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Srkdqltr

(6,291 posts)
2. Works for me.
Thu Jul 23, 2020, 05:15 PM
Jul 2020

I dislike name calling in general. Names for women are more prevalent than for men. Like it or not calling a woman a bitch has no equivalent for a man.

LizBeth

(9,952 posts)
9. Either a woman is being hysterically irrational like women tend to be, or she is a vile racist.
Thu Jul 23, 2020, 05:35 PM
Jul 2020

two totally different levels of outrage.

It has now become, any woman that speaks up, may be deemed a Karen, if someone chooses to be outraged. We have had fun with it, but it does and well do its damage. And with research, one finds that a disgruntle man was pissed at his X and getting back at her. That is how powerfully the Karen thing has taken off and where it comes from.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
5. I doubt that I have ever used the term here. I also DON'T use it in my personal life.
Thu Jul 23, 2020, 05:27 PM
Jul 2020

I know that in popular culture, it has morphed to sometime mean something than it’s original human directed use, but I don’t care, it’s original use when applied to human beings is enough of a turnoff for me that I won’t even utter or write it.

LizBeth

(9,952 posts)
10. +1. I admit, I have had t put an effort in not using it. But, I have put that effort in. It is
Thu Jul 23, 2020, 05:37 PM
Jul 2020

important enough, I think. I was conditioned along with everyone else.

LizBeth

(9,952 posts)
6. I have basically asked the same on about half of these posts, and no one has owned it.
Thu Jul 23, 2020, 05:30 PM
Jul 2020

I think I am the only one having that conversation about Democrat's hypocrisy. I see it on FB all the time, hooked up to so many Democratic site and when I call it, consistently I have a handful of people agree with me while the arguments in reply is women now own that word (who knows what that means) and it is not gender specific anymore, and women use that word.

I am curious the intellectual discussion, or disconnect on this, personally so thank you for this thread. It has been a shake my head, with amusement kind of morning.

Srkdqltr

(6,291 posts)
14. It isn't Dem or Rep. It is MEN.
Thu Jul 23, 2020, 06:00 PM
Jul 2020

And women who were conditioned to think it is ok. Go along to get along. It isn't right. It isn't funny. It is dismissive to women. It diminishes women makes what they do seem trivial. Anytime that is allowed it makes it more difficult for other women.

hunter

(38,316 posts)
11. When your own mom calls you a son of a bitch it's best you remain silent.
Thu Jul 23, 2020, 05:42 PM
Jul 2020
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On the internet nobody knows you're a dog.

One of my fondest childhood memories, although I didn't know it would be at the time, was my mom getting into a bitch fight with a Catholic Bishop.

It was glorious. I was also near piss-my-pants terrified.

I've always lived with women (and a few men) who call themselves the B-word but it's not mine to call anyone that.

Shrike47

(6,913 posts)
16. I do not agree with having the DU word police.
Thu Jul 23, 2020, 06:53 PM
Jul 2020

We’ve had this discussion before. People who use words you don’t like can be ignored, can be called out, can be argued with.

Srkdqltr

(6,291 posts)
17. I agree. Everyone needs to look at theirselves ask do you say these things?
Thu Jul 23, 2020, 07:47 PM
Jul 2020

One is either on board or not. If not duck. You can say what you want but you men are on notice if you are with women or against, your choice. It all reflects back on you.

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