, 2018, 07:57 AM
Jul 2018

The other and our cat couldn’t care less. That being said, it bears repeating that many combat vets go through this hell as well, so to all the jerks setting off this shit: CUT IT THE FUCK OUT. Thanks.

zeusdogmom

(990 posts)
20. Zeus Dog feels your dog's pain
Mon Jul 2, 2018, 07:59 AM
Jul 2018

I live next to my city's 4th of July celebration site - including the fireworks at the end of the evening. All afternoon strange people are parking and walking thru the neighborhood - and since Zeus has taken on the early warning detection job of "stranger alert" he spends a good part of the afternoon and evening already on full alert and somewhat anxious. Crank up the music at the park and finish it with fireworks shot toward my neighborhood ... I just try to move Zeus and myself to the front of the house far as possible from the fireworks, close windows, make sure there is a radio playing, rub him down with peace and calming oil, give him a new bone to chew, pour me a glass of wine, and try to sneak a peak or two out of the window - because I really like fireworks.

What really sets Zeus off though are those random firecrackers which are shot off by neighbors at various times throughout the days working up to the 4th and after the official celebration. hArd to prepare for those.

mahina

(17,646 posts)
24. My dogs beeline it for the bathtub. Maybe it will help yours to be there too.
Mon Jul 2, 2018, 03:13 PM
Jul 2018

Somehow it’s comforting for nervous doggies.

We spend New Years and the 4th singing to dogs in the bathtub. Wheee.

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