Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search
12 replies = new reply since forum marked as read
Highlight: NoneDon't highlight anything 5 newestHighlight 5 most recent replies
Crap, someone I know died of Covid-19 (Original Post) spinbaby Apr 2020 OP
Lost my first friend March 26 greenjar_01 Apr 2020 #1
I just found out my brother's father-in-law tested positive. tanyev Apr 2020 #2
Going through our first today Jarqui Apr 2020 #3
These stories are so heart breaking. StevieM Apr 2020 #6
How's your son-in-law coping? n/t OnlinePoker Apr 2020 #10
Don't know yet Jarqui Apr 2020 #11
Me too, today. Also battling cancer, died of Covid. pnwest Apr 2020 #4
I lost a friend to covid 3 weeks ago mokawanis Apr 2020 #5
My condelences on your loss. (eom) StevieM Apr 2020 #7
So sorry to hear.😢 SheltieLover Apr 2020 #8
Lost a great friend a couple of weeks ago Solomon Apr 2020 #9
Deepest sympathy to everyone...these stories are gutwrenching. Didn't have to be this bad. Karadeniz Apr 2020 #12
 

greenjar_01

(6,477 posts)
1. Lost my first friend March 26
Fri Apr 17, 2020, 04:39 PM
Apr 2020

Everyone will get a taste, believe that.

Condolences to you and family.

tanyev

(42,618 posts)
2. I just found out my brother's father-in-law tested positive.
Fri Apr 17, 2020, 04:41 PM
Apr 2020

He was already in an assisted living facility and he fell a couple days ago. They decided to test him for COVID-19 and it came back positive. Not looking good.

Jarqui

(10,130 posts)
3. Going through our first today
Fri Apr 17, 2020, 04:48 PM
Apr 2020

My daughter's father-in-law as of February 2020 - weeks ago.

They won't let her visit him.They were close.
He's a really, really nice man.
They figure he'll pass today - alone. He's been going downhill for a week.

She's going out for frequent solitary walks so her husband won't see her crying.
She's inconsolable.

My wife is crying because she can't go hug her daughter.
I just talked to my daughter on the phone.
We can't do anything. Hard to accept as a father.

Takes your breath away.

StevieM

(10,500 posts)
6. These stories are so heart breaking.
Fri Apr 17, 2020, 05:26 PM
Apr 2020

My SIL's grandmother died at the age of 100. Fortunately, she had a wonderful 100th birthday party a month earlier, with all her friends and family.

At her funeral it was only my SIL and her younger sister who could attend their grandmother's funeral. The woman's daughter couldn't go to her own mother's funeral because she and her husband are both at high risk, especially him since he has a pre-existing heart condition. They are completely sheltered in.

I believe they watched it on zoom. And the funeral and burial were held together, right at the grave site.

Jarqui

(10,130 posts)
11. Don't know yet
Fri Apr 17, 2020, 05:55 PM
Apr 2020

She didn't tell us until today. They kept it quiet for a week.
Father-in-law had extensive preexisting conditions including COPD, kidney & liver issues.
We haven't spoken with her husband yet.
He was out with his brother and sister trying to figure out arrangements and see his father.
The hospital relented to allow immediate family - his wife and children to visit.
The wife and his sister got in for five minutes.
Just before he and his brother were to go in for their five minutes, the hospital announced a change in policy and denied them.
How they could do that after telling him they could see him leaves me with notrhing good to say for that cruelty.

pnwest

(3,266 posts)
4. Me too, today. Also battling cancer, died of Covid.
Fri Apr 17, 2020, 05:17 PM
Apr 2020

My friend's mom and my heart is breaking for her. The nurse called her just in time to tell her that her mom was deteriorating, and put her phone down on her mom's chest so she could talk to her as she passed. My grief is so huge, and I think I'm channeling my grief for this whole awful situation into my friends mom's death. I kinda can't quit crying today.

I'm sorry for your loss.

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
8. So sorry to hear.😢
Fri Apr 17, 2020, 05:30 PM
Apr 2020

My condolences on your loss & everyone's losses.

Wishing ypu peace an comfort in your grieving.

Latest Discussions»General Discussion»Crap, someone I know died...