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Soph0571

(9,685 posts)
Wed Jul 24, 2019, 10:41 AM Jul 2019

This grandpa's letter disowning his daughter for throwing out her gay son is perfect



In news that will restore some of your faith in humanity after what's been, let's face it, an odd period in time, a grandfather has written the most heartwarming letter to his daughter after she disowned her gay son.

Having made the brave decision to tell his mother that he was gay, Chad was cruelly rejected by her, and called an 'abomination' and 'against nature', reports Bored Panda.

Kicking Chad out of your home simply because he told you he was gay is the real ‘abomination’ here. A parent disowning her child is what goes ‘against nature’.

The only intelligent thing I heard you saying in all this was that ‘you didn’t raise your son to be gay’. Of course you didn’t. He was born this way and didn’t choose it any more than he being left-handed. You, however, have made the choice of being hurtful, narrow-minded and backward.

So, while we are in the business of disowning our children, I think I’ll take this moment to say goodbye to you. I now have a fabulous (as the gay put it) grandson to raise and I don’t have time for heartless B-word of a daughter.

If you find your heart, give us a call.


There are no two ways about it, it is a completely perfect response.


[link:https://www.indy100.com/article/homophobia-lgbt-letter-grandpa-daughter-son-chad-9017391|

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This grandpa's letter disowning his daughter for throwing out her gay son is perfect (Original Post) Soph0571 Jul 2019 OP
Go, Grandpa, go. 3catwoman3 Jul 2019 #1
Didn't he just disown her? lame54 Jul 2019 #2
Yes, for a perfectly valid reason. Aristus Jul 2019 #4
No. He left the door ajar. Harker Jul 2019 #8
Way to go Grandpa Dem_4_Life Jul 2019 #3
When Gawker published this in 2013, even Gawker's owner thought the source seemed suspicious. sl8 Jul 2019 #5
No doubt the daughter is a paragon of morality and Trumpanzee. Pepsidog Jul 2019 #6
I'm glad that Chad has Bettie Jul 2019 #7

Aristus

(66,467 posts)
4. Yes, for a perfectly valid reason.
Wed Jul 24, 2019, 11:52 AM
Jul 2019

Being heartless and cruel.

Her reason for disowning her son is shameful.

Harker

(14,045 posts)
8. No. He left the door ajar.
Wed Jul 24, 2019, 11:28 PM
Jul 2019

It's close, but I'd say he put the ball rather deftly into her court.

sl8

(13,921 posts)
5. When Gawker published this in 2013, even Gawker's owner thought the source seemed suspicious.
Wed Jul 24, 2019, 11:58 AM
Jul 2019
https://www.niemanlab.org/2013/12/the-veracity-of-viral/

As far as I know, it was never confirmed as either real or fake.

Also mentioned here (nothing conclusive regarding this particular story):
Lies, Damn Lies, and Viral Content
https://academiccommons.columbia.edu/download/fedora_content/download/ac:18931zcrk2/content/TowCenter15_LiesDamnLiesAndViralContent_Silverman.pdf

Bettie

(16,129 posts)
7. I'm glad that Chad has
Wed Jul 24, 2019, 02:06 PM
Jul 2019

someone to turn to, someone willing to accept him for who he is.

I still don't get how parents can just throw away a child they have raised. Even when I've been disappointed with some of their decisions (teenagers, so it is their time to make some poor decisions), I love them with all my heart and can not imagine my life without them.

But, in this case, he's right to distance himself from his daughter, even though it probably breaks his heart to do so. His grandson needs him and he's willing to do what it takes to be there for him.

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