"Keep your mind above your belt buckle."

[Raven]

This was the advice my father gave to my two brothers when they were old enough to know what it meant and, of course, I passed it on to my son.

[flotsam]

1. My grandfather to the first of my cousins to go to college

Keep your nose in your schoolbooks and your pecker in your pants...

[Solly Mack]

2. "Kick them in the nuts" - my mother to me about how to treat aggressive boys and men.

Unfortunately, that wasn't always possible.