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cynatnite

(31,011 posts)
Wed Aug 29, 2012, 04:06 PM Aug 2012

Best thing to happen to women...

Getting the vote is one, of course.

The next best thing...birth control.

We took control of our reproductive rights. We had a choice to not become pregnant. Some men in the world will impregnant a woman against her will. We gained sexual freedom.

Loretta Lynn's song "The Pill" came out in 1975 and she got a bit of a Dixie Chick treatment as a result. Many stations refused to play the song. Rural doctors said the song wound up educating women who would have otherwise never heard about the pill.

You wined me and denied me when I was you girl
Told me if I'd be your wife you'd show me the world
But all I've seen of this old world is a bed and a doctor bill
I'm tearin' down your brooder house because now I've got the pill
All these years I've stayed at home while you had all your fun
And every years that's gone by another baby's come
There's gonna be some changes made right here on nursery hill
You've set this chicken your last time cause now I've got the pill
This old maternity dress I've got is going in the garbage
The clothes I'm wearing from now on won't take up so much yardage
Miniskirts hot pants and a few little fancy frills
Yeah I'm making up for all those years since I've got the pill
I'm tired of all your crowing how you and your hens play
While holding a couple in my arms another's on the way
This chicken's done for up her nest and ready to make a deal
And you can't afford to turn it down cause you know I've got the pill
This incubator is overused because you've kept it filled
The feeling good time's easy now since I've got the pill
It's gettin' dark it's roostin' time and that's too good to be real
Oh daddy don't you worry now cause momma's got the pill



I do think many women of today don't realize how much birth control have taken us out of the maternity dresses and given us independence. They don't know or understand how beneficial birth control is physically, emotionally, and financially.

This is not about sex. It's more than the right to control our reproductive organs. This is about independence and self-determination.

Limiting access to birth control makes it more difficult to exercise these rights. The harm we get from this takes us back to those days when women had to be pregnant against their will. Pregnancy was a chain. Pregnancy was oppression.

The Pill was freedom.

It's all in the lyrics.
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Best thing to happen to women... (Original Post) cynatnite Aug 2012 OP
I love that song liberal_at_heart Aug 2012 #1
I've met young women who do not understand what this tiny pill means for us. n/t cynatnite Aug 2012 #2
I don't know about that. CrispyQ Aug 2012 #3
Those BIC Pens for Women have to rank right up there. n/t DefenseLawyer Aug 2012 #4
Really? cynatnite Aug 2012 #6
Reference to an earlier post DefenseLawyer Aug 2012 #8
Oh hell yeah, those pink ones did it for me..n/t monmouth Aug 2012 #7
Birth control = freedom gollygee Aug 2012 #5
the religious conservatives, the GOP and the misogynistic would have... Raster Aug 2012 #9
Great post malaise Aug 2012 #10

liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
1. I love that song
Wed Aug 29, 2012, 04:22 PM
Aug 2012

That's exactly where they want us. So bogged down with children, we can't do anything else. We're not going back there. They can't even get the republican women to agree with them on that one.

CrispyQ

(36,532 posts)
3. I don't know about that.
Wed Aug 29, 2012, 04:27 PM
Aug 2012

I have a close business acquaintance who's a repub. A few weeks ago we were talking about all this & she was adamant, "They aren't taking my BC away! Or my daughters!" Today she 'liked' Romney on Facebook.

Ron Paul was her first choice.

cynatnite

(31,011 posts)
6. Really?
Wed Aug 29, 2012, 04:30 PM
Aug 2012

I figured it was just a girly thing and not a big deal. I put flowers and shiny stuff all over my laptop. It's a girly laptop now.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
5. Birth control = freedom
Wed Aug 29, 2012, 04:29 PM
Aug 2012

Women used to have to choose between work and ever getting married. Some was general sexism but some was also just the logistics of it. It's hard to work when you're having baby after baby after baby, and have to pay someone to watch all your kids. Also, it can take a terrible toll on a woman's health to have a large number of babies. If women choose to do that, then they should have that choice, but those of us who want to limit to one or two or none should also have that option.

Raster

(20,998 posts)
9. the religious conservatives, the GOP and the misogynistic would have...
Wed Aug 29, 2012, 04:45 PM
Aug 2012

...women returned to permanent brood mare status.

Weak, stupid men are afraid of women. Weak, stupid men are a danger to us all.

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