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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsThis grandpa's letter disowning his daughter for throwing out her gay son is perfect
In news that will restore some of your faith in humanity after what's been, let's face it, an odd period in time, a grandfather has written the most heartwarming letter to his daughter after she disowned her gay son.
Having made the brave decision to tell his mother that he was gay, Chad was cruelly rejected by her, and called an 'abomination' and 'against nature', reports Bored Panda.
Kicking Chad out of your home simply because he told you he was gay is the real abomination here. A parent disowning her child is what goes against nature.
The only intelligent thing I heard you saying in all this was that you didnt raise your son to be gay. Of course you didnt. He was born this way and didnt choose it any more than he being left-handed. You, however, have made the choice of being hurtful, narrow-minded and backward.
So, while we are in the business of disowning our children, I think Ill take this moment to say goodbye to you. I now have a fabulous (as the gay put it) grandson to raise and I dont have time for heartless B-word of a daughter.
If you find your heart, give us a call.
There are no two ways about it, it is a completely perfect response.
Having made the brave decision to tell his mother that he was gay, Chad was cruelly rejected by her, and called an 'abomination' and 'against nature', reports Bored Panda.
Kicking Chad out of your home simply because he told you he was gay is the real abomination here. A parent disowning her child is what goes against nature.
The only intelligent thing I heard you saying in all this was that you didnt raise your son to be gay. Of course you didnt. He was born this way and didnt choose it any more than he being left-handed. You, however, have made the choice of being hurtful, narrow-minded and backward.
So, while we are in the business of disowning our children, I think Ill take this moment to say goodbye to you. I now have a fabulous (as the gay put it) grandson to raise and I dont have time for heartless B-word of a daughter.
If you find your heart, give us a call.
There are no two ways about it, it is a completely perfect response.
[link:https://www.indy100.com/article/homophobia-lgbt-letter-grandpa-daughter-son-chad-9017391|
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This grandpa's letter disowning his daughter for throwing out her gay son is perfect (Original Post)
Soph0571
Jul 2019
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3catwoman3
(24,054 posts)1. Go, Grandpa, go.
The grandson is lucky to have this man in his corner.
lame54
(35,326 posts)2. Didn't he just disown her?
Aristus
(66,467 posts)4. Yes, for a perfectly valid reason.
Being heartless and cruel.
Her reason for disowning her son is shameful.
Harker
(14,045 posts)8. No. He left the door ajar.
It's close, but I'd say he put the ball rather deftly into her court.
Dem_4_Life
(1,765 posts)3. Way to go Grandpa
sl8
(13,921 posts)5. When Gawker published this in 2013, even Gawker's owner thought the source seemed suspicious.
https://www.niemanlab.org/2013/12/the-veracity-of-viral/
As far as I know, it was never confirmed as either real or fake.
Also mentioned here (nothing conclusive regarding this particular story):
Lies, Damn Lies, and Viral Content
https://academiccommons.columbia.edu/download/fedora_content/download/ac:18931zcrk2/content/TowCenter15_LiesDamnLiesAndViralContent_Silverman.pdf
As far as I know, it was never confirmed as either real or fake.
Also mentioned here (nothing conclusive regarding this particular story):
Lies, Damn Lies, and Viral Content
https://academiccommons.columbia.edu/download/fedora_content/download/ac:18931zcrk2/content/TowCenter15_LiesDamnLiesAndViralContent_Silverman.pdf
Pepsidog
(6,254 posts)6. No doubt the daughter is a paragon of morality and Trumpanzee.
Bettie
(16,129 posts)7. I'm glad that Chad has
someone to turn to, someone willing to accept him for who he is.
I still don't get how parents can just throw away a child they have raised. Even when I've been disappointed with some of their decisions (teenagers, so it is their time to make some poor decisions), I love them with all my heart and can not imagine my life without them.
But, in this case, he's right to distance himself from his daughter, even though it probably breaks his heart to do so. His grandson needs him and he's willing to do what it takes to be there for him.