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Melinda

(5,465 posts)
Tue Oct 2, 2012, 02:55 PM Oct 2012

Allen West: GOP Rep. Reportedly Asked Wife To Be His 'Porn Star', Demanded 'Non-Negotiable' Sex Acts

U.S. Rep. Allen West (R-FL) reportedly asked his wife to be his "porn star" in a hand-written letter from Iraq in 2003, detailing "non-negotiable" sex acts she was to perform on his return and ordering her to wear only two-piece bathing suits.

Former Palm Beach Post and Radar.com staffer Jose Lambiet published some of the contents of the letter on his South Florida site Gossip Extra, arguing the intimate details are news-worthy because the way the Tea Party Congressman relates to women has become an issue in his reelection race.

Lambiet said he exclusively obtained the letter written to financial advisor Dr. Angela West, whom the former Army Lt. Colonel married in 1989. Among the contents:

The congressman proceeds tells his wife he expects certain intimate acts upon his return that will be “the standard and it is non-negotiable.”

...Then: “Angela, I need to know, are you committed to being my porn star?

“I do not want to hear ‘no’ or ‘we’ll see about that.’ I want my fantasies to be with you. God has authorized you and you only as my partner for intimacy and that is what I want.”


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/10/01/allen-west-porn-star-letter-wife-angela_n_1929812.html?utm_hp_ref=politics&ir=Politics

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Allen West: GOP Rep. Reportedly Asked Wife To Be His 'Porn Star', Demanded 'Non-Negotiable' Sex Acts (Original Post) Melinda Oct 2012 OP
And these dipshits call themselves the "pro family party". Initech Oct 2012 #1
Thanks... now I have to go run a bleach bath. Fawke Em Oct 2012 #2
Add lysol and take a scrub brush leftofcool Oct 2012 #38
Never add any kind of cleaner to bleach. It can create cyanide gas. Lochloosa Oct 2012 #39
Oh, brother. hifiguy Oct 2012 #3
If West were a different kind of person, he could turn it all into a big joke rocktivity Oct 2012 #4
Hilarious . . . fleur-de-lisa Oct 2012 #5
You know, I'd really hate it if my love letters went public. Brickbat Oct 2012 #6
This is not a love letter Sekhmets Daughter Oct 2012 #14
Oh, I've written things that, without knowledge of tone, context or other conversations I've had Brickbat Oct 2012 #18
What an embarrassment! KansDem Oct 2012 #7
non-negotiable Enrique Oct 2012 #8
sounds like divorce, to me. seabeyond Oct 2012 #34
God-authorized porn star? To be fair, we don't know which god.nt Eleanors38 Oct 2012 #9
Lots of October Surprises appearing now BumRushDaShow Oct 2012 #10
Gotta give this a "so what?" cthulu2016 Oct 2012 #11
You might want to reflect on that MattBaggins Oct 2012 #12
Thanks for the tip. I have, of course, never spoken to a woman. cthulu2016 Oct 2012 #16
"it is, however, an intimate letter...thus is genuinely not of much interest to decent people" Melinda Oct 2012 #22
Many apologies but doesn't this letter look a lot like BDSM talk? Zalatix Oct 2012 #20
West is a misogynistic sexist POS. Melinda Oct 2012 #13
you think former-republican Oct 2012 #30
I was all prepared to give Brave Sir Allen a pass until that very last line. Tommy_Carcetti Oct 2012 #15
Who does West think he is? Dr. Strange Oct 2012 #24
I can say 100% without sarcasm.... Tommy_Carcetti Oct 2012 #37
. n/t porphyrian Oct 2012 #17
Eww. Jennicut Oct 2012 #19
Interesting. A God who commands women to be "porn stars". . . Journeyman Oct 2012 #21
Repukes are such pervs meow2u3 Oct 2012 #23
Not what I would write Bok_Tukalo Oct 2012 #25
Of course it's joke between a husband and wife , with a soldier , officer etc... in theater former-republican Oct 2012 #26
A joke? Really? If my husband told me my consent wasn't needed for him to sexually do with me... Melinda Oct 2012 #31
yes it's a joke former-republican Oct 2012 #35
Was that in his self-written vows? Blue Owl Oct 2012 #27
I didn't need to know this to know that he's a complete asshat... luvspeas Oct 2012 #28
Did they ever do Plato's Retreat with the John Boltons? Octafish Oct 2012 #29
OMG :facepalm: Really? Melinda Oct 2012 #32
So now we are ... 99Forever Oct 2012 #33
Well....if he remembers to take out the trash EVERY week... factsarenotfair Oct 2012 #36
And it's none of our business. Bad as freepers with this stupid shit. cali Oct 2012 #40
Agree 100%. It's none of our business. JustABozoOnThisBus Oct 2012 #42
You know....that was a really crapy letter.... Xolodno Oct 2012 #41
Ugh- I hope the woman divorces him Marrah_G Oct 2012 #43
Well, if Gaaaawwwwdd has authorized it... AzDar Oct 2012 #44

rocktivity

(44,576 posts)
4. If West were a different kind of person, he could turn it all into a big joke
Tue Oct 2, 2012, 02:59 PM
Oct 2012

written by a love-starved, battle-fatigued, family-missing soldier serving far from home -- and it WAS a personal letter, after all. But given the things he HAS said (like that he had a higher security clearance than the president), it IS damning.


rocktivity

fleur-de-lisa

(14,627 posts)
5. Hilarious . . .
Tue Oct 2, 2012, 03:00 PM
Oct 2012

repukes are so sexually repressed, I have to believe there are far kinkier things he requested. Though the authorization from God was a little creepy . . .

Brickbat

(19,339 posts)
6. You know, I'd really hate it if my love letters went public.
Tue Oct 2, 2012, 03:00 PM
Oct 2012

On the other hand, I'm not a dickwad U.S. representative running for reelection.

Sekhmets Daughter

(7,515 posts)
14. This is not a love letter
Tue Oct 2, 2012, 03:20 PM
Oct 2012

This is a sexist treatise written to an educated woman who must be a fool, because she is still married to him.

Brickbat

(19,339 posts)
18. Oh, I've written things that, without knowledge of tone, context or other conversations I've had
Tue Oct 2, 2012, 03:29 PM
Oct 2012

in the past, sound terrible and reflect poorly on me. It happens.

KansDem

(28,498 posts)
7. What an embarrassment!
Tue Oct 2, 2012, 03:05 PM
Oct 2012
These Planned Parenthood women, the Code Pink women, and all of these women have been neutering American men and bringing us to the point of this incredible weakness...We are not going to have our men become subservient.

—Rep. Allen West (R-Fl.)

Read more: http://www.cosmopolitan.com/celebrity/exclusive/stupid-things-politicians-say-allen-west#slide-2

"We are not going to have our men become subservient" No, Allen, just the women...

MattBaggins

(7,904 posts)
12. You might want to reflect on that
Tue Oct 2, 2012, 03:13 PM
Oct 2012

This will not sit well with most thinking women and men. This is a totally crass and uncultured way to treat your spouse. Perhaps if you were to talk with some women you might be able to better appreciate this.

cthulu2016

(10,960 posts)
16. Thanks for the tip. I have, of course, never spoken to a woman.
Tue Oct 2, 2012, 03:25 PM
Oct 2012

And you might try talking to... maybe just people in general. It might make your internet posts less in the manner of a jerk.

I have no trouble understanding how people, including myself, read this. It does not fill me with warm feelings for Mister West.

It is, however, an intimate letter from a husband to a wife and thus is genuinely not of much interest to decent people.

Melinda

(5,465 posts)
22. "it is, however, an intimate letter...thus is genuinely not of much interest to decent people"
Tue Oct 2, 2012, 03:38 PM
Oct 2012
Really... way to slur a large number of your fellow DUers.

Are you saying that, because I believe, based upon his legislative policies and voting record, that West is a misogynistic POS, and that because I further posted about how he treated (treats?) his wife as 2nd class CHATTEL placed here on earth to obey his every sexual command, that I am NOT a decent person?


Is this your contention? Just looking to understand your position.
 

former-republican

(2,163 posts)
30. you think
Tue Oct 2, 2012, 03:58 PM
Oct 2012



I'm thinking some DU members have never been in a combat zone writing to their girl friends , boy friends , wives or husbands

Tommy_Carcetti

(43,182 posts)
15. I was all prepared to give Brave Sir Allen a pass until that very last line.
Tue Oct 2, 2012, 03:22 PM
Oct 2012

"God has authorized you and you only as my partner for intimacy and that is what I want.”

What the fuck is that about? It sounds like something that Agent Nelson Van Alden from Boardwalk Empire would say.

Tommy_Carcetti

(43,182 posts)
37. I can say 100% without sarcasm....
Tue Oct 2, 2012, 04:11 PM
Oct 2012

....that I have more respect for a bald, mayonaise loving Canadian rapper than I would ever have for Allen West.

I'm being honest here.

Jennicut

(25,415 posts)
19. Eww.
Tue Oct 2, 2012, 03:32 PM
Oct 2012

I will now go and bleach my eyes out, thank you very much.

On the other hand, he only wants his wife to be his "porn star." Is this slightly better then a David Vitter diaper wearing prostitute hiring type? I have no idea. All I know is Repubs like their women a certain way, and that is not as progressive, intelligent feminists.

Journeyman

(15,036 posts)
21. Interesting. A God who commands women to be "porn stars". . .
Tue Oct 2, 2012, 03:34 PM
Oct 2012

and to fulfill their partner's every fantasy. What more could a lonely soldier in Iraq want from a Supreme Being?

I guess there really are "no atheists in foxholes," and every satyr's a believer between the sheets.

meow2u3

(24,764 posts)
23. Repukes are such pervs
Tue Oct 2, 2012, 03:41 PM
Oct 2012

Those wife rapists, men-children who use their wives as blowup dolls are not real men

Bok_Tukalo

(4,323 posts)
25. Not what I would write
Tue Oct 2, 2012, 03:48 PM
Oct 2012

... but shows spice in a 14 year marriage along with a spiritual commitment to monogamy.

Good for them.

 

former-republican

(2,163 posts)
26. Of course it's joke between a husband and wife , with a soldier , officer etc... in theater
Tue Oct 2, 2012, 03:55 PM
Oct 2012

This is just ridiculous that it made news.



Melinda

(5,465 posts)
31. A joke? Really? If my husband told me my consent wasn't needed for him to sexually do with me...
Tue Oct 2, 2012, 04:04 PM
Oct 2012

as he wanted, he might find himself facing a rape charge. West's attitudes toward woman isn't confined to the 'theater' - check out his political history, his legislation, votes, campaign speeches, appearances on televisions, etc. He is a piece of shit who hates women, period.

 

former-republican

(2,163 posts)
35. yes it's a joke
Tue Oct 2, 2012, 04:10 PM
Oct 2012

between a husband writing to his wife from within a combat zone.

Sometimes even sexy pictures are exchanged.

luvspeas

(1,883 posts)
28. I didn't need to know this to know that he's a complete asshat...
Tue Oct 2, 2012, 03:57 PM
Oct 2012

but unfortunately there are lots of other people who do need convincing.

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
33. So now we are ...
Tue Oct 2, 2012, 04:06 PM
Oct 2012

... going to lower ourselves to the level of sex-gossipers?



Think I'll pass. Thanks anyway.

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
40. And it's none of our business. Bad as freepers with this stupid shit.
Tue Oct 2, 2012, 04:29 PM
Oct 2012

We know nothing about their relationship. It's their business. What people do in their bedrooms is supposed to something that liberals don't care about.

Clearly some liberals are partisan hypocrites.

JustABozoOnThisBus

(23,350 posts)
42. Agree 100%. It's none of our business.
Wed Oct 3, 2012, 07:04 AM
Oct 2012

Probably more interesting, and more telling, (and also none of my business) would be the story of how/why/when the letter was given to a gossip columnist.

I don't plan to search for that back-story. The answer is probably sad. And personal.



Xolodno

(6,395 posts)
41. You know....that was a really crapy letter....
Tue Oct 2, 2012, 05:44 PM
Oct 2012

"....are you committed to being my porn star? "....

Oh please. What good is that? Which Porn Star? Jesse Jane? Aurora Snow? Come on! I tell my wife I want her to be my porn star and she says "which one? and do we need to go to the swing club or invite some friends?"

And as usual....no matter what we do or where.....she always outlasts me and puts me to shame. The few times I have outlasted her was with the aid of vibrators....then it feels like I cheated.

These sexually repressed Republicans really need to be set free, maybe then they will have some compassion and won't be uptight so much. And they can't say "...but the Bible says..." because the Bible says a lot of conflicting info about sex (due to the the fact the society often just took the local customs in regaurds to sex)...and adultery back then was a violation of property rights. If someone has permission...its not a violation of property rights. So damnit West, head down to Hedonism in Jamaica, Desire Resort in Mexico or Sea Mountain in So Cal and let it all hang out.

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