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oberliner

(58,724 posts)
Tue Sep 25, 2018, 09:31 PM Sep 2018

Avenatti Says Democrats Won't Win by Shaming Trump Voters

Michael Avenatti told a crowd of Californians at a Democratic fundraiser that they can’t beat the Republicans in the midterm election or defeat Donald Trump in 2020 if they shame the president’s voters.

Avenatti, the lawyer for porn actress Stormy Daniels who is floating a possible presidential run of his own, said at the event late Monday in downtown Los Angeles that if Democrats punish Trump voters for the president’s assault on liberal ideals, “we will lose them forever."

"We have to reach out to some Trump voters and welcome them home," Avenatti said
at the event for Flip The 14, a political action committee that aims to turn California’s 14 red districts blue in November. Many Trump voters simply got "conned" into voting against their interests, he said.

https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2018-09-25/avenatti-says-democrats-won-t-win-by-shaming-trump-voters
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Avenatti Says Democrats Won't Win by Shaming Trump Voters (Original Post) oberliner Sep 2018 OP
Yeah, right. Trust Buster Sep 2018 #1
He IS right. Shaming them won't get them to vote for Democrats. nt pnwmom Sep 2018 #11
I think he needs to break that down more. True Trumpers are not reachable. Ordinary Republicans OnDoutside Sep 2018 #38
I think we should shame the Trumpsters to the day they die. Never let them off the hook for the Trust Buster Sep 2018 #40
Sure. Just maybe do it with your mouth shut and hands off Hortensis Sep 2018 #49
It doesn't work on DEMOCRATS who voted for someone else in the Dem primary either yurbud Sep 2018 #56
Post removed Post removed Sep 2018 #50
Well you can't provoke something that the people are incapable of feeling in the first place. FromTheAshes Sep 2018 #2
Bingo. milestogo Sep 2018 #21
We have to launch a hostage rescue, in other words meow2u3 Sep 2018 #3
That's a good way to put it. Laura in LA Sep 2018 #22
The Trump voters being shamed will NEVER vote for a Democrat leftstreet Sep 2018 #4
Left, HALF of all conservatives now refuse to identify Repub. Hortensis Sep 2018 #51
I won't hurt and could help, even if we just pull in 1% of them Quixote1818 Sep 2018 #5
Trump voters are a minority. We have to turn out wasupaloopa Sep 2018 #6
I s'pose "conformity doesn't suck sometimes..." LanternWaste Sep 2018 #63
Not this time. Unless we regain control wasupaloopa Sep 2018 #66
Tell us, oberliner: are trump voters feeling shamed? If not, what can we do to make them? Squinch Sep 2018 #7
Trump women were CNN the other night. sheshe2 Sep 2018 #30
Those were not regular GOP women NewJeffCT Sep 2018 #45
Are you on a campaign to damage Avenatti's reputation here at DU? eleny Sep 2018 #8
Sure does look like it. Kingofalldems Sep 2018 #9
Seems to be. H2O Man Sep 2018 #10
It would seem so. shanny Sep 2018 #18
+1. n/t rzemanfl Sep 2018 #52
I agree with Avenatti marylandblue Sep 2018 #12
They shame themselves MFM008 Sep 2018 #13
Republicans vote based on their primary interests, which are social/cultural. Garrett78 Sep 2018 #14
Yeah, he's right. TomSlick Sep 2018 #15
Listen to Saint Avenatti, people! Do as he says! ProudLib72 Sep 2018 #16
Me, either customerserviceguy Sep 2018 #33
Well said......LOL Trust Buster Sep 2018 #41
Not at all surprising who's on the wee bandwagon LanternWaste Sep 2018 #57
I think Avenatti serves a purpose and serves it well ProudLib72 Sep 2018 #65
He's right about that. shanny Sep 2018 #17
Yep. n/t ObamaKerryDem Sep 2018 #19
Dude, you do some good work, but try and STFU for a change . . . hatrack Sep 2018 #20
still laughing over this post ProfessorPlum Sep 2018 #43
I can't peg Avenatti Puzzledtraveller Sep 2018 #23
Cohen is in jail 6-7 months after Avenatti blue cat Sep 2018 #26
True Puzzledtraveller Sep 2018 #27
Cohen is not in jail jberryhill Sep 2018 #44
I agree with him. It's basic common sense. Crunchy Frog Sep 2018 #24
+1000. We want their votes! Or at least Hortensis Sep 2018 #61
*some* are salvageable... Lithos Sep 2018 #25
He's right. elleng Sep 2018 #28
Trump voters do not equal "Trump BASE voters" brooklynite Sep 2018 #29
Of course Avenatti is correct on this. Or, should we... JoeOtterbein Sep 2018 #31
He is right, the more you shame them the more they are doc03 Sep 2018 #32
We shouldn't worry about Trump voters at all. Caliman73 Sep 2018 #34
Of course not, but I think the shaming is mostly reserved for the diehards ecstatic Sep 2018 #35
I think he's absolutely right renate Sep 2018 #36
He's a good lawyer tazkcmo Sep 2018 #37
Screw trying to appeal to moderate Republicans alphafemale Sep 2018 #39
We can welcome them and shame them at the same time ProfessorPlum Sep 2018 #42
That's true. nt Autumn Sep 2018 #46
This is red meat for a small contingent and insignificant in the real world. WeekiWater Sep 2018 #47
we need to energize Democratic voters bigtree Sep 2018 #48
Nah. Don't have to shame them, but don't have to reach out either. bearsfootball516 Sep 2018 #53
"I could stand in the street and shoot someone and not lose a vote." "Grab 'em by the pussy." LastLiberal in PalmSprings Sep 2018 #54
I agree vlyons Sep 2018 #55
Democrats won't "lose them forever". They were alraedy lost 10 years ago to the Tea Party. DetlefK Sep 2018 #58
Your narrative is damned consistent. LanternWaste Sep 2018 #59
Well, that's easier said than done. The incalculable damage that's been done is catbyte Sep 2018 #60
Well I certainly did. I shamed an 88 year old Republican neighbor Freethinker65 Sep 2018 #62
I don't understand this obsession... Whiskeytide Sep 2018 #64
I agree with him Raine Sep 2018 #67

OnDoutside

(19,956 posts)
38. I think he needs to break that down more. True Trumpers are not reachable. Ordinary Republicans
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 05:02 AM
Sep 2018

who voted for Trump, because of the years of anti-Hillary campaigns, are potentially reachable though, but if they only listen to RW media, then Dems must be willing to mix it on their turf.

 

Trust Buster

(7,299 posts)
40. I think we should shame the Trumpsters to the day they die. Never let them off the hook for the
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 07:28 AM
Sep 2018

Damage they have caused this country.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
49. Sure. Just maybe do it with your mouth shut and hands off
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 09:33 AM
Sep 2018

the keyboard? The choice is to be a builder or a troublemaker.

yurbud

(39,405 posts)
56. It doesn't work on DEMOCRATS who voted for someone else in the Dem primary either
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 09:49 AM
Sep 2018

Treat every voter like you have to earn their vote, and with at least as much respect as a Wall Street donor you are courting.

Response to Trust Buster (Reply #1)

meow2u3

(24,764 posts)
3. We have to launch a hostage rescue, in other words
Tue Sep 25, 2018, 09:45 PM
Sep 2018

Some Trump voters, especially those who voted for Obama in 2012, can be compared to people who've been lured away from home by some Con Man-in-chief who promised them the moon, but instead took them hostage for him to use and abuse at will.

 

Laura in LA

(38 posts)
22. That's a good way to put it.
Tue Sep 25, 2018, 11:51 PM
Sep 2018

There are previous Obama voters and those who sat out 2016. In addition to people who up to now haven't voted. Hell, in my hometown of El Paso, TX, only 40% of adults are even registered to vote!

leftstreet

(36,108 posts)
4. The Trump voters being shamed will NEVER vote for a Democrat
Tue Sep 25, 2018, 09:48 PM
Sep 2018

The Trump voters who just didn't want to vote for Hillary will vote for the next Democratic candidate. It's pretty simple

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
51. Left, HALF of all conservatives now refuse to identify Repub.
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 09:40 AM
Sep 2018

You're right that we shouldn't waste energy right now on the rigidly unrepentent authoritarian followers who are now almost the entire 24% or so of the electorate who register Republican.

That leaves the rest, right? They're calling themselves independents, but they mostly still vote. The problem with that is that most conservatives have a strong emotional need to belong to something. If the left is assaulting them with insults and hostility, calling them all nazis and racists, what effect do you think that will tend to have on people who are mostly quite nice outside of their political lives and despise that kind of behavior?

As opposed to talking nicely and joining with them in being appalled at what the Republican Party has become?

Quixote1818

(28,936 posts)
5. I won't hurt and could help, even if we just pull in 1% of them
Tue Sep 25, 2018, 09:49 PM
Sep 2018

That is 1% less for them and 1% more for us or a swing of 2%. That may be just enough to flip the election.

 

wasupaloopa

(4,516 posts)
6. Trump voters are a minority. We have to turn out
Tue Sep 25, 2018, 09:50 PM
Sep 2018

to vote in numbers that nullify any effect they have.

We don’t have to spend any time trying to get them to vote with us. We need to spend that time getting all of us to vote with us.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
63. I s'pose "conformity doesn't suck sometimes..."
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 01:29 PM
Sep 2018

"We need to spend that time getting all of us to vote with us..."

 

wasupaloopa

(4,516 posts)
66. Not this time. Unless we regain control
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 07:59 PM
Sep 2018

None of our most important issues will see the light of day.

sheshe2

(83,770 posts)
30. Trump women were CNN the other night.
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 12:22 AM
Sep 2018

They were having a Kavanaugh lovefest. Boys will be boys and they know that all boys assault girls, cause well boys. So they give % approval for their own sons to assault girls. Wonder what they tell their daughters?


Shame them as voters the OP says? Lol. I ignore them they are not worth one moment of my time.


Garrett78

(10,721 posts)
14. Republicans vote based on their primary interests, which are social/cultural.
Tue Sep 25, 2018, 10:15 PM
Sep 2018

They're voting *for* racism (including xenophobia) and sexism.

TomSlick

(11,098 posts)
15. Yeah, he's right.
Tue Sep 25, 2018, 10:19 PM
Sep 2018

There are Trump voters with buyer's remorse. Even if there aren't many of them, they must be welcomed back into the fact-based world.

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
33. Me, either
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 01:55 AM
Sep 2018

And almost everybody here who think's he's wonderful may find themselves cringing should he use his scorched-earth tactics to try to win the Democratic nomination, if he decides to make a run for it.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
57. Not at all surprising who's on the wee bandwagon
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 09:51 AM
Sep 2018

full of unsupported allegations about the guy... without any objective evidence to back it up. Ever. Just a loud, one-sentence claim in comic-sans.

We used to call those allegations 'bumper stickers', until people began pretending they had merit.

LOL

ProudLib72

(17,984 posts)
65. I think Avenatti serves a purpose and serves it well
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 06:47 PM
Sep 2018

But I don't like him telling me how to behave with regard to Rump voters. All of a sudden he views himself as a Dem leader? Nah, not going to listen to that crap.

 

shanny

(6,709 posts)
17. He's right about that.
Tue Sep 25, 2018, 11:01 PM
Sep 2018

If they are get-able at all (like the Obama-to-Rump contingent) shaming them will not bring them back.

hatrack

(59,587 posts)
20. Dude, you do some good work, but try and STFU for a change . . .
Tue Sep 25, 2018, 11:35 PM
Sep 2018

How about the stragglers of the 7th Ass Cavalry who voted for President Ambulatory S. Dungheap reach out to us?

As political priorities go, this strategy has a solid lock on "dead last".

Puzzledtraveller

(5,937 posts)
23. I can't peg Avenatti
Tue Sep 25, 2018, 11:58 PM
Sep 2018

has anything he's done actually harmed Trump, moved the needle in our direction at all? His comments here make me wonder. What if he's actually running interference for Trump.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
44. Cohen is not in jail
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 08:40 AM
Sep 2018

And the criminal investigation of Cohen began before Daniels engaged Avenatti.

Crunchy Frog

(26,587 posts)
24. I agree with him. It's basic common sense.
Tue Sep 25, 2018, 11:59 PM
Sep 2018

Every member of the electorate represents a potential voter. You don't antagonize and alienate potential voters, even if they're not very likely voters.

Someone who is seeking an elected office can't afford to follow the same strategy as someone who's letting off steam on a discussion board.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
61. +1000. We want their votes! Or at least
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 10:04 AM
Sep 2018

that as many as possible stay home.

The Republican Party is badly broken. Conservative voters are now separated into the hard-cores remaining in the party and those who have left. The Republican Party on has about 24% of all registered voters, but conservatives are half of our electorate and the rest are calling themselves "independent," caught between their old party and us.

Greeting all conservatives with the trumpster-level hostility expressed by many here would have the same effect that overt racism had on black voters: drive them together!

Pushing voters who share our concerns away is the very last thing anyone who wants to restore our nation's wellbeing should do.

Lithos

(26,403 posts)
25. *some* are salvageable...
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 12:02 AM
Sep 2018

Yes, I know of a few who have turned. I can not disparage their previous choice - just welcome them into the fold...

Basic sense.

brooklynite

(94,571 posts)
29. Trump voters do not equal "Trump BASE voters"
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 12:16 AM
Sep 2018

There's a share (5-10%) that we can win back if we don't lazily stereotype them.

JoeOtterbein

(7,700 posts)
31. Of course Avenatti is correct on this. Or, should we...
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 12:41 AM
Sep 2018

...curse them out on the internets to get votes instead? Any guess on which is a better response?

Caliman73

(11,738 posts)
34. We shouldn't worry about Trump voters at all.
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 02:25 AM
Sep 2018

Our candidates need to send a message about what policies they plan to pursue that will help improve voters' lives. Simultaneously, there should be a message about how extreme Trump and the GOP have become with regards to the scandals and corruption, and who they truly represent. Trump voters should not be mentioned at all. They either hear the message and vote for the candidate that will help them, or they don't.


We do not need to waste energy trying to deliver an "It's okay, you didn't do anything wrong" message. They did. They were fooled into thinking that a rich man who has spent his life stealing from and defrauding others, was actually going to do something beneficial for them. It does happen, and many of us are vulnerable to scams, but guess what? Shake it off, do your homework, and vote better in this election.

ecstatic

(32,704 posts)
35. Of course not, but I think the shaming is mostly reserved for the diehards
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 02:34 AM
Sep 2018

who will never leave trump. The irredeemable deplorables.

That being said, I have seen people who express regret for voting for trump get shamed on Twitter, which isn't good, but at the same time, the regret doesn't come until trump affects their lives somehow. They were just fine with everything else trump did prior. It's difficult not to pile on in such cases, but usually there are several people welcoming them to the resistance so it equals out... I think.

renate

(13,776 posts)
36. I think he's absolutely right
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 02:40 AM
Sep 2018

I’ve read a bit about motivational interviewing.

Get the person to concede, on their own, the flaws in their own position. Do NOT make them defend their nonhelpful attitude or belief... that will just get them more entrenched.

tazkcmo

(7,300 posts)
37. He's a good lawyer
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 04:52 AM
Sep 2018

So he should stick to that. I won't go out of my way to shame them because they need souls to feel shame. I also won't reach out to them anymore than I would reach out to a large mass of Ebola because they are both toxic and brainless.

There are millions more non-voters than brain dead Trumplydites and this is where we should be focusing our energy.

 

alphafemale

(18,497 posts)
39. Screw trying to appeal to moderate Republicans
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 05:08 AM
Sep 2018

You want that orange menace until 2024?

Appeal to the disenfranchised women and minorities.

Meekly simpering on your knees and trying to kiss the hand that bashed your teeth in is not a winning strategy.

ProfessorPlum

(11,257 posts)
42. We can welcome them and shame them at the same time
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 08:29 AM
Sep 2018

Carrots and sticks, and it is way past time for Trump voters to be shamed and ashamed of what they have done to this country because of their misogyny, believing the smear campaign against Clinton, and following around an ape who only has the trappings of dominance to recommend him.

 

WeekiWater

(3,259 posts)
47. This is red meat for a small contingent and insignificant in the real world.
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 09:02 AM
Sep 2018

It's a campaign line.

The party is moving left. The party is becoming more diverse with respect to elected officials. Lets not let our base watch party leaders start going gushy for a group of people who one hundred percent knew they were voting for a racist. Get Out The Minority Vote. Get More Minorities On The Ballot. Get More Women On The Ballot.

Our message resonates with the white working middle class. Many of whom, in a handful of states, threw the election to Trump. Keep hitting our message to those people. That's what matters. There is no big national things going on where our elected officials are mocking Trump supporters. It is not happening.

bigtree

(85,996 posts)
48. we need to energize Democratic voters
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 09:27 AM
Sep 2018

...and leave republican voters to their shame.

He's not much of a politician. Here he's mainly talking to his belly button.

bearsfootball516

(6,377 posts)
53. Nah. Don't have to shame them, but don't have to reach out either.
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 09:47 AM
Sep 2018

If some want to come over, great. But focus on your base.

54. "I could stand in the street and shoot someone and not lose a vote." "Grab 'em by the pussy."
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 09:47 AM
Sep 2018

Trump voters cannot be shamed.

vlyons

(10,252 posts)
55. I agree
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 09:48 AM
Sep 2018

The real Trump supporters can't be shamed, because they revel in being ugly nasty haters. The best way to win back the Dems and Indies, who voted for Trump is to blame Trump for not keeping his promises. Ask these questions:

Has your pay gone up?
Do you have affordable healthcare?
Can your kids afford college?
How much more or less is your weekly grocery bill?
How many new jobs have been created in your district, your county?
How much have your taxes been cut?

DetlefK

(16,423 posts)
58. Democrats won't "lose them forever". They were alraedy lost 10 years ago to the Tea Party.
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 09:51 AM
Sep 2018

They were lost 10 years ago when the Republicans created the Tea Party to increase political fanaticism among their base.

And over the years, the GOP became no more than an exercise in owning the liberals and fighting the Democrats. That's their whole purpose in life. They have nothing else.

When was the last time a Republican said that Republicans should try to understand Obama-voters or Hillary-voters? And yet we have a neverending string of demands that the Democrats should try to understand the Trump-voters.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
59. Your narrative is damned consistent.
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 09:52 AM
Sep 2018

So you have that, as well as the pretense of sincerity, going for you.

Try not to step in any puddles. Your shoes may get wet.

catbyte

(34,386 posts)
60. Well, that's easier said than done. The incalculable damage that's been done is
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 09:59 AM
Sep 2018

hard to ignore, and even harder to forgive. Most of the Cult would never have voted Democratic in the first place. Does anybody really believe that any one of them switched to Trump after Clinton called some of his supporters "deplorables?" They are proud of their vileness.

I have an especially difficult time forgiving fellow women who voted for that creep. There is no excuse in the world that I'll buy for that betrayal of our gender.

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Freethinker65

(10,021 posts)
62. Well I certainly did. I shamed an 88 year old Republican neighbor
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 10:14 AM
Sep 2018

If she lives to vote in the next presidential election, if Trump runs she will not be voting for him.

She was very concerned with the direction Trump's political and managerial incompetence is taking this country. I told her she, and other otherwise smart Republicans, were to blame for voting for an unqualified vindictive idiot out only for himself that never gave a damn about the country when there was a completely rational and well qualified candidate of the opposing party. I told her I blamed her for not voting for Hillary because her last name was Clinton and she had been duped. Let's just say she did not 100% come out and apologize, but I could tell she knew I was correct. I explained how voting for horrendous candidates just because they had an (R) or (D) after there name was not in her nor the country's best interest, I think she might even vote for Whitmer for governor now.

Whiskeytide

(4,461 posts)
64. I don't understand this obsession...
Wed Sep 26, 2018, 01:48 PM
Sep 2018

... with trump voters being wholly one thing or the other. Why does any approach to them have to fit into some kind of model? There were 60+ m of them.

Some are assholes.
Some are stupid.
Some were poisoned.
Some were conned.

Listen to them for a minute and decide which category they seem to fall into (it could be more than one), and then conduct yourself accordingly.

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