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Initech

(100,038 posts)
Wed Jul 18, 2018, 01:14 PM Jul 2018

Customer who left racist 'we don't tip terrorist' message banned from Texas restaurant

A customer at a Texas steakhouse who left a server with no tip and a racist message over the weekend may not return, restaurant management says.

When Khalil Cavil looked at his customer's bill Saturday night, he saw a note written on the top saying, "We don't tip terrorist." The customer at Saltgrass Steak House in Odessa had circled his name, Khalil, and left a zero in the tip field for a bill totaling $108.73.

"At the moment I didn’t know what to think nor what to say, I was sick to my stomach," Cavil said on Facebook. "I share this because I want people to understand that this racism, and this hatred still exists."

Terry Turney, COO of Saltgrass Steak House, told USA TODAY in a statement that the customer responsible for the message has been banned.

"We stand by and support our employee," Turney said. "Racism of any form is unacceptable."
https://www.msn.com/en-us/foodanddrink/foodnews/customer-who-left-racist-‘we-don’t-tip-terrorist’-message-banned-from-texas-restaurant/ar-AAAfKC6?ocid=spartandhp


Ah more of that good ol' #Civility. Good for the restaurant for banning that racist asshole!
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Customer who left racist 'we don't tip terrorist' message banned from Texas restaurant (Original Post) Initech Jul 2018 OP
Oddly enough they ate the food served by the "terrorist". Girard442 Jul 2018 #1
You know it could have been poisoned exboyfil Jul 2018 #11
"but we're happy to eat food served to us by terrorist" unblock Jul 2018 #2
This is what tRump rhetoric encourages. Ohiogal Jul 2018 #3
And that's why I tag these with #Civility. Initech Jul 2018 #5
Private property, deplorable! muntrv Jul 2018 #4
I want to know who the asshat is maxrandb Jul 2018 #6
Absolutely dalton99a Jul 2018 #8
Careful - doxing is a two way street. Initech Jul 2018 #9
If I were a racist asshole maxrandb Jul 2018 #23
Maybe you should be worried about being falsely accused of something you didn't do? LisaL Jul 2018 #33
Absolutely. Any of our names and pictures could Hortensis Jul 2018 #50
Imagine how this would have turned out if people did what you said oberliner Jul 2018 #31
The waiter made it up. Tipperary Jul 2018 #43
His name is Khalil Cavil. Dr. Strange Jul 2018 #63
Identify him as a public service. dalton99a Jul 2018 #7
So you can be the judge, the jury and the executioner on someone who was apparently falsely accused? LisaL Jul 2018 #34
Good for the COO of Saltgrass to ban them. Makes me want to go to Saltgrass. Dem_4_Life Jul 2018 #10
Its what every terrorist does these days, dontcha know... Canoe52 Jul 2018 #12
Racist and cheap Mendocino Jul 2018 #13
fine people on both sides n/t hibbing Jul 2018 #14
OMG. Horrible. That poor waiter..he hadn't done anything to warrant that. Honeycombe8 Jul 2018 #15
The "poor waiter" fabricated the whole thing oberliner Jul 2018 #30
What a jerk! I looked it up. He's been fired. What an a-hole! nt Honeycombe8 Jul 2018 #40
I did not know this. Tipperary Jul 2018 #41
an excuse evilhime Jul 2018 #16
Only half the link is active. This seems to be an increasingly frustrating occurence LiberalLovinLug Jul 2018 #17
It did not work for me either. Tipperary Jul 2018 #22
They really should name the customer. Cheap bastard. Shrike47 Jul 2018 #18
trump has mainstreamed racism....he is responsible for the hate & division in this country spanone Jul 2018 #19
what a sneaky way to do it too... yuiyoshida Jul 2018 #20
Except the whole thing was a fake. Tipperary Jul 2018 #42
oh great, and Fox News loves this kind of story... yuiyoshida Jul 2018 #54
deleted because waiter made up the story. nt raccoon Jul 2018 #21
Come on now, I'm sure they didn't tip because of their economic anxiety. Garrett78 Jul 2018 #24
Apparently this was a hoax metalbot Jul 2018 #25
wtf! unblock Jul 2018 #26
Sad TheRealNorth Jul 2018 #27
Hah? Why would they stand up for an employee? He reportedly admitted he faked it. LisaL Jul 2018 #32
There was always the possibility that this was a hoax to make money. McCamy Taylor Jul 2018 #28
Waiter is an idiot. edbermac Jul 2018 #35
Might have been a cash tip. moriah Jul 2018 #36
Considering receipt was apparently tampered with (waiter reportedly admitting he faked the note) LisaL Jul 2018 #37
Some leave only cash tips sarah FAILIN Jul 2018 #55
What a jerk! He did it for, what...money? Attention? nt Honeycombe8 Jul 2018 #39
There are people who invite drama into their lives metalbot Jul 2018 #45
He didn't intend for it to go viral? oberliner Jul 2018 #49
People were pretty quick to buy this BS story oberliner Jul 2018 #29
Karma for a moron Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Jul 2018 #38
The moron is the waiter, who fabricated the whole thing. WillowTree Jul 2018 #80
"We're always looking for reasons not to tip!" struggle4progress Jul 2018 #44
The waiter made it up. Says he has no idea why he did. nolabear Jul 2018 #46
He's not white oberliner Jul 2018 #47
Really? I could have sworn the link I saw said that in spite of the name he was. nolabear Jul 2018 #48
He is not Arab or Muslim oberliner Jul 2018 #52
I stand corrected. He's not Middle Eastern. nolabear Jul 2018 #51
But our President does duforsure Jul 2018 #53
He should be banned from all restaurants! Bonx Jul 2018 #56
Too bad it's a hoax RhodeIslandOne Jul 2018 #60
This asshole's name will get out, and other restaurants' staffs will take note of it. Paladin Jul 2018 #57
It was a hoax. Ace Rothstein Jul 2018 #58
Thankfully that didn't happen oberliner Jul 2018 #65
The "douchebag" was the lying sever who made the whole thing up! nt Raine Jul 2018 #69
It happens for real, numerous times a day. Paladin Jul 2018 #71
No it doesn't oberliner Jul 2018 #73
Cling to whatever makes you happy. (nt) Paladin Jul 2018 #74
You think people write "'we don't tip terrorist" on their bill "numerous times a day" ? oberliner Jul 2018 #75
Have you ever been a waiter at a restaurant? Paladin Jul 2018 #76
Yes oberliner Jul 2018 #77
Wait, you think it's never happened RhodeIslandOne Jul 2018 #78
Someone writing "We don't tip terrorist" on a restaurant check? oberliner Jul 2018 #82
Specifically that? No. RhodeIslandOne Jul 2018 #83
Kind of Blows Up The Whole Economic Anxiety Thing ProfessorGAC Jul 2018 #59
Turned out to be fake oberliner Jul 2018 #64
Yeah, I Read That Later ProfessorGAC Jul 2018 #70
Maybe just to get attention? oberliner Jul 2018 #72
I Suppose ProfessorGAC Jul 2018 #81
Why are you not updating your op? This is a false story, made up by the waiter. Tipperary Jul 2018 #61
Weird that no one smelled how fishy this was from the beginning oberliner Jul 2018 #66
Yeah, I vaguely remember one from a year or two ago. Tipperary Jul 2018 #67
There was all the Whole Foods cake hoax a few years back. Ace Rothstein Jul 2018 #85
You are promoting a lie. pintobean Jul 2018 #62
Don't deceive. Do the right thing and understand time and date stamps n/t kcr Jul 2018 #79
OP can edit title and provide updated info oberliner Jul 2018 #84
They can if they want to. This is a message board, not the New York Times. kcr Jul 2018 #86
You're making excuses for deception. pintobean Jul 2018 #87
This is a lie, it never happened Raine Jul 2018 #68

unblock

(52,118 posts)
2. "but we're happy to eat food served to us by terrorist"
Wed Jul 18, 2018, 01:16 PM
Jul 2018

bigots and liars.

if they thought he was in any way connected to terror, they would have asked for a different server.

Initech

(100,038 posts)
5. And that's why I tag these with #Civility.
Wed Jul 18, 2018, 01:18 PM
Jul 2018

Should I find myself in an argument with these morons about that subject, easy fuel for the fire!

maxrandb

(15,296 posts)
6. I want to know who the asshat is
Wed Jul 18, 2018, 01:19 PM
Jul 2018

I think this would be important to his employer.

Fuck letting these pricks hide. They need to be bleached with sunshine

Initech

(100,038 posts)
9. Careful - doxing is a two way street.
Wed Jul 18, 2018, 01:33 PM
Jul 2018

We can use it against them as easily as they can use it against us (look what happened to David Hogg and the Parkland students). If it comes down to that, we must tread very carefully!

maxrandb

(15,296 posts)
23. If I were a racist asshole
Wed Jul 18, 2018, 04:24 PM
Jul 2018

Then I'd worry about that.

We have been tolerant and enabling tooooooo effing long

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
50. Absolutely. Any of our names and pictures could
Tue Jul 24, 2018, 07:57 AM
Jul 2018

turn up on the internet with false stories.

Hopefully those who can't be concerned about it happening to others can at least develop some self protective caution.

We all love seeing these stories of societal feedback against bigots, but it's only a matter of time before use of this technology by malicious people to attack innocent people grows obvious. Anti-discrimination and anti- harassment rules at work have long been used by discriminators to take out people they don't like, such as by hostile male coworkers against women who have been promoted into positions that were once reserved for men.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
31. Imagine how this would have turned out if people did what you said
Mon Jul 23, 2018, 10:46 PM
Jul 2018

Considering that it was a BS hoax by the waiter.

 

Tipperary

(6,930 posts)
43. The waiter made it up.
Tue Jul 24, 2018, 03:13 AM
Jul 2018

Good thing you were not able to “let his employer know” about something he did not do.

Dr. Strange

(25,916 posts)
63. His name is Khalil Cavil.
Tue Jul 24, 2018, 07:39 PM
Jul 2018

And it was important to his employer; they fired him. (Or at least he doesn't work there anymore--the spokesperson for the restaurant didn't quite specify.)

LisaL

(44,972 posts)
34. So you can be the judge, the jury and the executioner on someone who was apparently falsely accused?
Mon Jul 23, 2018, 11:00 PM
Jul 2018

These type of stories spread fast without any verification and apparently this one was a hoax.

Dem_4_Life

(1,765 posts)
10. Good for the COO of Saltgrass to ban them. Makes me want to go to Saltgrass.
Wed Jul 18, 2018, 01:33 PM
Jul 2018

I usually go to family owned restaurants but maybe I should go to Saltgrass soon for dinner.

Canoe52

(2,948 posts)
12. Its what every terrorist does these days, dontcha know...
Wed Jul 18, 2018, 03:29 PM
Jul 2018

Go get a job as a sever at Saltgrass Steak House in Odessa!

Another moran bites the dust! Yea for the restaurant to ban him.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
15. OMG. Horrible. That poor waiter..he hadn't done anything to warrant that.
Wed Jul 18, 2018, 04:02 PM
Jul 2018

People aren't terrorists just because they come from an area with them. WE come frm areas with mass shooters. Does that make us mass shooters?

Horrible people. They SHOULD be banned.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
30. The "poor waiter" fabricated the whole thing
Mon Jul 23, 2018, 10:45 PM
Jul 2018

And scammed people into sending him money online out of sympathy.

evilhime

(326 posts)
16. an excuse
Wed Jul 18, 2018, 04:07 PM
Jul 2018

for being a cheap bastard . . . along with a bigot and racist! Glad the restaurant did the right thing.

LiberalLovinLug

(14,164 posts)
17. Only half the link is active. This seems to be an increasingly frustrating occurence
Wed Jul 18, 2018, 04:13 PM
Jul 2018

I don't know if it can be solved on the DU administration level, or if there are just more odd URLs that include characters that can't be hyperlinked. Have to copy and paste the whole line. Or is it just me?

spanone

(135,792 posts)
19. trump has mainstreamed racism....he is responsible for the hate & division in this country
Wed Jul 18, 2018, 04:16 PM
Jul 2018

along with this congress

yuiyoshida

(41,818 posts)
20. what a sneaky way to do it too...
Wed Jul 18, 2018, 04:17 PM
Jul 2018

He didn't want to confront the waiter to his face, so he puts a note on the bill and leaves.. Had he confronted the waiter, they would have thrown them out ahead of time, and banned him for life. I hate people like that.. fucking assholes. Glad he was banned.

yuiyoshida

(41,818 posts)
54. oh great, and Fox News loves this kind of story...
Tue Jul 24, 2018, 09:31 AM
Jul 2018
Mean Liberal makes up story to shame Republican for no Reason, now every time an asshole is racist to the WAITER, Fox News will say the waiter probably made the story up... Not cool.

TheRealNorth

(9,470 posts)
27. Sad
Mon Jul 23, 2018, 08:56 PM
Jul 2018

Any business that would not stand up for an employee in such a situation is not one I would work for or patronize.

McCamy Taylor

(19,240 posts)
28. There was always the possibility that this was a hoax to make money.
Mon Jul 23, 2018, 09:07 PM
Jul 2018

Just scribble this is a no tip receipt, post it online and watch the sympathy money roll in. Like cutting off your finger and putting it in the chili.

moriah

(8,311 posts)
36. Might have been a cash tip.
Mon Jul 23, 2018, 11:20 PM
Jul 2018

Which would REALLY make the waiter a jerk for deciding to make other servers not be believed if/when this happens to them.

Or they could have just been cheapskates, or unhappy with the service. But after being the target of a false racism accusation, of course the restaurant is going to try to unban/give them a free meal. I definitely hope Snodgrass pays its servers the regular and not tipped minimum wage, though.

LisaL

(44,972 posts)
37. Considering receipt was apparently tampered with (waiter reportedly admitting he faked the note)
Mon Jul 23, 2018, 11:21 PM
Jul 2018

WTF makes you think that you can believe there was no tip?

sarah FAILIN

(2,857 posts)
55. Some leave only cash tips
Tue Jul 24, 2018, 10:01 AM
Jul 2018

I try to so they can stick it in their pocket. Trump was trying to make it so employers could take them at one point.

metalbot

(1,058 posts)
45. There are people who invite drama into their lives
Tue Jul 24, 2018, 07:44 AM
Jul 2018

I don't think this was an overt scam for money, and I suspect that he didn't intend for this to go as viral as it did. When it did go viral, I think it then became an opportunity to exploit for money.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
49. He didn't intend for it to go viral?
Tue Jul 24, 2018, 07:56 AM
Jul 2018

He posted it on FB and then did an interview with a local news outlet.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
29. People were pretty quick to buy this BS story
Mon Jul 23, 2018, 10:44 PM
Jul 2018

"Cavil thanked supporters on Facebook who sent him money"

nolabear

(41,932 posts)
46. The waiter made it up. Says he has no idea why he did.
Tue Jul 24, 2018, 07:48 AM
Jul 2018

I think it was on another thread. And in spite of his name he’s white. The restaurant apologized and invited the customer for a free meal.

People do really weird things sometimes.

Paladin

(28,243 posts)
57. This asshole's name will get out, and other restaurants' staffs will take note of it.
Tue Jul 24, 2018, 10:27 AM
Jul 2018

Everybody knows a story or two about how servers get even with loutish guests, some methods being of the stomach-turning variety. I hope this cheap, prejudiced douchebag gets his share of nasty pranks.

Paladin

(28,243 posts)
71. It happens for real, numerous times a day.
Wed Jul 25, 2018, 08:28 AM
Jul 2018

And "douchebag" is too kind a term for those who engage in such behavior.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
75. You think people write "'we don't tip terrorist" on their bill "numerous times a day" ?
Wed Jul 25, 2018, 08:45 AM
Jul 2018

There is no way you can actually believe that, is there?

Paladin

(28,243 posts)
76. Have you ever been a waiter at a restaurant?
Wed Jul 25, 2018, 08:57 AM
Jul 2018

Have you ever even talked to someone who has dealt with customers at a restaurant? Sure, most patrons are decent folks, but there are always a few who are assholes; there are online sites devoted solely to encounters with such assholes. Now: factor in trump's malign influence across the entire country, factor in the daily reports of open and obvious prejudice currently taking place. And my answer to your two questions is: "Yes."

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
77. Yes
Wed Jul 25, 2018, 09:07 AM
Jul 2018

Never experienced anything like that or heard from any other waitstaff who ever had something like that written on a check (and have worked with staff who were from diverse ethnic backgrounds).

What is common is creepy come-on type messages directed at young, attractive females.

They put up with a lot of crap from customers and get weird notes of that type a lot.

"We don't tip terrorist" is not something that people write on checks. Certainly not "numerous times a day" - that is preposterous.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
82. Someone writing "We don't tip terrorist" on a restaurant check?
Wed Jul 25, 2018, 11:37 AM
Jul 2018

I'd be surprised if that has ever happened. Certainly not "numerous times a day".

ProfessorGAC

(64,852 posts)
59. Kind of Blows Up The Whole Economic Anxiety Thing
Tue Jul 24, 2018, 11:35 AM
Jul 2018

Guy had enough money to spend >100 bucks on a dinner? So he goes for the R platform because he's got economic insecurities?

I don't think so.

ProfessorGAC

(64,852 posts)
70. Yeah, I Read That Later
Wed Jul 25, 2018, 08:17 AM
Jul 2018

Which prompted my question as to why someone would lie about it?

Some folks said $ or "Go Fund Me", but that would be fraud, i think.

Makes no sense as to why someone would lie about that.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
72. Maybe just to get attention?
Wed Jul 25, 2018, 08:28 AM
Jul 2018

I mean, he is only 20 - people that age pull dumb pranks all the time.

 

oberliner

(58,724 posts)
66. Weird that no one smelled how fishy this was from the beginning
Tue Jul 24, 2018, 07:44 PM
Jul 2018

There is quite a history of "fake receipt" stories to fall back on.

 

Tipperary

(6,930 posts)
67. Yeah, I vaguely remember one from a year or two ago.
Tue Jul 24, 2018, 08:49 PM
Jul 2018

This op obviously wants to let this nonsense stand.

Ace Rothstein

(3,144 posts)
85. There was all the Whole Foods cake hoax a few years back.
Wed Jul 25, 2018, 01:40 PM
Jul 2018

Anyone who saw the picture of the cake immediately realized that one was faked as well.

 

pintobean

(18,101 posts)
62. You are promoting a lie.
Tue Jul 24, 2018, 05:31 PM
Jul 2018

Cavil admitted that he faked it. You should edit or delete your OP.

Don't deceive DU, do the right thing.

kcr

(15,314 posts)
86. They can if they want to. This is a message board, not the New York Times.
Wed Jul 25, 2018, 02:10 PM
Jul 2018

They posted a message. They didn't deliberately lie, because that's not how time works. These aren't articles written by paid journalists you're reading, because that's not how message boards work. Many of us don't even come here every single day, let alone every single minute.

 

pintobean

(18,101 posts)
87. You're making excuses for deception.
Wed Jul 25, 2018, 06:19 PM
Jul 2018

I'd prefer people be informed, rather than watching your lame dance moves.

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