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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsDU doesn't need fewer regular posters in GD.
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It needs more. Every time we lose a regular, long-time contributor, it diminishes the value of the site to its readers. Content is everything! The more engaging content there is, the more people come and stay.
That is the essential formula that keeps sites alive and growing. Content is my business. Its value, particularly in attracting and retaining visitors, cannot be over-stated. We should not be driving away people who contribute excellent, non-offensive content here.
I'm just saying...
TexasTowelie
(112,204 posts)MineralMan
(146,312 posts)TexasTowelie
(112,204 posts)I hope that your OP and the replies in this thread aren't alerted for interfering with forum moderation.
Jeffersons Ghost
(15,235 posts)saidsimplesimon
(7,888 posts)before signing up. I compliment the management and members for being alert to the voices of chaos, foreign intervention and alt-right trolls.
I enjoy writing long essays but understand this is not the forum.
frogmarch
(12,153 posts)What the hell is going on?
Andy823
(11,495 posts)We are getting a lot of new "trolls",and even some old trolls are coming back!
tavernier
(12,389 posts)and its fun to listen to their wingnut posts, camaflouged in wide eyed innocence. Seriously, most think that we are not on to them, lol. They really do give us a good laugh, these Boris and Natasha spies.
Andy823
(11,495 posts)I see some of the old "doom and gloom" posters and "hair on fire" posters from the old days when they were basing Obama almost everyday, who have returned from that "other site" where they fled to escape the "PURGE" from DU. I agree they still give me a good laugh also.
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efhmc
(14,726 posts)nt
George II
(67,782 posts)R B Garr
(16,954 posts)Andy823
(11,495 posts)I also recall a lot of "stalking" being done by the same group here trying to get hides on anyone who dared to disagree with their fearless leader Manny. The only two hides I ever received where for questioning Manny on things he had said.
Just to make it clear Manny is an ex poster not current, and was banned.
redstatebluegirl
(12,265 posts)malaise
(269,004 posts)+1,000
lunatica
(53,410 posts)So I may not be here much longer, and Im far from being a long time or popular contributor. But Im also not all that offensive as far as I know.
Maybe this will be the post that does me in. Im sure somebody can find it offensive.
MineralMan
(146,312 posts)Just take care and you'll be OK.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)I almost always agree with you, and when I dont its just in minor details. You are quite valuable!
WhiteTara
(29,715 posts)I look for your posts. Stay safe; the internet is a dirty world!
lunatica
(53,410 posts)Squinch
(50,949 posts)Mike Rows His Boat
(389 posts)There were certain factions ganging up on supporters of bernies primary opponent and alerting then jurying them out. Was like a shooting gallery here. Every day several good Dem DUers were gone. This place has never recovered imo. We used to have strong spirited debates w/o the overzealous aggrievment.
I come here to read news now. Not to interact in debate.
Sad.
Squinch
(50,949 posts)be one warning away from being banned.
Mosby
(16,312 posts)He's gone now.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)Maybe they lifted the sword of Damocles threat! Is that possible? I have tried to behave!
Squinch
(50,949 posts)Mosby
(16,312 posts)That's not what your record says.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)But in the second warning I was informed that one more time and I would be banned. There was the chance to plead my case which I took but my post was ignored. I never received any information on whether it was even read.
Cha
(297,240 posts)'cause I checked your profile and you're at 100% Good.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)90 days or so if no more infractions are accrued. I didnt think that much time had elapsed but maybe it did.
Codeine
(25,586 posts)Almost all my hides were for calling someone out for blog-pimping. The horror!!
Mike Rows His Boat
(389 posts)If one cant express oneself thoughtfully and in fear of being banned by somes peculiar butthurt, then theres no point to coming to DU to flesh out a topic with debate and evidence if youre going to get juried out of here.
Thats why I only come here to read news - I dont come here to debate or discuss any more.
Mosby
(16,312 posts)I have gotten more than my share of hides, and I stand by every one, lol.
Codeine
(25,586 posts)so I guess theyre finally falling off.
I stand by all of mine as well. I hate blogpimps.
Actually I take that back. I was a dick to MineralMan once I think I misread his tone or something. That was a fair hide.
MuseRider
(34,109 posts)Ya know, I have known you around here for a very long time and I do not remember you ever being any kind of a problem. Unless someone is relentless to kill others thoughts I rarely notice if I agree or disagree. That would not be a good thing to lose you too.
Those posters who make it impossible to talk, discuss agreements and/or differences without being pigs about it could go and I would be OK with that. I cannot say who they are anymore since I hid most of them. I do not recognize you among them. Really? Hmmmm.
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TheBlackAdder
(28,201 posts)USALiberal
(10,877 posts)MineralMan
(146,312 posts)I just keep posting.
question everything
(47,479 posts)it was well received until... was alerted and hidden.
(who knows this may be, too)
MuseRider
(34,109 posts)Sometimes I think I am being a horrible stinker (the reason I have hidden those I simply cannot deal with) but I have never been warned about being alerted on. I guess my version of stinker is not anyone elses version of stinker.
MineralMan
(146,312 posts)Over time, I have begun to realize how often it occurs. It's of no real concern to me, though. I almost never write anything that gets a post removed. I'm careful about that.
MuseRider
(34,109 posts)If we really were allowed to discuss here many of us would be gone. I tried JPR. I did not hate it but I did not like the way the forums worked. I just never went back to post. I have read there and really do not understand the things people here say they are those who hated those people and still cannot leave it alone and let them be. They have the right but I am off the point now.
Thanks!
TexasTowelie
(112,204 posts)Will the thread be locked?
redstatebluegirl
(12,265 posts)I started reading DU over 10 years ago, almost half of the people I read regularly have left. It does leave a void.
earthside
(6,960 posts)I started at DU in 2003.
Posted often for thirteen years.
But this is the first thing I've written here since mid-2016.
Since one cannot really offer incisive or even constructive critiques of the Democratic Party or establishment candidates here anymore without being Alerted or threatened with being barred ... what is the point?
I look occasionally and saw this thread and this post: I'm one of those that has basically left.
Too bad. DU used to be wild and woolly and civil up until 2016 and the Hillary candidacy -- a pity.
defacto7
(13,485 posts)I guess that's the desired effect and I guess that makes me a wimp of sorts. But challenging and being challenged with some measure of dignity is what makes us better. What does that say about present conditions?
winstars
(4,220 posts)SoCalDem
(103,856 posts)I rarely post these days.. I used to spend/waste?? hours every day conversing with peers.. but it's not a comfy fit lately..
Blue_Adept
(6,399 posts)I got on here from almost the start as I was doing coding on the same forum software for my own site and interacted with the folks on that a lot for customization.
Been here all these years. This past year has had me just skimming it a couple of times a week at best.
Something is very... off.
realmirage
(2,117 posts)Would be very sad if it went that way. Would definitely be its demise.
Andy823
(11,495 posts)JPR, right?
realmirage
(2,117 posts)it than I do. Im not a member there. But people seem to bring that place up to a strangely obsessive degree. I dont even think about it.
Jim Lane
(11,175 posts)As for "authoritarian", it's not clear-cut, but I'd say that DU is somewhat more so. For me to present my reasoning in defense of that conclusion would arguably violate the ToS and thus (rather ironically) get the post removed. Therefore, I'll have to state my conclusion but, with apologies, decline to defend it.
fescuerescue
(4,448 posts)Left or right, we tend to like to hear our ideas echoed back to us.
Jim Lane
(11,175 posts)DU in 2015-16 was more diverse than either DU or JPR is today.
R B Garr
(16,954 posts)regular news so they could continue with the conspiracies. Russia is only one aspect of that pact they make -- not discussing Russia so they can continue their fake news. There is no defending it, just observing.
It's certainly not "authoritarian" to reject conspiracy theories and all the BS that comes along with them.
Mike Rows His Boat
(389 posts)... any appeal to no avail.
Ridiculous place then. Near useless for debate now.
Sad
R B Garr
(16,954 posts)trying to start up the engines on perceived Democratic competition. And the name calling...I was called a corporatist the other day -- and the third way mumbo jumbo again, yikes.
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)R B Garr
(16,954 posts)Like threads declaring that only one man has Democratic values and everyone else is a corporatist third way blah blah blah
realmirage
(2,117 posts)denbot
(9,899 posts)Too many have been goaded into flameouts, the ones who dont self immolate leave.
I feel the hit or miss jury system is the biggest factor.
We need to bring back the granite cookies, and combine the current MIRT system to weed out the edge walking trolls.
And yes, it is up to all of us to try and contribute quality content to GD, and the other forums to keep this place open to those who follow.
JonLP24
(29,322 posts)I hold back here.
Either way there are a lot of posters that were the reason I visited the site are no longer here.
dalton99a
(81,510 posts)His demise was also interesting
denbot
(9,899 posts)I dont recall his flame out. For some reason I was surprised to learn he got the cookie.
brush
(53,778 posts)The elicited lively debates both pro and against, which is what this site is about.
Both were forced out by alerters...and others. I can't say anymore.
demmiblue
(36,854 posts)They were given numerous chances by the admins.
brush
(53,778 posts)betsuni
(25,531 posts)demmiblue
(36,854 posts)brush
(53,778 posts)ismnotwasm
(41,984 posts)ISBM was one of the most intelligent posters I have come across, and I adore Bravenek. So happy shes writing for Wonkette. Shes really a multitalented person, and a marvelous artist and activist
progressoid
(49,990 posts)R B Garr
(16,954 posts)betsuni
(25,531 posts)Very upsetting. I miss BainesBane and Number23, but they left by choice.
greatauntoftriplets
(175,735 posts)Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin
(107,996 posts)She's still stirring it up. Though she did get a suspension once because some thought she was too hard on Susan Sarandon.
brush
(53,778 posts)in her head, enough at least to keep her mouth shut during the mid-term campaigns.
Bravenak just tells the truth.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)I loved his posts!
Mosby
(16,312 posts)Lots of good people gone.
salin
(48,955 posts)Didn't realize a number of the folks mentioned on this thread were gone.
Chemisse
(30,813 posts)I liked that we could accommodate someone who was so very 'different.'
And then we couldn't.
efhmc
(14,726 posts)The place has changed, added content that I love but made me fearful of expressing my true feeling which was never the case before. This is why I use twitter more and more.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)I still miss skittles. Theres a bunch of others, but the names escape me right now.
K and r.
Squinch
(50,949 posts)madinmaryland
(64,933 posts)yuiyoshida
(41,831 posts)What happened to Skittles?
yuiyoshida
(41,831 posts)Was she banned? Just curious..She has always been here! She is some of my favorite people!
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updated:
omg, her last post was :
Sun Apr 15, 2018, 05:02 PM
Account status: Flagged for review
awesssss man!
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)Thats what happened in a nutshell.
demmiblue
(36,854 posts)Autumn
(45,091 posts)cwydro
(51,308 posts)Sorry shes gone.
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)Im fairly critical of anyone who decides having sex with Donald Trump is a good idea. So what?
EllieBC
(3,014 posts)I think FFR means banned. 😞
salin
(48,955 posts)But, I think your summary captures the meaning.
Skittles. Loved her feisty spirit.
salin
(48,955 posts)Flagged for Review - which in some cases appear to be gamed status - as in, the "review" has no designated time frame in which it should happen. Seems like a virtual purgatory that essentially works like a banning, without actually "officially" banning.
Crunchy Frog
(26,587 posts)It seems like kind of a deceptive designation.
Maru Kitteh
(28,340 posts)He was like a God-Damned carnival whack-a-mole with his FFR status going up and down.
Crunchy Frog
(26,587 posts)I'm pretty sure that he left before the FFR system was in place.
I could be wrong.
Maru Kitteh
(28,340 posts)I know in 2016 there were FFR's that were resurrected, might take me a bit to remember which ones.
sheshe2
(83,771 posts)EllieBC
(3,014 posts)Whats the point?
efhmc
(14,726 posts)Are we still allowed to ask why?
salin
(48,955 posts)Oh No?!!
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)I just realized I haven't seen her around in a while.
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Iggo
(47,554 posts)Crunchy Frog
(26,587 posts)SoCalDem
(103,856 posts)you can see how scarce I have been
Mike Rows His Boat
(389 posts)Much like a parallel of the gop... toe the line or bye bye.
Not really a place for honest political discussions.
Sad
ismnotwasm
(41,984 posts)LOTs of it. We are not getting this though.
crazycatlady
(4,492 posts)Particularly people younger than boomers.
I'm the daughter of boomers. There are many times I feel like I don't belong here. Like it's a 55+ community or something.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)Some of whom have a middle school mentality - usually at least a couple threads of week fit that description.
But theres a good group here in general.
melman
(7,681 posts)and I'm not young..although I'm not a boomer either. I'm a gen-x'er
But there are two big reasons for that I think. One, message boards are kind of old-fashioned. Most younger people would be on reddit or twitter or something. And the other thing is that anyone with a different point of view than the majority here is instantly attacked.
ismnotwasm
(41,984 posts)Sometimes I do feel surrounded by middle aged to old white people here. Always a little surprised at the ages of active posters when theyre revealed.
And I am a middle aged white person. I have waaay more diversity in my RL and any social media platforms than I do here, as far as I can tell.
However, I was speaking in particular to a lack or racial and ethnic diversity. It shows much more than the age thing. It shoes in topics, responses to topics, whats considered important. Its sad. Its lessens the experience.
There are number of conspiracy minded folks as well. I guess its hard to pin that down on ageits just an internet thing
I am particularly bad at guessing age OR gender Ive found. I would have guessed you to be older just because of your user name, even though my youngest daughter is a crazy cat lady
crazycatlady
(4,492 posts)I was alive for all of his presidency, but I don't have any memories of his administration. I was 7 month old when he was elected, and would turn 1 the day after he was shot.
I've often felt like this forum has a 'get off my lawn' vibe to it. If they want more people to come here, they need to embrace younger generations. There's now 3 generations younger than boomers who are eligible (or partially eligible) to vote. Gen Z seems active and ready to go.
ismnotwasm
(41,984 posts)I am a nursemy job contains every age group out of college, volunteers and PCTs even younger.
Our union for example, is run by gen X to boomers, not many younger people particularly interested.
Im in Seattle though-something is ALWAYS happening here, and depending on the goal, lots of younger people. They tend to use social media platforms, not sure how attractive a message board would be. Theres so much more out there on-line.
I dont partipate here as much either, I used to like to discuss feminism topics. Young women are feminisms life blood, but DU wasnt particulary feminist friendly for a while there, just as it wasnt particularly welcoming to activists who were people of color. A number of people just left.
crazycatlady
(4,492 posts)On the dozen plus campaigns I've been on, I've noticed the volunteers are either students (high school or college-- some get community service hours or academic credit for volunteering) or seniors and there's really no in between (until this year). Both students and seniors tend to have more time for activism and are not as likely to be juggling things like work and family.
The feminist movement in NYC is very welcoming to people of color. (I don't live in the city, but I go to all the marches there).
ismnotwasm
(41,984 posts)I dontoh, once in a while I find someone I think can ride out the crap until, they find the good conversations that really can be had here.
Even my husband has had an account for years, but has no interest in posting here. To make DU feel more welcoming to everyone else besides middle-aged White people, what steps do you think we could take?
The whole millennials dont vote crap has to go, because the reality is a lot of people of all kinds back away from politics. I wish people were better educated on societal power structures.
I sent a thread from here to my union leaders, it was very anti-union, but echoed a sentiment I had been seeing in various places on social media, but they didnt take it too seriously because of the source.
crazycatlady
(4,492 posts)When it is far from the truth. When you look at millennial voting patterns next to previous generations at the same age, they're pretty on par. And politicians don't exactly help themselves when they send younger voters mailers about protecting seniors. Politicians need to realize that millennials will not have it better off than their parents (one of the first generations) and that they have problems of their own to deal with such as student debt and housing unaffordability.
The people here could start by doing research before generalizing posts shitting on the younger generations. There is a group targeted at recruiting young candidates to run for local/state office in order to build a farm system. One of the posts about that group on this forum was accusing them of discrimination against the hallowed boomers. To me, that is the same as accusing EMILY's List of discriminating against men. This group (Run For Something) is filling a niche and getting younger people involved in politics because the older politicians don't pay attention to the issues that younger people face. EMILY did the same thing for women. For the most part, older generations didn't fear a gunman at their school, climate change, student debt, and housing unaffordability the way that younger people currently do. But it's cool for Boomers to shit on someone knee deep in debt for staying with their parents in order to pay down some of that debt. Yes the iPhone is the problem, not the rising cost of college.
I do consider the source when I see something online. I would consider this site to have a partisan lean to it and would take an objective news article with a grain of salt.
Wintryjade
(814 posts)You get that if our seniors do not have any sort of foundation for aging, it will fall on you thru the personal care you will have to give to the aging population of your personal sphere of fiscal responsibility? You have to think this thru. That is what lack of experience brings to the table, along with the youthful vigor.
crazycatlady
(4,492 posts)Mailers can be targeted by age (hell you can even target voters by zodiac sign). If you want to reach a 25 yo, send them mailers on issues that matter to them, not their grandparents. You're better off sending a 25 yo a mailer about climate change, student loan debt, or guns-- not Medicare.
Wintryjade
(814 posts)with shallow and self only. I am smack in the middle of liberal University. I see the smarts. I think we can embrace the thinking youth, too. I think it makes for a stronger, smarter base. The whole picture matters, too.
ismnotwasm
(41,984 posts)The people who voted for Trump or constantly ripped Hillary apart are to blame for Trump. Not to mention people who apparently dont give a shitnon-voters.
I dont believe you can put an age group on that as much as you can the White demographic. 94% of Black women who voted, voted for Hillary Clinton. An amazing stat.
Wintryjade
(814 posts)freshman women into our positions with wonderful opportunities for these women along with the opportunity for the party as a whole. HRC stepped up for nine women and worked with them in running their race. Now they have won, we have Pelosi welcoming them. I feel good.
ismnotwasm
(41,984 posts)Because theres is power, but there is also mentorship. Its happening as I speak, and lots of young women are have found their voices, and have their mentors
Wintryjade
(814 posts)m-lekktor
(3,675 posts)So many DUers were around and remember that event and that was 55 years ago!!
TheBlackAdder
(28,201 posts)dembotoz
(16,806 posts)smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)I can't believe how touchy some people are. All my flagged posts have been criticisms of republicans!
MineralMan
(146,312 posts)I'm one of those. Sometimes too many words. Others tell stories with images. Two approaches - one goal. Both are important. People learn from both. Some learn from one and some from the other. Some understand visually and some understand textually. Both methods are important.
I can write thousands of words about environmental issues, but sometimes a photograph conveys the message better. Both approaches are equally important. If I don't understand the message in an image, that's on me. Others will.
We need to let everyone speak with their own voices, and not insist on having everything our way.
Wintryjade
(814 posts)Thank you. What a wonderful conversation, about conversation. See, talking about talking is fun for me. Considering.
bigtree
(85,996 posts)...
MineralMan
(146,312 posts)This is important. DU is always on the edge.
Mike Rows His Boat
(389 posts)Opportunities for learning via evidence based debate are lost. Instead of learning why one might be off base on a topic, now ... boom ... disappeared like Jammal Khashoggi.
Sad
Marrah_Goodman
(1,586 posts)A couple of you might remember the name Marrah_g. Things changed so much after the hillary/barak primary battle. Couple years later I left because people insisted on keeping the fight going (called a puma more times then I can count, even after voting for Pres. Obama). I came back again because I thought maybe with a common enemy (Trump) things might have gone back to normal.
This is still the best place for latest breaking news and some really fantastic posters. However, I am saddened at the venom I see towards people who might support someone they don't or not like someone they do. It's us and them out there with the Rs, I wish people would focus on that fight instead of constantly finding something to infight about.
Just my two cents. I don't post much, mostly just read. And if you hate what I have to say, that's okay.
MineralMan
(146,312 posts)We sometimes disagree, but that's OK.
ProfessorGAC
(65,044 posts)Glad you're back!
Marrah_Goodman
(1,586 posts)Thank you
yardwork
(61,621 posts)Marrah_Goodman
(1,586 posts)I was wondering if you were still around old friend.
yardwork
(61,621 posts)PatSeg
(47,458 posts)I came here in 2004 as well, though I've gone long periods without visiting. With Trump in the White House now, I come here regularly.
Marrah_Goodman
(1,586 posts)I remember you too
PatSeg
(47,458 posts)I often keep a low profile. I've been through too many election seasons on DU! A lot of my DU friends quit coming to DU after the last primary. It just got too ugly. I learned what to avoid during primaries however.
JudyM
(29,250 posts)I also joined in 2004, and venom is a good description of whats here now. The too predictable rat-a-tat-tat invective has been poisoning DU. They dont seem to care that its destructive to DU, just tittilate and egg each other on.
murielm99
(30,741 posts)We are supposed to be able to support whomever we want in the primary. We then get behind the nominee, regardless of our previous choices. Some of us were alert stalked and called names for not supporting Obama from the beginning. That is not how it works in the real world.
I do learn a lot here, in spite of some of the silliness.
Marrah_Goodman
(1,586 posts)Latest news is my go to place for news and so glad to see some of the oldies still here. I learn something new or something absurd everyday here
JaneQPublic
(7,113 posts)...once or twice a year, even though I've been a member since 2001, joining just months after DU was founded.
If I point out that fact to an accuser, often he/she then accuses me of being a "sleeper cell." Bwahahahaha!
What do I do to raise suspicions? I present an opposing view -- sometimes to the left, sometimes to the right.
Recently, I've begun using the Ignore button "liberally" when friction recurs with any individual. I highly recommend it.
MineralMan
(146,312 posts)True Dough
(17,305 posts)you're a gem. It's a matter of public record now.
Caliman73
(11,738 posts)Funny how some think that you would wait 17 years to finally "spring the trap".
I have never been accused of trolling, though I have been called out, which is fine. People have different opinions and sometimes hold on to their opinions very strongly.
I often think that I am too milquetoast as my original posts seem to sink down into the forum without many responses.
JaneQPublic
(7,113 posts)byronius
(7,395 posts)It seems the newest method is hyper-moderation.
And what a major loss it's been. Catastrophic.
MineralMan
(146,312 posts)I'm on the edge with this so that's all I can say.
JudyM
(29,250 posts)Last edited Tue Nov 27, 2018, 08:42 PM - Edit history (1)
MineralMan
(146,312 posts)Nothing is ever unanimous. I don't remember any time that all hosts were available. But I'm not talking about any specific thing. This is a general statement. It's about DU in general. I don't think I have ever seen you in a thread, so I'm at a loss here.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)As said on another thread, if any host uses his/her position to settle personal scores - that would be just wrong.
JudyM
(29,250 posts)MineralMan
(146,312 posts)Still, I don't recall ever interacting with you. It's a big site.
pecosbob
(7,538 posts)and in fact if some of my posts didn't garner negative reactions I would be a bit disappointed. I'm just another a**hole with an opinion, but I would vote for inclusion versus exclusion in a forum...more is better. I wish I could feel that way about the Party itself, but that's another issue altogether and any comment I might make on that subject would definitely garner negative responses.
Caliman73
(11,738 posts)I have been around at DU for a little while, although I do not post as prolifically as some and I left for a stretch of a few years and came back around the time of the Primaries. DU had changed a good deal from when I left to when I came back. I know that there were a number of problems during the primaries that left a lot of people upset and traumatized.
What I see here now that I didn't see, at least in GD back before the primaries is that people react very quickly and strongly to anything they perceive as non-orthodox, which could be anything.
I agree that there should be more posters on GD and on DU in general. We want discussion, dialogue, and debate. There are always going to be people who just want to disrupt. The anonymity of the internet can bring out the worst in people, but those people will always out themselves and typically sooner rather than later. It is difficult when long time posters feel like they are driven away by application of the rules which may or may not have been a provocation. We all need to watch how we say things but there is value in giving long time posters a bit of slack with regards to corrective actions. Ultimately sites change as people come and go, but long time users add a history that is needed for sites to remain attached to their roots as they grow.
infullview
(981 posts)I am a relatively new member. I don't post very much anymore, and here's why: replies to my posts were frequently met with derision of the "I'm the final word-you don't know what your talking about" kind, political one-upmanship, I was made fun of for misspellings, or the accidental use of a homonym. In short, a percentage of the DU posters aren't very nice and they make it miserable for you to add value to the conversation. Also, some of you take life so seriously you seem to have no sense of humor EVEN WHEN CLEARLY MARKED. I'm not sure why DemoTex left - this is just my limited view of the DU universe. I'm on other forums and I don't seem to have any problems contributing on them, so it leads me to believe the problem isn't with me.
Flame off!
violetpastille
(1,483 posts)I honestly do not know.
(Anytime I've ever tried to get cute like that it always bites me right in the ass. It's some online law I've forgotten the name of that any time you correct someone's spelling or grammar you are going to fuck it up in that very same post.)
If someone pronounces a word incorrectly it's good manners to say, "Oh yes. I was thinking of ordering the Ah-sah-ee
bowl too."
But then they tell you, no they were going to order the Ah-Cay bowl and then look at you like you're stupid and don't know how to pronounce acai.
*I try to keep out of epic battles of grammar, spelling and punctuation.
We have bigger problems, amirite?
*Okay if someone is teasing someone's spelling and they are messing up whilst doing it? Yes, I will tell them their metaphoical fly is down. But that's probably allowable. Maybe. Who knows?
Hermit-The-Prog
(33,346 posts)violetpastille
(1,483 posts)May I direct you to the venerable Urban Dictionary?
phylny
(8,380 posts)Welcome and I hope you continue to contribute.
Mosby
(16,312 posts)bluestarone
(16,943 posts)NAIL hit right on the head!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Very Good Post!!
Cary
(11,746 posts)... because a member here misrepresented me and got all sanctimonious, condescending and bossy.
Well, actually it just made me laugh. Some people sure do take themselves too seriously.
MineralMan
(146,312 posts)Cary
(11,746 posts)You don't say?
JHan
(10,173 posts)I don't know much about DU pre my date of joining (late 2016) but I do miss a lot of posters who are now sadly FFR. Some made DU so attractive to me, I joined and even decided to get a star.
msongs
(67,406 posts)Raine
(30,540 posts)it's a loss to all of us when a poster feels they must leave.
Gothmog
(145,264 posts)pwb
(11,275 posts)It makes one feel poorly from the treatment. Anger takes over resulting in posts being hidden. I think if only star members are allowed to be judge and jury good posters will fell better and stay around after they make a mistake and post something offensive.
A HERETIC I AM
(24,368 posts)Ever since the decision was made to allow the members to police themselves, it has been possible for a member to run afoul of either another member or a group host and be the subject of constant alerts.
If a host or another poster decides they dont like you and decide to make your experience here unpleasant, theres bugger all you can do about it
The owners/admins dont seem to be paying nearly as much attention to this site as they used to and so when things like the recent drama spiral out of control, no one puts a stop to it.
Posts get alerted on for the stupidest reasons imaginable because too many posters either have ZERO sense of humor or are so easily offended it makes one wonder if they ever venture outdoors
LAS14
(13,783 posts)... I dreaming? Was this something that used to be true and no longer is? I must admit that I don't know how I would do it if I wanted to.
billh58
(6,635 posts)which is located under "My Account," and name up to 15 members that you don't want on your juries.
A HERETIC I AM
(24,368 posts)I also should have added to my post above that not only a single member, but a number of others, whether they work together or not, who simply don't like your point of view can also make this experience not worth having.
But yeah, if you and another clash, you can add them to a jury blacklist. But if you hold positions that a whole bunch of people are offended by, watch the fuck out! Better bite your tongue.
And FWIW, if a persons profile says "Flagged For Review" it means it takes either Mr. Allen, Mr. Allsopp or Mr. Leitner to reinstate them, and as I said, they seem to be mostly absent, or at least rarely post on regular threads. Earlier this year I sent couple of the Admins emails I expected warranted a response but got nothing, so I have come to the conclusion that they really don't give too much of a damn anymore.
I can't say I blame them, however. After 17 plus years, the last place I would want to spend my days is refereeing a bunch of old fart Democrats who can't get along!
Crunchy Frog
(26,587 posts)If I felt comfortable enough to say it.
realmirage
(2,117 posts)progressoid
(49,990 posts)Tribalceltic
(1,000 posts)I lurked during the Bush years , Paranoid that I would lose my job or worse. Since then I have been quiet but I am reaching the age where it can't get any worse.
One of the Main reasons I have liked DU and lurked for years is the diverse opinions and incredible talent. I think this latest event warrants at least some open discussion, without threats of consequences.
MM your posts are almost always interesting to me, and so are your replies!
>> puts his give a damn in the rubbish.. because it's busted
riversedge
(70,228 posts)Kali
(55,008 posts)Yes sometimes somebody has a melt down, but when they aren't normally disruptive it is just such a shame to lose them. Admins need to update the ToS and explain that reviews never happen and 5 is the end, not a 90 day wait. (or better would be to return functionality to what the explanation says)
Exactly.
salin
(48,955 posts)Mrs. Overall
(6,839 posts)K & R
MineralMan
(146,312 posts)It has survived. For that I'm glad.
FarPoint
(12,394 posts)That ship has already sailed...We lost many, many great DU'ers during Primaries and General elections cycles...then we can't forget the russian trolls....they, strong DU posters were targeted, successfully removed by the rules and less personal type of monitoring system....So, we are diminished....
That said...I support keeping our remaining flock intact as much as possible.
davsand
(13,421 posts)The last few years have been too painful to deal with regularly so I quit coming. I miss the LBN pages when I'm not here and I miss seeing all the old names here. So many vibrant and passionate people have gone for any number of reasons and we have been diminished by those departures.
Seems to me there's a mean attitude here that just wasn't present in 2001, even if the political climate was so terrible. This was a haven where it was OK to be a progressive. It was safe. Now it feels like no matter the subject somebody is just spoiling to rip you up. Lots of anger. 24/7 it's feeling about like a cage match. I'm no shrinking violet, never have been, but it just seems almost masturbatory to even try to talk here sometimes. At the risk of sounding like a kindergarden teacher, I want to tell people sometimes to play nice or else sit in time out.
I'll keep coming for a while but I have little doubt that sooner or later I'll go missing too.
Peace to you all.
Laura
infullview
(981 posts)Cage match is exactly the right metphor. These people that keep at you and at you to defend your opinion and always just have to have the last word. When the me too movement was becoming a hot topic I mentioned something like we should discuss this, but we need to also focus on what's happening with Trump as he uses issues like this to mask activities he's trying to bury in the news cycle. That set off a firestorm of angy posters accusing me of not caring!? WTF?
Generic Other
(28,979 posts)I always feel like I have to keep a bug-out bag and emergency supplies handy for the day I wear out my welcome.
spanone
(135,838 posts)greatauntoftriplets
(175,735 posts)MineralMan
(146,312 posts)That means a lot to me!
greatauntoftriplets
(175,735 posts)Docreed2003
(16,860 posts)Excellent post...agree with you 100% MM
MineralMan
(146,312 posts)Ron Obvious
(6,261 posts)Many good people have been FFR'ed the last few years. They weren't trolls.
How about we lobby for a general amnesty for any FFR with, say, over 1,000 posts? I know that's not a panacea, but I think this site badly needs it.
dembotoz
(16,806 posts)Yours might be a start
Iggo
(47,554 posts)But I CAN give you an enthusiastic rec.
lapucelle
(18,265 posts)MineralMan
(146,312 posts)cynatnite
(31,011 posts)Never had a problem up until a few days ago when my post was removed for supposedly peddling RW talking points. It really stunned me. I've been accused of being a troll for not rolling with the masses, but having a post removed blew me away. I doubt I'll be posting my opinions when they go against the grain again.
MineralMan
(146,312 posts)If that never happened, I'd think I was being too timid or something. Not to worry. It sometimes happens. People don't always understand what someone meant. You're doing fine. Really.
cynatnite
(31,011 posts)sammythecat
(3,568 posts)This place has developed a mean streak of intolerance the past couple years that I really don't like. I'm the same flaming liberal Democrat I've been my entire life. Haven't changed a bit, but I no longer feel as comfortable here as I used to and don't spend near as much time here as I used to either. It's a shame.
jcgoldie
(11,631 posts)I've had 3 posts removed recently... one was warranted in retrospect, the other 2 I thought weren't. When I looked at them in a vacuum without the debate and the other persons comments that prompted them, then maybe I could understand it. I think too often jurists don't have or take the time to look at the context before voting to remove... I may have been guilty of it myself previously, so I always try to do that now.
cynatnite
(31,011 posts)Then I read the post again before deciding. If I'm still unsure, I excuse myself from it. I do that somewhat often.
NotASurfer
(2,150 posts)Was in the middle of responding no apology was necessary for something coming out of your personal experience when the removal was imposed. No good reason for that jury decision IMO
McCamy Taylor
(19,240 posts)Crunchy Frog
(26,587 posts)McCamy Taylor
(19,240 posts)and Monsanto has people on message boards and they will use dirty tricks to shut down certain discussions.
Anonymous Internet posting is a bit like the "New Criticism" in that it sucks a rat's ass. Context always counts, the Marxist approach (i.e "How does it sell dog food?" is always the correct approach and there are ways that you can uncover the hidden motives of trolls if you have patience and you pay attention.
dalton99a
(81,510 posts)DFW
(54,387 posts)I forget the name, but post ANYTHING against Roundup or GMO, and that name will pop up to defend Monsanto as if summoned by occult incantation. "Seeds of Reprisal" should make clear how they operate, in case there is any doubt.
womanofthehills
(8,710 posts)and some have been here for years
DFW
(54,387 posts)I wonder if it isn't one designated agent of theirs who trolls the blogs under several different names. It sounds a little over the top to speculate about that kind of thing, but after reading Seeds of Reprisal, this is EXACTLY the kind of thing Monsanto does. His/her/their job is to do nothing but remain dormant until until something negative about Monsanto shows up on any of their flagged blogs, and then attack it from all possible angles under a few different names. Then radio silence until the next Monsanto issue shows up. It wouldn't surprise me to hear that someone there developed a program to alert their troll(s) the second the words "Monsanto," "Roundup," "Glyphosphate" or "GMO" show up, just like the NSA picks up the words "Allah" or Jihad" out of all telephone conversations.
highplainsdem
(48,981 posts)Response to MineralMan (Original post)
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aikoaiko
(34,170 posts)more seriously, I'm sad to see DemoTex. His posts, especially his pictures, mattered.
Awsi Dooger
(14,565 posts)I am ganged up on all the time on a few sports forums, for two basic reasons: I don't adhere to conventional wisdom regarding sports, and I'm the only vocal liberal on sites flooded with simplistic angry conservative white males.
Consequently it doesn't really matter what I post. There is one guy so scared of my content he follows me around and negatively rates literally every post I make, while telling his buddies to do the same. I have one friend on that site who got hold of a private message and sent it to me. It was basically a gang warfare strategy to try to drive me away from the site.
The same thing happened here in prior years. Long time posters will remember that for a brief period -- circa 2006 -- we were able to see Ignore lists from other users. Some posters took great delight in passing around those ignore lists and comparing names. It was particularly prevalent in Election Reform.
Then during 2008 there likewise were Ignore list recommendations passed around, trying to get rid of Hillary supporters. Those were the darkest days I have witnessed on this site. Hillary was treated like evil incarnate. I don't blame the Hillary supporters who left and never returned. Then in 2016 it was quite something to see supportive Hillary posts from names I recognized from 2008 as desperate to drive Hillary supporters away.
I did not agree to jury participation. The original system was fine. I trust the administrators far beyond random members who might hold a bias.
In my early years here there was no problem comparing one Democrat to another, even if that meant criticism of one of them. I remember the 2004 primary battles and participated in them. We had a Wesley Clark group and John Edwards group, and so forth. Those two groups really disliked each other, BTW. That's why I mention them. It seemed like each one viewed the other as the person they had to get rid of in order to go one-on-one against Howard Dean or John Kerry. But overall the discourse was fine. I knew who didn't like me but it didn't amount to anything. I had frequent disagreements with a poster named FrenchieCat but I never had to worry about her (?) trying to get me banned, or passing around Ignore list recommendations.
Recently I have received several warnings and been surprised every time. Rachel Maddow is merely a broadcaster but apparently it is against policy to criticize her. In another thread I merely agreed with someone else regarding Elizabeth Warren's poor instincts but that prompted the right wing talking point warning. I was told my account was under review. Then I challenged the original warning, and won. My post was restored. Was I supposed to cheer? I didn't know if it meant my account was no longer under review.
Mostly I do political math anyway. There doesn't seem to be much interest in that around here anymore. I miss the early years on this site, when Jiacinto always had some related feedback and questions. Likewise with TruthIsAll, even if we seldom agreed. But anything math related he would respond to.
I also think it was a huge mistake to get rid of the GD Politics forum, to differentiate General Discussion from General Discussion related directly to politics. Nowadays and especially after Trump was elected, General Discussion is virtually nothing but politics. That is a shame, IMO. The original General Discussion forum had tons of content that was too heavy for the Lounge but wasn't related to politics. I would estimate those threads are now less than 25% the prior amount. The same ideas are possibly being posted elsewhere in specialized forums but I am not seeing them and I doubt many posters are.
The Polack MSgt
(13,188 posts)When the title is General Discussion -Who's opinion matters as to what is not "General" enough?
It seems that was the issue that pushed him into flame out rage
salin
(48,955 posts)But I no longer have the confidence that folks/tptb are paying that much attention to what makes for smoother group dynamics, anymore.
JonLP24
(29,322 posts)It is just about the only forum I feel completely comfortable.
Edit: you mean sports forums outside of DU. Still we could use your perspective there.
flotsam
(3,268 posts)Here's my plea-C'mon, don't be faceless Gods,cruel and relentless. You are people I know oppose three strikes yet you allow even stricter standards here. Far too many of our best posters are gone, and while losing them to death is sad, losing them over petty squabbles is more painful than I can describe. I think a lot of people here would like it if you declared a Jubilee where old debts and grievances are forgiven and old posters could be could be welcomed back. It ain't for me even though I was chopped and became reborn under a new name-I figure you know that. My original name was neither well known nor worth resurrecting. But to many holes surround us caused by the Bernie wars and internecine sniping and single melt-down nights. Well thats it-your the governor and I spoke for my fellow posters and the condemned begging mercy....I'll take any response as caused by myself.
Hekate
(90,690 posts)uppityperson
(115,677 posts)I've taken breaks when news was too much.
I've taken breaks when I've gotten into an argument with another duer and decided to let myself cool down rather than get bannec.
I come back feeling better, more in control and less mad.
It can help.
akbacchus_BC
(5,704 posts)eventually joined, DU started long before) and it still is popular for democrats. People come and go but DU is still successful. Just saying.... This place is growing and there are so many new members, it is unbelievable!
infullview
(981 posts)What tools/ideas do we have to bring civility, openness, and friendship back to this forum?
Just a Weirdo
(488 posts)Go back to moderating. Think DU2 before the juries. Tombstone.
Rotate the moderators every 60 days instead of 3 months
betsuni
(25,531 posts)They ruin everything.
R B Garr
(16,954 posts)and propaganda, but they continue. It does ruin everything.
bluestarone
(16,943 posts)KICK KICK KICK!!!!!!!!!!!!!
MineralMan
(146,312 posts)bluestarone
(16,943 posts)GREAT posts need to continue!!!!!!!!!!!!
Paladin
(28,261 posts)MineralMan
(146,312 posts)brer cat
(24,565 posts)MineralMan
(146,312 posts)Thanks!
efhmc
(14,726 posts)And you poked it with a big stick.
N_E_1 for Tennis
(9,727 posts)I love to see all opinions whether I agree or not. There is much to be learned even when someone has an opinion that differs from yours, matter of fact thats probably when you learn the most.
Im well into my senior years as are many here. We need to attract a young crowd to get a better perspective on the pulse of the Democratic Party.
Lurked for a couple years and joined in 09. I may be wrong but I feel we had younger ones here before 45 but the last presidential election chased some away. It was rather contentious between Clinton and Sanders.
davsand
(13,421 posts)Trust me, the primary fights at DU have always been epic in scope. The big difference has been that, for the most part, people got over it after a bit and got behind the ticket. This last election, however, has felt different because the residual anger has remained a lot longer with what feels like a lot more intensity. I'm no mental health pro, but I have wondered if a lot of that anger is part of the general horror of the entire tRump experience. We are eating each other alive to stall off the futility of watching current events.
Green Wars were a really ugly scene here for a while in the vey early days. Those were brutal and wide ranging. There was a time when Cuba was a real hot button issue. I remember being directly in the line of fire at one point from another poster who thought I was too "kind" in my attitudes about opening up communication with Cuba. Had I not come from an online group called Bare Knuckles Politics, and prior to that Salon's political boards, I'm pretty sure I'd have run screaming from the onslaught. Guns have provoked some pretty ugly scenes, right along with Bill Clinton's penis, various sex scandals that Dems were embroiled in, and Joe Lieberman have all created gigantic flame wars here. People got over it. Posts were removed sometimes, but it was usually ok in the long run. Occasionally, a DUer would flame out or lash out at Earl and Skinner (sometimes in breathtakingly stupid ways, I might add) but most of the time people felt OK with things.
In recent years, however, the healing has been slower and the blood letting more protracted. I hate seeing some of the stuff that goes on here, and some days I just navigate away from here. I have found that if I hide threads with certain names or comments in the title I am overall much happier. I agree with the folks upthread saying that the current moderation system has not been successful, but I'm dammed if I can think of any way to police this circus without pissing somebody off.
Peace to you.
Laura
R B Garr
(16,954 posts)MineralMan
(146,312 posts)Squinch
(50,949 posts)with his being asked to move a joke photo from GD to the lounge. Which is simply not a big deal.
If its something more than that, we have no way to know because it's all being kept very mysterious by the aggrieved person.
Its all seeming a little silly to me.
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)it seems a rather vainglorious method of arguing against a point no one is making.
Mike Nelson
(9,956 posts)
I'm not real good at picking the place to post, so I don't...
someday, I hope to understand how to post correctly!
infullview
(981 posts)Because, honestly, some of the stuff that winds up here is, well... "Political Correctness is Personal Considerateness" ? What are we preaching to the converted here? Everyone on this forum should already abide by this. With 22 Rec's why is it even here? I just don't understand and you wonder why people are leaving this forum?
MineralMan
(146,312 posts)posts in a three-hour period. It's an automated thing, I believe. After three hours, posts disappear from the Trending list. It's not uncommon for posts with as few as 15 recommendations to appear on the list, but it's usually more than that.
So, it's not a person who picks them. It's an algorithm.
Beyond that basic selection method, I don't know if there is any human input into it. I believe that two posts by the same DUer won't appear on the list at the same time. I base that on a couple of my posts in several instances that had enough recommendations, but only one appeared on the list during the same 3-hour period.
I believe this is correct, but I don't actually have any access to any of the site's algorithms, so I could be incorrect. I'm basing this on my own experience with that list.
The Greatest Threads list works much the same way, but more posts are included and there's a 24-hour window.
infullview
(981 posts)spicysista
(1,663 posts)I've always enjoyed your posts, MM. They are always thoughtful (or thought provoking in the instances where we disagree) and always add an interesting "element"....or dare I say, "mineral" to the conversation! Lol!
It's no fun if we can't have a robust debate on the topics that matter most. If we don't push each other and test our views, how can we grow?
Great post!
erronis
(15,260 posts)Could we have an updated list (dynamically generated) on each poster that has been put on a "do-not-fly" list along with the date of the banning, for which post(s), the hosts/moderators that ok'd it, and the date when the ban would be lifted?
I recognize many of the names that are listed as no longer welcome at DU and I've only been here for about 5 years. But it would be helpful to have the handles of all that have been banned rather than just relying on my faulty memories of past voices.
I realize that this could be considered sensitive but since some of us feel like we are being arbitrarily disconnected, the benefit might be better.
MineralMan
(146,312 posts)So, no is the answer. The admins could see one, I'm sure, but not members like us.
G_j
(40,367 posts)Also, people need to support the content by interacting and discussing. A lot of valuable content just sinks, while repetitive argument posts climb to the top. This is not new, but so much more the case now than it ever was.
DUs collective IQ seems to be declining.