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Michael Jackson died on this day (Original Post) malaise Jun 2019 OP
How do people here feel about Michael Jackson? True Dough Jun 2019 #1
Loved much of his music but that didn't surprise me at all underpants Jun 2019 #3
I celebrate his music malaise Jun 2019 #5
Agree with you completely. democratisphere Jun 2019 #6
That's it. Corgigal Jun 2019 #8
Nail on the head, malaise.... Heartstrings Jun 2019 #54
I don't really know. Initech Jun 2019 #9
Leaving Neverland was discredited and removed by HBO CatWoman Jun 2019 #12
Oh really? I did not know that. Initech Jun 2019 #13
That's absolutely not true BannonsLiver Jun 2019 #17
As I recall, there was some controversy over the timeline regarding the abuse of one of the accusers Floyd R. Turbo Jun 2019 #21
Really? BannonsLiver Jun 2019 #19
Please self-delete Polybius Jun 2019 #57
Not true. Maru Kitteh Jun 2019 #60
Can you listen to Ted Nugent? nt UniteFightBack Jun 2019 #44
Um.... Initech Jun 2019 #50
Nailed it. jcgoldie Jun 2019 #55
Really the most tragic story in entertainment history Goodheart Jun 2019 #15
Agree RobinA Jun 2019 #22
Great summation of a very tortured soul redstateblues Jun 2019 #59
He always creeped me out, even back at the height of his popularity in the 80s. Tommy_Carcetti Jun 2019 #18
Me, too. kwassa Jun 2019 #49
I found it interesting sarisataka Jun 2019 #25
I loved his talent and tried to ignore the PR BS as much as possible, This Is It and Michael Jackon' mulsh Jun 2019 #38
Not good at all BeyondGeography Jun 2019 #40
Not that I was every crazy for him after "Off the Wall" but his legacy in my opinion is ruined and UniteFightBack Jun 2019 #43
There's a weird cult on Twitter that thinks he was completely innocent RhodeIslandOne Jun 2019 #47
I won't even listen to his music anymore Polybius Jun 2019 #56
just the music AlexSFCA Jun 2019 #58
Phenomenally gifted dancer and performer; vastly overrated as a musical talent Spider Jerusalem Jun 2019 #66
So did Farrah Fawcett ellie Jun 2019 #2
Did not remember malaise Jun 2019 #4
Poor Farrah died on the same day. Dave Starsky Jun 2019 #10
Her passing occurred earlier in the day, IIRC, Ilsa Jun 2019 #23
As evidence of this Codeine Jun 2019 #28
Yep,remember them both passing.......... Bengus81 Jun 2019 #70
I loved his music and dancing/entertaining. Greybnk48 Jun 2019 #7
Are you talking about MJ or tRump? Joe941 Jun 2019 #36
For me, there is very little music that is "timeless". I get tired of listening... RussellCattle Jun 2019 #11
You could have written that for malaise Jun 2019 #14
Don't Disagree RobinA Jun 2019 #24
Dude, New Order is timeless! Goodheart Jun 2019 #31
I especially love that "Blue Monday" has over 130,000,000 views... SMC22307 Jun 2019 #42
I thought he was weird and a pedophile RhodeIslandOne Jun 2019 #48
Still practicing my moonwalk. panader0 Jun 2019 #16
You too malaise Jun 2019 #20
I Remember It Well RobinA Jun 2019 #26
It kinda slammed me for another reason Leith Jun 2019 #27
Many performers use uppers and downers to keep going malaise Jun 2019 #68
A great singer, dancer and overall entertainer... NewDayOranges Jun 2019 #29
The man was found not guilty in a court of law... ADX Jun 2019 #30
So was OJ lunamagica Jun 2019 #33
So what? ADX Jun 2019 #37
So what? A not guilty veredict doesn't equal innocence lunamagica Jun 2019 #39
Um, I don't recall saying that it did... ADX Jun 2019 #41
Yes I do. The evidence is overwhelming, and I'm not going to bury my head in the sand lunamagica Jun 2019 #64
Think whatever you want to, sport... ADX Jun 2019 #71
I see you completely ignored the link I provided lunamagica Jun 2019 #74
Celebrity's got nothing to do with it, I don't give the slightest fuck about "celebrity"... ADX Jun 2019 #75
The reason why MJ was found not guilty by all 12 jurors was because Niagara Jun 2019 #65
I appreciate the assist, my friend... ADX Jun 2019 #72
You're welcome, ADX Niagara Jun 2019 #76
he was found "not guilty". Not the same thing as being found 'Innocent" lunamagica Jun 2019 #73
Thank you for the correct court trial terminology Niagara Jun 2019 #77
You are welcome lunamagica Jun 2019 #78
some great dance tunes, but the rest... not_the_one Jun 2019 #32
Listening to young Michael sing I Want You Back eg BeyondGeography Jun 2019 #53
He creeped me out even before the alegations. that whole "Peter Pan" image screamed lunamagica Jun 2019 #34
A tragic example of the cycle of abuse. maxsolomon Jun 2019 #35
+1000 smirkymonkey Jun 2019 #61
I never really got into MJ as a musician or entertainer so his passing meant nothing to me. Kaleva Jun 2019 #45
I remember that day, I was at my cousin's Raine Jun 2019 #46
He was too pop for me. kwassa Jun 2019 #51
I think he had a very troubled and emotionally painful life as so many very talented people do. YOHABLO Jun 2019 #52
This is the absolute truth malaise Jun 2019 #69
Unless you can give me another John Fante Jun 2019 #62
Time truly does fly. spanone Jun 2019 #63
It was heartbreaking StarfishSaver Jun 2019 #67
Immensely gifted. Emotionally broken. Yes I believe his accusers. Hekate Jun 2019 #79
I hear you sis malaise Jun 2019 #80
What can I say? Catherine Vincent Jun 2019 #81

True Dough

(17,314 posts)
1. How do people here feel about Michael Jackson?
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 11:00 AM
Jun 2019

Does everyone accept that he was a pedophile? I think the evidence is very strong. It makes me lose respect for him as a human being.

Cannot deny that he was a talented musical artist, however. I don't listen to his songs often (I did as a kid) but if it comes on the radio I don't change stations.

underpants

(182,861 posts)
3. Loved much of his music but that didn't surprise me at all
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 11:02 AM
Jun 2019

It’s not because of the law suits I can just tell you that he set off my radar a long time ago. I actually surprised that anyone is surprised at what has come to light recently.

Initech

(100,097 posts)
9. I don't really know.
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 11:29 AM
Jun 2019

Leaving Neverland was a major eye-opener into who Michael Jackson was as a person. But you can't deny how great his music is. I'll still listen to his music and that's about it.

BannonsLiver

(16,434 posts)
17. That's absolutely not true
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 11:59 AM
Jun 2019

I just pulled it up on my HBO app. It was never removed. That lie got started with Jackson super fans who tried to discredit the film.

https://www.digitalspy.com/tv/ustv/a27124618/leaving-neverland-hbo-documentary-pulled-denied/

Floyd R. Turbo

(26,549 posts)
21. As I recall, there was some controversy over the timeline regarding the abuse of one of the accusers
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 12:10 PM
Jun 2019

HBO did not pull program however.

Goodheart

(5,334 posts)
15. Really the most tragic story in entertainment history
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 11:57 AM
Jun 2019

He was all that... The greatest performer in the history of the world.

And then his self-mutilation. And then the child abuse allegations (which I believe true)...

He was as sick as he was famous.

RobinA

(9,894 posts)
22. Agree
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 12:33 PM
Jun 2019

A tragedy on many fronts, beginning with his being a front man for a band at the tender age of...what? Too young. Seemingly no adults in the room and no one around him who wasn't making money off him. Abused, abuser, very sad for all involved. How not to raise a child. Or, how to raise a emotionally damaged child who will turn into an even more damaged adult. The man had to take anesthesia to get away from himself!

I love his music and find that, although he will be disappeared (I think it's already happening), his music really transcends time and generation.

Tommy_Carcetti

(43,189 posts)
18. He always creeped me out, even back at the height of his popularity in the 80s.
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 12:00 PM
Jun 2019

Musically, I think his singing was rather overrated; however, I will say he was one of the most talented dancers in the history of the industry.

I do think there is a lot of truth to the allegations, unfortunately.

sarisataka

(18,733 posts)
25. I found it interesting
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 12:46 PM
Jun 2019

How his death gave him radio redemption.

Prior to his death, I rarely heard one of his songs on the radio. After his death it was the 1980s all over again and he still is in regular rotation.

It is a tragic story all around. I still however question those parents who allowed their children to have sleepovers even while there were rumors about what was going on.

mulsh

(2,959 posts)
38. I loved his talent and tried to ignore the PR BS as much as possible, This Is It and Michael Jackon'
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 02:05 PM
Jun 2019

Journey From Motown to Off The Wall are two great films that reveal the professional musician and I think, real Michael Jackson. Both have extensive interviews with artists who worked with MJ and This Is It shows the work he put into that last tour that never happened.

I've watched the Neverland documentaries too and don't doubt he was deeply troubled. I believe the kids, I can't believe their parents threw them at MJ or no one in his circle could tell him what he was doing was wrong. But as someone who had to paraprase Eddie Murphy about celebrity; "pussy thrown at him" from about age five, I also felt it was impossible for MJ to end up anything but messed up. Imagine how you would have handled aggressive groupies and fans hounding you starting at a very young age.

I urge people to watch both This Is It and Michael Jackson's Journey From Motown To Off The Wall and get a glimpse of the person behind the hype.

 

UniteFightBack

(8,231 posts)
43. Not that I was every crazy for him after "Off the Wall" but his legacy in my opinion is ruined and
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 09:25 PM
Jun 2019

should be shattered. He is disgusting.

 

RhodeIslandOne

(5,042 posts)
47. There's a weird cult on Twitter that thinks he was completely innocent
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 10:56 PM
Jun 2019

And condemns anyone who thinks otherwise.

AlexSFCA

(6,139 posts)
58. just the music
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 11:40 PM
Jun 2019

there are so many musicians involved in his music that it would be unfair to them to reject his music outright due to accusations of child molestation. His personal life was very creepy and he never liked talking about it.

 

Spider Jerusalem

(21,786 posts)
66. Phenomenally gifted dancer and performer; vastly overrated as a musical talent
Wed Jun 26, 2019, 03:58 AM
Jun 2019

An awful lot of Jackson's "musical brilliance" was Quincy Jones' production.

Also a profounndly broken human being who almost certainly abused children.

Dave Starsky

(5,914 posts)
10. Poor Farrah died on the same day.
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 11:32 AM
Jun 2019

Frankly, I'm more sad about her passing than about Michael Jackson.

I knew someone who was an event planner in Hollywood. She said Farrah Fawcett was the nicest celebrity she ever worked with.

Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
23. Her passing occurred earlier in the day, IIRC,
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 12:36 PM
Jun 2019

and was announced first. Then the tv headlines about MJ being rushed to an ER hit, and that was the last we heard about FF.

Bengus81

(6,932 posts)
70. Yep,remember them both passing..........
Wed Jun 26, 2019, 08:48 AM
Jun 2019

Working in a new home on that day when her passing was announced then it seemed like five minutes later it was Jackson. Mind blowing for two celebs to pass on the same day and fairly close in time.

Honestly,I thought it had been more than ten years.

Greybnk48

(10,170 posts)
7. I loved his music and dancing/entertaining.
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 11:26 AM
Jun 2019

Sadly, his life in many ways was tragic (abusive money grubbing father, child labor, etc.). The pedophilia came as no surprise to anyone. He was so screwed up, he acted and talked like a 10 year old.

So damn sad that such a talented, dynamic entertainer ended where he did.

RussellCattle

(1,535 posts)
11. For me, there is very little music that is "timeless". I get tired of listening...
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 11:49 AM
Jun 2019

....to any music after a while. I'm always looking for something new, finding it and then moving on after a month or two. I got tired of Michael Jackson's music a long time ago and was never a great fan. The thing that I really didn't like about him was his insufferable need for attention, his constant efforts to be in the public eye. Celebrity is one thing, but the strange persona that he constantly inflicted on the public was really tiresome.

This is my opinion. Please don't attack me or my opinion. You can keep yours and I'd like to keep mine.

RobinA

(9,894 posts)
24. Don't Disagree
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 12:41 PM
Jun 2019

with you about his attention seeking, but growing up the way he did with the role he had in his family and in show business, it could hardly have been any other way. He learned it early and to him it was probably the only way he ever knew to be. It got weirder the older he got, but that's the way things tend to go. He was richly rewarded with treasure and what passed for "love" in his screwed up world. He seems to have killed himself nightly to get away from it until he finally killed himself for real.

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
42. I especially love that "Blue Monday" has over 130,000,000 views...
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 09:22 PM
Jun 2019

the song I did high-impact aerobics to back in the day (1985!).

 

RhodeIslandOne

(5,042 posts)
48. I thought he was weird and a pedophile
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 10:58 PM
Jun 2019

But for the most part he was actually fairly reclusive for a good amount of time. When he did appear, it was usually something odd and the media played it endlessly.

RobinA

(9,894 posts)
26. I Remember It Well
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 12:48 PM
Jun 2019

Heard it on the news at the fitness center that he had been taken to the hospital. Somehow I knew at the time that this was it. It was funny, because normally I tend to think the worst will not happen, usually it doesn't, but with him his extremism just made me think that if he had gone too far it would be the big Too Far.

Leith

(7,813 posts)
27. It kinda slammed me for another reason
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 12:51 PM
Jun 2019

He was about 3 weeks older than me. I grew up listening to his music knowing that he was my age. At age 50, I was feeling just fine so hearing that he died struck me as strange.

NewDayOranges

(692 posts)
29. A great singer, dancer and overall entertainer...
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 01:08 PM
Jun 2019

Left behind a horrible history of child sexual abuse.

I still enjoy his music, tho!

 

ADX

(1,622 posts)
30. The man was found not guilty in a court of law...
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 01:19 PM
Jun 2019

...and at least one of the two "Leaving Neverland" accusers previously testified in court under oath that MJ never sexually abused him.

I don't know if he did anything or not but I do know that it hasn't been proven to my satisfaction so I have no problem whatsoever spinning my Jackson 5/MJ LPs.

Rest in peace, Michael...

 

ADX

(1,622 posts)
37. So what?
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 02:03 PM
Jun 2019

Under the circumstances, the OJ verdict was the correct verdict, as was Casey Anthony's and Michael Jackson's because 12 people unanimously found that the prosecution failed to prove their case beyond a reasonable doubt.



 

ADX

(1,622 posts)
41. Um, I don't recall saying that it did...
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 07:56 PM
Jun 2019

...but a "not guilty" verdict means that 12 people listened to all of the evidence presented at trial and all 12 made a unanimous determination that the burden of proof had not been met.

You're obviously entitled to your opinion but that's all it is - your opinion, not a fact. You don't get to adjudicate someone "guilty" who has been deemed otherwise...

 

ADX

(1,622 posts)
71. Think whatever you want to, sport...
Wed Jun 26, 2019, 01:32 PM
Jun 2019

...you're merely expressing your opinion, you 're not proving anything.

Read post #65 in this thread and then get back to me...

lunamagica

(9,967 posts)
74. I see you completely ignored the link I provided
Wed Jun 26, 2019, 01:44 PM
Jun 2019

But you know what? If you want to believe a man sharing his bed with boys is healthy, go ahead...I mean, he was a celebrity, so it was OK

 

ADX

(1,622 posts)
75. Celebrity's got nothing to do with it, I don't give the slightest fuck about "celebrity"...
Wed Jun 26, 2019, 02:33 PM
Jun 2019

...As for the link you provided, I checked it out and it's nothing I haven't heard before; I remain unconvinced, as is my right to do so...

Niagara

(7,646 posts)
65. The reason why MJ was found not guilty by all 12 jurors was because
Wed Jun 26, 2019, 02:18 AM
Jun 2019

Last edited Wed Jun 26, 2019, 03:27 PM - Edit history (1)

the D.A., Tom Sneddon got caught falsifying evidence against MJ during the trial and it's on the record. People who knew Sneddon said that he belonged in jail.


The mother of the alleged 2nd victim, Janet Arvizo, has a long history of welfare fraud and several attempts of trying to hustle money from celebrities. She also won a $75,000 settlement from J.C. Penny's after being caught shoplifting. She claimed that security roughed her up. She was also caught in lies during the trial.

I'm just going to mention the 1st family that accused him of this briefly. The boys father, Evan Chandler had money problems and was going around bragging about he was going to take Michael to the cleaners. Carrie Fischer even mentioned this scumbag in her book "Shockaholic."


Michael was also analyzed by psychologist Dr. Stanley J. Katz, who was assigned to the case and found that he didn't fit the profile of a pedophile.


And this website mjfacts that others are pointing out to you, used to be called wackofacts, a trash news website that only goes after one alleged pedophile.

I wanted to tell you this so that you would have the facts to stand by your belief that MJ is/was not guilty.

 

ADX

(1,622 posts)
72. I appreciate the assist, my friend...
Wed Jun 26, 2019, 01:36 PM
Jun 2019

...I was aware of all this info but was too lazy to type it up.

Seriously, thanks again...

lunamagica

(9,967 posts)
73. he was found "not guilty". Not the same thing as being found 'Innocent"
Wed Jun 26, 2019, 01:41 PM
Jun 2019

ETA:

Guilty or not guilty. In the United States, a person is considered innocent until proven guilty. In the USA court of law the verdict is “guilty” or “not guilty” instead of “guilty” or “innocent.” Not guilty does not mean innocent. But, are the acquitted innocent?


"A not guilty verdict says something definitive about the evidence that the state introduced: it was insufficient to eliminate all reasonable doubt about guilt from the minds of the jurors. But acquittals do not answer, nor even address, the question of whether defendants are factually innocent. All we know is that the juries were not persuaded that the defendants committed the crimes charged.”

https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=12220221

 

not_the_one

(2,227 posts)
32. some great dance tunes, but the rest...
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 01:32 PM
Jun 2019

he had a place in cultural history... both good and bad

Jackson Five, for those big on pre-pubescent pop

Thriller had a few great songs

Some great dance floor hits, guaranteed to fill any dance floor. (Did he just write lyrics, or did he also write the music? I don't believe he played any instruments... After all, it was the music, not the lyrics that filled the dance floors...))

Just when gangs were beginning to get a deservedly bad rap, he singlehandedly made them cool again by hiring real gang members to dance behind him for BAD, his major effort to rehabilitate his less than masculine image, while SIMULTANEOUSLY making it super cool for young black men to grab their crotch in public...

And then, upon his death, there seemed to be a blanket amnesia that affected so many, since overnight he went from a former has-been embarrassment, who had turned himself into a freak, with almost a total rejection by the black community, into the best musician in history.

Like I said, both good and bad.

edited for spelling

BeyondGeography

(39,377 posts)
53. Listening to young Michael sing I Want You Back eg
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 11:17 PM
Jun 2019

What a talent. Natural ability, yes, but also great respect for the craft. He had done his homework. He truly loved the vocal art.

And then it went utterly wrong. I think that’s why I mostly enjoy the early stuff.

lunamagica

(9,967 posts)
34. He creeped me out even before the alegations. that whole "Peter Pan" image screamed
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 01:43 PM
Jun 2019

pedophile to me. There was nothing healthy about a grown man inviting boys to sleepovers, and I couldn't believe this was accepted just because he was a celebrity

maxsolomon

(33,360 posts)
35. A tragic example of the cycle of abuse.
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 01:50 PM
Jun 2019

Jackson, so blindingly talented as a child, but abused by both his domineering father and his Jehovah's Witness faith (not unlike Prince), could never be free to become the gay man he obviously was.

When you suppress your inner nature, it comes out twisted. His inherent self-loathing was expressed in his surgeries; his desire for men twisted into self-deluding pedophilia. His "children"? Transparent PR stunts. He named a child Blanket. He was so spaced out on drugs he nearly dropped one out a window.

His death, the sad death of a drug addict, was an ignominious footnote that preserved his reputation in amber.

Most of his music was and is over-rated. Separate from the videos, what stands up? Off The Wall, the only mature album made before his superstardom.

What could have been had he been able to be himself, freed from those chains? A better artist, no doubt. A happier human, I'd hope.

Raine

(30,540 posts)
46. I remember that day, I was at my cousin's
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 10:44 PM
Jun 2019

reception following his funeral, those two things will always be linked in my mind.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
51. He was too pop for me.
Tue Jun 25, 2019, 11:13 PM
Jun 2019

I like my R&B funkier. I also like men who sing in a lower register.

I was a fan of Guy at the time. I liked Prince much, much more. I really like the earlier generation of funksters like Pfunk, Kool and the Gang and of course the master James Brown.

I watched a video of Jackie Wilson a few years ago and thought, oh, so that's where Michael Jackson got those moves. When I watch Jackson, I'm seeing where he lifted many things from others. The moonwalk goes back to the 40s, for instance.

I guess that I am saying that Jackson is derivative, and sold many older R&B in a more pop fashion to a white audience. The few things I like are from the Off the Wall album.

malaise

(269,144 posts)
69. This is the absolute truth
Wed Jun 26, 2019, 08:42 AM
Jun 2019

Sometimes I wonder about the connections between troubled and painful lives and unbelievable talent.

John Fante

(3,479 posts)
62. Unless you can give me another
Wed Jun 26, 2019, 12:38 AM
Jun 2019

example of a grown-ass man who "shared his bed" with a procession of unrelated, underage boys and totally wasn't a child molester, it is the height of cognitive dissonance to say that Michael wasn't one either. That's a Soviet May Day-sized red flag right there.

https://www.mjfacts.com

If you still have doubts, browse through this website when you get a chance.

There's tons of useful info there, but the article on the items seized in the 1993 raid is bonkers. MJ has a photo of one of his special friends, fully nude! He was despicable.

 

StarfishSaver

(18,486 posts)
67. It was heartbreaking
Wed Jun 26, 2019, 08:20 AM
Jun 2019

For so many black kids, especially black girls, Michael Jackson was more than just a performer. He helped us fit into the world. He changed the way we saw ourselves.

When I was growing up, all of the teen idols were white: The Beatles, The Monkees, Bobby Sherman, David Cassidy, etc. We black girls did the best we could with them, but we knew we weren't really connected to them, that our fantasies about them would never, could never come true.

But then came The Jackson 5. After so long having only straight-haired white teen idols to adore, little black girls had our very own teen idols who looked like the boys we knew with brown skin and great big kinky-haired afros, and whom we felt we really had a chance to marry when we grew up.

When their faces appeared in fan magazines, we were proud to buy them by the stack. When we wrote letters to them, were confident they really read them.

That was a bfd. That was long before he grew up into a strange man whose twisted, probably criminal behavior first made us cringe and then repulsed us, the man whose legacy will forever contain an asterisk and rightfully so. But no matter how much I condemn that behavior, it will never completely eradicate what he meant to me as a little girl.


Hekate

(90,768 posts)
79. Immensely gifted. Emotionally broken. Yes I believe his accusers.
Wed Jun 26, 2019, 03:35 PM
Jun 2019

Last edited Wed Jun 26, 2019, 04:14 PM - Edit history (1)

The circus took place in my County, and I question the decision to have the trial moved to a more rural area 70+ miles away -- I think the jury was beglamored by his charisma.

My son was living at Midland School, across a narrow country road from the Neverland entrance, when the 24/7 news frenzy hit. TV trucks, helicopters, extremely bright lights, all but the helicopters parked along the fence of the school. You can't actually see Neverland from the road, as it's tucked behind a hill, and Jackson was a reclusive neighbor.

My own memory is from later, during the trial. A certain child actor (by then he must have been 20; I don't keep up) had been dragged into it, and I recognized him sitting alone in a coffee shop. Very, very alone. Such a look on his face. At my end of the County we see celebrities from time to time walking about like normal people (Costco!) and we let them be. But I've never forgotten that face -- in my heart I said, "This is not your fault."

Because my own father was an abuser and it broke something in me to have my childhood love betrayed, it's been a long road for me to be able to say, "No man is all one thing."

So with Jackson. He is all these things at once. Immensely gifted. Broken. Abused child. Child abuser. Broken. Immensely gifted.

Oh, and one more thing: the cartoonist Darrin Bell (who writes the daily strip Candorville) did a weeklong tribute when Michael Jackson died. A midnight train takes him away. Lamont, the hero of the series, is along and talks to Jackson. I don't remember the dialog, only that a series of masks come off, until at the end in the very last panel, a young boy in an Afro disembarks to the afterlife. I cried and cried.

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