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Valerie Harper has passed away. (Original Post) imanamerican63 Aug 2019 OP
Aww. :( Roland99 Aug 2019 #1
I loved her as Rhoda. smirkymonkey Aug 2019 #2
Oh I used bdamomma Aug 2019 #3
Goodbye and rest in peace to our old friend Rhoda FakeNoose Aug 2019 #4
Yes we Rebl2 Aug 2019 #11
She hung on longer than most expected. I hope she has peace now. BigmanPigman Aug 2019 #5
Yes, she was diagnosed with cancer quite awhile ago, I believe. whathehell Aug 2019 #7
It's actually rather incredible. forgotmylogin Aug 2019 #15
Most people expected her to die but BigmanPigman Aug 2019 #16
Awww.. Rest in Peace, Valerie! Cha Aug 2019 #6
Really wonderful actress and more importantly great person. boston bean Aug 2019 #8
R.I.P. She fought a good battle. sinkingfeeling Aug 2019 #9
Awww Noooo StarryNite Aug 2019 #10
RIP Ms Harper. Liberal In Texas Aug 2019 #12
She was beautiful and self deprecating and hilarious. lunatica Aug 2019 #13
She was a great role model for women, for humans. warmfeet Aug 2019 #14
The NYT obit concludes as follows BeyondGeography Aug 2019 #17
Co-star Ed Asner on Valerie Va Lefty Aug 2019 #18
Sad colsohlibgal Aug 2019 #19

bdamomma

(63,930 posts)
3. Oh I used
Fri Aug 30, 2019, 07:29 PM
Aug 2019

to watch her when she was Mary Tyler Moore show and then her spinoff show, I loved her. Rest in Peace.

Rebl2

(13,571 posts)
11. Yes we
Fri Aug 30, 2019, 09:52 PM
Aug 2019

do need that tissue. She lived much longer than the doctors told her she would. I think that is a lesson to be learned-sometimes they are wrong.

forgotmylogin

(7,538 posts)
15. It's actually rather incredible.
Fri Aug 30, 2019, 10:19 PM
Aug 2019

It seems like I've been hearing about her in health jeopardy since the 90s and the grocery tabloids reported her on the precipice of death's door at least once a year since then. We're fortunate that advances in cancer treatment and detection has made it not necessarily an immediate death sentence.

My aunt had breast cancer in the 80s and underwent a radical mastectomy. My elderly mom had it in 2015 and it was an outpatient surgery and a limited round of chemotherapy. Not that all cancer is as easy to treat and by no means is chemo a quick and easy process, but there are cancer survivors today who would have been cancer victims as recently as a couple of decades ago.

BigmanPigman

(51,638 posts)
16. Most people expected her to die but
Fri Aug 30, 2019, 10:28 PM
Aug 2019

Mary surprised everyone and went first. I just watched a rerun of the MTM show where she fell asleep with a cap-style hair dryer on and Phyllis woke her up by yelling into the hose..what a great cast! Harper's real life husband at the time was on the show 4 times, he was a really good comic actor too. They show reruns on the Sundance Channel (it is free with my cable package) and I record all of them.

BeyondGeography

(39,385 posts)
17. The NYT obit concludes as follows
Sat Aug 31, 2019, 06:21 AM
Aug 2019
“Rhoda, like most of us, was a victorious loser,” Ms. Harper once said, a sentiment that might easily be applied to herself in her final days. Her illness may have been a metastatic recurrence of lung cancer, which she survived in 2009.

Afterward she spoke often in interviews on television, urging people to take advantage of their lives while they have them.

“I really want Americans, and all of us, to be less afraid of death,” she said.

https://www.nytimes.com/2019/08/30/obituaries/valerie-harper-dead.html
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