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Makes you go "Hmmm" - Gaetz and his "adopted" son (Original Post) packman Jun 2020 OP
Twitter is having fun with it soothsayer Jun 2020 #1
+1 dalton99a Jun 2020 #4
This whole thing stinks. BComplex Jun 2020 #2
The US State Department has recorded exactly ONE adoption from Cuba since 1999: a girl in 2000. soothsayer Jun 2020 #3
Illegitimate son? Sanity Claws Jun 2020 #5
Supposedly adopted by Gaetz's sister after Nestor's mother passed. Thomas Hurt Jun 2020 #7
How do you know this? Sanity Claws Jun 2020 #8
It has been several OPs here at DU, mostly from Twitter IIRC. Thomas Hurt Jun 2020 #10
People article. Easy Google search. Ms. Toad Jun 2020 #24
There was no adoption. There are no papers. SoonerPride Jun 2020 #18
Hence the word "supposedly". Thomas Hurt Jun 2020 #19
So is Gaetz marrying his own sister? soothsayer Jun 2020 #20
Don't know, don't care, haven't seen anything saying anything about him marrying anyone. Thomas Hurt Jun 2020 #21
You got it all wrong. LisaL Jun 2020 #36
Gaetz was dating the sister Ms. Toad Jun 2020 #25
No, people article says Gaetz was dating Nestor's sister. LisaL Jun 2020 #37
You are correct. n/t Ms. Toad Jun 2020 #38
Per the People article below, Nestor is the avebury Jun 2020 #26
There is no paperwork because it was not a "formal" adoption. LisaL Jun 2020 #35
No, Gaetz sister had nothing to do with any of it. LisaL Jun 2020 #34
Did he claim him as a dependent and give him health insurance? dalton99a Jun 2020 #6
We need records! fleur-de-lisa Jun 2020 #16
Twitter encourages Gaetz to proudly come 'Out' & just introduce us to his partner Budi Jun 2020 #9
so true RT Atlanta Jun 2020 #11
Gaetz Has a "Trophy Cuban" Stallion Jun 2020 #12
"A subtle reminder that Matt Gaetz was the sole vote against an anti-human trafficking bill." soothsayer Jun 2020 #13
That's not suspicious. Not at all. fleur-de-lisa Jun 2020 #17
... Cirque du So-What Jun 2020 #23
Yet not proud enough to say it openly for years. keithbvadu2 Jun 2020 #14
He's gay, they're together and there's no way Nester is a day younger than 25 BannonsLiver Jun 2020 #15
That is my suspicion, though if that is true, he is a raging hypocrite and liar. Thomas Hurt Jun 2020 #22
true. he looks nowhere near being a teenager JI7 Jun 2020 #32
Unfortunate Son Blue Owl Jun 2020 #27
When I worked overseas and stayed frequently in B&Bs/hostels popular with Ex-Pats hlthe2b Jun 2020 #28
I will love him and pet him and squeeze him and call him Prop. tanyev Jun 2020 #29
Definitely something fishy about the setup. LiberalFighter Jun 2020 #30
Didn't Gaetz say his son is black? Martin Eden Jun 2020 #31
My God, how stupid are these people? PCIntern Jun 2020 #33
Personal life left-of-center2012 Jun 2020 #39

soothsayer

(38,601 posts)
1. Twitter is having fun with it
Fri Jun 19, 2020, 11:22 AM
Jun 2020

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Vote for Joe Biden: because he won't adopt a 12 year old boyfriend from Cuba.

soothsayer

(38,601 posts)
3. The US State Department has recorded exactly ONE adoption from Cuba since 1999: a girl in 2000.
Fri Jun 19, 2020, 11:24 AM
Jun 2020

?s=21

What a day...

Nestor can't be Matt Gaetz's "son"...

The US State Department has recorded exactly ONE adoption from Cuba since 1999: a girl in 2000.

That Gaetz was holding Nestor out to be his "son", even to his fellow congresspeople, is fucking weird and creepy.

SoonerPride

(12,286 posts)
18. There was no adoption. There are no papers.
Fri Jun 19, 2020, 12:02 PM
Jun 2020

Nothing about this is legal or proper.

It needs to be investigated by legal authorities.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
36. You got it all wrong.
Sat Jun 20, 2020, 07:47 AM
Jun 2020

Nestor was adopted (although again, probably not formally) by his own sister. Gaetz sister had nothing to do with it.

avebury

(10,952 posts)
26. Per the People article below, Nestor is the
Fri Jun 19, 2020, 12:45 PM
Jun 2020

brother of a now former girlfriend of Gaetz. They broke up and Nestor stayed with Gaetz.

Where is the paperwork where Gaetz "adopted" or obtained some type of legal status to the kid? Would be curious to know about the documentation on the boy. You know Republicans will find a way to keep someone in this country if THEY want to and are so willing to throw everyone else out.

It still sound creepy.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
34. No, Gaetz sister had nothing to do with any of it.
Sat Jun 20, 2020, 07:45 AM
Jun 2020

Nestor was supposedly adopted by his own sister.

 

Budi

(15,325 posts)
9. Twitter encourages Gaetz to proudly come 'Out' & just introduce us to his partner
Fri Jun 19, 2020, 11:32 AM
Jun 2020

C'mon Matt. It's ok!
We love you

They may just be right about this.
Welcome to the free world ~

soothsayer

(38,601 posts)
13. "A subtle reminder that Matt Gaetz was the sole vote against an anti-human trafficking bill."
Fri Jun 19, 2020, 11:42 AM
Jun 2020

?s=21

“Matt Gaetz, as a 27-year-old drunk, adopted Nestor, a 13-year-old boy from Cuba.

A subtle reminder that Matt Gaetz was the sole vote against an anti-human trafficking bill.”

(Later corrected to call him 32 year old drunk, or 31 - I forget)



BannonsLiver

(16,387 posts)
15. He's gay, they're together and there's no way Nester is a day younger than 25
Fri Jun 19, 2020, 11:48 AM
Jun 2020

The entire story is bizarre.

Thomas Hurt

(13,903 posts)
22. That is my suspicion, though if that is true, he is a raging hypocrite and liar.
Fri Jun 19, 2020, 12:19 PM
Jun 2020

Nothing like abusing your power to keep your lover in a job and close.

Little nepotism, little corruption, little cover up. all endangered just so Gaetz can make a faux political point.

JI7

(89,251 posts)
32. true. he looks nowhere near being a teenager
Sat Jun 20, 2020, 07:06 AM
Jun 2020

the whole thing is weird.

Katie Hill mentioned how Gaetz talks about him all the time and i'm sure he does but that doesn't mean he is his son. or that the relationship is a father/son one.

hlthe2b

(102,285 posts)
28. When I worked overseas and stayed frequently in B&Bs/hostels popular with Ex-Pats
Fri Jun 19, 2020, 01:13 PM
Jun 2020

and other foreigners, I observed an often not-so-benign pattern of middle age (and older) men traveling with young boys from the host country (India, Thailand, elsewhere). It was hard not to assume the most obvious explanation.

I am NOT saying this is the case here, but my 'antennae' went up in an identical way when encountering these unusual traveling "pairs" in years past. If Gaetz did a nice thing for this young man, as he now states, it is hard to understand why he never mentioned him before.

I'll say nothing more than that, but the seeming secrecy up to now between Gaetz and this young man is understandably "curious."

Ok, I apologize for the innuendo if I am wrong, but it is not an uncommon issue among those who would exploit the vulnerable and impoverished worldwide. I hope that is not the case here.

PCIntern

(25,554 posts)
33. My God, how stupid are these people?
Sat Jun 20, 2020, 07:10 AM
Jun 2020

Do they really believe that people will not figure this stuff out? And since when is he black, as we define black in America? He’s Cuban and looks about as black as I do, which is not saying a whole lot.And although men are not my thing, he’s a very handsome Young man. Matt has very good taste.

left-of-center2012

(34,195 posts)
39. Personal life
Sat Jun 20, 2020, 01:24 PM
Jun 2020

Gaetz has never married.

In June 2020, following an argument with fellow congressman Cedric Richmond, Gaetz revealed that he lives with a 19-year-old Cuban male, Néstor Galbán, who is a legal U.S. immigrant, since Galbán was age 12.

Gaetz has not legally adopted Galbán. Gaetz and Galbán's living arrangements had not been public knowledge or disclosed in Gaetz’ official biography until the revelation in June 2020.

Though they share no consanguinity (blood relation) nor any legal affinity, Gaetz has stated that he considers Galbán's relationship to him as that of a "son".

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Matt_Gaetz#:~:text=Gaetz%20has%20never%20married.,is%20a%20legal%20U.S.%20immigrant.

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