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KitSileya

(4,035 posts)
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 12:47 PM Jul 2018

American white people really hate being called "white people

https://www.vox.com/platform/amp/policy-and-politics/2018/7/26/17613844/racial-diversity-poll-twitter-white-people?__twitter_impression=true

A Twitter poll drama, explained.
By David Roberts on July 26, 2018 3:10 pm

A few days ago, I came across this rather striking finding from a recent public opinion survey by the Public Religion Research Institute:

Does increased racial diversity have a positive or negative impact on America?

...
It occurred to me that white people rarely if ever experience questions like this, about their very legitimacy. Do they belong? Is having more of them around good for America?

...

Substantively (if you can call it that), there were two basic reactions. One is to say that I’m a racist, or liberals are the real racists, because they keep calling attention to race and dividing people up by race, while conservatives are just trying to be individuals and judge people by the content of their character. It’s the “No puppet! You’re the puppet!” of racism.

...

In most situations in the US, a woman is a female person. Someone part of a racial minority is a black person or a Latino person, etc. Gay people. Trans people. Immigrant people. All these groups are [adjective] people, people with an asterisk, while a white, heterosexual male is simply a person, as generic as he chooses. His presence is taken for granted; it rarely occurs to anyone to question it. A white man in khakis and a polo shirt can walk into almost any milieu in the US and, even if he’s greeted with hostility, be taken seriously. His legitimacy is assumed.

The power and privilege that come along with that — being the base model, a person with no asterisk — are invisible to many white men. Simply calling them “white people,” much less questioning the behavior or beliefs of white people, drags that power and privilege into the open.


In light of recent threads here on DU, I found this article very enlightening. It serms that even on this progressive website there are white people who ferl it is racist to call white people white people, because to do so challenges their normative position. White people are to them people, while all others are (adjective) people. Interesting.
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American white people really hate being called "white people (Original Post) KitSileya Jul 2018 OP
I have no problem being called a white person. The stupid nicknames are annoying, but I just Tipperary Jul 2018 #1
Agreed. I stopped reading posts phylny Jul 2018 #3
It takes a lot to make me put anyone on my ignore list but the OnDoutside Jul 2018 #10
Yes, I did the same. Never had anyone on ignore before that idiocy. Tipperary Jul 2018 #14
Post removed Post removed Jul 2018 #6
You should probably re-read Tipperary's post, they did not make OnDoutside Jul 2018 #8
She said "some people need to use nicknames to make themselves feel superior." Demit Jul 2018 #21
Where does she say that she feels superior ? OnDoutside Jul 2018 #56
No. I did not. Feel free to attribute motives to me that make you happy. Tipperary Jul 2018 #16
What you said ailsagirl Jul 2018 #24
+1 EndGOPPropaganda Jul 2018 #63
I agree. Please feel free to use valid attributes to describe me. bitterross Jul 2018 #11
Yes. Tipperary Jul 2018 #17
Yes EndGOPPropaganda Jul 2018 #64
Agree. None whatsoever. SMC22307 Jul 2018 #22
I saw the wypipo thing. I never even wasted my time trying to figure out what they brewens Jul 2018 #58
... Ferrets are Cool Jul 2018 #39
Old Bill Maher joke -- There are two things white Republicans hate -- Hoyt Jul 2018 #2
Still funny! Iggo Jul 2018 #54
I think being called an American bothers me more ... dchill Jul 2018 #4
Damn good point. Tipperary Jul 2018 #7
OUCH! The truth hurts though. bitterross Jul 2018 #13
The "ugly" is implied. dchill Jul 2018 #69
These paragraphs from the article are intetesting & thought provoking to me irisblue Jul 2018 #5
Yep, that's the essence of it. klook Jul 2018 #32
It's weird how many of the same people that are offended by "African American" or "Muslim American" dameatball Jul 2018 #9
Did you see the recent Trevor Noah dispute with the French ambassador ? OnDoutside Jul 2018 #12
No I did not. Thanks for the info. dameatball Jul 2018 #15
I'm a white person vercetti2021 Jul 2018 #18
Bite into a clove of garlic. Blue_true Jul 2018 #20
But I love blood vercetti2021 Jul 2018 #25
Most of us realize that there Progressive dog Jul 2018 #19
I'm pretty used to being called a "straight white male" Tom Rinaldo Jul 2018 #23
Only true for me when an expression of malice or to deliver lies. Hortensis Jul 2018 #26
Why would I have a problem being called a White person? Snake Plissken Jul 2018 #27
Apparently, you're not alone ... EffieBlack Jul 2018 #66
Great article ismnotwasm Jul 2018 #28
WYPIPO is the only thing I've heard anyone here object to. lark Jul 2018 #29
"White Fragility" KSNY Jul 2018 #30
I just ordered that book also. brer cat Jul 2018 #47
Meaningless Twitter poll DavidDvorkin Jul 2018 #31
Yeah, you mentioned that yesterday in Editorials&Other Articles. Thanks for the reminder. irisblue Jul 2018 #34
Since the meaningless poll has been publicized again DavidDvorkin Jul 2018 #41
admire your consistency. BTW, what did you think about the rest of article after twitter lead in? irisblue Jul 2018 #42
It's a good essay DavidDvorkin Jul 2018 #45
You write very well irisblue Jul 2018 #59
Thank you. DavidDvorkin Jul 2018 #60
The point of the article wasn't the poll results, KitSileya Jul 2018 #44
I read it, but as I said in #45 DavidDvorkin Jul 2018 #46
Excellent article and well worth reading the whole thing. TygrBright Jul 2018 #33
I Did ProfessorGAC Jul 2018 #68
++++ heaven05 Jul 2018 #35
K & R SunSeeker Jul 2018 #36
whites apparently need no explanation mehrrh Jul 2018 #37
European Americans. roamer65 Jul 2018 #38
I trashed threads/posts using "wypipo" left-of-center2012 Jul 2018 #40
I type "white people", but I pronounce it "wypipo". Iggo Jul 2018 #55
Context is everything. I call black people "black people" . . . MrModerate Jul 2018 #43
K&R brer cat Jul 2018 #48
I could not care less just kacekwl Jul 2018 #49
This article was written by an American white person oberliner Jul 2018 #50
I got used to haole tirebiter Jul 2018 #51
I hate being called late to dinner way more than being call white,, all seems beachbum bob Jul 2018 #52
Yeah...well...tough. Iggo Jul 2018 #53
Crackers, Honkey, whatever fits jcboon Jul 2018 #57
Lol..You are joking, right? whathehell Jul 2018 #61
Funny how a thoughtful OP about white people hating to be called "white people" EffieBlack Jul 2018 #62
nah, it is okay to be white hfojvt Jul 2018 #65
The OP is not a study. It is someone's opinion. There are no references, no footnotes. Just a wasupaloopa Jul 2018 #67
Who on earth wouldn't understand exactly why someone would know exactly what is meant? Judi Lynn Jul 2018 #70
So if someone writes a article about whistler162 Jul 2018 #71
 

Tipperary

(6,930 posts)
1. I have no problem being called a white person. The stupid nicknames are annoying, but I just
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 12:52 PM
Jul 2018

figure some people need to use nicknames to make themselves feel superior.

I am white. I am as happy in my skin as any person of any other race presumably is. I have never felt the need to call people by silly nicknames that sound as if a toddler made them up.

phylny

(8,368 posts)
3. Agreed. I stopped reading posts
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 12:55 PM
Jul 2018

using pejorative words. I’m white, can’t help it, born this way.

OnDoutside

(19,948 posts)
10. It takes a lot to make me put anyone on my ignore list but the
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 01:18 PM
Jul 2018

carry on of two immature provocateurs in particular, led me to adding them and I must say it has made DU a much better experience.

 

Tipperary

(6,930 posts)
14. Yes, I did the same. Never had anyone on ignore before that idiocy.
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 01:30 PM
Jul 2018

It does make things better. They became tiresome.

Response to Tipperary (Reply #1)

 

Demit

(11,238 posts)
21. She said "some people need to use nicknames to make themselves feel superior."
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 02:12 PM
Jul 2018

She said that's what she "figures" their motive is. Doesn't get any plainer upon rereading.

 

Tipperary

(6,930 posts)
16. No. I did not. Feel free to attribute motives to me that make you happy.
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 01:32 PM
Jul 2018

I am a gay, white woman. I am happy in my skin. I feel sure others are the same...despite their gender, sexual orientation, or color. As they should be.

 

bitterross

(4,066 posts)
11. I agree. Please feel free to use valid attributes to describe me.
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 01:22 PM
Jul 2018

Feel free to refer to me as a gay, white male. A white male. A white man. A white person.

There is nothing offensive nor charged with any sort of underlying meaning in any of that.

Just as no other person wants to be painted with a broad brush based on some immutable physical characteristics neither do I.


I find, and have posted at length here, the use of names like "wypipo" is inappropriate. The word "wypipo" is a term that paints an entire group with the same brush based solely upon their skin color. We find that wrong when people do the same thing using the n-word or or other class terms like Muslim, Christian, "faggot," etc. We should be consistent and hold our selves to the same standards across the board.

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
22. Agree. None whatsoever.
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 02:14 PM
Jul 2018

And nicknames like "wypipo" (or however it's spelled) is just as idiotic as all the other nicknames out there for every other racial group.

brewens

(13,547 posts)
58. I saw the wypipo thing. I never even wasted my time trying to figure out what they
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 06:31 PM
Jul 2018

meant by that. I might not bother to read an explanation even if someone gives one here.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
2. Old Bill Maher joke -- There are two things white Republicans hate --
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 12:52 PM
Jul 2018

There are two things white Republicans hate -- (1) Being called a "racist;" and, . . . . . . (2) Black people.

dchill

(38,453 posts)
4. I think being called an American bothers me more ...
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 12:59 PM
Jul 2018

than being called a white person. These days, anyway.

 

bitterross

(4,066 posts)
13. OUCH! The truth hurts though.
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 01:23 PM
Jul 2018

I unfortunately have to agree. Ugly American used to be the term. Now, they can drop the "ugly" and it still sticks.

irisblue

(32,932 posts)
5. These paragraphs from the article are intetesting & thought provoking to me
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 01:00 PM
Jul 2018

snip...."simply discussing race at all kicks up those effects among the racially dominant group. Or to put it more bluntly, in the US context: White people really don’t like being called white people. They don’t like being reminded that they are white people, part of a group with discernible boundaries, shared interests, and shared responsibilities.


After all, one of the benefits of being in the dominant demographic and cultural group is that you are allowed to simply be a person, a blank slate upon which you can write your own individual story. You have no baggage but what you choose.

In most situations in the US, a woman is a female person. Someone part of a racial minority is a black person or a Latino person, etc. Gay people. Trans people. Immigrant people. All these groups are [adjective] people, people with an asterisk, while a white, heterosexual male is simply a person, as generic as he chooses. His presence is taken for granted; it rarely occurs to anyone to question it. A white man in khakis and a polo shirt can walk into almost any milieu in the US and, even if he’s greeted with hostility, be taken seriously. His legitimacy is assumed.

The power and privilege that come along with that — being the base model, a person with no asterisk — are invisible to many white men. Simply calling them “white people,” much less questioning the behavior or beliefs of white people, drags that power and privilege into the open"

klook

(12,152 posts)
32. Yep, that's the essence of it.
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 02:56 PM
Jul 2018

When you hear a news report, you can always tell when the dead person, assailant, or whatever is white, because then it will just be "A middle-aged man allegedly robbed the Burger King at the corner of Fifth and Main and is still at large." If it's a person of color, it'll be "A middle-aged black man..." or "A middle-aged Hispanic man..." etc.

Now if you're a home-owning, married heterosexual white male you've got pretty much all the cards in the deck of privilege in this society. The wild card that seals the deal beyond all reproach is wealth, but if you've got the rest of those you're in good shape. Some people holding all these cards are resentful when it's pointed out. "What? You don't think I've got problems?" And of course, they do have their own problems. Plenty of them. But they'll almost certainly never have the problem of being pulled over for a broken taillight and getting into a confrontation with a steroid-pumped racist cop and ending up dead -- or any of the other many problems that come with being a member of a minority that's treated as inferior.

That's why those of who do carry the invisible knapsack of white privilege owe a duty to our fellow human beings to work to change society so that nobody is abused or disrespected because of their skin color or any other class marker.

dameatball

(7,395 posts)
9. It's weird how many of the same people that are offended by "African American" or "Muslim American"
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 01:12 PM
Jul 2018

or "Cuban American" etc., still think of themselves as "White Americans" and that's okay with them. The talking point is that everyone should just consider themselves "Americans." Do they? Not really.

OnDoutside

(19,948 posts)
12. Did you see the recent Trevor Noah dispute with the French ambassador ?
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 01:22 PM
Jul 2018

You'll find it on YouTube and it brings an interesting perspective to your post.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
20. Bite into a clove of garlic.
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 02:11 PM
Jul 2018

I eat enough garlic that I know for sure that I am not a vampire. Anything else? Well, whatever.

Progressive dog

(6,899 posts)
19. Most of us realize that there
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 02:05 PM
Jul 2018

are multiple kinds of people out there. When describing someone, of course skin color will be included-including white.

Tom Rinaldo

(22,911 posts)
23. I'm pretty used to being called a "straight white male"
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 02:17 PM
Jul 2018

but then again both my social circles and reading materials are clearly left of center. It's an objectively accurate and therefor neutral term, unless it is intentionally being used as a slur. It's those other straight white men who have a problem with this

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
26. Only true for me when an expression of malice or to deliver lies.
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 02:40 PM
Jul 2018

I'm pretty sure I'm very ordinary in that.

Who among these targeted groups is going to appreciate Trump's maliciously hostile, “the overwhelming amount of violent crime in our cities is committed by blacks and Hispanics”?

Snake Plissken

(4,103 posts)
27. Why would I have a problem being called a White person?
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 02:41 PM
Jul 2018

I'm not ashamed of who I am, but I am ashamed of the racists who keep bring up with racist garbage, day in and day out.

lark

(23,065 posts)
29. WYPIPO is the only thing I've heard anyone here object to.
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 02:46 PM
Jul 2018

And that's because it's not really a word, it's undefined in that the definition keeps changing. On the original thread, there were 3-4 different definitions..

KSNY

(315 posts)
30. "White Fragility"
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 02:47 PM
Jul 2018

is the title of a book I just ordered. Robin DiAngelo. It rings very true. Although I pride myself in being an "up by the bootstraps" person, I would be foolish not to realize that many of the opportunities I have had in my working-class to upper-middle class life were available to me because I am white.

This does not discount my talent, my ethics, or make me a white supremacist (I try to work against racial and other forms of oppression), but it would be foolish to think that I have had the same advantages as a black person from a similar socio-economic background.

DavidDvorkin

(19,469 posts)
41. Since the meaningless poll has been publicized again
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 03:57 PM
Jul 2018

Last edited Sat Jul 28, 2018, 05:05 PM - Edit history (1)

A reminder was needed.

A lot of people reading this thread probably didn't see the other one.

irisblue

(32,932 posts)
42. admire your consistency. BTW, what did you think about the rest of article after twitter lead in?
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 04:00 PM
Jul 2018

I am truly interested in knowing. Thanks David.

DavidDvorkin

(19,469 posts)
45. It's a good essay
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 05:03 PM
Jul 2018

But it's undermined by the use of fake numbers. I wish he had just written it as an essay.

BTW, although I have never encountered the kind of rejection -- condemned as not belonging -- that he refers to, I have been subject to a milder version of it from an early age. What he's saying needs to be said, and I wish he hadn't undermined his essay. Reliable numbers might be available. I don't know. If they are, I wish he had used them. As it is, he's handed ammunition to the yahoos.

For reference, you might find this essay of mine interesting:
http://www.dvorkin.com/essays/imcotr.php

KitSileya

(4,035 posts)
44. The point of the article wasn't the poll results,
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 04:34 PM
Jul 2018

But rather the reactions to and the comments on the poll itself. Didn't you read it?

TygrBright

(20,755 posts)
33. Excellent article and well worth reading the whole thing.
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 02:56 PM
Jul 2018

I wonder how many of my fellow DUers will actually do so before posting in this thread?

By the looks of it so far, somewhere less than fifty percent.

sadly,
Bright

ProfessorGAC

(64,877 posts)
68. I Did
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 09:19 PM
Jul 2018

The writing is fine!
The conclusions are wildly singular and unsupported by anything but a random Twitter poll.

roamer65

(36,744 posts)
38. European Americans.
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 03:31 PM
Jul 2018

I prefer that term since North American caucasians are a hodge podge of differing European races. If you are white, you are a European American. You are descendent from European immigrants. I am one.

It also denotes that we were not the original inhabitants of this continent. We came here as invaders and destroyed cultures...many of them....Aztec, Incan, etc, etc...

We also enslaved Africans and brought them here against their will. That’s the cold, hard truth.

 

MrModerate

(9,753 posts)
43. Context is everything. I call black people "black people" . . .
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 04:00 PM
Jul 2018

When that's the context of the discussion. Otherwise, they're just part of "people."

And so on.

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
62. Funny how a thoughtful OP about white people hating to be called "white people"
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 06:59 PM
Jul 2018

was met immediately with several white people complaining about some white people being labeled with a term that describes specific behaviors that they don't think they engage in so it it doesn't apply to them and that they likely weren't even aware of until a couple of months ago when they first happened to read about it on DU - and was completely beside the point of the piece.

Interesting.

hfojvt

(37,573 posts)
65. nah, it is okay to be white
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 07:42 PM
Jul 2018

the racism only comes in with the blanket negative statements about white people, but there's really no point in objecting since in our society these days it is also okay to be racist against white people, but that mostly comes from the left too.

I also disagree with this "In most situations in the US, a woman is a female person. Someone part of a racial minority is a black person or a Latino person, etc. Gay people. Trans people. Immigrant people. All these groups are [adjective] people, people with an asterisk,"

A lot of situations that people deal with for most of their lives, they are people, people with names and not categories. Working with C for 3 hours last night he was C, and not "a black guy". When they are strangers, they are probably mostly ignored, and not put into categories. Also, people that I am with have no way of knowing if I am straight or gay or an immigrant. Other labels can easily be attached to me on sight - I am an old guy. I am a skinny guy. I am an unattractive guy. Maybe even a semi-tall guy. People also decide pretty quick that I am a strange guy. So straight white guys can pick up an asterisk just as easily as anybody else. There are also other labels that we accept, like Irish or German or Scot or Weegie, etc.

 

wasupaloopa

(4,516 posts)
67. The OP is not a study. It is someone's opinion. There are no references, no footnotes. Just a
Sat Jul 28, 2018, 08:35 PM
Jul 2018

theory some guy comes up with using his powers of observation I guess. But these kind of OP's are taken very seriously at DU.

I call them the mea culpa white people threads. White people saying Mea Culpa, Mea Culpa Mea Maxima Culpa. Mostly guilt tripping others who don't agree.

Oh Yes you have to have read the whole thing before you are permitted to have an opinion. And of course those who agree don't need it but those who need it don't read it.


The best ones are those that say white people are unwittingly racist. The racist things you don't know you do but are racist just the same.

Judi Lynn

(160,456 posts)
70. Who on earth wouldn't understand exactly why someone would know exactly what is meant?
Sun Jul 29, 2018, 03:06 AM
Jul 2018

Who is so stupid he/she does NOT know the horrific suffering inflicted by the people who had all the advanced weaponry, the wealth with which to control militaries and weapons, and the viciousness involved in committing genocide and riding roughshod over every single person different from them?

Who doesn't know? Why wouldn't he/she know? Congenital idiot?

The subject is too stupid to consider for more than a moment.

If the shoe fits, wear the damned thing, and shut up.

If you don't identify with those who have committed genocide, astonishing degrees of hellish hatred handed out to the powerless, cowardly bullying, you should keep your own counsel, knowing that those who are aggrieved have every damned reason in the world to be so.

If you're not guilty, stay out of it. If you are guilty, you should take your lumps until it occurs to you not to hate your fellow beings. The world has seen more than enough of that thousands of years ago. Don't even try to keep it going, as you'll have no one but ugly, backward losers to support your warped, twisted trucculence toward imaginary enemies.

Why DO these threads keep returning anyway? What's the point?

 

whistler162

(11,155 posts)
71. So if someone writes a article about
Sun Jul 29, 2018, 05:07 AM
Jul 2018

some twits on twitter that answer a poll in such away that the numbers show that African-Americans like being called the N word then it is very enlightening to you!

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