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(9,527 posts)BobTheSubgenius
(11,564 posts)or feel compelled - however tacitly or blatantly - to "No, I'm fine. Nothing happened."
I am NOT being flippant or dismissive of either your post, or, God forbid, the issue itself. No offense intended at all.
mythology
(9,527 posts)Thanks for making me aware of it. Keep that up, and you'll need to drop the sub in front of that genius.
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)This restores my faith in mankind. I applaud them for standing up for women. I wish they did not have to get arrested and I would like to see more lawful protests of this type led by men.
gademocrat7
(10,660 posts)mcar
(42,334 posts)lunamagica
(9,967 posts)Last edited Sat Oct 6, 2018, 12:58 PM - Edit history (1)
pangaia
(24,324 posts)I've been a man(or boy) my entire life. 74+ years worth.
I could NEVER imagine treating girls or women they way some do.
Given that... WHY, Oh WHY should it be necessary for men to actually have to say they support and believe women about.. ANYTHING?
It just boggles my mind.... that this should even have to happen.
On the one side these guys are just normal human beings. no big deal.
On the other side, they are heroes in a sick society...
I guess there are more sick men than I ever thought....
BobTheSubgenius
(11,564 posts)By that, I mean, no physical damage or violation...nor any lasting psych damage, unless you count an extra measure of disgust for her to carry around.
That being said....she recounted the most serious of the incidents to me, and while this particular one was not The Worst, it was probably the most shocking to me.
When she was about to leave high school, she looked into a career in the military. Apparently, the recruiter had a very bizarre idea of his relationship with potential recruits. He even showed up at her family home.
The upshot was that she never did sign on the bottom line (partially because she wondered just how bad it might get when she had already enlisted and there was no "walking away" and her mother raised such a fuss that the schools in the area uninvited military recruiters entirely.
Other than that situation, there were at least a dozen others with various degrees of awful. So, yeah. PLENTY of scum out there.
pangaia
(24,324 posts)These are the same guys who when they have sex, just pump as fast as they can. and .. you know the rest.... roll off... forget there is another human being....
Blechk.............
The only person I ever hit was a guy going after my little sister.. I was maybe 12 and she was 8. I got him on the ground, sitting on him, and punched him in the face several times..bloody nose and all... He never laid a hand on her again.
SergeStorms
(19,204 posts)We have to do it because there are Republicans in the world.
pangaia
(24,324 posts)kag
(4,079 posts)Short, and to the point.
malthaussen
(17,204 posts)Cher
barbtries
(28,799 posts)gawd i hate republicans, and love these men.
renate
(13,776 posts)Thank you!
And so much love and appreciation to these men!!!!
whathehell
(29,067 posts)bdamomma
(63,877 posts)I knew there were a few/several/many good men out there to stand up for us.
LoisB
(7,206 posts)Response to demmiblue (Original post)
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dlk
(11,569 posts)Squinch
(50,955 posts)Hassler
(3,379 posts)FakeNoose
(32,645 posts)I wonder how many of these guys are standing there because it happened to one of their sisters, or daughters, or someone in their family. Usually men don't "get it" until it hits them at home.
But these men are heroes today. Thank you!
BigmanPigman
(51,611 posts)Men who harm women know they are shitty human beings so to make themselves feel better and more manly, they have to harm someone weaker. The fucking moron is a bully and that is why all these other losers love him so. A 5 year old girl is more of a man than all these pseudo men/bullies put together.
Danascot
(4,690 posts)I'd be there in a heartbeat. If anyone hears of future mens events, please post them here on DU.
But I'm also hoping to participate in mixed gender events. I hope this issue will stay white hot until the GOP is ground to dust and men learn that women must be treated with respect.
Silver Gaia
(4,544 posts)I cried, too. Oh, and retweeted.
cp
(6,636 posts)This really touched me. Brave and beautiful.
DesertRat
(27,995 posts)I've been angry, disgusted and disheartened. But these strong allies standing up for survivors really moved me and gave me some hope for the future.
Thank you to each of them.
Johnnycomelately
(2 posts)Donald Trump is Having Feds Build Concentration Camp Detention Centers. Why?
Weve all been outraged over the fact that Donald Trump has moved full-steam ahead on his Muslim immigration ban and seperating kids from their parents. If you thought that was bad, then wait til you hear what the Orange Tyrant is doing now.
Donald Trump is now setting his sights on punishing undocumented immigrants and political dissenters in America. Shockingly, Trump just signed a directive to create new camps concentration camps where such immigrants and those with differing opinions will be held for deportation or worse.
Anyone else heard of this? I am really scared. Please tell me this isn't true.
If true we have to band together as a hole.
GP6971
(31,168 posts)what to do with the topic of the thread?
Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)Thank you, men! I think probably at times it's been rough for you, hearing all the talk.
NastyRiffraff
(12,448 posts)I was in a pretty dark place this afternoon. Thanks for posting that!
Akacia
(583 posts)This has me so emotional right now!
demmiblue
(36,865 posts)Haggis for Breakfast
(6,831 posts)I want to send him thank you letter.
llmart
(15,540 posts)to see men come forward and stand up for women. There are so many men here on DU that have spoken so eloquently on behalf of women and that has given me hope too. I am an older woman now and any decisions made in the near future by a Supreme Court that is NOT impartial, will not affect me. But having said that, I still fight for those principles that I have always held to be my truth. There are just some things that I will not compromise on and being truthful is at the top of my list. The fact that a prospective judge lies under oath is enough to show me that he has no business being on any court.
Trump and Kavanaugh are both liars and reprehensible men. There is no doubt about it. How any female Senator can rationalize supporting the two of them is beyond me.
Fuck Susan Collins for not having a moral compass and for selling out. She is a disgrace.
Lifelong MA liberal
(12 posts)It's sad that their point is clouded by their gender specificity faux pas.
orleans
(34,060 posts)or probably this whole fu*king weekend
i'm in a weird space right now.