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George II

(67,782 posts)
Wed Oct 7, 2020, 01:22 PM Oct 2020

Thom Tillis' Ex-Wife Cites "Cruel and Inhuman Treatment" in Divorce Documents

By Chai Karve on October 7, 2020.

According to court filings obtained by American Ledger, North Carolina Republican Senator Thom Tillis’ ex-wife alleged “cruel and inhuman treatment” by Tillis, raising questions about the reasons surrounding the couple’s eventual divorce. In Tennessee, where the couple was married, “cruel and inhuman treatment” legally includes domestic violence, adultery, emotional or verbal abuse, and sexual assault.

The divorce complaint, filed in August 1979 on Tillis’ birthday, stated that Tillis was “guilty of such cruel and inhuman treatment or conduct towards the plaintiff as renders further cohabitation unsafe and improper.” The divorce filing also noted that Tillis’ ex-wife felt “unsafe and improper” living with Tillis any further because of his actions, which may include any or all of the actions outlined in the law.

Tillis’ relationship with his ex-wife was apparently tenuous, as indicated by the fact that the 1979 divorce proceeding came 6 months after their marriage and was followed by a 1981 divorce, a second marriage, and ultimately a second divorce in 1987. The first marriage, which started to unravel with the court document seen below, ultimately lasted two years.

Ultimately, the divorce proceeding was dismissed by the court because the spouse chose to not take further action. It’s unclear why the spouse made that decision.


http://american-ledger.com/accountability/thom-tillis-ex-wife-cites-cruel-and-inhuman-treatment-in-divorce-documents/


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Thom Tillis' Ex-Wife Cites "Cruel and Inhuman Treatment" in Divorce Documents (Original Post) George II Oct 2020 OP
Suddenly a bit of 'sexting' doesn't seem so bad... Eid Ma Clack Shaw Oct 2020 #1
Live by the smear, die by the smear. Miguelito Loveless Oct 2020 #2
There is bound to be a ghost at the back of your closet, no matter where you live... Buckeyeblue Oct 2020 #3
He was born in August 1960. He married when he was 18? BlueStater Oct 2020 #4
That story is much too old to have much of an impact PatSeg Oct 2020 #5

Buckeyeblue

(5,499 posts)
3. There is bound to be a ghost at the back of your closet, no matter where you live...
Wed Oct 7, 2020, 01:50 PM
Oct 2020

There will always be a few things, maybe several things, that you're going to find really difficult to forgive...

That comes from Up The Wolves, one of my favorite Mountain Goats songs.

BlueStater

(7,596 posts)
4. He was born in August 1960. He married when he was 18?
Wed Oct 7, 2020, 02:09 PM
Oct 2020

That’s a very young age to get married.

Being an abusive husband is worse than being an unfaithful one, but the alleged abuse also happened over 40 years ago. He can play up the “changed man” angle.

Also, why didn’t this come out in 2014?

PatSeg

(47,560 posts)
5. That story is much too old to have much of an impact
Wed Oct 7, 2020, 02:18 PM
Oct 2020

Unless someone can show a consistent pattern over many years, it is hard to put much stock in it. Also, allegations by either spouse during divorce proceedings aren't always reliable. I've known both men and women who have lied or at least exaggerated. Divorces can get very nasty and contentious really fast.

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