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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsThings are looking up for us! I am almost scared to be excited....
This might not be the appropriate place for this, but I wanted to share my good news!
I have posted many times about how we struggle and how hard this economy has hit us. I am a small horse trainer and my husband does construction. We have a small, but lovely farm that we have been trying to make support us for the past 3-4 years. It is trying, but the facilities are really limited, so I have had a hard time luring customers away from the larger, fancier farms. I have managed to fill the place, but it doesn't offer enough stalls, there isn't an actual arena...anyway, we have managed to do OK there, but the potential is limited. Plus, it is ten miles from our house and we have to be back and forth a lot just in a day and the gas was killing us.
I got wind of a large, GORGEOUS facility 2.5 miles from my house that was empty for awhile, but the owner decided to put it up for lease. I got to them before they put it up publicly. And today I signed the lease on the perfect place for us!! The owner was very cool about giving us time to build the business up and the lease is arranged in a way that allows me to pay more as we fill the place up! That means that we aren't saddled (pun intended) with huge overhead while we are trying to get this place off the ground.
I just cannot believe it. It has an indoor arena (the only true indoor arena in our area), full size dressage arena, jumping ring, round pen, two nice barns, clubhouse with air conditioning and 30 acres of turnout.
And get this...I have already had a call about a new boarder AND a new student and we just announced that we are moving to this place today!!
It is going to be a ton of work and we WILL struggle, but I feel like we have a chance now. I keep wanting to pinch myself or wait for something bad to happen, but everything has gone so smoothly.
This is a dream come true and a better opportunity than I could have ever wished for. Sorry to gush, but we have been struggling for so long, it is nice to have good things happening for a change!
yellerpup
(12,253 posts)Congratulations, what a wonderful break. I'm sure you'll make the most of it! Good luck!
magical thyme
(14,881 posts)GO FOR IT!!!!!
Kookaburra
(2,649 posts)I'm so happy for you Renie!!!
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,627 posts)I know you'll do well. Hang in there, and watch while your work makes your dreams come true!
longship
(40,416 posts)Don't let any Moaning Myrtles spoil it. Celebrate it.
Glad for your post.
We have had SUCH shitty luck for so long that I keep waiting for something icky to happen. It has all gone so smoothly. From finding the place, to having the owner be an absolute doll to work with to our present landlords being gracious and allowing us out of our lease early and wishing us the best!
It is just overwhelming. Last week I was so depressed trying to see what kind of future we could have. Every month was a struggle to make it to the next month so we could struggle to make it to the next month. Now, we have a chance! I know it is up to US to make it work, but I really think we can.
Dear Renie and family .
best of luck and many good wishes for your new venture . You will be a great success with your positive attitude and great work ethic .
Happy days !
longship
(40,416 posts)Myrtles just moan.
You're helping people you cannot imagine.
renie408
(9,854 posts)montanacowboy
(6,089 posts)I know how tough it is in the horse business; I never did any boarding but bred, raised, trained and showed quarter horses for many many years. It's hard but rewarding and there is nothing like the hot warm breath of a horse on your cheek. I am out of the business now but it never really leaves you. Good Luck!
Delmette
(522 posts)I'm a Montanan so i have to join in with montanacowboy to wish you the best of luck. Enjoy your good fortune.
Schema Thing
(10,283 posts)renie408
(9,854 posts)lunatica
(53,410 posts)With your hard work you'll be up and running in no time!
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)ailsagirl
(22,897 posts)I'm delighted to hear that your persistence and proactiveness have paid off. As you pointed out, there will be hard work ahead, but you will press on, with great results. Thanks for sharing!!
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)I'll bet you feel like this:
bluesbassman
(19,374 posts)Good news pulls us all up a little, don't be sorry for gushing! Congrats on your good fortune.
LeftofObama
(4,243 posts)I wish you nothing but the best and I'm excited for you!
deaniac21
(6,747 posts)renie408
(9,854 posts)Over here they are farms, barns or stables. I tend to say 'farm' or 'barn'. Snobs will sometimes use 'equestrian center'. If they are REALLY going for the snoot factor, they will spell center 'centre'.
Also, we do hunters, jumpers and dressage, so those are English disciplines. "Ranch" is associated more with Western.
Paka
(2,760 posts)when you share good news like that. Best of luck to you.
heaven05
(18,124 posts)glad for you. You deserve it. good luck!
emmadoggy
(2,142 posts)Sounds like a great opportunity.
Chellee
(2,097 posts)This is wonderful news. Best of luck!
Spitfire of ATJ
(32,723 posts)It can be a very rewarding thing to do on an emotional level as well as financial.
I looked in on Google Earth and found the old ranch has been repurposed
Paste this into Goggle Maps: 33.826322,-116.870167
You can still see some of the fence lines I did and traces of former pasture but the house and barn are gone..
renie408
(9,854 posts)For awhile there, farms kept getting turned into subdivisions. But since my husband was a drywall contractor, it was all good. 2008 hit us like a ton of bricks.
It is sad to see some place that used to be a beloved farm or good trail riding land that is a row of vinyl sided boxes that are going to fall apart in 30 years because they are so poorly constructed.
I will check it out on Google Earth.
Spitfire of ATJ
(32,723 posts)In the winter there was a river that ran through it. Further up the valley there was a waterfall. Along the banks on the way were wild blackberries. The elevation along the mountain was right about where the clouds hit and that valley used to bottle them in so it was more fertile than some of the surrounding areas. There was a natural spring further up that fed a tank up the hill from the house so there was running water. I had rigged a 12v lighting system with a battery bank charged from a car generator driven by a home made windmill mounted way up on a hill. Propane powered the old Norge fridge, water heater and the stove. Communication was by CB Radio as there were no phone lines. It was a two bedroom wood frame place originally built in the late 1800s with gas wall fixtures. That system was full of leaks so I abandoned the idea of using it. Looking through historic Google Earth images it looks like there was a brush fire that covered that whole section of mountain not too long ago and that explains the house and barn being gone. This place was like a stereotype for the Health Food fad when everyone was into granola and home baked bread. and getting back to nature. We had free range chickens and geese and a goat for milk along with a vegetable garden. The boarding business was good and vacationers braved the brief drive over dirt roads from the Silent Valley RV park to go trail riding in the surrounding hills. It's a shame it's all gone. At least I still have my horse shoeing tools.
GreenPartyVoter
(72,377 posts)WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)secondwind
(16,903 posts)Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)Astazia
(262 posts)So happy for you. Someday, if we old hippies get our dream, we'll be able to retire to a place where we can raise llamas or alpacas,as well as be a rescue place for donkeys & horses, goats, & wolf hybrids. (we have 4 hybrids now, two were rescued & 1 I trained to be Ric's assistance dog.).
Our story needs a little karma so I thought I'd put it out here & invite some karma our way on the heels of your good fortune. We lost our teaching position after 23 years (teaching for 35 in total) & I say we because my husband is legally blind & for the last 13 years I have been our driver in chief & his assistant, aid, & driver. He was given pink slip in May. This was due to his long tenured position and the fact that he made too much money. About 4 yrs ago he & 7 other teachers in our age group were promoted to annual contracts. A normal contract is 9 months. Ric (RJLobo422) has his Masters in special ed & PHd in education, technology & learning. Regardless of his students & excellent reviews they let him & 7 other teachers go saying..."we eliminated annual positions". They promoted the few longest and tenured, beloved, educators just so 3 years later they could "eliminate annual positions",, thus going around union ruless re: tenure. Normally, that couldn't happen with union rules...but they eliminated ALL of the 220 day i.e. annual contacts permanently. We are still paying off his student loans but I hope it will all work out one way or the other.
They wanted to eliminate all of the longest, most dedicated, highest paid, teachers even though they were sent to any site, regardless of their current students. These students were not from easy family situations. The fact that these kids & young adults were succeeding much more with my husband than ever before didn't matter to the bean counters nor to the Superintendent. My guy worked with troubled kids, comeback kids, (pregnant girls who left school to have baby & came back to graduate from HS). He taught independent study, dyslexic kids, adhd, & kids in chairs. He was beloved. He did it all & The Riverside County office of Edu said they would put him in first available position & never did. The kids were told he retired. Temp retirement is his only choice now, but he applies every day for teaching positions that he sees online.
We are positive & hopeful, & reading your good fortune makes me think we will get this figured out job wise, legal wise, & maybe find a way to eventually relocate to a place we can find a small farm, some like minded progressive folks, & see our farm dream come true.
YOUR STORY GIVES ME A KARMA VIBE & YOU DESERVE IT ALL! GOOD ON YOU ALL!
(I say we lost our job due to the fact that I am the only driver & the last 4 years he was sent to 4 or 5 different schools in the alternative education programs. Riverside county encompasses approx. 300 miles all told. Up until the "promotion" he taught in or near our town...which was 5-15 miles each way x 2 since I drive. Riverside County is located in the southern CA desert. Our county office of education stretches to the city of Blythe to the east, Temecula, to the south, Jurupa, Riverside to the west. They did it all on purpose, knowing what a difference he made in so many lives, yet due to his not driving they thought all the changes would make him say"enough"! He stuck it out so they ended it themselves.
Public education in general is top heavy in administration, which only ends up hurting the kids, families, & in the end...our country. I hope in my heart of hearts that for every kid or young adult, or teacher... that it gets better for theom & their families. We will be ok eventually. This I know. Why...because I believe in the law of KARMA!
renie408
(9,854 posts)This could not have come at a better time for me. I really was on the edge of getting pretty discouraged. I was almost too chicken to even try to get this new farm because I kept thinking that things just don't work out for us, why try? But my husband was eager and so was my daughter, so we went for it.
Believe me, we are not out of the woods yet. There is going to be a long building process and lots of really hard work involved, but again, this gives us a CHANCE. I have made plenty of mistakes in this life that I really regret and I am hoping I have learned from them all. We used to run a big, nice farm about 10-12 years ago, but I burned out and my husband started making good money and we let the horse business turn into a hobby that paid for itself. When the economy crashed and construction disappeared pretty much over night, I started trying to crank the horse business back up. I have managed to add customers in a really tough economy, but it has been a daily struggle to survive.
This time around I am hoping to take the things I have learned over the past 10 years both as a trainer and as a person and avoid the situations that led to me getting so burned out the first time around.
Good luck to you and yours. Keep your eyes, minds and hearts open and a path will show itself.
Astazia
(262 posts)That post was my saying good for you & people like you & yours deserve it! WoooHooo
I got carried away a little but it sure felt great reading your story. Where are you living? If we are ever in the area we'll come pet your horses for sure! xxoo
Control-Z
(15,682 posts)When hard work starts paying off it doesn't seem as hard for some reason. Good luck to you.