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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsMichael Jackson died on this day
10 years ago - time flies. I remember that day on DU
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True Dough
(17,314 posts)Does everyone accept that he was a pedophile? I think the evidence is very strong. It makes me lose respect for him as a human being.
Cannot deny that he was a talented musical artist, however. I don't listen to his songs often (I did as a kid) but if it comes on the radio I don't change stations.
underpants
(182,861 posts)Its not because of the law suits I can just tell you that he set off my radar a long time ago. I actually surprised that anyone is surprised at what has come to light recently.
malaise
(269,144 posts)Nothing else
democratisphere
(17,235 posts)Musical and entertainment genius.
Corgigal
(9,291 posts)Still a bit of betrayal, but that's on me. Working through it.
Heartstrings
(7,349 posts)Only the music......
Initech
(100,097 posts)Leaving Neverland was a major eye-opener into who Michael Jackson was as a person. But you can't deny how great his music is. I'll still listen to his music and that's about it.
CatWoman
(79,302 posts)Initech
(100,097 posts)I must have missed that happening.
BannonsLiver
(16,434 posts)I just pulled it up on my HBO app. It was never removed. That lie got started with Jackson super fans who tried to discredit the film.
https://www.digitalspy.com/tv/ustv/a27124618/leaving-neverland-hbo-documentary-pulled-denied/
Floyd R. Turbo
(26,549 posts)HBO did not pull program however.
BannonsLiver
(16,434 posts)Thats super interesting because Im watching it right now...on HBO.
Polybius
(15,465 posts)Because that's not true at all.
Maru Kitteh
(28,342 posts)UniteFightBack
(8,231 posts)Initech
(100,097 posts)jcgoldie
(11,636 posts)Goodheart
(5,334 posts)He was all that... The greatest performer in the history of the world.
And then his self-mutilation. And then the child abuse allegations (which I believe true)...
He was as sick as he was famous.
A tragedy on many fronts, beginning with his being a front man for a band at the tender age of...what? Too young. Seemingly no adults in the room and no one around him who wasn't making money off him. Abused, abuser, very sad for all involved. How not to raise a child. Or, how to raise a emotionally damaged child who will turn into an even more damaged adult. The man had to take anesthesia to get away from himself!
I love his music and find that, although he will be disappeared (I think it's already happening), his music really transcends time and generation.
redstateblues
(10,565 posts)Tommy_Carcetti
(43,189 posts)Musically, I think his singing was rather overrated; however, I will say he was one of the most talented dancers in the history of the industry.
I do think there is a lot of truth to the allegations, unfortunately.
kwassa
(23,340 posts)sarisataka
(18,733 posts)How his death gave him radio redemption.
Prior to his death, I rarely heard one of his songs on the radio. After his death it was the 1980s all over again and he still is in regular rotation.
It is a tragic story all around. I still however question those parents who allowed their children to have sleepovers even while there were rumors about what was going on.
mulsh
(2,959 posts)Journey From Motown to Off The Wall are two great films that reveal the professional musician and I think, real Michael Jackson. Both have extensive interviews with artists who worked with MJ and This Is It shows the work he put into that last tour that never happened.
I've watched the Neverland documentaries too and don't doubt he was deeply troubled. I believe the kids, I can't believe their parents threw them at MJ or no one in his circle could tell him what he was doing was wrong. But as someone who had to paraprase Eddie Murphy about celebrity; "pussy thrown at him" from about age five, I also felt it was impossible for MJ to end up anything but messed up. Imagine how you would have handled aggressive groupies and fans hounding you starting at a very young age.
I urge people to watch both This Is It and Michael Jackson's Journey From Motown To Off The Wall and get a glimpse of the person behind the hype.
BeyondGeography
(39,377 posts)eom
UniteFightBack
(8,231 posts)should be shattered. He is disgusting.
RhodeIslandOne
(5,042 posts)And condemns anyone who thinks otherwise.
Polybius
(15,465 posts)A shame, he was an immense talent.
AlexSFCA
(6,139 posts)there are so many musicians involved in his music that it would be unfair to them to reject his music outright due to accusations of child molestation. His personal life was very creepy and he never liked talking about it.
Spider Jerusalem
(21,786 posts)An awful lot of Jackson's "musical brilliance" was Quincy Jones' production.
Also a profounndly broken human being who almost certainly abused children.
ellie
(6,929 posts)if I recall correctly. I just checked: yes, she did.
malaise
(269,144 posts)Thanks
Dave Starsky
(5,914 posts)Frankly, I'm more sad about her passing than about Michael Jackson.
I knew someone who was an event planner in Hollywood. She said Farrah Fawcett was the nicest celebrity she ever worked with.
Ilsa
(61,695 posts)and was announced first. Then the tv headlines about MJ being rushed to an ER hit, and that was the last we heard about FF.
Codeine
(25,586 posts)I can honestly say I had no idea she had died. Weird.
Bengus81
(6,932 posts)Working in a new home on that day when her passing was announced then it seemed like five minutes later it was Jackson. Mind blowing for two celebs to pass on the same day and fairly close in time.
Honestly,I thought it had been more than ten years.
Greybnk48
(10,170 posts)Sadly, his life in many ways was tragic (abusive money grubbing father, child labor, etc.). The pedophilia came as no surprise to anyone. He was so screwed up, he acted and talked like a 10 year old.
So damn sad that such a talented, dynamic entertainer ended where he did.
Joe941
(2,848 posts)RussellCattle
(1,535 posts)....to any music after a while. I'm always looking for something new, finding it and then moving on after a month or two. I got tired of Michael Jackson's music a long time ago and was never a great fan. The thing that I really didn't like about him was his insufferable need for attention, his constant efforts to be in the public eye. Celebrity is one thing, but the strange persona that he constantly inflicted on the public was really tiresome.
This is my opinion. Please don't attack me or my opinion. You can keep yours and I'd like to keep mine.
malaise
(269,144 posts)Don the Racist Con
RobinA
(9,894 posts)with you about his attention seeking, but growing up the way he did with the role he had in his family and in show business, it could hardly have been any other way. He learned it early and to him it was probably the only way he ever knew to be. It got weirder the older he got, but that's the way things tend to go. He was richly rewarded with treasure and what passed for "love" in his screwed up world. He seems to have killed himself nightly to get away from it until he finally killed himself for real.
Goodheart
(5,334 posts)SMC22307
(8,090 posts)the song I did high-impact aerobics to back in the day (1985!).
RhodeIslandOne
(5,042 posts)But for the most part he was actually fairly reclusive for a good amount of time. When he did appear, it was usually something odd and the media played it endlessly.
panader0
(25,816 posts)malaise
(269,144 posts)Ha
RobinA
(9,894 posts)Heard it on the news at the fitness center that he had been taken to the hospital. Somehow I knew at the time that this was it. It was funny, because normally I tend to think the worst will not happen, usually it doesn't, but with him his extremism just made me think that if he had gone too far it would be the big Too Far.
Leith
(7,813 posts)He was about 3 weeks older than me. I grew up listening to his music knowing that he was my age. At age 50, I was feeling just fine so hearing that he died struck me as strange.
malaise
(269,144 posts)50 is young to die for real
NewDayOranges
(692 posts)Left behind a horrible history of child sexual abuse.
I still enjoy his music, tho!
ADX
(1,622 posts)...and at least one of the two "Leaving Neverland" accusers previously testified in court under oath that MJ never sexually abused him.
I don't know if he did anything or not but I do know that it hasn't been proven to my satisfaction so I have no problem whatsoever spinning my Jackson 5/MJ LPs.
Rest in peace, Michael...
Under the circumstances, the OJ verdict was the correct verdict, as was Casey Anthony's and Michael Jackson's because 12 people unanimously found that the prosecution failed to prove their case beyond a reasonable doubt.
lunamagica
(9,967 posts)ADX
(1,622 posts)...but a "not guilty" verdict means that 12 people listened to all of the evidence presented at trial and all 12 made a unanimous determination that the burden of proof had not been met.
You're obviously entitled to your opinion but that's all it is - your opinion, not a fact. You don't get to adjudicate someone "guilty" who has been deemed otherwise...
lunamagica
(9,967 posts)because he was a celebrity:
https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=12220221
ADX
(1,622 posts)...you're merely expressing your opinion, you 're not proving anything.
Read post #65 in this thread and then get back to me...
lunamagica
(9,967 posts)But you know what? If you want to believe a man sharing his bed with boys is healthy, go ahead...I mean, he was a celebrity, so it was OK
ADX
(1,622 posts)...As for the link you provided, I checked it out and it's nothing I haven't heard before; I remain unconvinced, as is my right to do so...
Niagara
(7,646 posts)Last edited Wed Jun 26, 2019, 03:27 PM - Edit history (1)
the D.A., Tom Sneddon got caught falsifying evidence against MJ during the trial and it's on the record. People who knew Sneddon said that he belonged in jail.
The mother of the alleged 2nd victim, Janet Arvizo, has a long history of welfare fraud and several attempts of trying to hustle money from celebrities. She also won a $75,000 settlement from J.C. Penny's after being caught shoplifting. She claimed that security roughed her up. She was also caught in lies during the trial.
I'm just going to mention the 1st family that accused him of this briefly. The boys father, Evan Chandler had money problems and was going around bragging about he was going to take Michael to the cleaners. Carrie Fischer even mentioned this scumbag in her book "Shockaholic."
Michael was also analyzed by psychologist Dr. Stanley J. Katz, who was assigned to the case and found that he didn't fit the profile of a pedophile.
And this website mjfacts that others are pointing out to you, used to be called wackofacts, a trash news website that only goes after one alleged pedophile.
I wanted to tell you this so that you would have the facts to stand by your belief that MJ is/was not guilty.
ADX
(1,622 posts)...I was aware of all this info but was too lazy to type it up.
Seriously, thanks again...
Niagara
(7,646 posts)lunamagica
(9,967 posts)ETA:
Guilty or not guilty. In the United States, a person is considered innocent until proven guilty. In the USA court of law the verdict is guilty or not guilty instead of guilty or innocent. Not guilty does not mean innocent. But, are the acquitted innocent?
"A not guilty verdict says something definitive about the evidence that the state introduced: it was insufficient to eliminate all reasonable doubt about guilt from the minds of the jurors. But acquittals do not answer, nor even address, the question of whether defendants are factually innocent. All we know is that the juries were not persuaded that the defendants committed the crimes charged.
https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=12220221
Niagara
(7,646 posts)I fixed it.
lunamagica
(9,967 posts)not_the_one
(2,227 posts)he had a place in cultural history... both good and bad
Jackson Five, for those big on pre-pubescent pop
Thriller had a few great songs
Some great dance floor hits, guaranteed to fill any dance floor. (Did he just write lyrics, or did he also write the music? I don't believe he played any instruments... After all, it was the music, not the lyrics that filled the dance floors...))
Just when gangs were beginning to get a deservedly bad rap, he singlehandedly made them cool again by hiring real gang members to dance behind him for BAD, his major effort to rehabilitate his less than masculine image, while SIMULTANEOUSLY making it super cool for young black men to grab their crotch in public...
And then, upon his death, there seemed to be a blanket amnesia that affected so many, since overnight he went from a former has-been embarrassment, who had turned himself into a freak, with almost a total rejection by the black community, into the best musician in history.
Like I said, both good and bad.
edited for spelling
BeyondGeography
(39,377 posts)What a talent. Natural ability, yes, but also great respect for the craft. He had done his homework. He truly loved the vocal art.
And then it went utterly wrong. I think thats why I mostly enjoy the early stuff.
lunamagica
(9,967 posts)pedophile to me. There was nothing healthy about a grown man inviting boys to sleepovers, and I couldn't believe this was accepted just because he was a celebrity
maxsolomon
(33,360 posts)Jackson, so blindingly talented as a child, but abused by both his domineering father and his Jehovah's Witness faith (not unlike Prince), could never be free to become the gay man he obviously was.
When you suppress your inner nature, it comes out twisted. His inherent self-loathing was expressed in his surgeries; his desire for men twisted into self-deluding pedophilia. His "children"? Transparent PR stunts. He named a child Blanket. He was so spaced out on drugs he nearly dropped one out a window.
His death, the sad death of a drug addict, was an ignominious footnote that preserved his reputation in amber.
Most of his music was and is over-rated. Separate from the videos, what stands up? Off The Wall, the only mature album made before his superstardom.
What could have been had he been able to be himself, freed from those chains? A better artist, no doubt. A happier human, I'd hope.
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)Kaleva
(36,325 posts)Raine
(30,540 posts)reception following his funeral, those two things will always be linked in my mind.
kwassa
(23,340 posts)I like my R&B funkier. I also like men who sing in a lower register.
I was a fan of Guy at the time. I liked Prince much, much more. I really like the earlier generation of funksters like Pfunk, Kool and the Gang and of course the master James Brown.
I watched a video of Jackie Wilson a few years ago and thought, oh, so that's where Michael Jackson got those moves. When I watch Jackson, I'm seeing where he lifted many things from others. The moonwalk goes back to the 40s, for instance.
I guess that I am saying that Jackson is derivative, and sold many older R&B in a more pop fashion to a white audience. The few things I like are from the Off the Wall album.
YOHABLO
(7,358 posts)malaise
(269,144 posts)Sometimes I wonder about the connections between troubled and painful lives and unbelievable talent.
John Fante
(3,479 posts)example of a grown-ass man who "shared his bed" with a procession of unrelated, underage boys and totally wasn't a child molester, it is the height of cognitive dissonance to say that Michael wasn't one either. That's a Soviet May Day-sized red flag right there.
https://www.mjfacts.com
If you still have doubts, browse through this website when you get a chance.
There's tons of useful info there, but the article on the items seized in the 1993 raid is bonkers. MJ has a photo of one of his special friends, fully nude! He was despicable.
spanone
(135,857 posts)Thank for the memory...
StarfishSaver
(18,486 posts)For so many black kids, especially black girls, Michael Jackson was more than just a performer. He helped us fit into the world. He changed the way we saw ourselves.
When I was growing up, all of the teen idols were white: The Beatles, The Monkees, Bobby Sherman, David Cassidy, etc. We black girls did the best we could with them, but we knew we weren't really connected to them, that our fantasies about them would never, could never come true.
But then came The Jackson 5. After so long having only straight-haired white teen idols to adore, little black girls had our very own teen idols who looked like the boys we knew with brown skin and great big kinky-haired afros, and whom we felt we really had a chance to marry when we grew up.
When their faces appeared in fan magazines, we were proud to buy them by the stack. When we wrote letters to them, were confident they really read them.
That was a bfd. That was long before he grew up into a strange man whose twisted, probably criminal behavior first made us cringe and then repulsed us, the man whose legacy will forever contain an asterisk and rightfully so. But no matter how much I condemn that behavior, it will never completely eradicate what he meant to me as a little girl.
Hekate
(90,768 posts)Last edited Wed Jun 26, 2019, 04:14 PM - Edit history (1)
The circus took place in my County, and I question the decision to have the trial moved to a more rural area 70+ miles away -- I think the jury was beglamored by his charisma.
My son was living at Midland School, across a narrow country road from the Neverland entrance, when the 24/7 news frenzy hit. TV trucks, helicopters, extremely bright lights, all but the helicopters parked along the fence of the school. You can't actually see Neverland from the road, as it's tucked behind a hill, and Jackson was a reclusive neighbor.
My own memory is from later, during the trial. A certain child actor (by then he must have been 20; I don't keep up) had been dragged into it, and I recognized him sitting alone in a coffee shop. Very, very alone. Such a look on his face. At my end of the County we see celebrities from time to time walking about like normal people (Costco!) and we let them be. But I've never forgotten that face -- in my heart I said, "This is not your fault."
Because my own father was an abuser and it broke something in me to have my childhood love betrayed, it's been a long road for me to be able to say, "No man is all one thing."
So with Jackson. He is all these things at once. Immensely gifted. Broken. Abused child. Child abuser. Broken. Immensely gifted.
Oh, and one more thing: the cartoonist Darrin Bell (who writes the daily strip Candorville) did a weeklong tribute when Michael Jackson died. A midnight train takes him away. Lamont, the hero of the series, is along and talks to Jackson. I don't remember the dialog, only that a series of masks come off, until at the end in the very last panel, a young boy in an Afro disembarks to the afterlife. I cried and cried.
malaise
(269,144 posts)Sadly victims often make others victims
Catherine Vincent
(34,491 posts)I miss him and I love him.
#MichaelJacksonInnocent