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dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
2. We give Christmas card with 20.00 in it for our mailguy.
Thu Aug 13, 2020, 01:46 AM
Aug 2020


He finds it in the box, few days later we get a polite thank you card.

Doing it this way doesn't raise any eyebrows. It's never been solicited or anything.

herding cats

(19,564 posts)
3. Sure, I give mine cookies a few times a year.
Thu Aug 13, 2020, 01:51 AM
Aug 2020

My route carrier gets them much more often along with other snacks and frozen waters in the mailbox in the summer.

No Vested Interest

(5,167 posts)
4. I've given my postmen smallish Christmas gifts over the years - boxes of candy, cookies, etc.
Thu Aug 13, 2020, 01:54 AM
Aug 2020

A few months ago I met my mail deliverer at the door and gave him a jar of Planter's peanuts, and a compliment. He said, "I'm just doing my job." I told him, "You do it very well."
And he does do it very well.

Vivienne235729

(3,384 posts)
5. Yes! I give my mailman a christmas goodie bag every year. I also
Thu Aug 13, 2020, 01:56 AM
Aug 2020

give the post office a large tin of cookies. It's the least I can do. I figure I work them pretty hard with all my amazon, etsy, ali and ebay habits.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,861 posts)
6. Probably. Especially a gift for the office as a whole.
Thu Aug 13, 2020, 02:07 AM
Aug 2020

Many years ago I was an airline ticket agent at National Airport in Washington, DC. DCA. We were very expressly forbidden to accept gifts or tips from passengers.

We had any number of regular passengers, most of whom were wonderful. I had one who flew with us regularly, because he commuted into DC from somewhere else. Once I figured that out, I could check on his reservations of Friday afternoons, and if we were running late could call his office -- it took like three minutes and was easy enough to do in between dealing with all the other passengers -- and let him know about the delay. His office was invariably astonished and grateful.

We had another regular passenger we called "Ready Ticket Richards". Richards was his last name. Ready Ticket was a convenient way of ticketing regular passengers -- the details aren't important all these years later. Ready Ticket Richards lived in Albany, NY, and commuted to DC every week. He was incredibly loyal to my airline, Mohawk. I recall at least one evening when our flight was running late, and offered to rebook him on Allegheny. Nope. He stuck with us.

In 1972 Mohawk was subsumed into Allegheny. Ready Ticket Richards transferred every bit of his loyalty to Mohawk over to Allegheny, and now called us "The Pan Am of Pennsylvania." He was loud, seemingly obnoxious, and wonderful. One time all of the flights were delayed because of weather in DC. Ready Ticket Richards was hanging out at the counter, and when some passenger started complaining about the delay, he set that guy straight. Then he disappeared for a few minutes and came back with a very large candy box from the airport gift shop. We accepted it gratefully.

So trust me, people who deal with the public have a very difficult job and are truly grateful for small gifts.

captain queeg

(10,207 posts)
9. When I worked for the federal government there was a $20 limit on value of gifts
Thu Aug 13, 2020, 04:30 AM
Aug 2020

I don’t know if different departments might have different guidance.

gladium et scutum

(806 posts)
10. When growing up in the 50s & 60s
Thu Aug 13, 2020, 07:06 AM
Aug 2020

We had the same mail carrier for close to 20 years. Every Christmas my dad would wrap a nice bottle of bourbon, and leave it in the mail box for Mr. Sharp, our mailman.

Liberal In Texas

(13,554 posts)
11. $20 non-cash. $50/year. Per USPS rules
Thu Aug 13, 2020, 07:41 AM
Aug 2020
Employee Tipping and Gift-Receiving Policy
All postal employees, including carriers, must comply with the Standards of Ethical Conduct for Employees of the Exec­utive Branch. Under these federal regulations, carriers are permitted to accept a gift worth $20 or less from a customer per occasion, such as Christmas. However, cash and cash equivalents, such as checks or gift cards that can be exchanged for cash, must never be accepted in any amount. Furthermore, no employee may accept more than $50 worth of gifts from any one customer in any one calendar year period.

https://about.usps.com/postal-bulletin/2012/pb22349/html/cover_025.htm

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yardwork

(61,622 posts)
13. We made a card for our postal carrier.
Thu Aug 13, 2020, 08:07 AM
Aug 2020

It was a card that said "not all heroes wear capes" and the whole family helped color it and signed it, thanking him for his service. We left it in our mailbox for him.

Our USPS carrier loved it.

Grasswire2

(13,571 posts)
14. So I stopped at the coffee shop and got a dozen assorted muffins and cookies.
Thu Aug 13, 2020, 03:49 PM
Aug 2020

The service I received at the Post Office was OUTSTANDING.

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