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Quixote1818

(28,942 posts)
Thu Sep 27, 2018, 10:37 PM Sep 2018

I think saving the calendar SCREAMS guilt!

Seriously! Who the fuck would save a calendar like that unless they were waiting for the day they could use it to exonerate them-self? I bet he woke up the next day sober and was thinking "Holy fuck! What if she tells her Dad, what if this comes up a few months from now once she gets the courage to do something? I better come up with something that will make me look innocent. I know! I can put keep my calendar and write in similar shit and not put that gathering in!"

Then of course he decided to hold onto it long after knowing in the back of his mind he might need it one day. He probably had a few things on there and then went back and wrote in a few other things and omitted of course on purpose a tiny get together with four people that was probably a spur of the moment thing. I remember probably 75% of the parties I went to back in HS and college were gatherings that just popped up that day.

To me this calendar makes him look much more guilty than if he hadn't saved it.

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I think saving the calendar SCREAMS guilt! (Original Post) Quixote1818 Sep 2018 OP
Same thing has occurred to me MaryMagdaline Sep 2018 #1
I have mine all the way back to June 1985 Kilgore Sep 2018 #2
I've save quite a few of mine over the years Sugarcoated Sep 2018 #7
Its a family thing Kilgore Sep 2018 #12
I think I'm hoarding, lol Sugarcoated Sep 2018 #13
Its like a diary Kilgore Sep 2018 #14
I have my day planners going back to about 1991 Raine Sep 2018 #15
He mentioned his father kept calendars Louis1895 Sep 2018 #3
July 1 Louis1895 Sep 2018 #6
What about July 7 - another possibility - it says "Columbia" (pool where she hung out all summer) womanofthehills Sep 2018 #9
What if saving the calendar is more of a souviner thinkingagain Sep 2018 #4
I was thinking the same thing MountCleaners Sep 2018 #8
I think it screams narcissistic dork with delusions of self-importance RockRaven Sep 2018 #5
Well, my mother has saved all of her calendars going back to the 1970s - some people just like to Midwestern Democrat Sep 2018 #10
No, screams control freak... showed that today too... Extreme anger, JCMach1 Sep 2018 #11

Sugarcoated

(7,724 posts)
13. I think I'm hoarding, lol
Fri Sep 28, 2018, 12:02 AM
Sep 2018

I don't think my parents saved stuff like that. It's my way of hanging on to time, maybe? I don't know how to explain it.

Raine

(30,540 posts)
15. I have my day planners going back to about 1991
Fri Sep 28, 2018, 04:43 AM
Sep 2018

they come in handy sometimes to refresh my memory also can be practical as a reference. I wish I had them going back further but I didn't start keeping them that early on.

Louis1895

(768 posts)
3. He mentioned his father kept calendars
Thu Sep 27, 2018, 11:11 PM
Sep 2018

He might have developed a vision of himself becoming a great success and the calendars would help him write his memoirs.

Someone here at DU pointed out that the party on July 1 could have been the date of the assault because of the relationship to Mark Judge’s job where Dr. Ford ran into him at the grocery store. Judge described the job in his book which was consistent with Dr. Ford’s testimony. Rachel Mitchell started to ask him about that date but did not pursue it.

womanofthehills

(8,710 posts)
9. What about July 7 - another possibility - it says "Columbia" (pool where she hung out all summer)
Thu Sep 27, 2018, 11:18 PM
Sep 2018

"Columbia" - is the name of the country club & pool (Columbia Country Club) where Dr. Ford said she spend most days in the summer. She said she went to the gathering after swimming at the pool. Sounds like it might be a day that Kavanaugh was at the pool too according to his calendar. She said it was early and when she went to the house, she assumed there would be a party later. He has nothing listed for mid day July 7. Dr. Ford said it happened in an unsupervised house near Columbia Country Club.

thinkingagain

(906 posts)
4. What if saving the calendar is more of a souviner
Thu Sep 27, 2018, 11:12 PM
Sep 2018

Like rapists and serial killers often keep souviners of their victims. On the calander is some notation of what occurred I’m sure
Just exactly what I don’t know but something.
He said it was looking forward and backward.

MountCleaners

(1,148 posts)
8. I was thinking the same thing
Thu Sep 27, 2018, 11:15 PM
Sep 2018

We're normal empathetic folk ; we can easily imagine how the victim feels. But it may help to think with the mind of a criminal - he's been carrying around this thing he did all of these years. Perhaps he looks at it and tells himself lies about what happened that summer.

RockRaven

(14,967 posts)
5. I think it screams narcissistic dork with delusions of self-importance
Thu Sep 27, 2018, 11:12 PM
Sep 2018

and I don't care if he learned such self-importance from his father or not. It's still ridiculous.

10. Well, my mother has saved all of her calendars going back to the 1970s - some people just like to
Thu Sep 27, 2018, 11:23 PM
Sep 2018

keep records - I'm not one of them - I pretty much toss everything as soon as I no longer need it.

JCMach1

(27,559 posts)
11. No, screams control freak... showed that today too... Extreme anger,
Thu Sep 27, 2018, 11:26 PM
Sep 2018

because his nomination spun out of control

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