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Atticus

(15,124 posts)
Thu Nov 21, 2019, 05:51 PM Nov 2019

Lest we forget: 56 years ago tomorrow,

the intercom system in my small town high school crackled with the devastating news that President John Fitzgerald Kennedy had been assassinated in Dallas.

Most of us had not really experienced the death of a hero before, and that is what JFK was. He was young, handsome, vibrant, optimistic and he had told us we were going to the moon. Most of us believed him.

Tears flowed and we considered---most of us for the first time--- our own mortality. In the days that followed, we learned that the life would continue. In the years that followed, we learned that life would never be the same.

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elleng

(130,956 posts)
1. Sophomore year of college,
Thu Nov 21, 2019, 05:57 PM
Nov 2019

then went with college friend to her home, where we did Thanksgiving and synagogue.

(Thought about it last night; always do.)

MFGsunny

(2,356 posts)
2. I can still remember exactly (down to the spot in the sidewalk) where I was walking to class.
Thu Nov 21, 2019, 06:02 PM
Nov 2019

We will never forget.

We will always reflect.

Arkansas Granny

(31,518 posts)
3. Our teachers had all been called to the office and they brought the news back
Thu Nov 21, 2019, 06:04 PM
Nov 2019

to each classroom. Many tears, no school until after the funeral. Everyone was glued to the tv.

Hekate

(90,708 posts)
4. We had no intercom at my high school, so first it spread by word of mouth in the halls between class
Thu Nov 21, 2019, 06:05 PM
Nov 2019

...and then by runner from the office to our teachers. I'm sure the kids I heard in the hallway had transistor radios with them, and that's how they got the word.

It was devastating. I think it was 9:30 in the morning when we got the news in Hawai'i. Assembly in the courtyard came not long after, with our school bsnd's best trumpeter playing Taps...

Days of funeral on the tv...

volstork

(5,401 posts)
5. Although I was not born
Thu Nov 21, 2019, 06:06 PM
Nov 2019

until three years later, from an early age, I began to understand what we had lost with his death.

https://buckeyemuse.wordpress.com/2014/11/22/wendell-berrys-elegy-for-john-f-kennedy-november-twenty-six-nineteen-hundred-sixty-three/


But fifty-one years ago it was his poem in memory of John F. Kennedy that had plenty of readers taking notice. Titled “November Twenty Six Nineteen Hundred Sixty Three,” the poem, in the words of scholar Andrew Angyal, “makes use of repetition and refrain and incorporates the traditional elegiac cycle of shock, grief, mourning, the funeral procession, the internment, and the apotheosis of the subject’s memory.” The title comes from the day of John F. Kennedy’s funeral. The poem has eleven stanzas.

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In early 1964, a book edition of the poem was published by George Braziller Inc. of New York with drawings by Ben Shahn, the distinguished painter, graphic artist, and photographer. In a short introduction, Shahn writes that he found the poem “extraordinarily moving.” He adds “It was right in every way; it was modest and unrhetorical. It examined soberly and sensitively just this event in its every detail. Its images were the images of those days, no others. In so sharply scrutinizing his own feelings, the poet has discovered with an uncanny exactness all our feelings. His words have created a certain monument, not pretentious, but real, and shared. When I read the poem, I wanted it preserved, read, not lost in the pages of last week’s magazine. I turned it into a book, accompanied by the images that it invokes for me.”

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The book has a total of twenty-nine pages, twenty-two pages devoted to both text of the poem and illustrations on the left side pages. Only one page is in color—the final illustration of a man standing in a field. The book was lettered and illustrated by Shahn and was printed at The Meriden Gravure Company in Meriden, Connecticut. The books were bound by Haddon Craftsmen, Inc. of Scranton, Pennsylvania. In addition to the poem’s virtues, the book is an interesting example of Shahn’s style and a cultural artifact of the early 1960s in America.

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Shahn’s work would be used again for one of Berry’s books. Shahn’s “Sunday Painting” (1938) is featured on the cover of Berry’s A Timbered Choir: The Sabbath Poems 1979-1997 (1998).

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While the idea for a stand alone book edition of the poem seems to have been Shahn’s idea, 1964 was also the year in which Berry published his first collection of poetry: The Broken Ground. Many distinguished volumes have followed.

Here is the poem in its entirety. This is how it appeared in the pages of The Nation, except for the fact that any line after the first was tabbed over about five spaces. I tried to do it in WordPress, but the lines jumped back to the margin.

We know the winter earth upon the body of the young
President, and the early dark falling:

we know the veins grown quiet in his temples and
wrists, and his hands and eyes grown quiet;

we know his name written in the black capitals
of his death, and the mourners standing in the
rain, and the leaves falling;

we know his death’s horses and drums; the roses, bells,
candles, crosses; the faces hidden in veils;

we know the children who begin the youth of loss
greater than they can dream now;

we know the night long coming of faces into the candle-
light before his coffin, and their passing;

we know the mouth of the grave waiting, the bugle and
rifles, the mourners turning away;

we know the young dead body carried in the earth into
the first deep night of its absence;

we know our streets and days slowly opening into the
time he is not alive, filling with our footsteps and
voices;

we know ourselves, the bearers of the light of the earth
he is given to, and the light of all his lost
days;

we know the long approach of summers towards the
healed ground where he will be waiting, no longer the
keeper of what he was.

—Wendell Berry

Response to Atticus (Original post)

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
8. I had just learned I was pregnant with my second child. That day I was called by my then husband and
Thu Nov 21, 2019, 06:16 PM
Nov 2019

told to turn on the TV because the president had been shot! I put my 3 year old down for a nap and watched the story unfold. When I first heard about it I thought "Oh, I'm sure he was just grazed in the arm or something..."

then I was aghast, along with the rest of the nation...

BKDem

(1,733 posts)
9. I don't know how anyone old enough to remember could forget.
Thu Nov 21, 2019, 06:21 PM
Nov 2019

I was home sick (but not very) from high school on the west coast, so I got it all live on B&W TV. From that day, it was a straight line to Johnson and Vietnam, two more assassinations, Nixon and Watergate.

As bad as those days were, these days are worse. We used to have hope. Trump is robbing us of that.

bobbieinok

(12,858 posts)
11. Hard to believe it was so long ago. Was in 3rd yr of grad school
Thu Nov 21, 2019, 06:35 PM
Nov 2019

There was a massive inner campus memorial with parade of faculty in academic robes.

It was the 1st time I ever saw adult males cry in public

ETA --certainly convenient Oswald was murdered in such a bizarre manner!!

PlanetBev

(4,104 posts)
14. Turned 13 five days before it happened
Thu Nov 21, 2019, 06:56 PM
Nov 2019

Heard it on the intercom in my eighth grade typing class. Never will forget that Friday or that weekend.

Grins

(7,217 posts)
15. I tell people who were not alive at that moment...
Thu Nov 21, 2019, 07:00 PM
Nov 2019

Nothing. NOTHING - compares to the impact on our lives and shock to memories as that single moment when we all heard.

Nixon/Watergate? No.
Reagan shot? No.
9/11? No. Not even that.

Other posters here will tell you the same thing. The world stopped! Not figuratively-literally. Schools, business, highways, closed or stopped. Times Square no cars moved. Crowds of people surrounding stopped cars because they had radios and people wanted to know. Highways became parking lots. Broadway went dark for days. Stores took down displays and replaced them with Kennedy’s lighted portrait.

And it was on non-stop radio and tv for days. Two days later almost the entire nation saw his killer shot to death LIVE on tv in a Dallas police station.

I’m a huge fan of books by LBJ biographer Robert Cato. His 4th book, “Passage to Power”, has an entire chapter describing that day and its impact, and the days that followed with the funeral procession John-John’s salute, and the burbled opening notes of the bugler playing “Taps” at the gravesite. If you get the chance you should read it.

OriginalGeek

(12,132 posts)
16. My dad was at work
Thu Nov 21, 2019, 07:04 PM
Nov 2019

My grandpa was taking my mother to a pre-natal checkup to make sure I was coming along nicely. They heard it in the waiting room and just sat there and cried for a bit then went home. I came about 2 weeks later. That was the only time I ever heard about my grandpa crying until almost 50 years later when grandma died.

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