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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsBETHESDA RESIDENT DESCRIBES "CULTURE OF PRIVILEGE" LEADING TO EXPLOITATION AND ABUSE
https://mont.thesentinel.com/2018/09/26/bethesda-resident-describes-culture-of-privilege-leading-to-sexual-assault/Brian Karem
(Editors note: The Sentinel Newspapers conducted an interview with a woman who recently came forward to speak with us regarding events that occurred during the time former Georgetown Prep student and Supreme Court nominee Brett Kavanaugh went to high school. We have authenticated her background and offered her anonymity because we believe her voice deserves to be heard and we respect her desire for privacy. For the purposes of this interview we will call her Elizabeth. She is married and has been for more than 20 years. She has more than one child but said she wanted to speak out for her teenage daughter and everyone elses daughter including my mothers daughter.)
Elizabeth grew up in Montgomery County. In retrospect she said life in Bethesda was one of privilege, though I did not realize it when I was younger.
Raised in a very strict Catholic family, she remembers her First Communion dress with pride. It was white and had lace, but it was understated and my mother told me how beautiful I looked in it.
She went to private Catholic schools her entire life. In high school she was shy, but traveled in the same social circles as both Dr. Christine Blasey Ford and Supreme Court nominee Brett Kavanaugh.
I knew them both and liked them both though we didnt see each other often, she said.
As a 15-year-old in the early 80s Elizabeth remembers riding with friends through Damascus during the Fall of 1982 when the Ku Klux Klan handed out flyers. She remembers a group of kids from Olney she read about in the local newspaper who were her age and got arrested for being part of a burglary ring.
These were not innocent times, she said. I read news reports from members of Congress who said there wasnt much going on back then and how innocent everything was. Like theres no way this went on. Well, theyre lying or they lived under a rock.
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BETHESDA RESIDENT DESCRIBES "CULTURE OF PRIVILEGE" LEADING TO EXPLOITATION AND ABUSE (Original Post)
G_j
Sep 2018
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Leghorn21
(13,524 posts)1. From link:
Elizabeth said she infrequently saw Brett Kavanaugh during this time often at house parties. He was cute. He was always nice, she said. One night she ran across an apparently inebriated Brett Kavanaugh and things went differently then. Previously, he had always been nice to her. But not that night. He was drunk. He was obnoxious and crude. I had a friend with me and we left. His football buddies were laughing at us. Maybe they were laughing at him, but I didnt take it that way and they didnt do anything to keep him from being a jerk.
From that point on Elizabeth said she steered clear of Kavanaugh and didnt see any more sexually explicit behavior because, I didnt want to be around those guys. She was not present at the party described by Ford or doesnt believe she was. She also said she never saw Kavanaugh assault anyone.
But, from her experience, she said she has no problem believing Dr. Fords allegations and said Ford should be heard without politics being involved. I dont think thats possible today. Im afraid for my daughter. How do we make this less politicized? People are criticizing her for coming forward, but she moved to California. He wasnt in her life. Now hes everywhere and could be part of the Supreme Court. It was just high school, but that kind of trauma lasts and no one should be judged for coming forward as she did. It took great courage. Maybe he genuinely doesnt remember what happened because he blacked out. He deserves to be heard too. He shouldnt be convicted without being heard either.
From that point on Elizabeth said she steered clear of Kavanaugh and didnt see any more sexually explicit behavior because, I didnt want to be around those guys. She was not present at the party described by Ford or doesnt believe she was. She also said she never saw Kavanaugh assault anyone.
But, from her experience, she said she has no problem believing Dr. Fords allegations and said Ford should be heard without politics being involved. I dont think thats possible today. Im afraid for my daughter. How do we make this less politicized? People are criticizing her for coming forward, but she moved to California. He wasnt in her life. Now hes everywhere and could be part of the Supreme Court. It was just high school, but that kind of trauma lasts and no one should be judged for coming forward as she did. It took great courage. Maybe he genuinely doesnt remember what happened because he blacked out. He deserves to be heard too. He shouldnt be convicted without being heard either.
Story upon story like Elizabeths is breaking to the surface
Damn, just damn, I had no idea all this ever went on
Damn
Thanks for posting, G -
bobbieinok
(12,858 posts)2. Thanks for posting. Privilege obviously remains for Kav group
wishstar
(5,269 posts)3. Excellent article- she raises some important points
including how she never told anyone about her own assault experience and of course about Kavanaugh's Dr. Jekyll and Mr Hyde persona and that she considered coming forward publicly but decided she did not want to handle the repercussions of coming forward.