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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsThey depended on their parents for everything. Then the virus took both.
Now the Ismael children 13, 18 and 20 are struggling to cope with grief, but also with how to keep a car running, pay bills, be a familyShe was tired of wearing black, but the teenager knew she had to, at least for one more day. So after Nadeen Ismael swept the floors and arranged the couch pillows just the way her parents liked them, she returned to their bedroom. Behind the door, Nadeen, 18, reached up for her mothers favorite sweater, still hanging next to the leather jacket and Levis jeans her father left there after his last day at work three months earlier.
Across the hall, her sister, Nanssy, 13, put on the black shirt adorned with a sequined gold star that their mom, Nada Naisan, had been given as a teenager in Iraq. In another bedroom, the girls brother, Nash, 20, pulled on black socks, pants, shoes and a button-down, all gifts from his mother, who did so much of his shopping that he wasnt sure what sizes he wore.
Their house was quiet that morning in mid-June, as it seemed to be almost all the time now. Nada wasnt frying omelets in the kitchen next to the BLESS OUR HOME sign, insisting that her two oldest children sit and eat and talk with her. Their dad, Nameer Ayram, wasnt crooning the made-up song in Chaldean about Nanssy that always made her laugh. Bobbit baba, he most liked to call her Daddys girl.
All dressed, Nash walked to the small bedroom his sisters shared.
Are you ready? he asked.
Ready, Nadeen responded.
Lets go, said her brother, who hoped that this day would mark the end of the hardest time in their lives and not the start of something harder.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/graphics/2020/local/coronavirus-orphans-kids-lose-parents/
Botany
(70,516 posts)heartbreaking
calimary
(81,322 posts)SergeStorms
(19,204 posts)briefly describe the rest of the story for those who run up against a pay wall at the WaPo? Thanks.
KS Toronado
(17,259 posts)Is to clear out your browsing history/cookies. When the pay wall comes back, clear them out again.
Works for me on a lot of sites.
33taw
(2,444 posts)LisaL
(44,973 posts)Parents really babied their children. Both parents died from covid, so children are having a hard time, they are missing their parents and trying to figure out how to take care of thing such as bills and so on.
SergeStorms
(19,204 posts)Thanks, LisaL.
kimbutgar
(21,163 posts)These were good people who loved their children.
I want to send them some money now.
LisaL
(44,973 posts)masmdu
(2,536 posts)irisblue
(32,982 posts)pandr32
(11,588 posts)iluvtennis
(19,863 posts)Purvis Lodge
(4 posts)I am just so sad for them. I just fucking wept.
bronxiteforever
(9,287 posts)Initech
(100,081 posts)LisaL
(44,973 posts)including death.
Sounds like this particular family was especially susceptible for whatever reason (genetics?) Both parents died, two older children were sick from the virus (and my guess is that probably all three children were infected, with younger one remaining asymptomatic).
JI7
(89,252 posts)groups in the future for those who lost loved ones and survived this themselves.