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Dennis Donovan

(18,770 posts)
Thu Mar 19, 2020, 04:15 PM Mar 2020

Help, I Think I'm In Love With Andrew Cuomo???

https://jezebel.com/help-i-think-im-in-love-with-andrew-cuomo-1842396411

Rebecca Fishbein
Today 12:20PM

My roommates moved out of my Brooklyn apartment just ahead of the pandemic, and their replacements haven’t moved in yet. (At this point, they might not move in at all.) This means I haven’t had much company in the last week, and based on current covid-19 predictions, it might be like this for a long time. I am lonely and scared and anxious, but I have mitigated some of these feelings with my day’s two bright spots: 1) My afternoon run, and 2) New York Governor Andrew Cuomo’s daily streamed press conference.

I worked in local New York news for years and developed an intense and reasonable dislike of Cuomo. He has repeatedly hindered attempts to reform the criminal justice system, he took advantage of a once largely conservative state Congress to keep progressive legislation on reproductive health from becoming law, he fucked around with the MTA so much he forced out the only useful subway leader the administration’s ever seen, etc., etc., etc.

And yet, in this time of crisis, with little concrete information available, I need Cuomo’s measured bullying, his love of circumventing the federal government, his sparring with increasingly incompetent city leadership. Not only that, but the less contact I have with other humans, the more I start to think of Cuomo as my only friend. I’ve started laughing at his little jokes. I catch myself touching my hair (not my face!) when he talks about an increase in testing capacity. I swooned when he told a reporter he had his own workout routine. I have watched a clip of him and brother Chris Cuomo bickering about their mother at least 20 times. I think I have a crush???




It seems I’ve fallen victim to Stockholm Syndrome, which Merriam-Webster defines as “the psychological tendency of a hostage to bond with, identify with, or sympathize with his or her captor.” Cuomo isn’t holding me hostage so much as coronavirus is, but he is the only one telling me what to do, where I can and cannot go (anywhere), who I can and cannot see (everyone), who I can and cannot listen to (President Trump, Bill de Blasio), what I can and cannot eat (anything but pasta).

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Help, I Think I'm In Love With Andrew Cuomo??? (Original Post) Dennis Donovan Mar 2020 OP
😆😆. Tho I don't share the exact feelings, LakeArenal Mar 2020 #1
I love it.❤ dewsgirl Mar 2020 #2
I look forward to his pressers. Even when he doesn't have answers, you just know he's going to do Hoyt Mar 2020 #3
Generally not a fan, but he's really stepped up the last few weeks... VarryOn Mar 2020 #4
I love that CNN clip! pattyloutwo Mar 2020 #5

LakeArenal

(28,820 posts)
1. 😆😆. Tho I don't share the exact feelings,
Thu Mar 19, 2020, 04:19 PM
Mar 2020

I appreciate the thought.

Maybe cuz I have a dog. He’s pretty damn swoony.

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
3. I look forward to his pressers. Even when he doesn't have answers, you just know he's going to do
Thu Mar 19, 2020, 04:24 PM
Mar 2020

the right thing based upon the circumstances confronting him. Obama was like that. With trump, you just feel like he's going to screw things up, even if he has one brief moment where he seems lucid.

 

VarryOn

(2,343 posts)
4. Generally not a fan, but he's really stepped up the last few weeks...
Thu Mar 19, 2020, 04:44 PM
Mar 2020

He just seems to have a knack for handling a crisis. Too bad he and the NYC mayor dont get along.

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