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"Merry Christmas. I am so glad I can start saying that again" (Original Post) Demovictory9 Nov 2018 OP
I'm guessing she's too stupid SoCalNative Nov 2018 #1
Heard the same Wellstone ruled Nov 2018 #12
good job! rurallib Nov 2018 #14
Heard that Wellstone ruled Nov 2018 #16
! rurallib Nov 2018 #19
I would have returned that with, "Happy Holidays!" hlthe2b Nov 2018 #2
I almost did. I stammered. "Thanks" Demovictory9 Nov 2018 #3
Because saying it June will get you sent for evaluation? NightWatcher Nov 2018 #4
Should have said - "you're a cashier - you can say whatever the fuck you want hexola Nov 2018 #5
How about this as a response matt819 Nov 2018 #6
About every other time I check out at COSTCO SCantiGOP Nov 2018 #33
A cashier at a small beauty store once asked me where I go to church, out of nowhere. lindysalsagal Nov 2018 #47
In 1970 in Georgia, that would be the first question asked MaryMagdaline Nov 2018 #62
A Jewish family from my Southern Calif. neighborhood LibDemAlways Nov 2018 #75
Uggh. I guess nothing has changed MaryMagdaline Nov 2018 #80
Years ago, someone here suggested we answer.."and may the force be with you".." Tikki Nov 2018 #59
I actually do "Live long and prosper" dhol82 Nov 2018 #61
Perfect... Tikki Nov 2018 #63
Love your sig! dhol82 Nov 2018 #64
I used to like saying Merry Christmas when it was appropriate. Girard442 Nov 2018 #7
I agree. I'm the same way. Aristus Nov 2018 #10
Right there with you! InAbLuEsTaTe Nov 2018 #27
So true Va Lefty Nov 2018 #53
It was never appropriate to say it in November. nt. Mariana Nov 2018 #24
same here. rownesheck Nov 2018 #45
Ain't that the truth?! I feel the same way. Ohiogal Nov 2018 #54
Could have said ismnotwasm Nov 2018 #8
Why would you look forward to a month of fasting? oberliner Nov 2018 #13
Maybe Eid al Fitr? ProudLib72 Nov 2018 #20
You need to do some reading. ismnotwasm Nov 2018 #40
You fast from dawn to sunset jmowreader Nov 2018 #41
Doesn't the fast just get observed during the day? Blue_true Nov 2018 #44
More like a month of feasts grantcart Nov 2018 #46
Sounds like the start of a serious eating disorder: It goes on for weeks, annually. Yikes!!! lindysalsagal Nov 2018 #48
Ramadan already happened. It's not a December holiday. EllieBC Nov 2018 #30
"Look forward to" ismnotwasm Nov 2018 #39
It's not until May 5th Polybius Nov 2018 #68
Perhaps they were just happy that the Holiday Season is upon us again . . . Journeyman Nov 2018 #9
Perhaps, but it's not very likely that was the motivation. nt. Mariana Nov 2018 #69
"When couldn't you say it?" or "Someone was stopping you?" n/t pnwmom Nov 2018 #11
You must have missed the memo... Ferrets are Cool Nov 2018 #15
Tell her that Obama said it frequently. Initech Nov 2018 #17
Those poor tortured Christians living Taliban lives in sunny California Mr. Ected Nov 2018 #18
Maybe she got punched in the mouth for saying it ProudLib72 Nov 2018 #21
Who was ever stopping them? smirkymonkey Nov 2018 #22
That would have been the best comeback. LibDemAlways Nov 2018 #77
It isn't even December yet. Mariana Nov 2018 #23
Merry Winter Solstice, yortsed snacilbuper Nov 2018 #25
I said Happy Solstice in response to a Merry Christmas the other day! 50 Shades Of Blue Nov 2018 #26
The Blitzkrieg on Advent. tanyev Nov 2018 #28
Ok but it's not like anyone could NOT say that before. And I say this as someone who EllieBC Nov 2018 #29
My, she seems to have won an imaginary battle in an imaginary war The Genealogist Nov 2018 #31
Guns were confiscated, couldn't say Merry Christmas, Birtherism...nuttier than squirrel shit. Garrett78 Nov 2018 #32
We may outnumber them, but we must outVOTE them! Beartracks Nov 2018 #58
Yes. I mean to say we must outnumber them at the polls. Garrett78 Nov 2018 #67
"Victory has been declared in the perceived war on Christmas." Different Drummer Nov 2018 #34
I'm not waiting for that moron to give me permission for a damned thing. lindysalsagal Nov 2018 #49
Season's Greetings. Happy Holidays. Joyous Festivus. Scintillating Solstice. Iggo Nov 2018 #35
And, a Happy Festivus for the rest of us. GoCubsGo Nov 2018 #38
Who the hell told you you couldn't say it in the first place. I PITY the next rumper or racist or UniteFightBack Nov 2018 #36
these people sure love the sense of victimhood JI7 Nov 2018 #37
I would have said something to the effect of MurrayDelph Nov 2018 #42
You should have said that she could always say "Merry Christmas". nt Blue_true Nov 2018 #43
You say: cjjason Nov 2018 #50
just say 'Bless your heart' samnsara Nov 2018 #51
That's a good response. Polite and to the point. nt. Mariana Nov 2018 #74
Here's what to say. sharedvalues Nov 2018 #52
+1 sandensea Nov 2018 #56
So sad, all those sweet "Merry Christmas" greetings that were met with vicious beatings and tear gas VOX Nov 2018 #55
Bah! Humbug! betsuni Nov 2018 #57
I always respond with... Xolodno Nov 2018 #60
You could tell her to wait until Christmas to say Merry Christmas... k8conant Nov 2018 #65
Yeah, they used to at least wait until December. Mariana Nov 2018 #72
I usually say something like, "yeah, I love the whole idea of Santa Claus stopbush Nov 2018 #66
i live in So Cal and deal with public all the time and have said it every year JI7 Nov 2018 #70
Do you say it in November? Mariana Nov 2018 #73
nope, usually close to christmas when other people say it to me JI7 Nov 2018 #76
This thread tells us that some people ARE saying it right now. Mariana Nov 2018 #81
Apparently they don't know that the word HOLIDAY Raine Nov 2018 #85
My Standard Response ChoppinBroccoli Nov 2018 #71
I debunked the "Merry Christmas" ban claim two years ago. raging moderate Nov 2018 #78
Any greeting is OK with me at140 Nov 2018 #79
Same with me Raine Nov 2018 #84
You are obviously a good person! at140 Nov 2018 #86
You too Raine Nov 2018 #88
You should have simlpy asked them... ConnorMarc Nov 2018 #82
"Will Santa bring me a pony?" LeftInTX Nov 2018 #83
I got a big, loud "Merry Christmas' last year from a clerk when I walked in the door mnhtnbb Nov 2018 #87
I would have said: Dorian Gray Nov 2018 #89

SoCalNative

(4,613 posts)
1. I'm guessing she's too stupid
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 03:56 PM
Nov 2018

to realize that no one was ever preventing her from saying it.

And I'd take it that she's an ignorant Trumphumper.

 

Wellstone ruled

(34,661 posts)
12. Heard the same
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 04:39 PM
Nov 2018

last year about the same time. The Cashier was bragging about it because Trump got elected. Asked the Lady if she was a Member of the Retail Clerks,yes she said,reminded her how your job at Union Pa y Scale was under attack by the Rethugs,her response was,don't know about that.

Folks,you can not fix Stupid. And yes she is still Employed at Union Scale yet today. Every time I see her I remind her that her Union still has her back and now that we have Two Democratic Senators,look for more good things to come,and btw,Sharon Angle still sucks. That's another story.

rurallib

(62,426 posts)
14. good job!
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 04:47 PM
Nov 2018

Wonder what she thought was going to happen before if she said "Merry Christmas"? Was some George Sorors shaped spook going to strike her down?

Demovictory9

(32,457 posts)
3. I almost did. I stammered. "Thanks"
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 03:59 PM
Nov 2018

I think I I disappointed her by not giving a wink and nod to her maybe pro trump comment

 

hexola

(4,835 posts)
5. Should have said - "you're a cashier - you can say whatever the fuck you want
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 04:04 PM
Nov 2018

But if you're a school teacher in a public school - we'll have to talk"

Typifies the rights misunderstanding of "political correctness"

matt819

(10,749 posts)
6. How about this as a response
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 04:09 PM
Nov 2018

"No one was ever preventing you from saying Merry Christmas. However, you should know that since I am (fill in the blank - atheist, Hindu, Buddhist, Jewish, Muslim, etc.), I don't observe Christmas. I do hope, however, that you have a merry Christmas."

SCantiGOP

(13,871 posts)
33. About every other time I check out at COSTCO
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 05:57 PM
Nov 2018

The person who checks the cart at the door ends with “Have a blessed day.”
I politely but firmly say, “I am not religious and would appreciate it if you do not attempt to impose your religious beliefs on me.”
They are usually standing there perplexed as I walk away and leave them with a cheery “Have a nice day.”

lindysalsagal

(20,692 posts)
47. A cashier at a small beauty store once asked me where I go to church, out of nowhere.
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 09:01 PM
Nov 2018

I told her she's in a cult, and must learn to think for herself, because they'll never come through with any of the promises they've made to her.

Hey-she started it!

LibDemAlways

(15,139 posts)
75. A Jewish family from my Southern Calif. neighborhood
Mon Nov 26, 2018, 01:07 AM
Nov 2018

moved to South Carolina a few years back because of a job transfer. They no sooner moved into their new home when a parade of neighbors appeared bearing baked goods and opening with the question, "So, what church will you be attending?"

The family returned to So. Cal. not long after.

Tikki

(14,557 posts)
59. Years ago, someone here suggested we answer.."and may the force be with you".."
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 11:04 PM
Nov 2018

when someone says.."have a blessed" day or whatever.

I always say that, now. I don't believe it is disrespectful at all.
Just something to say...like they are just saying something to me.


Tikki

Girard442

(6,081 posts)
7. I used to like saying Merry Christmas when it was appropriate.
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 04:20 PM
Nov 2018

I used to like singing the national anthem at ball games too. Now it all just feels ruined.

Aristus

(66,393 posts)
10. I agree. I'm the same way.
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 04:26 PM
Nov 2018

Right-wing nationalism and religious fanaticism have ruined so many things...

Va Lefty

(6,252 posts)
53. So true
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 10:49 PM
Nov 2018

Used to love watching the lighting of the National Christmas Tree and watching the Army-Navy football game. I'll be skipping both this year

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
44. Doesn't the fast just get observed during the day?
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 08:47 PM
Nov 2018

At night, I understood that people ate. Is my understanding wrong?

grantcart

(53,061 posts)
46. More like a month of feasts
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 08:58 PM
Nov 2018

The family gathers for a big pre sunrise breakfast and doesn't eat until sunset when it gathers for a Thanksgiving style feast.

Also an important part of Ramadan is to focus on not doing bad acts and contributing 2.4% of your income to the poor.


lindysalsagal

(20,692 posts)
48. Sounds like the start of a serious eating disorder: It goes on for weeks, annually. Yikes!!!
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 09:03 PM
Nov 2018

As if there were some imaginary invisible man in the sky who gave one shit.

EllieBC

(3,016 posts)
30. Ramadan already happened. It's not a December holiday.
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 05:45 PM
Nov 2018

It sometimes is but not always or not even usually.

Journeyman

(15,036 posts)
9. Perhaps they were just happy that the Holiday Season is upon us again . . .
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 04:24 PM
Nov 2018

Peace on Earth, Goodwill to All -- that sort of thing . . .

Ferrets are Cool

(21,107 posts)
15. You must have missed the memo...
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 04:51 PM
Nov 2018

Our last real President, Mr Obama signed a law making it illegal, punishable by death, to utter the two words "Merry Christmas" in conjunction.

Mr. Ected

(9,670 posts)
18. Those poor tortured Christians living Taliban lives in sunny California
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 05:05 PM
Nov 2018

How DID they cope?

...and when exactly did they have to cope?

ProudLib72

(17,984 posts)
21. Maybe she got punched in the mouth for saying it
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 05:12 PM
Nov 2018

and now the swelling has gone down to the point where she can start saying it again?

Otherwise, this makes no sense.

LibDemAlways

(15,139 posts)
77. That would have been the best comeback.
Mon Nov 26, 2018, 01:11 AM
Nov 2018

"Really? You couldn't say 'Merry Christmas.' Who was stopping you?"

EllieBC

(3,016 posts)
29. Ok but it's not like anyone could NOT say that before. And I say this as someone who
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 05:44 PM
Nov 2018

is a fairly observant Jew. If you want to wish me a Merry Christmas that's fine. I won't melt. Trust me, I have bigger fish to fry.

It's always been ok to say that. It was a lie made up by the right that people were offended.

Garrett78

(10,721 posts)
32. Guns were confiscated, couldn't say Merry Christmas, Birtherism...nuttier than squirrel shit.
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 05:53 PM
Nov 2018

All we can do is outnumber these idiots. Fight voter suppression, fight gerrymandering, organize around anti-racism and anti-sexism, do more to combat an equivocating/ratings-driven media, and turn out in big numbers at the polls.

There is no compromising with or reaching out to Nazi-sympathizing morons.

Garrett78

(10,721 posts)
67. Yes. I mean to say we must outnumber them at the polls.
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 11:57 PM
Nov 2018

Media and education reform is key to defeating this nonsense. We've been on the defensive for decades, as the Republican Party has very effectively made "liberal media" a household term. We need to hit back by talking about media consolidation, the penchant for false equivalencies, this notion that fact-checking isn't the job of journalists, etc. Keep labeling Fox News as propaganda and GOP TV.

And we should demand that media literacy be mandatory curriculum in every school. Kids need to learn how to distinguish between fact and fiction. They need to understand how to verify, check sources, to not believe everything they read on social media, etc.

Lastly, when Democrats are on TV or on the floor of Congress, speak bluntly about the stats mentioned in this article. Talk openly about how dangerously absurd it is that so many people believe utter nonsense. Make it embarrassing for people in hopes that fewer people will join their ranks.

lindysalsagal

(20,692 posts)
49. I'm not waiting for that moron to give me permission for a damned thing.
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 09:05 PM
Nov 2018

I didn't before he was potus and I won't during, or after.

Iggo

(47,558 posts)
35. Season's Greetings. Happy Holidays. Joyous Festivus. Scintillating Solstice.
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 07:03 PM
Nov 2018

Happy Federal Holiday is a good one.

Good Yule, Happy Saturnalia, Happy New Year.

I got a whole quiver full, as they like to say.

 

UniteFightBack

(8,231 posts)
36. Who the hell told you you couldn't say it in the first place. I PITY the next rumper or racist or
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 07:12 PM
Nov 2018

dumbass I run into...PITY THEM.

MurrayDelph

(5,299 posts)
42. I would have said something to the effect of
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 08:38 PM
Nov 2018

"Yeah, now that Thanksgiving is over. I really hate when people say it too soon."

sharedvalues

(6,916 posts)
52. Here's what to say.
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 10:49 PM
Nov 2018

“Oh, do you listen to Fox or rightwing radio?

You poor, sad, sucker. You know that whole Christmas stuff is just to distract you while rightwing billionaires fleece you, right? Republicans just put $2 TRILLION on a credit card and gave it to their billionaire donors. You just put $20k on a credit card, and you don’t get the money— Republican billionaires get the money.
And you’re worried about some people somewhere saying “Happy Holidays”? You sucker. Rupert Murdoch has you exactly where he wants you- he’s laughing at people like you.
Sucker.”

VOX

(22,976 posts)
55. So sad, all those sweet "Merry Christmas" greetings that were met with vicious beatings and tear gas
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 10:53 PM
Nov 2018

Back when the War on Christmas raged through the streets of America. Thankfully, God-Trump has made it safe to say again, without fear of reprisals. Just like he completely destroyed North Korea's nuclear threat.

Xolodno

(6,395 posts)
60. I always respond with...
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 11:06 PM
Nov 2018

..."Happy Hanukkah"

The look on their faces....priceless.

But not only that, they remember me and don't say Merry Christmas to me.

Mariana

(14,858 posts)
72. Yeah, they used to at least wait until December.
Mon Nov 26, 2018, 01:03 AM
Nov 2018

In a couple more years they'll be starting this crap the day after Halloween.

stopbush

(24,396 posts)
66. I usually say something like, "yeah, I love the whole idea of Santa Claus
Sun Nov 25, 2018, 11:52 PM
Nov 2018

“And all the other Christmas traditions, like The Grinch, the Griswolds, A Christmas Story. You know, Christmas.”

If they say “what about the birth of Jesus?” I say, “that’s make believe that has nothing to do with the way I celebrate the holiday.”

Mariana

(14,858 posts)
73. Do you say it in November?
Mon Nov 26, 2018, 01:05 AM
Nov 2018

Does anyone really want to hear folks say Merry Christmas every time they go out for a whole month?

JI7

(89,252 posts)
76. nope, usually close to christmas when other people say it to me
Mon Nov 26, 2018, 01:09 AM
Nov 2018

i will respond back with merry christmas, happy holidays, or anything else.

but nobody says it right now. people said happy thanksgiving about a week or so before and i would respond the same way.

Mariana

(14,858 posts)
81. This thread tells us that some people ARE saying it right now.
Mon Nov 26, 2018, 02:06 AM
Nov 2018

I know a few of my RW Christian relatives were starting their "It's Merry CHRISTmas!!! Not Happy Holidays!!!" BS on Facebook and via e-mail before November was half over. I bet they're snarling Merry CHRISTmas!!! at complete strangers already.

I think the RW Christians are rattled that we won the House, and that's why some of them have started up a bit early.

Raine

(30,540 posts)
85. Apparently they don't know that the word HOLIDAY
Mon Nov 26, 2018, 04:45 AM
Nov 2018

actually comes from the words ... HOLY DAY. I found lots of RW Christains are ignorant of this they need to read up before mouthing off!

raging moderate

(4,306 posts)
78. I debunked the "Merry Christmas" ban claim two years ago.
Mon Nov 26, 2018, 01:16 AM
Nov 2018

Somebody at my church made this claim in a discussion group. So I went out and interviewed ten store employees at Walmart, Kmart, Target, and Giant Eagle. NONE of the store employees said they had been forbidden to say "Merry Christmas." I asked them about it directly; they all said NO. They all said they were saying "Happy Holidays" because it would cover every customer with no problems, and they were too busy to stop and figure out what each customer would want. This included some self-declared Republicans.

"Happy Holidays" was a wonderful and very popular song, during the 1950s, recorded by Steve Lawrence and Eydie Gorme, a very popular husband@wife entertainer duo, which was played incessantly in stores during my childhood and youth in the fifties, sixties, and seventies. The current furor is manufactured for political purposes.

at140

(6,110 posts)
79. Any greeting is OK with me
Mon Nov 26, 2018, 01:27 AM
Nov 2018

So long as the person is sincere. I always reply the same greeting given to me. I am non-religious, and none of the greetings offend me

Raine

(30,540 posts)
84. Same with me
Mon Nov 26, 2018, 04:32 AM
Nov 2018

I have enough to worry about then a friendly greeting I get from someone. I'm just happy to get a nice greeting and I return it in the same way.

 

ConnorMarc

(653 posts)
82. You should have simlpy asked them...
Mon Nov 26, 2018, 02:45 AM
Nov 2018

"Who do you think was stopping you from saying that before?'

We need to always be ready to reply to these rightwing nonsense.

And I'm a Christian.

LeftInTX

(25,384 posts)
83. "Will Santa bring me a pony?"
Mon Nov 26, 2018, 03:04 AM
Nov 2018

Or something like that since that what most people associate with Merry Christmas.

Or you could have been cocky and asked,

"And what will you be doing for me that will make my Christmas Merry?"

Or

"What will you buy me that will make my Christmas Merry?"

mnhtnbb

(31,395 posts)
87. I got a big, loud "Merry Christmas' last year from a clerk when I walked in the door
Mon Nov 26, 2018, 09:05 PM
Nov 2018

of a grocery store in a very red--Trumpy--beach town here in NC. County voted about 65-70% Trump. It happened to be the first day of Hanukkah, so I replied, "Happy Hanukkah". The guy looked at me like I was from outer space. I had a good chuckle.



Dorian Gray

(13,496 posts)
89. I would have said:
Mon Nov 26, 2018, 09:52 PM
Nov 2018

"Because it's after Thanksgiving? It's still early! I'd at least wait until Advent starts!"

And then if cashier said: "No bc Trump is winning the war on Christmas" or some such nonsense, I would have replied "Oh. That seems overblown."

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