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QualTest

(84 posts)
Tue Dec 3, 2019, 10:49 PM Dec 2019

I just put my dog to sleep today!

I'm beside myself sad.

It was the worst, most horrible thing I've ever had to do!
My GSD Echo was with me for 10 years.

I adopted her from a shelter when she was 2, so she was 12 now.
She had so many issues. I worked with her so long to make her get over them.

She was my best friend, my companion.....

And today I had to send her off.... I feel horrible, sad, empty!

A very bad day!

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I just put my dog to sleep today! (Original Post) QualTest Dec 2019 OP
I feel for you. Brainstormy Dec 2019 #1
You have my deepest sympathy. The Velveteen Ocelot Dec 2019 #2
Echo. 💔🕯️ irisblue Dec 2019 #3
Sorry QualTest Dec 2019 #4
Nobody noticed, not to worry. mahina Dec 2019 #85
So very sorry! It is the worst. rainy Dec 2019 #5
Been there - a couple of times. TomSlick Dec 2019 #6
So sorry, lost my sweet girl at 18 last November CanonRay Dec 2019 #7
:-( QualTest Dec 2019 #26
Hugs to you lunatica Dec 2019 #8
I am so sorry! They are our beloved companions. It's hard to let them go, even when we know we must. tblue37 Dec 2019 #9
I am so very sorry. lucca18 Dec 2019 #10
I had to put mine to sleep on May 29th, I still tear up thinking dewsgirl Dec 2019 #11
I'm sorry too... QualTest Dec 2019 #24
I am sorry... Newest Reality Dec 2019 #12
I am very sorry. madaboutharry Dec 2019 #13
I am so sorry. FM123 Dec 2019 #14
I'm so sorry for your loss. Raftergirl Dec 2019 #15
Thank You All! QualTest Dec 2019 #16
I mean QualTest Dec 2019 #18
💫✨💖💐 MLAA Dec 2019 #17
I had to do that a month ago. I know how it feels. Initech Dec 2019 #19
I'm Sorry too QualTest Dec 2019 #22
Yeah my dog was 16. Initech Dec 2019 #35
I'm sorry for you and your dog Beringia Dec 2019 #20
Ouch tavernier Dec 2019 #21
My deepest, most sincere condolences to all who loved and will mourn Echo's passing. Stinky The Clown Dec 2019 #23
Thank You QualTest Dec 2019 #28
RIP Echo and condolences to you . May the good memories be with you to remember her and your lunasun Dec 2019 #25
I'm so very sorry. onecaliberal Dec 2019 #27
Condolences on the loss of your beloved dog. gademocrat7 Dec 2019 #29
Please accept my deepest sympathy Ohiogal Dec 2019 #30
So very sad for your loss. Zoonart Dec 2019 #31
Aw, that is SUCH a terribly painful thing to have to do, I am so sorry! pnwmom Dec 2019 #32
Forever in your heart, QualTest.........nt Heartstrings Dec 2019 #33
hugs hugs gristy Dec 2019 #34
Dr Seuss said: Don't cry because it's over - NewDayOranges Dec 2019 #36
This was the last kindness you could do for her! Drahthaardogs Dec 2019 #37
Hugs to QualTest... Tikki Dec 2019 #38
I'm so sorry, FoxNewsSucks Dec 2019 #39
It really gives you perspective doesn't it? Life is so fragile. nolabear Dec 2019 #40
Thank you QualTest Dec 2019 #41
We are GSD people too leftieNanner Dec 2019 #42
Curious? QualTest Dec 2019 #50
Neuromyelopathy leftieNanner Dec 2019 #54
You have my sympathies, GSDs earn our hearts like no other RainCaster Dec 2019 #43
Yes... QualTest Dec 2019 #49
Hadn't heard of that till now RainCaster Dec 2019 #58
Deepest sympathy. orangecrush Dec 2019 #44
I feel your pain tiredtoo Dec 2019 #45
YES! QualTest Dec 2019 #51
I am so sorry for your loss Gothmog Dec 2019 #46
Sorry - that's tough lame54 Dec 2019 #47
My deepest condolences to you. dware Dec 2019 #48
I'm so sorry vercetti2021 Dec 2019 #52
I'm so very sorry. They're family. catbyte Dec 2019 #53
Hugs to you jmbar2 Dec 2019 #55
Very True QualTest Dec 2019 #56
You did the right thing for your companion GETPLANING Dec 2019 #57
Thanks QualTest Dec 2019 #59
I'm sorry. whopis01 Dec 2019 #60
I'm so sorry Raine Dec 2019 #61
I'm so sorry for your loss. phylny Dec 2019 #62
I went through it too. It hurts to the core of your being. Laura PourMeADrink Dec 2019 #63
I know, it is so hard. PoindexterOglethorpe Dec 2019 #64
We took our 20-year old to the vet yesterday, thinking it might be her final trip. She has heart Karadeniz Dec 2019 #65
I'm so sorry for your loss Niagara Dec 2019 #66
I'm so sorry radical noodle Dec 2019 #67
It is the worst day. TeamPooka Dec 2019 #68
It's 16 months ago that we had to do the same for my sweet Curly. MarianJack Dec 2019 #69
I'm so very sorry for your loss. StarryNite Dec 2019 #70
Sympathies... Greg K Dec 2019 #71
sorry. Demovictory9 Dec 2019 #72
I'm so sorry! cate94 Dec 2019 #73
Helping a beloved companion pass over the Rainbow Bridge is Stonepounder Dec 2019 #74
I am so sorry for your loss. :( chia Dec 2019 #75
You just described my biggest fear... BigmanPigman Dec 2019 #76
I've been through it many times. Initech Dec 2019 #77
I already am stocking up on Xanax BigmanPigman Dec 2019 #82
I hope you will accept my condolences for the loss of your beloved, soulmate, friend, heartbeat, emmaverybo Dec 2019 #78
I'll cry a little tear with you. So very sorry for your deep loss. Our friends hold a profound place Maru Kitteh Dec 2019 #79
It's a very hard thing to do. greytdemocrat Dec 2019 #80
To QualTest-- Collimator Dec 2019 #81
We know how you feel. Our wonderful gentleman Prosper Dec 2019 #83
So so sorry. It's such a big loss. 10 years mahina Dec 2019 #84
Hmmm QualTest Dec 2019 #87
I feel so Alone Now! QualTest Dec 2019 #89
So sorry for your loss duforsure Dec 2019 #86
It's like losing family malaise Dec 2019 #88
Hugs TEB Dec 2019 #90
Yes a bad day. The worst. mountain grammy Dec 2019 #91
Have done this many times over the years, Bayard Dec 2019 #92
I'm so sorry Bettie Dec 2019 #93
I've been through the same sad experience Leith Dec 2019 #94
I'm so sorry. Maraya1969 Dec 2019 #95
My ❤️ Goes out to you. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ OhNo-Really Dec 2019 #96
I'm so sorry QualTest. smirkymonkey Dec 2019 #97
We lost a fur baby this summer mcar Dec 2019 #98

Brainstormy

(2,384 posts)
1. I feel for you.
Tue Dec 3, 2019, 10:52 PM
Dec 2019

It's a very hard part of our relationship with our furry friends. In time the pain will begin to be replaced by happy memories. In the meantime, hang in, and take comfort in the long time you had together.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(116,576 posts)
2. You have my deepest sympathy.
Tue Dec 3, 2019, 10:53 PM
Dec 2019

It's so hard but it's what we have to do sometimes, if they're unwell and can't enjoy life any more. You did the right thing.

rainy

(6,109 posts)
5. So very sorry! It is the worst.
Tue Dec 3, 2019, 10:55 PM
Dec 2019

My little sister had to do the same yesterday. I’m hoping lots of sweet memories will bring you some comfort❤️

TomSlick

(11,230 posts)
6. Been there - a couple of times.
Tue Dec 3, 2019, 10:56 PM
Dec 2019

You know it's the right thing and it still hurts.

I have decided that the joy of having a dog justifies the pain of the shortness of their lives. The thought of life without a dog is unbearable. If that means we must grieve their passing, there is no other real option.

dewsgirl

(14,961 posts)
11. I had to put mine to sleep on May 29th, I still tear up thinking
Tue Dec 3, 2019, 11:02 PM
Dec 2019

about her.😢 I am so sorry for your loss.

Newest Reality

(12,712 posts)
12. I am sorry...
Tue Dec 3, 2019, 11:03 PM
Dec 2019

I am so sorry you lost your friend.

Feel what you need to in this time of loss and don't hold back, okay? Those feelings are part of the experience and they will abate as you go through the grieving.

Remember, too, that your loss is based on ten years of companionship and love. You will remember that and be thankful for the time and experiences most of all and it will be clear that even though everything ends, you were so fortunate to have her in your live and vica versa! The real loss would have been to not have that.

Be Well! I know that feeling.

madaboutharry

(40,284 posts)
13. I am very sorry.
Tue Dec 3, 2019, 11:04 PM
Dec 2019

I know how hard it is to say goodbye. I hope you stayed while they put her down, I think they need us there at the end.

Sometimes we have to let them go, because we love them.

FM123

(10,059 posts)
14. I am so sorry.
Tue Dec 3, 2019, 11:07 PM
Dec 2019

I too have been where you are and it is painful beyond words. Sending you a heartfelt hug during this very difficult time.

Raftergirl

(1,294 posts)
15. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Tue Dec 3, 2019, 11:10 PM
Dec 2019

Sadly, we outlive our pets so must go through this many times in our lifetime.

I’m sure in your heart you know it was time. I think our pets know when it’s time, too.

 

QualTest

(84 posts)
16. Thank You All!
Tue Dec 3, 2019, 11:14 PM
Dec 2019

I appreciate all your words!

I think I did the right thing...
Doesn't make me feel any better though.


Thanks....

Initech

(100,384 posts)
19. I had to do that a month ago. I know how it feels.
Tue Dec 3, 2019, 11:18 PM
Dec 2019

It is the worst feeling in the world but you will get over it and remember the good times.

 

QualTest

(84 posts)
22. I'm Sorry too
Tue Dec 3, 2019, 11:21 PM
Dec 2019

I keep looking for her, and expecting her to be where she usually is!
After 10 years, we' were like this married couple!

Stinky The Clown

(67,924 posts)
23. My deepest, most sincere condolences to all who loved and will mourn Echo's passing.
Tue Dec 3, 2019, 11:23 PM
Dec 2019

The price for the love of a dog is paid on the day we hold them and say our last goodbye.

We've been through this too many times. We've always been a multiple dog family. Young ones and elderly ones. Each loved. Each missed. Each passing cripplingly sad. Fond memories that ultimately push away the sadness.

Echo is now over the Rainbow Bridge where I know our many missing family members will be there to meet and welcome her.

We have the collar and tags of each of our dogs displayed in our foyer. They are quietly hanging from the edge of a large mirror, low key and not always noticed . . . . except by us. Every time we come or go.

lunasun

(21,646 posts)
25. RIP Echo and condolences to you . May the good memories be with you to remember her and your
Tue Dec 3, 2019, 11:24 PM
Dec 2019

time together .

Ohiogal

(32,539 posts)
30. Please accept my deepest sympathy
Tue Dec 3, 2019, 11:29 PM
Dec 2019

on the loss of your best friend. Been there and I know how you feel.

Zoonart

(12,037 posts)
31. So very sad for your loss.
Tue Dec 3, 2019, 11:31 PM
Dec 2019

I have faced this many times and it never gets easier.
She will always love in your heart.

pnwmom

(109,061 posts)
32. Aw, that is SUCH a terribly painful thing to have to do, I am so sorry!
Tue Dec 3, 2019, 11:35 PM
Dec 2019

You and she were lucky to have each other for these ten years -- so much love.

NewDayOranges

(695 posts)
36. Dr Seuss said: Don't cry because it's over -
Tue Dec 3, 2019, 11:44 PM
Dec 2019

SMILE because it happened.

I hope you will soon be able to remember your sweet Echo without tears... 💔

Drahthaardogs

(6,843 posts)
37. This was the last kindness you could do for her!
Tue Dec 3, 2019, 11:44 PM
Dec 2019

Do not feel horrible. Grieve but be proud you did this for her!

I have been a dogman for forty five years. I have trained, loved, hunted, delivered puppies, and held many as they took their last breath.

This is the price you pay for their love and companionship. You are a good owner!

nolabear

(42,061 posts)
40. It really gives you perspective doesn't it? Life is so fragile.
Tue Dec 3, 2019, 11:45 PM
Dec 2019

I’ve done it several times. They were all my darlings, one in particular. I could only comfort myself by knowing they were deeply loved, and when they just couldn’t go on, were loved out of this life. They taught me so much.

I’m so sorry you lost your companion. But I’m very glad you had one another. ❤️

 

QualTest

(84 posts)
41. Thank you
Tue Dec 3, 2019, 11:48 PM
Dec 2019

I think we were both happier for having had each other....
That's very true.

That helps a lot...

leftieNanner

(15,267 posts)
42. We are GSD people too
Tue Dec 3, 2019, 11:49 PM
Dec 2019

Lost our fourth Shepherd in October. Riley was sweet, smart, and handsome. I'm so sorry for the loss of Echo. They are such special beings.

 

QualTest

(84 posts)
50. Curious?
Tue Dec 3, 2019, 11:56 PM
Dec 2019

Echo was actually my 2nd GSD... I think they are very special!
It used to be that the issue was hip dysplasia, but now I've lost 2
to some strange spinal MS?

Their spine and nerves lose cohesion much like human MS....

This is not good!!

Are you aware of this?

leftieNanner

(15,267 posts)
54. Neuromyelopathy
Wed Dec 4, 2019, 12:07 AM
Dec 2019

Gigi had it. Riley was heading in that direction. He ultimately had internal bleeding and cancer. It's not the hips, but the back. Very debilitating.

RainCaster

(11,042 posts)
43. You have my sympathies, GSDs earn our hearts like no other
Tue Dec 3, 2019, 11:50 PM
Dec 2019

We are on our 4th GSD, Greta. Each has lived a long full life knowing love and family. She's only 7 now, I don't want to think about goodbyes yet.

Eventually, you will be able to remember Echo without tears, and soon after that, a smile. For now, all that pain of saying goodbye is the price of admission. She must have been a wonderful companion if it hurts so bad.

 

QualTest

(84 posts)
49. Yes...
Tue Dec 3, 2019, 11:55 PM
Dec 2019

Echo was actually my 2nd GSD... I think they are very special!
It used to be that the issue was hip dysplasia, but now I've lost 2
to some strange spinal MS?

Their spine and nerves lose cohesion much like human MS....

This is not good!!

Are you aware of this?

RainCaster

(11,042 posts)
58. Hadn't heard of that till now
Wed Dec 4, 2019, 12:12 AM
Dec 2019

Greta has something called "sabaceous adinitis" that is an autoimmune thing that kills all her sabaceous glands, leaving her with almost no hair. Otherwise, she's perfectly healthy.

The animal skin specialist told me it's a condition that happens to GSDs more than other breeds.

tiredtoo

(2,949 posts)
45. I feel your pain
Tue Dec 3, 2019, 11:52 PM
Dec 2019

Put my dog down about 2 weeks ago. 13 years of love only a dog can give you. I looked him in the eyes as he was dying. Gently sobbing as he left me. The vet asked me if i wanted to stay here a bit with the dog. Every time i look at him tears came. I told her "No, i have to get out of here.
I still talk to him every day.
Sorry for your loss.

 

QualTest

(84 posts)
51. YES!
Wed Dec 4, 2019, 12:00 AM
Dec 2019

I did exactly the same this morning....
The Vet asked, Do you want to be here for the sedation? The Final Solution?

I said exactly the same thing.. NO, I need to get out of here!
I looked into her eyes and said "You're a good girl, Goodbye my sweet pea, I love you"!
and ran...

OMG!

dware

(12,729 posts)
48. My deepest condolences to you.
Tue Dec 3, 2019, 11:54 PM
Dec 2019

Our pets do become our best friends, and children and it is devastating when we have let them go.

I have a chihuahua as my trucking buddy and I know I'll be beside myself when it's time for him to leave this earth.

Big hug for you and I hope you can find peace soon.

catbyte

(34,703 posts)
53. I'm so very sorry. They're family.
Wed Dec 4, 2019, 12:05 AM
Dec 2019

The only time they are ever capable of breaking our hearts is when it's time for them to leave us. It sounds like she lived her best life with you, and as devastating as it is at this moment you performed the ultimate act of love.

Again, I'm so, so sorry.

jmbar2

(5,028 posts)
55. Hugs to you
Wed Dec 4, 2019, 12:09 AM
Dec 2019

I remember well the pain you are experiencing. I hadn't realized, until I had to put my dog down, how many routine interactions we had each day, from the morning greeting, to bedtime. For the next few weeks, you will be acutely aware that she's gone during those little moments of absence during the day.

Allow yourself to grieve during those times and feel gratitude that she was in your life for so long. Feel comforted knowing that your loving face was the last thing she saw. May we all be able to pass in such a loving way.

Dogs just make us better people.

 

QualTest

(84 posts)
56. Very True
Wed Dec 4, 2019, 12:12 AM
Dec 2019

I'm already doing my routine as if she were here.
10 years of companionship, can't be lost so easily!

I will miss her for a very long time.

GETPLANING

(846 posts)
57. You did the right thing for your companion
Wed Dec 4, 2019, 12:12 AM
Dec 2019

I have put two down in the last five years, both Boston Terriers. Best damned dogs ever bred. I held them both while they went into the good night, cried like a baby, too. But it is our duty to care for them, and we did.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
63. I went through it too. It hurts to the core of your being.
Wed Dec 4, 2019, 12:36 AM
Dec 2019

I cried forever. Larry was 12 too. Sounds lunatic but I would go outside and look at clouds. It's just amazing how you'll be able to see clouds that look like her. It made me feel better anyway.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,985 posts)
64. I know, it is so hard.
Wed Dec 4, 2019, 12:36 AM
Dec 2019

Our four legged furry friends can be the very best thing.

You gave her a good life. That's what's important.

Karadeniz

(22,831 posts)
65. We took our 20-year old to the vet yesterday, thinking it might be her final trip. She has heart
Wed Dec 4, 2019, 12:38 AM
Dec 2019

And kidney problems. She'd been lackluster since T day, but Sunday night she began dripping blood from the mouth. Monday morning the bedroom floor looked like an axe murder had occurred. Wall to wall blood. I really felt like she'd probably lost a tooth. The vet thinks that's what happened and at her age and health, she's going in for teeth cleaning Friday the 13th...I tried to get a different day! Like I told the vet, after intensive care by me for over a year, it's hard to let them go...his job, I told him, was to find a way to get past this hiccup. Hope he can!

Deepest sympathy on your loss. Don't dwell on the loss. Be thankful for the years you had. ❤

Niagara

(8,000 posts)
66. I'm so sorry for your loss
Wed Dec 4, 2019, 12:53 AM
Dec 2019

It's heartbreaking having to our furry family members put to sleep. It's also heartbreaking when they have personality changes from suffering unbearable pain. I've been there, it's awful!








radical noodle

(8,047 posts)
67. I'm so sorry
Wed Dec 4, 2019, 12:55 AM
Dec 2019

That's the toughest thing in the world to do. We owe it to them to let them go, but we grieve so about doing it.

Last week I lost my beloved cat. I'd had her for 20 years and I had to make that same decision. It's gut-wrenching but the kindest thing.

Hugs to you, QualTest.

StarryNite

(9,555 posts)
70. I'm so very sorry for your loss.
Wed Dec 4, 2019, 01:06 AM
Dec 2019

You are not alone. We had to make that decision for one of our dogs last August. I still cry for her. At some point I hope the pain will ease for us.

Greg K

(599 posts)
71. Sympathies...
Wed Dec 4, 2019, 01:13 AM
Dec 2019

I know how you feel - we lost our beloved 14yo Goldendoodle back in March, and an amazing feline friend last week on black Friday, to cancer.

It's heartbreaking to lose them, and not at all easy to make that decision.

Stonepounder

(4,033 posts)
74. Helping a beloved companion pass over the Rainbow Bridge is
Wed Dec 4, 2019, 01:36 AM
Dec 2019

absolutely the hardest thing that a pet owner has to do, even if it is the most loving as well. We had to let our Bosley go in August and I still find myself starting to pull out his food dish at meal times, and then getting a lump in my throat.

What I have always is that one of our fur babies leave us, they take a piece of our heart with them. But as time passes we discover that even though they took that piece of our heart, they left a piece of theirs with us.

You have a perfect right to mourn. In time you will be able to remember the good times and the fun times.

Sending comforting through and waves of sympathy your way.

BigmanPigman

(51,811 posts)
76. You just described my biggest fear...
Wed Dec 4, 2019, 01:42 AM
Dec 2019

my first dog died at home right before her 15th birthday. I skipped Christmas that year (10 days later). Her ghost was here for about a week. I felt her move under my bed, against my bed, at the closet door, etc. I heard her chain at these places too. Since then I have learned that a few friends had the same experience.

My baby now is 16 1/2 and every single night I wonder if this will be my last day with her. I think she is hanging in there just for me since my dad died suddenly 8 months ago. Until then my dog's death is the worst thing I have ever experienced in my life, nothing comes close.

I dread the day when I wake up and she is no longer here. I am crying just thinking about you and feel empathy for your loss. Please take care of yourself!

Initech

(100,384 posts)
77. I've been through it many times.
Wed Dec 4, 2019, 02:03 AM
Dec 2019

Even my recent loss, it does not get any easier.

My dog was 16 and the last month has been so hard. I do have a dog now so it's helped but still, having a dog like that for so long and now not anymore has been extremely difficult.

BigmanPigman

(51,811 posts)
82. I already am stocking up on Xanax
Wed Dec 4, 2019, 02:18 AM
Dec 2019

which will numb me but not fill the empty space in my heart or home. My health sucks and I will not get another baby since it wouldn't be fair to leave her. Dogs are as emotionally attached to us as we are to them. I am grateful that I will last long enough to be able to take care of her like she has taken care of me all these years.

I am leaving most of my assets to the Humane Society and the Morris Animal Shelter in Phila. I was a foster parent to dogs while in college and lived across the street. It is the oldest animal shelter in the US (1874).
https://www.morrisanimalrefuge.org/

emmaverybo

(8,146 posts)
78. I hope you will accept my condolences for the loss of your beloved, soulmate, friend, heartbeat,
Wed Dec 4, 2019, 02:07 AM
Dec 2019

child, I can never find the words. It was everything to her that you were there as she passed out of this world, to maybe somewhere beautiful, with love. The cost to you is immeasurable. You have taken it all on yourself as we do, as we must. The only solace is that she had a life of love and passed with it. If we do things right, this is what we do—give that final loving moment that costs us endless sorrow. Thank you for your sacrifice. She is at peace and had a passing we, many of us, can only dream of.

I do believe our loves remain in soul and watch us, wanting eventual peace for us too.

Just as your love for her will never die, so her concern for you. In these dark hours, may you find her. She is looking over from another place and wanting your comfort. She will be helping you.

Maru Kitteh

(28,373 posts)
79. I'll cry a little tear with you. So very sorry for your deep loss. Our friends hold a profound place
Wed Dec 4, 2019, 02:09 AM
Dec 2019

in our hearts.

Collimator

(1,643 posts)
81. To QualTest--
Wed Dec 4, 2019, 02:18 AM
Dec 2019

My heart goes out to you. It was in October 1994 that my recently-divorced ex and I had to put our little girl down. It was the last intimate thing we ever did together.

I am grateful to the vet who looked at her when we brought her in for the second time in two days and said, "It's time." That gave us the assurance of knowing that we had done the right thing.

When I returned to the house where I was staying, one of my roommates asked how my trip home went and then held me while I wailed like a banshee for a good ten minutes.

Our little girl had a good life and we gave her a peaceful end. That is what I hold onto.

To BigmanPigman--I don't know how many days it was after she was gone when she came back to say goodbye. I was drifting between levels of sleep in my bed when I felt her presence. She was stretched between my legs with her head on my stomach.

As an aspiring rationalist, I can imagine that there are all sorts of neurological reasons for the sensations that I felt. But I still believe it was her offering me comfort even as I had offered it to her when she left this world.

Prosper

(761 posts)
83. We know how you feel. Our wonderful gentleman
Wed Dec 4, 2019, 03:53 AM
Dec 2019

and brother to his sister was suddenly unexpectedly taken from us on August the 3rd by congenital heart failure. Worst tragedy in our lives. Two weeks shy of 8 years old. The two had never been apart and never out of sight their entire lives. She had a couple bad weeks but is doing okay now. Just find some comfort in knowing she had you to take care of her. It’s not fair that such innocence and devotion and friendship is taken away.

mahina

(17,929 posts)
84. So so sorry. It's such a big loss. 10 years
Wed Dec 4, 2019, 04:00 AM
Dec 2019

Of closest friendship.

Would you like to share stories about Echo or pictures?

Hearts are with you. Some of us believe we will be reunited. I’m one.

Aloha no. Wishing you heart’s ease soon.

 

QualTest

(84 posts)
87. Hmmm
Wed Dec 4, 2019, 06:15 AM
Dec 2019

Right now all I see are her eyes as I said good-bye....
Just killing me!

But, maybe this will help.. Echo in better times...
I'll see if I can share...

Either I'm too stupid, or un-priv'd to share photos...
I tried...

 

QualTest

(84 posts)
89. I feel so Alone Now!
Wed Dec 4, 2019, 06:38 AM
Dec 2019

My Echo was just an integral part of my life for the last 10 years.

I got her from a local shelter when she was "about" 2 years old.
They said she was a "breeder" from a puppy mill....

She didn't like men much, chased her own tail out of nervousness,
bit strangers because she was fearful....

It took me years to make her feel at home, loved, comfortable, safe....

After about 5 she was happy here and was happy to be with me. She always
followed me everywhere. I would say that if I stopped short.. I'd have a tail
coming out of my ass! LOL!

That's the part that is already making me crazy! Every time I move I am always looking for her.
Because I always know, she's right behind me.... Not so much anymore.

My Ex-wife never liked her much, always said she had "no light in her eyes".. I was more upset
today about losing Echo after 10 years than my ex-wife after 10 years... Tells you something..

OK, enough stories for now....

duforsure

(11,885 posts)
86. So sorry for your loss
Wed Dec 4, 2019, 06:13 AM
Dec 2019

We lost ours and had to put her to sleep 4 years ago today, and after a year we got a little female Bichon, and she's like a child to us. The lost never goes away , and it takes time.

mountain grammy

(26,776 posts)
91. Yes a bad day. The worst.
Wed Dec 4, 2019, 10:42 AM
Dec 2019

I’m so sorry for your loss. You must remember you did right by your friend. That’s what gets us through.

Bayard

(22,583 posts)
92. Have done this many times over the years,
Wed Dec 4, 2019, 01:03 PM
Dec 2019

I've also lost many unexpectedly, where there is no time to say goodbye. It never gets any easier.

Our little graveyard has greatly expanded here on our farm over the past 5 years.....dogs, cats, goats, horses, donkeys, and various species of fowl. Every time I walk past, I say--I see you. It means, your life mattered. You meant so much to me, and I still love you dearly. It makes me feel a little better.

So, say--I see you, Echo. Your life will always be intertwined with mine.

Bettie

(16,231 posts)
93. I'm so sorry
Wed Dec 4, 2019, 01:08 PM
Dec 2019

we lost our 14 year old girl a couple of years ago. She was a good girl.

I had to take in a young cat today. FIV, I couldn't save her. It's so hard, knowing that they trust us so much and sometimes we can't do anything about it.

OhNo-Really

(3,985 posts)
96. My ❤️ Goes out to you. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Wed Dec 4, 2019, 07:41 PM
Dec 2019

{{{{hugs}}}}

I pretend my best friend & I will run through fields of grass, flowers & butterflies 🦋 in Heaven.

mcar

(42,676 posts)
98. We lost a fur baby this summer
Wed Dec 4, 2019, 08:37 PM
Dec 2019

She was 11 but quite lively and healthy. Went downhill fast - vet thought cancer.

She died at home on her favorite blanket near us.

It was hard. I still get melancholy about it, but I'm glad she didn't suffer long.

You were there for her and gave her a good life, after what sounds like a bad start. She must have loved you with all her doggy heart!

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