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babylonsister

(171,075 posts)
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 12:03 PM Jul 2019

American Airlines forces black doctor to wear blanket to cover up her "inappropriate" dress

WTF is wrong with people?

Rob Beschizza / 4:53 am Tue Jul 9, 2019
American Airlines forces black doctor to wear blanket to cover up her "inappropriate" dress


Dr. Latisha Rowe, a family-medicine specialist, was on the way to Miami with her 8-year-old son. She says that an American Airlines flight crew publicly humiliated her by demanding she wrap herself in a blanket to conceal her dress, which they deemed "inappropriate".

Here is what i was wearing when @AmericanAir asked me to deplane for a talk. At which point I was asked to “cover up”. When defending my outfit I was threatened with not getting back on the flight unless I walked down the aisle wrapped in a blanket. #notsofriendlyskies


Buzzfeed News interviewed her.

Rowe told BuzzFeed News she and her 8-year-old son were guided outside the aircraft and she was asked if she had a jacket. Confused, Rowe replied, “No, I don’t.” After questioning Rowe further, the flight attendant made it clear that she could not board the plane as her romper was too revealing.

“I felt powerless,” Rowe said. “There was nothing I could do in that moment other than give up my money and my seat to defend my position that I was completely appropriate.”

Using a blanket that was provided by the crew, she covered up her waist and walked back to her seat feeling “humiliated.”


more...

Picture of outfit at this link.
https://boingboing.net/2019/07/09/american-airlines-forces-black.html?fbclid=IwAR2uQkMiwHTP0DiNsk3rraWjE6N4yRj3MuRmkHkVJLhguF5FJuA96MHBcBU
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American Airlines forces black doctor to wear blanket to cover up her "inappropriate" dress (Original Post) babylonsister Jul 2019 OP
Kickin' with disgust Faux pas Jul 2019 #1
Here: tblue37 Jul 2019 #2
Thanks! nt babylonsister Jul 2019 #9
BTW, I open the pic in another tab & then copy that URL in order to copy-paste the pic. nt tblue37 Jul 2019 #13
Thanks again. I will try that! nt babylonsister Jul 2019 #31
Usually it works for a pic that can't be copied from where I originally see it in an article, tblue37 Jul 2019 #40
wtf?! Adsos Letter Jul 2019 #14
Since when are rompers considered unacceptable? This has been around since the 70's. kysrsoze Jul 2019 #16
Dressed for a day at the beach? Polly Hennessey Jul 2019 #34
Too bad you are wrong obamanut2012 Jul 2019 #44
It's not 1960 anymore. nt Mach1miles Jul 2019 #48
I feel the same way, but she should not have been made to wear a blanket. AJT Jul 2019 #51
And.. cannabis_flower Jul 2019 #60
Of course SCVDem Jul 2019 #91
But what is she showing? No cleavage, no buttcrack, no buttcheeks, no sideboob, no etc. oldsoftie Jul 2019 #99
Not a big fan of the outfit. SouthernProgressive Jul 2019 #23
Inappropriate? FM123 Jul 2019 #33
And, am betting is she was size 2, white, and 10 years younger obamanut2012 Jul 2019 #45
My guess is that white would have been enough. Mach1miles Jul 2019 #49
You'd be wrong on that. Same thing just happened a few months ago & the girl was 21 & white. oldsoftie Jul 2019 #103
that was a significantly different outfit. n/t Ms. Toad Jul 2019 #138
That's what the complaint was about??? Ridiculous. I expected boobs exposed or something. Vinca Jul 2019 #93
I thought the same.She's showing nothing you wouldnt see at the mall. oldsoftie Jul 2019 #104
I have seen people in a lot less Bettie Jul 2019 #3
I was just going to say the same thing. trev Jul 2019 #11
I vowed decades ago that I would never fly American again. lagomorph777 Jul 2019 #4
well, THAT wasn't what I was expecting... hlthe2b Jul 2019 #5
She looked lovely. Aristus Jul 2019 #6
When I was in Austin a couple of weeks ago... Initech Jul 2019 #19
In my younger days I'm quite I sure I often WAS that description coming back from trips to party mr_lebowski Jul 2019 #55
What? Lovely? Aristus Jul 2019 #56
. dalton99a Jul 2019 #7
Dalton! Put ur shirt on! NT SouthernProgressive Jul 2019 #25
Uffda! Dude! Cover that up! MineralMan Jul 2019 #28
Gross Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Jul 2019 #30
Toblerone - the naked truth. crazytown Jul 2019 #92
What is it with racists and Black Womens' shoulders? Doctor Howard Jul 2019 #8
I suspect they were offended because she has a booty. They made her wear the blanket tblue37 Jul 2019 #102
Someone's about to get a nice, legal settlement. Get a good lawyer... brush Jul 2019 #10
That's the good thing about AA. They are systematically helping people make money defacto7 Jul 2019 #39
Nope. You're good. American Airlines needs to fire some people though... brush Jul 2019 #116
I thought there was going to be something see thru .... CatMor Jul 2019 #12
I have a lot of gripes about the smart phone culture, but putting a camera... LAS14 Jul 2019 #15
They made her cover up for that????? Ridiculous! Arkansas Granny Jul 2019 #17
i am old and would not wear it but she is young and pretty questionseverything Jul 2019 #114
I wouldn't wear that outfit either, but back in the day I would have. Arkansas Granny Jul 2019 #125
Same here - back in the day. But, back in the moonscape Jul 2019 #133
Not what I'd wear on a plane. Pacifist Patriot Jul 2019 #18
Same here, I always freeze on planes, but... LisaM Jul 2019 #27
Same -- I expected a bikini top and Daisy Dukes obamanut2012 Jul 2019 #46
My guess is if she were a size 0 it would have been fine. Tech Jul 2019 #20
And 20. And white. MineralMan Jul 2019 #29
yup obamanut2012 Jul 2019 #47
What is American's side of the story? Sneederbunk Jul 2019 #21
I don't think American Airlines will comment, most likely. MineralMan Jul 2019 #26
Yours is certainly ironic LanternWaste Jul 2019 #50
.. MineralMan Jul 2019 #83
In a statement provided by their spokesman, American Airlines said: lapucelle Jul 2019 #37
So what are they going to do about it? AllyCat Jul 2019 #105
I'm not defending them. Someone asked for American Airline's "side of the story". N/T lapucelle Jul 2019 #107
Should get rid of THIS EMPLOYEE AND bluestarone Jul 2019 #122
This is the longest "explanation" I've found from them. herding cats Jul 2019 #43
Yeah, that was weird... thesquanderer Jul 2019 #68
All they say is no "offensive clothing"? "Offensive" is... WePurrsevere Jul 2019 #130
Well, that was stupid of American Airlines to do. MineralMan Jul 2019 #22
Oh please. You got your own "airport dress code" thing goin': ret5hd Jul 2019 #111
.. MineralMan Jul 2019 #112
What did they expect her to wear going to Miami in June??? rogue emissary Jul 2019 #24
No kidding!! nocoincidences Jul 2019 #35
Were they afraid of her loveliness? UpInArms Jul 2019 #32
+1 uponit7771 Jul 2019 #87
Oh please, if she had been white they would never have approached her. redstatebluegirl Jul 2019 #36
Here's what Dr. Rowe said: lapucelle Jul 2019 #41
Let's try this again. Would this person get the same treatment? MineralMan Jul 2019 #38
Exactly. Not an eyebrow would be raised. brush Jul 2019 #124
So glad this woman is making this public pandr32 Jul 2019 #42
Not my choice because I get cold flying mnhtnbb Jul 2019 #52
I wouldn't put that much of my bare skin in contact with airline seats. OTT, I've seen less fabric.. Hekate Jul 2019 #53
Policy: Too much black skin is a bad thing ProudLib72 Jul 2019 #54
That's a completely inappropriate outfit to wear on a plane. PoindexterOglethorpe Jul 2019 #57
Are you seriously using the specter of an emergency on a plane to argue that Politicub Jul 2019 #63
How about church? How about at the office? PoindexterOglethorpe Jul 2019 #69
Depends on which office. I used to work in a creative agency Politicub Jul 2019 #86
She isn't in church or in her office obamanut2012 Jul 2019 #96
Where I live all women wear full length dresses Everyman Jackal Jul 2019 #129
re: "something that's appropriate for the beach is simply NOT appropriate for an airplane." thesquanderer Jul 2019 #66
But she was first of all on the plane. PoindexterOglethorpe Jul 2019 #70
Should someone on the train to the beach be dressed appropriately modestly? sir pball Jul 2019 #78
Says you? Who sets the rules on what's appropriate? babylonsister Jul 2019 #67
Okay then, anything goes. PoindexterOglethorpe Jul 2019 #71
Meeting the pope does not equal flying on an airplane, but babylonsister Jul 2019 #72
How someone is dressed is about the last thing the pope should give a fuck about, Volaris Jul 2019 #82
OFFS... sakabatou Jul 2019 #120
Seriously? Turin_C3PO Jul 2019 #74
If you're going to try and play the "in a fire" card... sir pball Jul 2019 #76
On my last flight to California, the person sitting next to me MineralMan Jul 2019 #80
That's not beach wear and its 2019 not 1946 (literally that style was wore then) uponit7771 Jul 2019 #88
It is a SUMMER ROMPER in a very hot, humid area obamanut2012 Jul 2019 #95
All that skin would burn very quickly? WHA????? Doremus Jul 2019 #106
I don't really care what other people wear, but yes, I absolutely dress expecting phylny Jul 2019 #110
Emergency? Really? Millions to 1 chance. Nt USALiberal Jul 2019 #118
Really. phylny Jul 2019 #132
Even airlines recommend you wear comfortable shoes in case of emergency. oldsoftie Jul 2019 #135
Would it have been inappropriate on a bus or a train? The Velveteen Ocelot Jul 2019 #113
Well, i know a lot more about you now! Nt USALiberal Jul 2019 #115
My grandma would dress up on airplanes like she was on her way to an appointment with the Queen. hunter Jul 2019 #128
You think God doesn't see you Ms. Toad Jul 2019 #139
Is Ashcroft CEO of American Airlines now? Politicub Jul 2019 #58
Have they seen Melania? 33taw Jul 2019 #59
I hope her judgement allows her to buy AA WhiteTara Jul 2019 #61
That's pretty revealing for a plane ride. Chemisse Jul 2019 #62
Their dress code is one line FreeState Jul 2019 #89
Ahhh, thank-you. Chemisse Jul 2019 #131
I'm not sure what their dress... Mike Nelson Jul 2019 #64
Hmmmm James48 Jul 2019 #65
My husband is a retired pilot, military for 20 and commercial for 15. 3catwoman3 Jul 2019 #109
So he knows the odds are millions to 1? Nt USALiberal Jul 2019 #119
Are you kidding me? colorado_ufo Jul 2019 #73
Southwest. kag Jul 2019 #100
Now, if they would only fly out of my airport . . . colorado_ufo Jul 2019 #117
Flight from Jamaica to Texas probably has many folks wearing summer clothes IronLionZion Jul 2019 #75
fear of black skin Celerity Jul 2019 #77
This FF sees a lot more "skin" than that ALL the time and no one says anything Thekaspervote Jul 2019 #79
Given the strip searches and cavity probes TSA is doing these days... Wounded Bear Jul 2019 #81
That's why I haven't flown AA in ten years. I hate it and fly any other airline, or drive, instead. ancianita Jul 2019 #84
Looks street legal to me bucolic_frolic Jul 2019 #85
Full Blown Puritan bullshit JDC Jul 2019 #90
Who would be harmed by her attire? KY_EnviroGuy Jul 2019 #94
IMO, the outfit is hideous, but she's not showing ANYTHING "offensive". Nothing! oldsoftie Jul 2019 #97
Ahhh...a slight correction is in order. The reason it was mentioned... brush Jul 2019 #121
Different flight. Different crews will react differently. Although they shouldnt. oldsoftie Jul 2019 #134
Acceptable Outfits on American Airlines Politicub Jul 2019 #98
I don't especially care for the outfit, but then I'm not wearing it zeusdogmom Jul 2019 #101
Why do people freak the fuck out when black women show their shoulders? LuckyCharms Jul 2019 #108
What if Lefta Dissenter Jul 2019 #123
First, that is super cute. Second you know they wouldn't stop any white women wearing that. mahina Jul 2019 #126
I couldn't care less what someone wears in a plane. DFW Jul 2019 #127
What could possibly be wrong with her outfit on a flight? Generic Brad Jul 2019 #136
It is not an airline's place to demean someone or police fashion. Glimmer of Hope Jul 2019 #137
Followup: American Airlines apologizes... PoliticAverse Jul 2019 #140

tblue37

(65,453 posts)
40. Usually it works for a pic that can't be copied from where I originally see it in an article,
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 12:46 PM
Jul 2019

but occasionally even the new tab's URL just creates a link too. But about 9 times out of 10--or even more--it does let me capture the actual image rather than just the link.

Adsos Letter

(19,459 posts)
14. wtf?!
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 12:20 PM
Jul 2019

I love the colors and cut of that outfit. She looks good in it, and there isn’t a thing inappropriate about it.

Polly Hennessey

(6,801 posts)
34. Dressed for a day at the beach?
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 12:40 PM
Jul 2019

No, for riding in an airplane. Must have been warm. My first reaction was “good grief, I am seeing more of this lady than I want to see.” Go ahead beat me into the ground but I gotta say to me she is inappropriately dressed for the plane ride.

AJT

(5,240 posts)
51. I feel the same way, but she should not have been made to wear a blanket.
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 01:10 PM
Jul 2019

I don't like revealing clothes on a plane, but I have seen plenty of girls in their late teens, early 20s wearing short shorts on a flight. If you want a dress code be fairly specific and apply it equally.

oldsoftie

(12,569 posts)
99. But what is she showing? No cleavage, no buttcrack, no buttcheeks, no sideboob, no etc.
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 02:44 PM
Jul 2019

I appreciate your nostalgia for when folks used to actually dress well for a plane ride, but those days are long gone

obamanut2012

(26,085 posts)
45. And, am betting is she was size 2, white, and 10 years younger
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 01:00 PM
Jul 2019

Hell, even just WHITE -- it wouldn't have happened.

oldsoftie

(12,569 posts)
103. You'd be wrong on that. Same thing just happened a few months ago & the girl was 21 & white.
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 02:51 PM
Jul 2019

And attractive. And it isnt the first time. Some of these flight crews just need a superior to over ride their idiocy.

Vinca

(50,296 posts)
93. That's what the complaint was about??? Ridiculous. I expected boobs exposed or something.
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 02:37 PM
Jul 2019

The airline owes her a big apology and some free travel.

Bettie

(16,112 posts)
3. I have seen people in a lot less
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 12:07 PM
Jul 2019

on planes.

That flight crew was entirely out of line, but that is unsurprising these days.

lagomorph777

(30,613 posts)
4. I vowed decades ago that I would never fly American again.
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 12:07 PM
Jul 2019

They have been assholes since their founding. And racist assholes at that. You can find old footage of their commercials from the black-and-white movie era, touting trips to Mississippi to watch African-Americans load cotton on ships. No I am not joking.

hlthe2b

(102,311 posts)
5. well, THAT wasn't what I was expecting...
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 12:08 PM
Jul 2019

Geez, Louise. One sees women wearing that everywhere in the summer months. Get a grip, AA.

Aristus

(66,416 posts)
6. She looked lovely.
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 12:10 PM
Jul 2019

And yet, smelly, unshaven, possibly drunk, dirty sweatsuit-clad white people get to ooze onto airplanes all the time without suffering such harrassment. Tell me you haven't seen travelers that fit that description...

Initech

(100,088 posts)
19. When I was in Austin a couple of weeks ago...
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 12:24 PM
Jul 2019

I was going through TSA and the guy in front of me had carried on his plastic bag - which was filled with bottles of alcohol. There were about 6 or 7 mini bottles in the bag. Even the TSA guy was like "WTF". He told the TSA agent that he was going to drink all of those. And yes, they let him through!

 

mr_lebowski

(33,643 posts)
55. In my younger days I'm quite I sure I often WAS that description coming back from trips to party
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 01:21 PM
Jul 2019

for the weekend with friends lol ...

 

Doctor Howard

(22 posts)
8. What is it with racists and Black Womens' shoulders?
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 12:13 PM
Jul 2019

I remember the backlash when Mrs. Obama wore bare shoulder outfits.

tblue37

(65,453 posts)
102. I suspect they were offended because she has a booty. They made her wear the blanket
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 02:50 PM
Jul 2019

around her waist, not her shoulders.

defacto7

(13,485 posts)
39. That's the good thing about AA. They are systematically helping people make money
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 12:45 PM
Jul 2019

They have all this extra money laying around and are showing benevolence by purposely offending passengers for their own good.

I don’t need that sarc thingy do I?

brush

(53,801 posts)
116. Nope. You're good. American Airlines needs to fire some people though...
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 04:26 PM
Jul 2019

as they are coughing up a lot bucks from their crews stupid decisions.

CatMor

(6,212 posts)
12. I thought there was going to be something see thru ....
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 12:17 PM
Jul 2019

where as her outfit is great looking in this hot weather. American Airlines needs to redo their dress code.

LAS14

(13,783 posts)
15. I have a lot of gripes about the smart phone culture, but putting a camera...
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 12:23 PM
Jul 2019

.... in everyone's hands has done a lot of good.

questionseverything

(9,656 posts)
114. i am old and would not wear it but she is young and pretty
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 04:24 PM
Jul 2019

I really expected to see something way more revealing when I read the headline

now in this thread there is a pic of a fat,hairy guy w/o a shirt and he should definitely covered up

Arkansas Granny

(31,521 posts)
125. I wouldn't wear that outfit either, but back in the day I would have.
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 04:49 PM
Jul 2019

I saw the pic of the guy with no shirt. That was offensive.

moonscape

(4,673 posts)
133. Same here - back in the day. But, back in the
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 07:43 PM
Jul 2019

day there was a dress code for flying ... we were practically expected to wear hats!

Pacifist Patriot

(24,653 posts)
18. Not what I'd wear on a plane.
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 12:24 PM
Jul 2019

Because I'm prone to get cold and wear layers when I fly.

Clicked on the link and expected to see her practically naked or something. Sheesh! Don't airlines have more important things to worry about?

obamanut2012

(26,085 posts)
46. Same -- I expected a bikini top and Daisy Dukes
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 01:02 PM
Jul 2019

Both of which I have seen someone wear on a plane btw.

This is just a summer romper, very nice and colorful.

MineralMan

(146,319 posts)
26. I don't think American Airlines will comment, most likely.
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 12:30 PM
Jul 2019

Too much brown skin showing probably was their immediate reason, but they won't say that, now, will they?

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
50. Yours is certainly ironic
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 01:07 PM
Jul 2019

in regards to airline passenger wardrobe.

"Too much... skin showing probably" is simply the icing on the ironic cake.

lapucelle

(18,285 posts)
37. In a statement provided by their spokesman, American Airlines said:
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 12:43 PM
Jul 2019
We were concerned about Dr. Rowe's comments, and reached out to her and our team at the Kingston airport to gather more information about what occurred. Unfortunately, we've been unable to reach Dr. Rowe or leave a message at the number provided. We want to personally apologize to Dr. Rowe and her son for their experience, and have fully refunded their travel. We are proud to serve customers of all backgrounds and are committed to providing a positive, safe travel experience for everyone who flies with us.

https://www.businessinsider.com/american-airlines-tisha-rowe-dress-code-denied-boarding-2019-7

AllyCat

(16,196 posts)
105. So what are they going to do about it?
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 02:53 PM
Jul 2019

Retrain employees how to handle complaints from racist customers? Fire racist employees? Update their dress code? Enforce that code equally? I doubt it.

herding cats

(19,565 posts)
43. This is the longest "explanation" I've found from them.
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 12:53 PM
Jul 2019
"We are just terribly sorry for what happened to Dr. Rowe and her son, for their experience with us, and that is why we have apologized, and we really want to personally apologize to her," said Mohr.

Mohr said she had been in touch with the airline staff at Kingston's airport, but did not share their account of the incident.

Mohr urged customers to read the airline's Conditions of Carriage on its website, where the dress code policy states that fliers must "dress appropriately" and bans "bare feet and offensive clothing."

"We want to ensure positive, safe travel experiences for everybody who flies with us," said Mohr. "The guidance that we give to our passengers is simply to dress appropriately. Bare feet or offensive clothing are not allowed. So, that's pretty much using the good guidelines of common sense about what could be deemed offensive or inappropriate — showing certain amounts of skin that you would not show on the street, for example, of course, would fit into that 'inappropriate' kind of level, or if you had incredibly foul or hateful language that you wouldn't expect to wear out onto the street, that would fit that offensive clothing. But we provide very simple guidance on it."

https://www.today.com/style/woman-claims-she-was-briefly-removed-plane-because-outfit-t157750


Considering they made her wear the blanket around her waist, and that her shorts were not overly short, it's total BS IMO.

thesquanderer

(11,990 posts)
68. Yeah, that was weird...
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 01:48 PM
Jul 2019

... they had her wrap a blanket around her waist (to cover the bottom half) after they asked if she had a jacket (which would cover her top half)? So it was no particular exposed area of the body that bothered them, just... not enough fabric in total? "Hey, you can expose you shoulders or your knees, but not both..."

WePurrsevere

(24,259 posts)
130. All they say is no "offensive clothing"? "Offensive" is...
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 05:22 PM
Jul 2019

"In the eye of the beholder". Someone like me wouldn't care if an airline passenger showed up wearing a tube top and short shorts. Someone more conservative might require all skin covered or they're offended.

If an airline (mass transit) wants a dress code it should be very clearly stated exactly what's acceptable and what is not when tickets are purchased and again before passengers are allowed to check in their luggage. If what they're wearing when they show up is banned, politely offer them a choice of changing out of/covering up their banned clothing or a refund.

Personally I find 'Bertha/Bertie better than thou', racist, sexist, judgmental, behavior a whole lot more offensive than someone who shows some skin while traveling on an airplane, train, bus or boat.

MineralMan

(146,319 posts)
22. Well, that was stupid of American Airlines to do.
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 12:28 PM
Jul 2019

Now, that outfit's colors and pattern were a little loud for my taste, but my sense of style isn't the measure of suitability for air travel.

I'm not sure what the objection was, except maybe that she was showing too much brown skin for someone's liking.

I'll bet that was it.

nocoincidences

(2,224 posts)
35. No kidding!!
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 12:41 PM
Jul 2019

I think she looks cute, and there's nothing inappropriate about it, except the biased eye of the beholders.

UpInArms

(51,284 posts)
32. Were they afraid of her loveliness?
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 12:35 PM
Jul 2019

Last edited Tue Jul 9, 2019, 02:27 PM - Edit history (1)

WTF is wrong with people

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redstatebluegirl

(12,265 posts)
36. Oh please, if she had been white they would never have approached her.
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 12:41 PM
Jul 2019

Just another reason not to fly American!

lapucelle

(18,285 posts)
41. Here's what Dr. Rowe said:
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 12:47 PM
Jul 2019
I have a very curvaceous body, and I put my body in bold colors, so you're going to see it. But it's not vulgar. It's not inappropriate. It's not bad, you know? If you put someone who's a size 2 in the exact same outfit next to me, no one would be bothered.


https://www.businessinsider.com/american-airlines-tisha-rowe-dress-code-denied-boarding-2019-7

pandr32

(11,594 posts)
42. So glad this woman is making this public
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 12:48 PM
Jul 2019

Shaming racist, sexist, or any other kind of discriminatory behavior shines a public spotlight on it. Nothing will change unless we have the guts to expose it.
I hope this woman and her son will benefit from a lawsuit. It will serve American Airlines right. Other airlines are hopefully put on notice!

mnhtnbb

(31,397 posts)
52. Not my choice because I get cold flying
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 01:12 PM
Jul 2019

but I've seen plenty of women on planes wearing short shorts or skirts and sleeveless or halter tops. Never seen one humiliated for clothing choices.

AA definitely messed up on this.

Hekate

(90,738 posts)
53. I wouldn't put that much of my bare skin in contact with airline seats. OTT, I've seen less fabric..
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 01:14 PM
Jul 2019

...on young, female, white passengers. I think Dr Rowe's sunsuit is really cute.

The days when passengers used to dress up for flying are long gone -- dressing in your best clothes stopped shortly after the airlines stopped treating us a valued customers and started treating us as cattle crammed in as tightly as possible, and disappeared completely when TSA started wanting us to strip.

What a crock.

ProudLib72

(17,984 posts)
54. Policy: Too much black skin is a bad thing
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 01:19 PM
Jul 2019

If it were just her face and hands, that would be tolerable. But this much skin showing screams "Black Woman!!!" Therefore, we must cover her up. Think of the children!

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,865 posts)
57. That's a completely inappropriate outfit to wear on a plane.
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 01:26 PM
Jul 2019

No matter what the color of your skin.

Dear lord, I'm not expecting people to dress up the way they used to in the 1950's, but something that's appropriate for the beach is simply NOT appropriate for an airplane.

Clearly, her medical degree hasn't helped to understand certain things. Perhaps the thing to ask her is: would she dress like this treating patients? Or to church? Somehow I doubt it.

Oh, here's something else. In an emergency, especially in a fire, all that skin would burn very quickly. Clothing offers protection. Same reason you should wear closed shoes on a plane. Not that such emergencies happen too often, but still.

Politicub

(12,165 posts)
63. Are you seriously using the specter of an emergency on a plane to argue that
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 01:34 PM
Jul 2019

women should dress modestly when they fly? That’s a new one. Whither the men who wear shorts? Who will speak for them and their safety?

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,865 posts)
69. How about church? How about at the office?
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 01:51 PM
Jul 2019

Is this outfit appropriate for those? An airplane is NOT the streets of Miami, or a beach in Hawaii.

Politicub

(12,165 posts)
86. Depends on which office. I used to work in a creative agency
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 02:23 PM
Jul 2019

and people would wear revealing garments. No one cared.

The casual nature of the outfit wouldn’t fit in at most law offices, I would think.

For churches? Some like to shun people for this and that while others are come as you are. I don’t go to church now, though, so don’t really know and don’t care. When I was brought to church as a kid, it was a Pentecostal church where women were expected to always wear skirts or dresses and not cut their hair.

Churches and offices aren’t airlines, which is a form of transportation.

Why do you feel so strongly about what she’s wearing?

 

Everyman Jackal

(271 posts)
129. Where I live all women wear full length dresses
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 05:09 PM
Jul 2019

and all men wear suits when going to church. I got my first suit when I was 6 years old. Whenever we went to a restaurant or to the symphony I wore a suit. Now I wear a t-shirt and jeans to a restaurant but still wear a suit to the symphony.

thesquanderer

(11,990 posts)
66. re: "something that's appropriate for the beach is simply NOT appropriate for an airplane."
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 01:40 PM
Jul 2019

OTOH, her outfit is perfectly appropriate for the streets of Miami, which is where she was headed.

sir pball

(4,750 posts)
78. Should someone on the train to the beach be dressed appropriately modestly?
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 02:06 PM
Jul 2019

And then find a place to change before and after?

A plane isn't remotely like a church. A plane isn't even some sort of special experience anymore, it's no more than a method, potentially rather unpleasant at that, of travel from point A to point B. While I would concede that, say, ultra-skimpy cutoffs and a tiny crop-top would probably be a bit much, this woman isn't dressed in a way that I'd even notice, especially on a flight to Southern Florida.

You must be a joy to fly with...

babylonsister

(171,075 posts)
67. Says you? Who sets the rules on what's appropriate?
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 01:43 PM
Jul 2019

And you're right, we're almost 70 years later compared to when modestly dressing was deemed appropriate.

Volaris

(10,273 posts)
82. How someone is dressed is about the last thing the pope should give a fuck about,
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 02:11 PM
Jul 2019

If that pope actually believes in the real work he's supposed to be doing.

Turin_C3PO

(14,016 posts)
74. Seriously?
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 01:56 PM
Jul 2019

Since when does one have to dress up to be on an airplane? Maybe 50 years ago but that’s not the protocol now. She dressed appropriately.

sir pball

(4,750 posts)
76. If you're going to try and play the "in a fire" card...
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 02:01 PM
Jul 2019

You should really also stress that synthetics (nylon, rayon, polyester, &c) are WORSE than bare skin, as they'll melt and stick to your skin. Ever had a nylon burn?

Me, I usually wear jeans and bring a flannel or sweater only because the AC is always frigid, but I do actually think to make sure it's all natural fabrics.

That being said, flying is not church or the office, nor even a remotely "special" experience (not the 1950s indeed). Her outfit was absolutely fine; I go to Vegas and Fort Myers a few times a year, she wouldn't even register on those trips.

MineralMan

(146,319 posts)
80. On my last flight to California, the person sitting next to me
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 02:08 PM
Jul 2019

was wearing flannel pajamas and slippers. She looked quite comfortable.

Doremus

(7,261 posts)
106. All that skin would burn very quickly? WHA?????
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 03:04 PM
Jul 2019

Um, did you know most fabric is flammable? Unless you're talking about canvas, cotton duck or similar heavy-weight fabrics, most will offer little if any protection against fire. Polyster, nylon and other petroleum based fabric in fact will do just the opposite, melting on the skin and making burns far worse.

phylny

(8,383 posts)
110. I don't really care what other people wear, but yes, I absolutely dress expecting
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 03:09 PM
Jul 2019

delays or to protect myself in case of an emergency. I wear comfortable pants, a comfortable shirt (short-sleeved in summer), carry a jacket, and wear comfortable shoes (not flip flops) in case I have to run or evacuate safely. No heels, nothing that would be difficult to move in.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,776 posts)
113. Would it have been inappropriate on a bus or a train?
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 04:17 PM
Jul 2019

Is there something special about an airplane? Dressing up for church (which a lot of people don't do anymore, either) is something people do (or did) as a sign of respect for a formal ceremony honoring their religious tradition. Dressing up for your job is something you might or might not do, depending on the nature of your job and what the employer might require. But dressing up just to be transported from one place to another on some kind of vehicle used by the general public does not require any particular formality or showing of special respect. Of course you are out in public, so you wouldn't want to wear something that shows parts of you that are not what our society considers to be in the public domain or that might get you arrested. But I can't think why an airplane would be different from a shopping mall as far as attire is concerned. While the outfit this woman wore isn't something I'd choose, she wasn't exposing any body parts that she wouldn't show at the mall. All the naughty bits were covered. So what's the problem?

Also: The protection afforded by clothing during a plane crash depends as much on the fabric as on the extent of skin coverage. Some artificial fabrics melt and stick to you like napalm, which is just as bad as or worse than no fabric at all. The reason you should wear closed shoes rather than flip flops or sandals is not to protect your feet but because they are less likely to fall off when you're evacuating. But high heels, even with closed toes, are bad because they can catch on or damage the emergency slides and you can be sure you'll sprain an ankle when you land at the bottom of the slide (I've been on a couple of those slides. You go very fast.)

hunter

(38,321 posts)
128. My grandma would dress up on airplanes like she was on her way to an appointment with the Queen.
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 04:57 PM
Jul 2019

That was the 'sixties.

These days airliners are just the bus and they don't treat you any better.

Wear what's comfortable.


Ms. Toad

(34,080 posts)
139. You think God doesn't see you
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 09:17 PM
Jul 2019

outside of the church?

Silly people who - in theory - believe in an all-powerful, all-seeing God who - for some reason - cares what you are wearing for a few hours on one day.

Politicub

(12,165 posts)
58. Is Ashcroft CEO of American Airlines now?
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 01:27 PM
Jul 2019

What was this crew thinking?

And, who knows how many people this crew has humiliated that we haven’t heard about.

Screw you, AA.



Chemisse

(30,813 posts)
62. That's pretty revealing for a plane ride.
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 01:34 PM
Jul 2019

I certainly wouldn't dress like that for travel.

In many (most?) high schools, girls would be sent home to change clothes if they wore something strapless (or even if the straps were too narrow, ie "spaghetti" straps).

I trust they have a dress policy to back up this action? One that applies to all people, regardless of race, etc? Without a policy they are inviting accusations of racism.

FreeState

(10,573 posts)
89. Their dress code is one line
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 02:28 PM
Jul 2019

"Dress appropriately; bare feet or offensive clothing aren’t allowed."

https://www.aa.com/i18n/customer-service/support/conditions-of-carriage.jsp

I don't see how the attire the passenger is wearing in the phots is offensive.

Chemisse

(30,813 posts)
131. Ahhh, thank-you.
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 05:42 PM
Jul 2019

No. It is definitely not 'offensive.'

Unless this airline can point to other instances where others who are not black have been treated similarly for the same kind of attire, this would appear to be a racist action.

The poor woman must be humiliated.

Mike Nelson

(9,961 posts)
64. I'm not sure what their dress...
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 01:37 PM
Jul 2019

… code states... I would give her a blanket to keep warm. Airplanes have a strange air system - always feels drafty! The colors look beautiful on this woman, by the way.

James48

(4,437 posts)
65. Hmmmm
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 01:37 PM
Jul 2019

I wouldn’t have thought that appropriate for riding on an airplane- and can see what the issue is-

But then again, I’m an aviation safety person who thinks everybody should dress as if they need to evacuate quickly in the middle of a flaming environment.

Give me thick cotton covering every bare inch of skin any day, with a leather coat, gloves, safety steel toe shoes, and a cotton scarf to hold over your face any day.

Increases the chance of getting out safely if you have some slow-burnables between you and the emergency exits.

3catwoman3

(24,017 posts)
109. My husband is a retired pilot, military for 20 and commercial for 15.
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 03:07 PM
Jul 2019

He always wears natural fabrics and closed toe, lace up shoes when flying, in case of the need for evacuation. Based on his habits and advice, so do I. Leggings would be more comfortable tha jeans, but I don't want them melting onto me.

kag

(4,079 posts)
100. Southwest.
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 02:45 PM
Jul 2019

A few years ago Frontier screwed over me and my daughter. I will NEVER get back on a Frontier flight, but that same day, Southwest saved our asses. (Frontier had already shipped our luggage to Austin, but then wouldn't let us on the flight.) I am now a Southwest customer for life.

IronLionZion

(45,471 posts)
75. Flight from Jamaica to Texas probably has many folks wearing summer clothes
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 01:58 PM
Jul 2019

I would be skeptical if AA didn't have a history of this. The NAACP had a travel advisory for this airline because of removing minorities from flights. They had recently lifted it. https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2018/07/17/naacp-lifts-travel-warning-against-american-airlines/?utm_term=.c71797d3420d

Wounded Bear

(58,674 posts)
81. Given the strip searches and cavity probes TSA is doing these days...
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 02:10 PM
Jul 2019

dressing down a bit for convenience and comfort makes a whole lot of sense.



What next? Must fly in burqas?

KY_EnviroGuy

(14,492 posts)
94. Who would be harmed by her attire?
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 02:37 PM
Jul 2019

This event raises some questions I think are valid....

1. Who would be harmed by her attire?

2. Shouldn't this have been brought up pre-boarding?

3. Shouldn't airlines be required to clearly define their dress codes so that employee personal opinions are not a factor?
(we can see by the diverse opinions here on DU that the code should be clear) That would also minimize the possibility of racial or gender discrimination.

4. Are crew members trained on how to judge inappropriate dress, or is it left to the personal opinion of the employee?

KY.......

oldsoftie

(12,569 posts)
97. IMO, the outfit is hideous, but she's not showing ANYTHING "offensive". Nothing!
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 02:42 PM
Jul 2019

But why does it matter that she's a doctor? Or black? Because we've seen this story before with women of every race & many occupations. Of course it IS Buzzfeed, so i guess they need to sensationalize it

brush

(53,801 posts)
121. Ahhh...a slight correction is in order. The reason it was mentioned...
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 04:32 PM
Jul 2019

that she is African American is because if it was a white woman she would not have been questioned, her attire would not have been an issue at all.

Why is that even necessary to point out? There's a photo in this thread of a white guy in sweat pants and no top at all sitting in a middle seat for God's sake and he was allowed to fly.

oldsoftie

(12,569 posts)
134. Different flight. Different crews will react differently. Although they shouldnt.
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 08:41 PM
Jul 2019

Also, the guy pictured is already seated and it appears the plane is already in the air. I doubt he entered the aircraft shirtless.

And as i pointed out in another post, the same thing happened to a 21 yr old attractive white woman just a couple months back. Also showing nothing more than a stomach.

zeusdogmom

(995 posts)
101. I don't especially care for the outfit, but then I'm not wearing it
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 02:48 PM
Jul 2019

If this were my daughter, as a Mom I would gently suggest to cover up just a bit for comfort in the generally cold airline. And then shut up.

I can't imagine though sitting on the air line seat with so much skin coming in contact with the seat fabric. Same thing in a car. When my shorts are too short, my skin feels like it gets stuck on the surface and it hurts when I get out. I vividly remember 1st degree burns from a hot black car seat in the summer. D*** that hurt. Of course the airline seat wouldn't be that hot. But it could also be a rough fabric seat. Itchy and scratchy.

But her choice. She is an adult. And the AA crew member was out of line.

LuckyCharms

(17,450 posts)
108. Why do people freak the fuck out when black women show their shoulders?
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 03:05 PM
Jul 2019

Or when they show a little skin?

Christ Almighty, remember what they did to Michelle Obama when she revealed her shoulders? And yet Melania poses nude, and she's "beautiful".

Make no mistake...if this was a white woman, it would not have been a problem. All the fucking issues in the world, and this is what the airline chooses to worry about.

The doctor looks fine. American Airlines looks racist and puritanical.

mahina

(17,681 posts)
126. First, that is super cute. Second you know they wouldn't stop any white women wearing that.
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 04:54 PM
Jul 2019

People get on airplanes wearing bikinis for chrissake. Is there a dress code for riding on an airplane that I am not aware of?

I would boycott them if I could. Shame on them.

DFW

(54,415 posts)
127. I couldn't care less what someone wears in a plane.
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 04:55 PM
Jul 2019

What matters is how they conduct themselves on the plane. The guy carrying all those small bottles of booze onto the plane, saying he intended to drink them all? Now THAT is offensive.

The last time I took an American flight overseas (short notice NYC to Zürich, I had no choice), some loudmouthed boor came running up shouting that he was seated next to a woman, and that he could not be seated next to a woman, so he demanded to be reseated (or that she be reseated). As the chief purser or the pilot, I would have kicked the guy off the flight, as he was loud, obnoxious, and seemed like a threat for violence. Unfortunately, I think the crew accommodated him. I hate it when some oaf thinks his "religious" preferences have a higher priority than everyone else's.

As someone who flies in and out of Dallas a lot when I'm in the States, especially since Virgin America is no more (house and office are 15 minutes from Love Field), I am condemned to fly American a lot. I can't STAND them (or United). I would rather take a boat than take them transatlantic again. They damage luggage and don't pay for it. They once let us stew for NINE hours at the DFW airport waiting for a flight to Newark, less than a three hour flight. They were telling one lie after another. The biggest whopper of all was that "the crew had come in from Austin, and were delivered to the wrong terminal." Now, DFW is a big airport, but the crew could have crawled on their bellies from one terminal to another in less than 9 hours.

It is nearly impossible for someone who has to fly a lot to avoid American if you live in Dallas (like avoiding United if you live in the Midwest), but if I CAN avoid them, I always do. Thank goodness Delta has a nonstop from Atlanta to Düsseldorf. There is a saying: in the south, even if you die and go to heaven, you still have to change in Atlanta.

As for this woman, American should not only have refunded her airfare, but given her ten free round trips first class as compensation. Knowing American as well as I unfortunately do, I realize that Trump will join a monastery before that ever happens.

Generic Brad

(14,275 posts)
136. What could possibly be wrong with her outfit on a flight?
Tue Jul 9, 2019, 08:47 PM
Jul 2019

I have seen people wear inappropriate attire on airplanes and that does not come close to qualifying.

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