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madaboutharry

(40,212 posts)
Wed Oct 14, 2020, 10:23 AM Oct 2020

Barrett is a cold fish.

I have known people like this my entire life. They have erected a wall around them, have a demeanor that keeps people at a distance, and have no warmth emanating from them.

This of course has nothing to do with competency, but I think this is making her refusal to answer question all the more annoying.

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Barrett is a cold fish. (Original Post) madaboutharry Oct 2020 OP
She seems to be more human than a lot of men would be Beringia Oct 2020 #1
You mean republican men I presume... Cartaphelius Oct 2020 #3
I think women are judged on this where men aren't even noticed in this way Beringia Oct 2020 #4
My comments have nothing to do with her being a woman. madaboutharry Oct 2020 #7
Yet, the republicans are using Cartaphelius Oct 2020 #8
Justice without empathy is not justice. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Oct 2020 #2
Clearly you are Canadian. Cartaphelius Oct 2020 #9
I bet her children live in fear of her wrath kimbutgar Oct 2020 #5
She's part of the paternalistic pecking order. Eyeball_Kid Oct 2020 #6
If she ever does see them! I bet others fill the mother role. Hopefully, not the older daughters. TheBlackAdder Oct 2020 #16
She's probably uncomfortable calguy Oct 2020 #10
she is what the men in her cult and life made of her Cerridwen Oct 2020 #11
This is dumb. SlogginThroughIt Oct 2020 #12
Not dumb. madaboutharry Oct 2020 #13
Very thoughtful. SlogginThroughIt Oct 2020 #17
Dumb, petty and pointless. Disaffected Oct 2020 #15
In general I agree with your comment EndlessWire Oct 2020 #19
Shite stinks at all temperatures JCMach1 Oct 2020 #14
She's a Stepford wife!1 UTUSN Oct 2020 #18
She's the prim and proper type who'd probably pass out if someone used a four-letter word. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2020 #20

Beringia

(4,316 posts)
4. I think women are judged on this where men aren't even noticed in this way
Wed Oct 14, 2020, 10:37 AM
Oct 2020

I am just talking about interactions in life, nothing to do with their politics. That said, I think women can be more "catty" and insincere, to pretend to be nice.

madaboutharry

(40,212 posts)
7. My comments have nothing to do with her being a woman.
Wed Oct 14, 2020, 11:00 AM
Oct 2020

If a man were behaving like this, I would have also called him a cold fish.

In fact, I have known men who are cold fish.

The status of a cold fish is gender neutral.

 

Cartaphelius

(868 posts)
8. Yet, the republicans are using
Wed Oct 14, 2020, 11:13 AM
Oct 2020

her gender to legitimize their push for her appointment.

While the dem's are displaying her indifference to the suffering
of the nation at large.

Eyeball_Kid

(7,432 posts)
6. She's part of the paternalistic pecking order.
Wed Oct 14, 2020, 10:51 AM
Oct 2020

Of course she misplaces her anger on her kids. She belongs to this handmaiden-submissive private religious "People of Praise" Catholic group that diminishes and disempowers women and shuns them if they object. Barrett's husband had to accompany her to an OB-GYN medical appointment to make sure that she didn't ask for BIRTH CONTROL prescriptions. And Barrett's husband was supported by People of Praise and their requirement that women submit to their husbands' commands.

When I watch Barrett, I see her pious, holier-than-thou perspective as consistent with conservative Irish Catholics in my extended family. Barrett is part of the Notre Dame culture of the belief that Catholics, and especially Irish Catholics, are God's chosen people, which means that any of their failings or falls from grace, are easily forgiven because God views them with enormous favor. So they come off as elitist snobs who are better, both religiously, and RACIALLY, than anyone else. That's the Notre Dame culture. That's the draw to Touchdown Jesus.

Cerridwen

(13,258 posts)
11. she is what the men in her cult and life made of her
Wed Oct 14, 2020, 11:16 AM
Oct 2020

she is a product of her father, her husband, scalia, and her cult.

 

SlogginThroughIt

(1,977 posts)
12. This is dumb.
Wed Oct 14, 2020, 11:17 AM
Oct 2020

Sorry but this is more of the same crap that we saw with Hillary being attacked for being cold, unlikable, etc.

It doesn’t matter and it furthers the crap that women have to deal with in their professions.

There are plenty of things to rip her for.

 

SlogginThroughIt

(1,977 posts)
17. Very thoughtful.
Wed Oct 14, 2020, 11:55 AM
Oct 2020

It is dumb for the reasons I mentioned.

There is no need to attack her for attributes that have nothing to do with the position.

EndlessWire

(6,537 posts)
19. In general I agree with your comment
Wed Oct 14, 2020, 01:11 PM
Oct 2020

but, as noted up thread, didn't she say something like she would only apply the letter, and not the spirit, of the law? I want my law served up with justice, compassion, and perhaps some juror pity on occasion.

I think people need to push past their childhoods and do their very best on their own, keeping in mind that what they have gone through impacts them greatly. But, you can't be exonerated for some high crime just because you got punched by life. So, there's that.

But, there has to be a reasonable application of justice and what evens things out, without expectations of miracles that will change the perp. I want someone to apply the law at the highest level.

I don't think this judge has enough experience, and that she has been picked because of her gender and politics. I suppose that is how they all get picked, though.

greatauntoftriplets

(175,742 posts)
20. She's the prim and proper type who'd probably pass out if someone used a four-letter word.
Wed Oct 14, 2020, 09:14 PM
Oct 2020

Also the one who always misses the humor in a joke.

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