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Ferrets are Cool

(21,104 posts)
Sun Sep 1, 2019, 09:38 AM Sep 2019

Open carry question

This is going to come up sooner or later in my life. So, I thought I would ask for thoughts here. If I am sitting in a restaurant and a man or woman comes in with a gun strapped to their hip or worse, over their shoulder, I am going to feel unsafe.
Must I just sit there uncomfortably wondering if I am going to be shot, pay my bill and leave or is there another option?

Thanks

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Open carry question (Original Post) Ferrets are Cool Sep 2019 OP
What is it you would want to do? What is your goal? WhiskeyGrinder Sep 2019 #1
Same thing they did with the Missouri kid with open carrying an AR-15 near a Walmart. uponit7771 Sep 2019 #3
In "my" perfect world guns would not be allowed outside Ferrets are Cool Sep 2019 #4
No, I mean what would your goal be when you see someone out and about carrying openly. WhiskeyGrinder Sep 2019 #8
Being a realist, I honestly don't know how to answer your question. Ferrets are Cool Sep 2019 #16
Call the police tell them you see a person with exposed weapon, unknown mental state with uponit7771 Sep 2019 #2
What I haven't been able to find out is whether that is even legal. nt Ferrets are Cool Sep 2019 #5
It's absolutely truthful and legal. Just don't file anything false to 911 or the police uponit7771 Sep 2019 #7
Shut up, get up and get out. jpak Sep 2019 #6
Or call the police and tell then you see a person with an exposed weapon out unknown mental state uponit7771 Sep 2019 #9
Get up, pay your bill, and explain to the management why you are leaving and MineralMan Sep 2019 #10
That is probably the best answer... Ferrets are Cool Sep 2019 #14
Get up and leave and tell the restaurant people why. Turbineguy Sep 2019 #11
Proably this. nt Ferrets are Cool Sep 2019 #15
Around $60,000. Turbineguy Sep 2019 #17
Can't stores just post a "No guns allowed" sign in their window - Talitha Sep 2019 #12
I know Taco Bell posts a sign outside every door that open carry is not permitted Mike_DuBois Sep 2019 #13
stores are private properties and they can decide to forbid guns on their premises drray23 Sep 2019 #18
I think that varies by state. brer cat Sep 2019 #22
I would get up and leave and tell management why. smirkymonkey Sep 2019 #19
It's against the law where I live. Cops will show up for that call. hunter Sep 2019 #20
+1 Ferrets are Cool Sep 2019 #21

Ferrets are Cool

(21,104 posts)
4. In "my" perfect world guns would not be allowed outside
Sun Sep 1, 2019, 09:45 AM
Sep 2019

the home unless you were law enforcement. But I am sane enough to know that isn't going to happen. What is my goal? Hell if I know. I feel completely helpless right now. Voting seems to be the only recourse atm and even those are stolen now.

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,308 posts)
8. No, I mean what would your goal be when you see someone out and about carrying openly.
Sun Sep 1, 2019, 09:51 AM
Sep 2019

You're pretty sure you'll have an emotional reaction; I'm trying to figure out what you want to happen after that.

Ferrets are Cool

(21,104 posts)
16. Being a realist, I honestly don't know how to answer your question.
Sun Sep 1, 2019, 10:45 AM
Sep 2019

I would like to have the same right to "feel safe" as they are purporting to do by carrying a gun. But, I do not.

uponit7771

(90,304 posts)
2. Call the police tell them you see a person with exposed weapon, unknown mental state with
Sun Sep 1, 2019, 09:40 AM
Sep 2019

... unknown amount of ammunition tell them you feel unsafe.

about that simple make sure people who do this open carry s*** understand that it's them might be feeling safe but not the general public the police will get the message.

uponit7771

(90,304 posts)
9. Or call the police and tell then you see a person with an exposed weapon out unknown mental state
Sun Sep 1, 2019, 09:51 AM
Sep 2019

With unknown amount of ammunition and you feel unsafe

MineralMan

(146,262 posts)
10. Get up, pay your bill, and explain to the management why you are leaving and
Sun Sep 1, 2019, 09:52 AM
Sep 2019

that you will not return as long as openly carried firearms are allowed in that place. Then do exactly that.

Ferrets are Cool

(21,104 posts)
14. That is probably the best answer...
Sun Sep 1, 2019, 10:40 AM
Sep 2019

it does, however, feel like "they" are winning when I actually do that. I certainly don't feel comfortable calling the police either because if it is legal, what are they going to do? Who would ever have thought we would be in THIS place in America, right?

Turbineguy

(37,293 posts)
11. Get up and leave and tell the restaurant people why.
Sun Sep 1, 2019, 10:05 AM
Sep 2019

Loss of business is a cost not yet calculated into the price of guns. Like the medical and other human costs.

Turbineguy

(37,293 posts)
17. Around $60,000.
Sun Sep 1, 2019, 10:46 AM
Sep 2019

A few years ago I divided the published cost of gun violence in the U.S. by the number of guns sold and came up with that figure.

Talitha

(6,563 posts)
12. Can't stores just post a "No guns allowed" sign in their window -
Sun Sep 1, 2019, 10:17 AM
Sep 2019

... or do the open carry laws allow them to go wherever they please?

In any case, I'd boycot the store and let the owner/manager know exactly why.

 

Mike_DuBois

(93 posts)
13. I know Taco Bell posts a sign outside every door that open carry is not permitted
Sun Sep 1, 2019, 10:40 AM
Sep 2019

What? I like Taco Bell

drray23

(7,616 posts)
18. stores are private properties and they can decide to forbid guns on their premises
Sun Sep 1, 2019, 11:23 AM
Sep 2019

gun owners have to abide by these.

brer cat

(24,524 posts)
22. I think that varies by state.
Sun Sep 1, 2019, 12:23 PM
Sep 2019

I don't allow open carry in our antique mall in GA. Posting a sign is not sufficient; I have to approach the person already in the shop or parking lot with a gun and ask them to depart. It is covered under a trespass law and they must be told to leave before the trespass law is triggered.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
19. I would get up and leave and tell management why.
Sun Sep 1, 2019, 11:33 AM
Sep 2019

I am so thankful I live in a state where this is not allowed.

On edit: Actually, my state (MA) does allow it with a permit - just found this out - but I have never seen anyone open carry ever since I have lived here.

Here is a map of where the states stand on open carry. This is just insane. Nobody needs a damn gun to go to a restaurant or a grocery store.

hunter

(38,303 posts)
20. It's against the law where I live. Cops will show up for that call.
Sun Sep 1, 2019, 11:50 AM
Sep 2019

Our police don't show up for small stuff like fender-benders, stolen lawnmowers, shoplifting... they'll tell you to file your report on their web site, or in person at the police station.

One of our neighbors committed "suicide by cop" by bringing his gun to a local fast food place. When the cops stormed the place he didn't comply instantly with their orders so they shot him dead. No one knows why he was carrying the gun.

That's just one reason I always think long and hard before calling the police.

If I was in one of my bad places, the sorts where I'm a danger to myself and possibly others, I might confront an open carry asshole, possibly in a mocking way. What's he going to do, shoot me?

My brother used to own a little food place which was rough around the edges, the kind of place with regular customers who would order a minimal amount of food and slowly sip a few beers for a few hours, chatting with their fellow alcoholic misfits, the kind of place where a dozen bikers might show up and make a lot of noise before they were on their way again, the kind of place where people had sex in toilet stalls.

My brother kept an aluminum softball bat behind the counter which was a useful thing to be holding when asking certain sorts of customers, mostly belligerent drunks, to leave. If I ever had to work in such a place again (gods forbid!) that's probably how I'd deal with open carry fools and concealed carry flashers as well.

It always amuses me that open-carry fools only show up in places that are not actually dangerous, places where little old ladies feel perfectly secure shopping alone.

In rougher places I've lived some fourteen year old gangster might rob any open carry asshole of their fancy guns, same as they would someone flashing a wallet full of hundred dollar bills. Even where I live now openly advertising one's gun love is an invitation to have one's house broken into. The gangsters buy their X-Boxes at Best Buy like everyone else but they steal guns from fools.

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