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H2O Man

(73,505 posts)
Sun Sep 15, 2019, 10:49 PM Sep 2019

The Old Laughing Lady





I've been listening to Neil Young today, as I prepare some flower gardens for the winter months. I planted some of them, while others are from those who lived here before. One lady who resided here in the 1940s planted flowers around the boundary of the lawn, covering over 1,000 yards. She died here in the house in 1951; some residents in the 1980s used a lot of her flowers in their landscaping business, though a good many remain and have spread.

I get three wheelbarrows full of contributions to the compost pile, as well as a couple of handfuls of plants I will use for tea during the winter. I also pick four hot peppers for my oldest son, who will be cooking out at the fire pit with me tonight, watching the full moon. We have a good supply of firewood on hand, thanks to my younger boy. And there is plenty of kindling from a wooded section where the ground is covered with myrtle.

There are times when I find it frustrating that I can't do as much work as I could as a young man. Today isn't one of them. I'm content to do a little today, and a little more another day, and again another. And so I take a break and watch some news reports on a young lady named Greta Thunberg. I have read about her, of course, but an Elder told me to watch a few film clips of her being interviewed. She spoke about Greta's gift and her call to consciousness.

I started thinking about the goodness and decency of the youth who have joined with her in a call to action. School students. College students. University students. They remind me of my own children. I think of the old croquet balls that my dogs found in the myrtle over the past few days, and remember watching my kids playing various games, much like the lady gardener must have enjoyed seeing her children play on the lawn. Childhood should not be spent despairing about the horrors that human beings have inflicted upon the environment.

The next thing I know, my younger son is tapping my arm, singing, “Waking Up is Hard to Do.” He reminds me that I wanted to get up early to go to ceremony. A quick call to my friend, who says the fire is raging and the rocks are starting to glow, and the ride blend together – I'm focused more on the message of Greta. The media attention she is getting would be tough for almost any 16 year old. But she is strong, and has a gift.

My friend had called me a week ago, saying it was time to prepare to work at the grass roots' level for 2020, with an environmental message being central. He went to New Hampshire to get fifty nice pieces of granite for today. He runs the ceremony so that I can focus. My son will bring in the stones. They glow in the dark lodge.

I am thinking about Onondaga Chief Paul Waterman. He used to encourage me to organize those on the margins of society, with confidence that leadership would rise within them. And some human qualities found among the marginalized that are considered burdens by “proper” society actually become strengths. Society heals as individuals heal, he said, and it cannot be otherwise.

Rubin used to say that all of organic life on this planet exists entirely for the Earth's purpose. That human beings are the highest level of consciousness on Earth, but that if we remain merely mechanical, we will self-destruct by damaging the environment and all living things we share it with. He often talked about the need for people to heal, as part of the positive potential of evolution.

After four hours, we leave the lodge. My friend tells me that I look better than I had the last time. I tell him that I've been training to compete in the “50+” Golden Gloves in 2020. For a brief second, he suspects that I might be serious. I tell him that when I was a kid, I loved to listen to old people, and now that I'm an old person, I learn more listening to kids. And that there's a bigger bout coming up.

Back home, I go out into the garden area of my front lawn. I think the lady who planted those flowers and shrubs would approve of my effort to keep it going. Tomorrow I will concentrate on a small rose garden. For now, I watch the sun go down, and listen to the noises one hears in the woods when it gets dark.

A few hours later, I go inside and watch some of the weekend's news. As always, I am repulsed by reports regarding Trump, as I consider him to be profoundly immoral. Much the same for all those who support and enable him. But I'm fully confident that we are going to take care of business between now and November, 2020.

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The Old Laughing Lady (Original Post) H2O Man Sep 2019 OP
That was a lovely read...thanks for sharing it! I felt like I knew the man. Karadeniz Sep 2019 #1
Another great day in the life story. JDC Sep 2019 #2
Loved this, H20 Man. democrank Sep 2019 #3
As always- the depth and lyrical flow of your writing; your subjects and the reader, all coalesce. NBachers Sep 2019 #4
Thanks for your words of wisdom and beauty, Liberty Belle Sep 2019 #5
and thus endeth the drought ... Hermit-The-Prog Sep 2019 #6
Thank you as always... Hekate Sep 2019 #7
Kick for the day crew. lpbk2713 Sep 2019 #8
K&R...👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼 spanone Sep 2019 #9
Excellent piece... 2golddogs Sep 2019 #10
Kick. (nt) NeoGreen Sep 2019 #11
i came for The Old Laughing Lady.... nutsnberries Sep 2019 #12
That piece is True Blue American Sep 2019 #13
Love it malaise Sep 2019 #14

democrank

(11,084 posts)
3. Loved this, H20 Man.
Mon Sep 16, 2019, 12:15 AM
Sep 2019

Fire pit, full moon, call to consciousness, the lady gardener, Neil Young, your precious son bringing in the stones.

Your way of seeing the forest....not just the trees....is a gift, and I thank you.

~PEACE~

2golddogs

(107 posts)
10. Excellent piece...
Mon Sep 16, 2019, 11:06 AM
Sep 2019

I can feel my spirit calm as I read it. I’ve always found it healing to reread Voltaire, as he concluded once that sometimes it’s just best to go home and plant your garden (I paraphrase). I like to think that he’s somewhere smiling and nodding.

eta: This piece has led me to your journal here, and can I just say wow, it’s like if I could rub Bengay on my mind! Thank you sincerely for sharing your gift with us.

malaise

(268,655 posts)
14. Love it
Tue Sep 17, 2019, 08:41 AM
Sep 2019

But I'm fully confident that we are going to take care of business between now and November, 2020.
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