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JFN1

(2,033 posts)
Mon Jan 9, 2012, 01:05 AM Jan 2012

The Babysitter Dilemma

What to do? You want to go out, can't find a sitter, and suddenly the fourteen year old playing the Xbox is up for consideration.

But oh, the dilemma - is the Xboxer mature enough, at fourteen, to responsibly do the job? Or will you come home to find the oven on fire, the youngsters the fourteen year old was charged with watching running amuck, and the newly appointed babysitter oblivious to it all, still playing the damned Xbox?

What to do, what to do...

In a very real sense, this same dilemma is one we voters face when electing anyone to public office. From dogcather to President, we have to hope the person we vote for will do the job responsibly, especially if the person we vote for wins.

Therein lies the rub, of course. And in the end, it seems to me, performance by politicians comes down to simple maturity; the maturity which holding office, necessitates.

And just like the babysitter, politcians are not "given" power. When they take office, they do not "have" power. There is no mechanism I know of which makes Our power, their personal property.

They only wield it on the People's behalf.

It is a subtle difference, to be sure, but nonetheless, it is vitally important.

When politicians extend beyond their personal reach, when they exercise power not granted their office, when they carve for themselves using their office for personal gain, it seems to indicate, at least to me, a basic lack of maturity.

Our elected officials must have the maturity to understand they are not given power and they do not have power; these imply a level of ownerhip which, simply put, does not exist.

POLITICIANS MERELY WIELD POWER. IT IS NOT THEIRS, THEY DO NO OWN IT, AND THEY CANNOT KEEP IT, FOR IT BELONGS EXCLUSIVELY TO US.

And that is the problem I am having with politicans of every stripe these days. They seem to have a sense of entitlement permeating their space, as if the power they wield is their's, by right. There is an air of smug resentment towards the general public about them, evident in their public interactions - Oakland's mayor comes to mind as a recent example, as do the Republican Presidential candidates.

Hopefully we will stop giving individuals who clearly lack the maturity to wield power as the tool it is intended to be, access to Our power...hopefully we will lose our desperation for a babysitter, any babysitter! - and start to seek out people of maturity and deep, meaningful honor...no more popularity contests, no more mindless competition devoid of true substance...can't...stand...anymore...

Gods, I am so sick and tired of pompous, self-important, over-inflated, utterly dishonest assholes pretending they understand the difference...for all we seem to do anymore, is clean up after them...and pay...and pay...and pay...

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Pisces

(5,602 posts)
1. Lucky thing we do have a mature President and we have no need to feel desperate unlike the Repukes.
Mon Jan 9, 2012, 01:16 AM
Jan 2012

Response to JFN1 (Original post)

frazzled

(18,402 posts)
4. elected officials = 14-year-old babysitters?
Mon Jan 9, 2012, 02:01 AM
Jan 2012

How about the electorate assuming some maturity? What is this holier-than-thou "maturity" business about? Who is the "we" you're talking about that is so knowledgeable and mature? I don't see them at the current debates being held.

I'm sorry, but this analogy to babysitters is just not making any sense whatsoever. I mean, if you compared the current crop of House Republicans to, say, Mafia dons, there might be some sort of analogy in there. We're dealing with ruthlessness and ideology gone wild, not zonked out preteens tied to the X-box.

JFN1

(2,033 posts)
6. Actually, it is a metaphore...
Mon Jan 9, 2012, 03:01 AM
Jan 2012

...and I believe a careful reading should indicate that I am not equating actual fourteen-year-old babysitters, with politicians...it goes a little deeper than that.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
5. It's not that they're immature, it's that they're bought and paid for by big corporations.
Mon Jan 9, 2012, 02:38 AM
Jan 2012

And since when did playing an XBOX become shorthand for immaturity?

I'm an extremely responsible gray-haired geezer, and I like to play the XBOX from time to time.

JFN1

(2,033 posts)
7. Okay, I am not suggesting playing Xbox is shorthand for immaturity...
Mon Jan 9, 2012, 03:04 AM
Jan 2012

If this were the 70's, I might say riding a skateboard, or playing with an electric race track, or watching MTV, if this were the 80's...sheesh...

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
8. Point still stands: They're in hock to big corporations and other status quo interests.
Mon Jan 9, 2012, 03:10 AM
Jan 2012

That's the big problem. And there's the attitude that we, the voters, need to be satisfied with the shitty and limited choices they keep serving up, like they're the only restaurant open at 3:30 am and we're a gaggle of drunk college students who NEED TO EAT SOMETHING, ANYTHING.

The other party is completely insane, while our party needs to stop running on "who you gonna vote for- the insane people?" and actually LEAD.


ps. It's spelled "metaphor".

 

Surya Gayatri

(15,445 posts)
9. The "babysitter" analogy is a bit
Mon Jan 9, 2012, 07:09 AM
Jan 2012

of a stretch, but I do appreciate this extract notwithstanding:
"...hopefully we will lose our desperation for a babysitter, any babysitter! - and start to seek out people of maturity and deep, meaningful honor...no more popularity contests, no more mindless competition devoid of true substance..."
Unhappily for us, and as the old saying goes, "People usually get the leaders they deserve..."

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