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Zorro

(15,740 posts)
Mon Jul 20, 2020, 10:43 AM Jul 2020

They depended on their parents for everything. Then the virus took both.

Now the Ismael children — 13, 18 and 20 — are struggling to cope with grief, but also with how to keep a car running, pay bills, be a family

She was tired of wearing black, but the teenager knew she had to, at least for one more day. So after Nadeen Ismael swept the floors and arranged the couch pillows just the way her parents liked them, she returned to their bedroom. Behind the door, Nadeen, 18, reached up for her mother’s favorite sweater, still hanging next to the leather jacket and Levi’s jeans her father left there after his last day at work three months earlier.

Across the hall, her sister, Nanssy, 13, put on the black shirt adorned with a sequined gold star that their mom, Nada Naisan, had been given as a teenager in Iraq. In another bedroom, the girls’ brother, Nash, 20, pulled on black socks, pants, shoes and a button-down, all gifts from his mother, who did so much of his shopping that he wasn’t sure what sizes he wore.

Their house was quiet that morning in mid-June, as it seemed to be almost all the time now. Nada wasn’t frying omelets in the kitchen next to the “BLESS OUR HOME” sign, insisting that her two oldest children sit and eat and talk with her. Their dad, Nameer Ayram, wasn’t crooning the made-up song in Chaldean about Nanssy that always made her laugh. “Bobbit baba,” he most liked to call her — “Daddy’s girl.”

All dressed, Nash walked to the small bedroom his sisters shared.

“Are you ready?” he asked.

“Ready,” Nadeen responded.

“Let’s go,” said her brother, who hoped that this day would mark the end of the hardest time in their lives and not the start of something harder.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/graphics/2020/local/coronavirus-orphans-kids-lose-parents/
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They depended on their parents for everything. Then the virus took both. (Original Post) Zorro Jul 2020 OP
I will never complain about anything again Botany Jul 2020 #1
It catches you in the throat, doesn't it. calimary Jul 2020 #2
Could you... SergeStorms Jul 2020 #3
One way to get around some pay walls KS Toronado Jul 2020 #4
You can also switch browsers. 33taw Jul 2020 #9
The family with 3 kids immigrated from Iraq into US. LisaL Jul 2020 #13
Thank you. SergeStorms Jul 2020 #20
I got so sad reading this kimbutgar Jul 2020 #5
There is a link to their go fund me in the article. LisaL Jul 2020 #14
Link to GoFundMe for the kids masmdu Jul 2020 #18
😢😢😢 I grieve for them irisblue Jul 2020 #6
Sad reality for far too many pandr32 Jul 2020 #7
Sad Sherman A1 Jul 2020 #8
My heart breaks for these kids. iluvtennis Jul 2020 #10
Lurker who never posts, but OMG... Purvis Lodge Jul 2020 #11
Kick and recommend for visibility. Must read. bronxiteforever Jul 2020 #12
This virus is the absolute worst. Initech Jul 2020 #15
It's a really weird virus. Some people have barely any symptoms, and some have severe symptoms LisaL Jul 2020 #16
Such a sad story but we need to hear about them. There will have to be support JI7 Jul 2020 #17
Don't fret, children. President Trump is working on a payroll tax cut to help out. Midnight Writer Jul 2020 #19

SergeStorms

(19,204 posts)
3. Could you...
Mon Jul 20, 2020, 12:07 PM
Jul 2020

briefly describe the rest of the story for those who run up against a pay wall at the WaPo? Thanks.

KS Toronado

(17,259 posts)
4. One way to get around some pay walls
Mon Jul 20, 2020, 12:23 PM
Jul 2020

Is to clear out your browsing history/cookies. When the pay wall comes back, clear them out again.
Works for me on a lot of sites.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
13. The family with 3 kids immigrated from Iraq into US.
Mon Jul 20, 2020, 01:38 PM
Jul 2020

Parents really babied their children. Both parents died from covid, so children are having a hard time, they are missing their parents and trying to figure out how to take care of thing such as bills and so on.

kimbutgar

(21,163 posts)
5. I got so sad reading this
Mon Jul 20, 2020, 12:29 PM
Jul 2020

These were good people who loved their children.

I want to send them some money now.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
16. It's a really weird virus. Some people have barely any symptoms, and some have severe symptoms
Mon Jul 20, 2020, 02:03 PM
Jul 2020

including death.
Sounds like this particular family was especially susceptible for whatever reason (genetics?) Both parents died, two older children were sick from the virus (and my guess is that probably all three children were infected, with younger one remaining asymptomatic).

JI7

(89,252 posts)
17. Such a sad story but we need to hear about them. There will have to be support
Mon Jul 20, 2020, 02:11 PM
Jul 2020

groups in the future for those who lost loved ones and survived this themselves.

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