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U.S. Rep. Allen West (R-FL) reportedly asked his wife to be his "porn star" in a hand-written letter from Iraq in 2003, detailing "non-negotiable" sex acts she was to perform on his return and ordering her to wear only two-piece bathing suits.
Former Palm Beach Post and Radar.com staffer Jose Lambiet published some of the contents of the letter on his South Florida site Gossip Extra, arguing the intimate details are news-worthy because the way the Tea Party Congressman relates to women has become an issue in his reelection race.
Lambiet said he exclusively obtained the letter written to financial advisor Dr. Angela West, whom the former Army Lt. Colonel married in 1989. Among the contents:
The congressman proceeds tells his wife he expects certain intimate acts upon his return that will be the standard and it is non-negotiable.
...Then: Angela, I need to know, are you committed to being my porn star?
I do not want to hear no or well see about that. I want my fantasies to be with you. God has authorized you and you only as my partner for intimacy and that is what I want.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/10/01/allen-west-porn-star-letter-wife-angela_n_1929812.html?utm_hp_ref=politics&ir=Politics
Initech
(100,080 posts)Fawke Em
(11,366 posts)leftofcool
(19,460 posts)Lochloosa
(16,065 posts)hifiguy
(33,688 posts)Nuttier than a squirrel turd, West is.
rocktivity
(44,576 posts)written by a love-starved, battle-fatigued, family-missing soldier serving far from home -- and it WAS a personal letter, after all. But given the things he HAS said (like that he had a higher security clearance than the president), it IS damning.
rocktivity
fleur-de-lisa
(14,627 posts)repukes are so sexually repressed, I have to believe there are far kinkier things he requested. Though the authorization from God was a little creepy . . .
Brickbat
(19,339 posts)On the other hand, I'm not a dickwad U.S. representative running for reelection.
Sekhmets Daughter
(7,515 posts)This is a sexist treatise written to an educated woman who must be a fool, because she is still married to him.
Brickbat
(19,339 posts)in the past, sound terrible and reflect poorly on me. It happens.
KansDem
(28,498 posts)Rep. Allen West (R-Fl.)
Read more: http://www.cosmopolitan.com/celebrity/exclusive/stupid-things-politicians-say-allen-west#slide-2
"We are not going to have our men become subservient" No, Allen, just the women...
Enrique
(27,461 posts)sounds like he's putting a gun to her head.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)just sayin.
Eleanors38
(18,318 posts)BumRushDaShow
(129,085 posts)cthulu2016
(10,960 posts)MattBaggins
(7,904 posts)This will not sit well with most thinking women and men. This is a totally crass and uncultured way to treat your spouse. Perhaps if you were to talk with some women you might be able to better appreciate this.
cthulu2016
(10,960 posts)And you might try talking to... maybe just people in general. It might make your internet posts less in the manner of a jerk.
I have no trouble understanding how people, including myself, read this. It does not fill me with warm feelings for Mister West.
It is, however, an intimate letter from a husband to a wife and thus is genuinely not of much interest to decent people.
Melinda
(5,465 posts)Are you saying that, because I believe, based upon his legislative policies and voting record, that West is a misogynistic POS, and that because I further posted about how he treated (treats?) his wife as 2nd class CHATTEL placed here on earth to obey his every sexual command, that I am NOT a decent person?
Is this your contention? Just looking to understand your position.
Zalatix
(8,994 posts)Melinda
(5,465 posts)That's what.
former-republican
(2,163 posts)I'm thinking some DU members have never been in a combat zone writing to their girl friends , boy friends , wives or husbands
Tommy_Carcetti
(43,182 posts)"God has authorized you and you only as my partner for intimacy and that is what I want.
What the fuck is that about? It sounds like something that Agent Nelson Van Alden from Boardwalk Empire would say.
Dr. Strange
(25,921 posts)Some kind of Canadian rapper?
Tommy_Carcetti
(43,182 posts)....that I have more respect for a bald, mayonaise loving Canadian rapper than I would ever have for Allen West.
I'm being honest here.
porphyrian
(18,530 posts)Jennicut
(25,415 posts)I will now go and bleach my eyes out, thank you very much.
On the other hand, he only wants his wife to be his "porn star." Is this slightly better then a David Vitter diaper wearing prostitute hiring type? I have no idea. All I know is Repubs like their women a certain way, and that is not as progressive, intelligent feminists.
Journeyman
(15,036 posts)and to fulfill their partner's every fantasy. What more could a lonely soldier in Iraq want from a Supreme Being?
I guess there really are "no atheists in foxholes," and every satyr's a believer between the sheets.
meow2u3
(24,764 posts)Those wife rapists, men-children who use their wives as blowup dolls are not real men
Bok_Tukalo
(4,323 posts)... but shows spice in a 14 year marriage along with a spiritual commitment to monogamy.
Good for them.
former-republican
(2,163 posts)This is just ridiculous that it made news.
Melinda
(5,465 posts)as he wanted, he might find himself facing a rape charge. West's attitudes toward woman isn't confined to the 'theater' - check out his political history, his legislation, votes, campaign speeches, appearances on televisions, etc. He is a piece of shit who hates women, period.
former-republican
(2,163 posts)between a husband writing to his wife from within a combat zone.
Sometimes even sexy pictures are exchanged.
Blue Owl
(50,407 posts)...to have and to -- uh, never mind...
luvspeas
(1,883 posts)but unfortunately there are lots of other people who do need convincing.
Octafish
(55,745 posts)It's conservative wife swapping.
http://www.bradblog.com/?p=1433
Melinda
(5,465 posts)One edit: Jaysus, my eyes, argh!!!
99Forever
(14,524 posts)... going to lower ourselves to the level of sex-gossipers?
Think I'll pass. Thanks anyway.
factsarenotfair
(910 posts)I say give him anything he wants!
cali
(114,904 posts)We know nothing about their relationship. It's their business. What people do in their bedrooms is supposed to something that liberals don't care about.
Clearly some liberals are partisan hypocrites.
JustABozoOnThisBus
(23,350 posts)Probably more interesting, and more telling, (and also none of my business) would be the story of how/why/when the letter was given to a gossip columnist.
I don't plan to search for that back-story. The answer is probably sad. And personal.
Xolodno
(6,395 posts)"....are you committed to being my porn star? "....
Oh please. What good is that? Which Porn Star? Jesse Jane? Aurora Snow? Come on! I tell my wife I want her to be my porn star and she says "which one? and do we need to go to the swing club or invite some friends?"
And as usual....no matter what we do or where.....she always outlasts me and puts me to shame. The few times I have outlasted her was with the aid of vibrators....then it feels like I cheated.
These sexually repressed Republicans really need to be set free, maybe then they will have some compassion and won't be uptight so much. And they can't say "...but the Bible says..." because the Bible says a lot of conflicting info about sex (due to the the fact the society often just took the local customs in regaurds to sex)...and adultery back then was a violation of property rights. If someone has permission...its not a violation of property rights. So damnit West, head down to Hedonism in Jamaica, Desire Resort in Mexico or Sea Mountain in So Cal and let it all hang out.