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"We, as men, have come to stand with our sisters." (Original Post) demmiblue Oct 2018 OP
Victims very rarely aren't telling the truth. mythology Oct 2018 #1
Except when they are either unready to tell their story, BobTheSubgenius Oct 2018 #7
A fair point. I hadn't considered that aspect. mythology Oct 2018 #14
K&R smirkymonkey Oct 2018 #2
Bravo! gademocrat7 Oct 2018 #3
Bless them! mcar Oct 2018 #4
Thank you, gentlemen lunamagica Oct 2018 #5
Somebody help me out here. And if I do not explain myself well... apologies... pangaia Oct 2018 #6
My wife has never been "seriously" assaulted. BobTheSubgenius Oct 2018 #9
Where have I been all my 74 years? pangaia Oct 2018 #10
Short answer... SergeStorms Oct 2018 #29
Yeah, you're right. The short answer.... pangaia Oct 2018 #30
Great answer, SergeStorms. kag Oct 2018 #39
+1 malthaussen Oct 2018 #41
i choose B NJCher Oct 2018 #40
over here weeping again. barbtries Oct 2018 #8
It's incredibly helpful to see things like this in times like this renate Oct 2018 #11
Thank you, gentlemen!..It feels so good to be supported! whathehell Oct 2018 #12
Wow bdamomma Oct 2018 #13
"Let's hear it for the boys, let's give the boys a hand..." LoisB Oct 2018 #15
This message was self-deleted by its author LoisB Oct 2018 #16
Yes! Happy to See Decent Men Stepping Up! dlk Oct 2018 #17
That made me tear up. Squinch Oct 2018 #18
Collins lives down to her reputation: she's a yes Hassler Oct 2018 #19
This makes me proud FakeNoose Oct 2018 #20
Those are REAL men. Those who abuse women are pathetic losers and they know it. BigmanPigman Oct 2018 #21
I wish so much I could have joined them Danascot Oct 2018 #22
Bless them. Silver Gaia Oct 2018 #23
Thank you, our brothers cp Oct 2018 #24
Me too nt spooky3 Oct 2018 #26
This is the first time I've teared up through this whole mess DesertRat Oct 2018 #25
Concentration Camps Johnnycomelately Oct 2018 #27
And that has GP6971 Oct 2018 #34
I've said it before. I'll say it again: The Dem Party has the best men!!!! Honeycombe8 Oct 2018 #28
Those men give me hope NastyRiffraff Oct 2018 #31
Thank you gentlemen! Akacia Oct 2018 #32
MORE from these men: demmiblue Oct 2018 #33
Somebody please identify the first gentleman who spoke Haggis for Breakfast Oct 2018 #36
This is very heartening for me... llmart Oct 2018 #35
Gender assumptions aside, I too am heartened by this Lifelong MA liberal Oct 2018 #37
i'd like to see it--just not tonight or tomorrow orleans Oct 2018 #38
Adding my support from a distance -- 74 year old male. TryLogic Oct 2018 #42

BobTheSubgenius

(11,564 posts)
7. Except when they are either unready to tell their story,
Fri Oct 5, 2018, 03:07 PM
Oct 2018

or feel compelled - however tacitly or blatantly - to "No, I'm fine. Nothing happened."

I am NOT being flippant or dismissive of either your post, or, God forbid, the issue itself. No offense intended at all.

 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
14. A fair point. I hadn't considered that aspect.
Fri Oct 5, 2018, 03:33 PM
Oct 2018

Thanks for making me aware of it. Keep that up, and you'll need to drop the sub in front of that genius.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
2. K&R
Fri Oct 5, 2018, 02:36 PM
Oct 2018

This restores my faith in mankind. I applaud them for standing up for women. I wish they did not have to get arrested and I would like to see more lawful protests of this type led by men.

pangaia

(24,324 posts)
6. Somebody help me out here. And if I do not explain myself well... apologies...
Fri Oct 5, 2018, 03:07 PM
Oct 2018

I've been a man(or boy) my entire life. 74+ years worth.
I could NEVER imagine treating girls or women they way some do.

Given that... WHY, Oh WHY should it be necessary for men to actually have to say they support and believe women about.. ANYTHING?

It just boggles my mind.... that this should even have to happen.

On the one side these guys are just normal human beings. no big deal.
On the other side, they are heroes in a sick society...
I guess there are more sick men than I ever thought....

BobTheSubgenius

(11,564 posts)
9. My wife has never been "seriously" assaulted.
Fri Oct 5, 2018, 03:16 PM
Oct 2018

By that, I mean, no physical damage or violation...nor any lasting psych damage, unless you count an extra measure of disgust for her to carry around.

That being said....she recounted the most serious of the incidents to me, and while this particular one was not The Worst, it was probably the most shocking to me.

When she was about to leave high school, she looked into a career in the military. Apparently, the recruiter had a very bizarre idea of his relationship with potential recruits. He even showed up at her family home.

The upshot was that she never did sign on the bottom line (partially because she wondered just how bad it might get when she had already enlisted and there was no "walking away&quot and her mother raised such a fuss that the schools in the area uninvited military recruiters entirely.

Other than that situation, there were at least a dozen others with various degrees of awful. So, yeah. PLENTY of scum out there.

pangaia

(24,324 posts)
10. Where have I been all my 74 years?
Fri Oct 5, 2018, 03:22 PM
Oct 2018


These are the same guys who when they have sex, just pump as fast as they can. and .. you know the rest.... roll off... forget there is another human being....

Blechk.............

The only person I ever hit was a guy going after my little sister.. I was maybe 12 and she was 8. I got him on the ground, sitting on him, and punched him in the face several times..bloody nose and all... He never laid a hand on her again.





renate

(13,776 posts)
11. It's incredibly helpful to see things like this in times like this
Fri Oct 5, 2018, 03:27 PM
Oct 2018

Thank you!

And so much love and appreciation to these men!!!!

Response to demmiblue (Original post)

FakeNoose

(32,645 posts)
20. This makes me proud
Fri Oct 5, 2018, 04:03 PM
Oct 2018

I wonder how many of these guys are standing there because it happened to one of their sisters, or daughters, or someone in their family. Usually men don't "get it" until it hits them at home.

But these men are heroes today. Thank you!

BigmanPigman

(51,611 posts)
21. Those are REAL men. Those who abuse women are pathetic losers and they know it.
Fri Oct 5, 2018, 04:11 PM
Oct 2018

Men who harm women know they are shitty human beings so to make themselves feel better and more manly, they have to harm someone weaker. The fucking moron is a bully and that is why all these other losers love him so. A 5 year old girl is more of a man than all these pseudo men/bullies put together.

Danascot

(4,690 posts)
22. I wish so much I could have joined them
Fri Oct 5, 2018, 04:47 PM
Oct 2018

I'd be there in a heartbeat. If anyone hears of future mens events, please post them here on DU.

But I'm also hoping to participate in mixed gender events. I hope this issue will stay white hot until the GOP is ground to dust and men learn that women must be treated with respect.

DesertRat

(27,995 posts)
25. This is the first time I've teared up through this whole mess
Fri Oct 5, 2018, 04:57 PM
Oct 2018

I've been angry, disgusted and disheartened. But these strong allies standing up for survivors really moved me and gave me some hope for the future.

Thank you to each of them.

27. Concentration Camps
Fri Oct 5, 2018, 05:08 PM
Oct 2018

Donald Trump is Having Feds Build ‘Concentration Camp’ Detention Centers. Why?

We’ve all been outraged over the fact that Donald Trump has moved full-steam ahead on his Muslim immigration ban and seperating kids from their parents. If you thought that was bad, then wait ‘til you hear what the Orange Tyrant is doing now.

Donald Trump is now setting his sights on punishing undocumented immigrants and political dissenters in America. Shockingly, Trump just signed a directive to create new camps — concentration camps — where such immigrants and those with differing opinions will be held for deportation or worse.

Anyone else heard of this? I am really scared. Please tell me this isn't true.
If true we have to band together as a hole.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
28. I've said it before. I'll say it again: The Dem Party has the best men!!!!
Fri Oct 5, 2018, 05:24 PM
Oct 2018

Thank you, men! I think probably at times it's been rough for you, hearing all the talk.

llmart

(15,540 posts)
35. This is very heartening for me...
Fri Oct 5, 2018, 09:51 PM
Oct 2018

to see men come forward and stand up for women. There are so many men here on DU that have spoken so eloquently on behalf of women and that has given me hope too. I am an older woman now and any decisions made in the near future by a Supreme Court that is NOT impartial, will not affect me. But having said that, I still fight for those principles that I have always held to be my truth. There are just some things that I will not compromise on and being truthful is at the top of my list. The fact that a prospective judge lies under oath is enough to show me that he has no business being on any court.

Trump and Kavanaugh are both liars and reprehensible men. There is no doubt about it. How any female Senator can rationalize supporting the two of them is beyond me.

Fuck Susan Collins for not having a moral compass and for selling out. She is a disgrace.

37. Gender assumptions aside, I too am heartened by this
Fri Oct 5, 2018, 11:23 PM
Oct 2018

It's sad that their point is clouded by their gender specificity faux pas.

orleans

(34,060 posts)
38. i'd like to see it--just not tonight or tomorrow
Fri Oct 5, 2018, 11:24 PM
Oct 2018

or probably this whole fu*king weekend

i'm in a weird space right now.

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