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SalmonChantedEvening

(31,952 posts)
Sat Jan 11, 2020, 11:55 PM Jan 2020

Tomorrow's LOLcats

Will be posted in loving memory of my Uncle David, who passed away last night. He was Mom's youngest sibling, and the last of his generation. He had a wonderful, thunderous laugh that could shake a room to pieces. I loved to hear it, and be the cause of it.

I last saw him a week before Xmas, when he started home hospice. I made sure he smiled, shook with laughter, and knew he was loved.

He knew. See you all in the morning.

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Tomorrow's LOLcats (Original Post) SalmonChantedEvening Jan 2020 OP
Was going to say "sorry," but Uncle David sounds really special Hoyt Jan 2020 #1
K&R. I'm sorry you lost your uncle. I'm glad you got to spend time showing him how much tblue37 Jan 2020 #2
What a sad loss. wendyb-NC Jan 2020 #3
... 2naSalit Jan 2020 #4
his strength flows in you Demonaut Jan 2020 #5
Condolences SCE Glad you saw him smile and laugh last week and he knew he was loved lunasun Jan 2020 #6
Hugs to you Maeve Jan 2020 #7
What nice words for your uncle. tavernier Jan 2020 #8
✨✨❤️✨✨ OhNo-Really Jan 2020 #9
I'm so sorry. Laffy Kat Jan 2020 #10
So sorry for your loss, Salmon.... Sogo Jan 2020 #11
Much sympathy for your loss. It's extra tough to lose someone who's been part of your entire life. Karadeniz Jan 2020 #12
I am sorry that you lost your uncle Demovictory9 Jan 2020 #13
My deepest condolences! BlueMTexpat Jan 2020 #14
Thank you SCE for sharing a bit of the loving relationship you had with your Uncle David. I know alwaysinasnit Jan 2020 #15
Thank you for all you do for us! colorado_ufo Jan 2020 #16
I will laugh out loud like thunder Olafjoy Jan 2020 #17
I lost my brother David LittleGirl Jan 2020 #18
Condolences, SCE... sad to lose the link to the last generation... TygrBright Jan 2020 #19
So sorry for your loss KT2000 Jan 2020 #20
... spanone Jan 2020 #21
Thank you for sharing. PoindexterOglethorpe Jan 2020 #22
very sorry for your loss orleans Jan 2020 #23
I'm so sorry about your uncle. It's great that you saw him very recently. onecaliberal Jan 2020 #24
Im sure MFM008 Jan 2020 #25
I'm glad Uncle David had such a kind relative as you. ZZenith Jan 2020 #26
Deepest sympathy malaise Jan 2020 #27
My condolences to you, SCE. CottonBear Jan 2020 #28
Deepest sympathy. Scarsdale Jan 2020 #29
... littlemissmartypants Jan 2020 #30
Thanks and blessings to your Uncle David mercuryblues Jan 2020 #31
. machI Jan 2020 #32
What wonderful memories you have of him. TNNurse Jan 2020 #33
He's forever in your heart..... Heartstrings Jan 2020 #34
... pazzyanne Jan 2020 #35
My deepest condolences for your loss, SCE. greatauntoftriplets Jan 2020 #36
I'm so sorry SCE. AllyCat Jan 2020 #37
Time spent together laughing, the best gift. CrispyQ Jan 2020 #38
So very sorry. WinstonSmith4740 Jan 2020 #39
You have my condolences. nt Crabby Appleton Jan 2020 #40
I'm so sorry, my dear SCE, to hear of your beloved uncle's passing... CaliforniaPeggy Jan 2020 #41
"I made sure he smiled, shook with laughter" left-of-center2012 Jan 2020 #42
Condolences, SCE. sarge43 Jan 2020 #43
Thanks for sharing - your description of your uncle... reACTIONary Jan 2020 #44
You always bring such mirth to us here...I wish we could return even a fraction FailureToCommunicate Jan 2020 #45
Very sorry to hear about your loss... Marie Marie Jan 2020 #46
I'm so sorry Raine Jan 2020 #47
I'm sorry I did not take the time to respond to this last night, and PatrickforO Jan 2020 #48
So sorry to hear about your Uncle David's passing. Fla Dem Jan 2020 #49
 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
1. Was going to say "sorry," but Uncle David sounds really special
Sat Jan 11, 2020, 11:59 PM
Jan 2020

and you are both lucky to have great times together.


As always, look forward to LOLcats, and in memory of Uncle David.

wendyb-NC

(3,328 posts)
3. What a sad loss.
Sun Jan 12, 2020, 12:11 AM
Jan 2020

He sounds like he was a very special person. The way you describe his laugh, alone, is such a tribute. My heart goes out to you and your loved ones.

tavernier

(12,393 posts)
8. What nice words for your uncle.
Sun Jan 12, 2020, 12:25 AM
Jan 2020

I actually had a picture of him in my mind from your description. Santa-like because of the laugh.
Sorry for your loss.

Karadeniz

(22,540 posts)
12. Much sympathy for your loss. It's extra tough to lose someone who's been part of your entire life.
Sun Jan 12, 2020, 12:42 AM
Jan 2020

I'll think of him tomorrow when the cats come out.

alwaysinasnit

(5,066 posts)
15. Thank you SCE for sharing a bit of the loving relationship you had with your Uncle David. I know
Sun Jan 12, 2020, 12:58 AM
Jan 2020

tomorrow's wonderful offering will be bittersweet, but for my part, I will see in it a celebration of his life and the joy he brought to you.

LittleGirl

(8,287 posts)
18. I lost my brother David
Sun Jan 12, 2020, 01:23 AM
Jan 2020

last March. He was only 58 and it was sudden. He had many nieces and nephews that adored him too.
My condolences to you and yours.

TygrBright

(20,762 posts)
19. Condolences, SCE... sad to lose the link to the last generation...
Sun Jan 12, 2020, 01:29 AM
Jan 2020

...but I'm so glad you got to spend time with him and make him laugh. A good send-off.

When that kind of love goes back into the pool, it finds ways to return, and bless us all.

warmly,
Bright

KT2000

(20,584 posts)
20. So sorry for your loss
Sun Jan 12, 2020, 01:35 AM
Jan 2020

gotta love those who laugh with gusto - my favorite people. Thanks for sharing laughs with us every Sunday.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,862 posts)
22. Thank you for sharing.
Sun Jan 12, 2020, 01:54 AM
Jan 2020

It is especially sad when the last of the generation passes away.

I wish I could have known him.

orleans

(34,061 posts)
23. very sorry for your loss
Sun Jan 12, 2020, 02:07 AM
Jan 2020

saying goodbye to the last family member in my mom's generation was extremely difficult for me--

i'm so glad you had that time together before christmas.

ZZenith

(4,124 posts)
26. I'm glad Uncle David had such a kind relative as you.
Sun Jan 12, 2020, 03:32 AM
Jan 2020

My wife and I share LOLcats every Sunday morning in bed and you always make sure that we smile and shake with laughter.

CottonBear

(21,596 posts)
28. My condolences to you, SCE.
Sun Jan 12, 2020, 06:48 AM
Jan 2020

It is so hard to lose the last family member of a generation.
Your Uncle David’s spirit lives on in the love you have for him and in your fond memories of him.

Peace to you and your family.

CB

Scarsdale

(9,426 posts)
29. Deepest sympathy.
Sun Jan 12, 2020, 07:19 AM
Jan 2020

So difficult to know the end is near. Hold on to those terrific memories, though. They will bring smiles to your face many times over in the future. Thanks for all you do.

mercuryblues

(14,533 posts)
31. Thanks and blessings to your Uncle David
Sun Jan 12, 2020, 07:34 AM
Jan 2020

He taught you to laugh well. Thank-you for sharing that laughter with us.

TNNurse

(6,927 posts)
33. What wonderful memories you have of him.
Sun Jan 12, 2020, 09:27 AM
Jan 2020

I know it comforts you to know that hospice gave him a peaceful passing.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,642 posts)
41. I'm so sorry, my dear SCE, to hear of your beloved uncle's passing...
Sun Jan 12, 2020, 03:41 PM
Jan 2020

He was a great gift to you, as you were for him. Love flows both ways...

left-of-center2012

(34,195 posts)
42. "I made sure he smiled, shook with laughter"
Sun Jan 12, 2020, 08:22 PM
Jan 2020

I worked a hospice unit in San Diego and often shared humor/jokes with the patients.
One coworker thought it out-of-place,
but the patients seemed to enjoy a laugh once in awhile.

reACTIONary

(5,770 posts)
44. Thanks for sharing - your description of your uncle...
Sun Jan 12, 2020, 10:14 PM
Jan 2020

.... Reminds me of my father. He had a thunderous, loud and uninhibited laugh. In any crowd I could always find him by just listening for his laugh.

LOL and the world LUZ U!

FailureToCommunicate

(14,014 posts)
45. You always bring such mirth to us here...I wish we could return even a fraction
Sun Jan 12, 2020, 10:36 PM
Jan 2020

back to you, to ease this sad passing of a special person from your life.


PatrickforO

(14,578 posts)
48. I'm sorry I did not take the time to respond to this last night, and
Mon Jan 13, 2020, 01:13 AM
Jan 2020

I'm sorry for the loss of your Uncle David.

Since I've been a member here I have looked forward each week to LOL Cats. You know, life is hard. There are problems, losses, hurts, pain, all in the context of having to work hard each day.

Your LOL Cats is one of the things that I look forward to. We have five cats, and they are dear friends. Each one has made our lives so much richer. The pics you post of puppies, kittens, other young animals, and the beautiful birds - those things make everyone's life just a little bit easier.

They make me smile, and I'm quite sure I'm not the only one.

May you and your family be blessed, and please accept my fervent prayer that your Uncle David have eternal rest, and may perpetual light shine upon him!

Fla Dem

(23,694 posts)
49. So sorry to hear about your Uncle David's passing.
Mon Jan 13, 2020, 10:37 AM
Jan 2020

About year ago, my last aunt passed away at the remarkable age of 102. She was my Mom' s sister. My Mom passed at only 62, so she lived 40 years longer than her. She was still bright, articulate and she always let you know where you stood. But she had a heart of gold and a big smile.

I only recount this as I see your Uncle was the last of his generation in your family. So too was my Aunt. Not only was it sad to say goodbye to her, but the realization that my siblings, me and my cousins were now the "Oldest Generation" was a bit of a hit of reality. She held that spot for so long, I think it made all of us think we were still youngsters.

Peace to you and your family.

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