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During a news conference on Thursday, Flavaine Carvalho said she was working on her day off at Mrs. Potato Restaurant on South Kirkman Road on New Year's Day when she noticed at one of her tables, everyone got food except an 11-year-old boy.
She said when she asked if something was wrong with the food, the stepfather, Timothy Wilson II, told her the boy was going to eat dinner at home later.
That's when she said she noticed bruises on the boy's face and arms.
"I could see he had a big scratch between his eyebrows," Carvalho said. "Couple of minutes later, I saw a bruise on the side of his eye. So I felt there was something really wrong."
Carvalho says she wrote the boy a note that read, "Do you need help? Ok" and stood behind his parents where they couldn't see. After several attempts, Carvalho says that he signaled yes. Police were immediately called.
https://www.fox35orlando.com/news/it-was-torture-police-describe-abuse-boy-endured-before-being-rescued-by-orlando-server
Shero!
ret5hd
(20,529 posts)abqtommy
(14,118 posts)ProfessorGAC
(65,228 posts)Great work by this noble lady!
Demovictory9
(32,479 posts)magicarpet
(14,181 posts)lpbk2713
(42,769 posts)Do judges still give out bread and water as punishment?
niyad
(113,600 posts)MagickMuffin
(15,960 posts)Just look at what a catch he is that she would allow him to do those awful things to her children. I guess they deserve each other but the children deserve better. Now they might get that chance.
Big Shout out to Flavaine Carvalho! Observance has it place.
lpbk2713
(42,769 posts)Let him rot.
JHB
(37,163 posts)lpbk2713
(42,769 posts)I missed that.
soldierant
(6,937 posts)he looks like a mean drunk. Even if he wasn't actulley drunk when they took the shot (and if that's the case, he's probably an even meaner drunk.)
As an aside, if these people did this to their own kid, no wonder they don't care about kids being in cages.
EllieBC
(3,042 posts)think they need a man. You dont. Dear fellow women, if you have babies your priority is THEM. You do not need a boyfriend. They have toys for that.
SCantiGOP
(13,874 posts)A woman needs a man
Like a fish needs a bicycle
EllieBC
(3,042 posts)Ive always said that if God forbid something happens to my husband I am not re-partnering until my youngest is well into his teens. Its not worth the risk.
mopinko
(70,265 posts)i made that button in the w years. not many ppl got it.
canuckledragger
(1,670 posts)Whom never gave a shit about what her abusive alcoholic other did to his step-child whenever he threw a tantrum, as long as she got what she wanted.
May both of these cowardly assholes get exactly what they deserve.
obamanut2012
(26,154 posts)He tortured and beat the child, not "she would allow him." HE chose to do it, HE did it. He wasn't allowed to do it.
Should she have called LEOs IMMEDIATELY the first time he did it? Yes. Should she also go to prison? Of course. She sucks. She is terrible, she needs to never be in charge of any child again, but "she would allow him" is making what he did passive.
Our society uses passive voice like this is many ways to lessen the responsibility of male violence. We are even seeing it concerning the Insurrection. I catch myself doing it, too, and I have been trained to NOT use language like this. It's hard. All of us, as a society, need to do better. In both language, and in protecting our most vulnerable.
Grins
(7,239 posts)...its the boyfriend. Sometimes the stepfather, but more often its the boyfriend. Seen it too many times.
Demobrat
(8,997 posts)Thank goodness that child is safe from him. I hope he is able to heal physically and mentally.
Budi
(15,325 posts)Detectives also interviewed the child's mother, Kristan Swann, who reportedly admitted to knowing about the abuse and failed to seek medical care for her son. She was arrested and charged with two counts of Child Neglect.
Know their names & faces.
They look well fed 🤬
My god.
titanicdave
(429 posts)......May they both rot in hell for what they have done.....
Grokenstein
(5,727 posts)They should both be crying. People on both sides of the prison walls are going to want to ruin them on a daily basis.
democrank
(11,112 posts)Sometimes childhood trauma like this takes years to overcome.
wnylib
(21,648 posts)mopinko
(70,265 posts)my da was a drunk. it took me 40 yrs after he died to get over it.
in my 60's.
but he never did that kind of shit. and my mom never would have let him get away w it.
he used to whoop my brother's ass. but he rarely touched us girls.
she almost left him early in the marriage when she left him home w the oldest and came home to find a bruise on my oldest sister's butt.
but refuse a child food? would.not.have.flown.
NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)byronius
(7,401 posts)liberalla
(9,266 posts)Praise and gratitude for Flavaine Carvalho!
Cozmo
(1,402 posts)I takes one strong person to stand up. All of us need to be aware.
BobTheSubgenius
(11,572 posts)For both the children, and Carvalho, if she needs it. I've not met many servers who couldn't do with an uptick in tips.
She and the children both deserve it.
soldierant
(6,937 posts)Grokenstein
(5,727 posts)Joinfortmill
(14,477 posts)MLAA
(17,339 posts)Hurray for Ms Carvallo!
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)She saved his life, very possibly.
mnmoderatedem
(3,730 posts)Well done young lady.
Celerity
(43,581 posts)Police say the boy was also forced to do planks for 30 minutes at a time. If he failed, he would be beaten.
llmart
(15,556 posts)I feel this poor child's pain inside of me when I read things like this. I saw child abuse in my house growing up and it stays with you for life. Fortunately, I was never the recipient of the worst of it because I learned to keep a low profile and not do anything to rile my father, but witnessing some of my siblings being abused was just as disturbing and I've spent many years, especially in my twenties trying to come to terms with what I saw.
That waitress is an absolute angel. She has probably saved that boy's life. I hope he gets a lot of help going forward.
wnylib
(21,648 posts)is psychological abuse. I hope you are able to work through it.
llmart
(15,556 posts)I've spent a lifetime working through it. I've had a fairly decent life and am content even though I've had my share of difficulties just like most of us. One sister and I have just in the past several years been talking a lot of the stuff out together, but some of the other siblings try to sweep it all under the rug. Their lives have not been very successful or content.
Grokenstein
(5,727 posts)Maybe they should be put on a very special exercise regimen. They could use a little tune-up.
orleans
(34,079 posts)Grokenstein
(5,727 posts)wnylib
(21,648 posts)Never heard of it.
wnylib
(21,648 posts)MissB
(15,812 posts)They arent easy to do. 30 minutes is crazy long.
wnylib
(21,648 posts)That would be insane.
wnylib
(21,648 posts)Ilsa
(61,700 posts)That was all I heard trainers talk about a couple of years ago.
iluvtennis
(19,880 posts)titanicdave
(429 posts).....waitress for helping that 11 year old boy.....obviously the step...so called "father"....needs to be taken out to the backside of a barn some place and have his ass beaten until his nose bleeds !!!!.....
NoMoreRepugs
(9,475 posts)is in for a verrrrry hard time.
wnylib
(21,648 posts)Abuse does not come out of thin air. Not all people who are abused become abusers, but all abusers were abused at some point in their lives.
MustLoveBeagles
(11,641 posts)KT2000
(20,590 posts)to the mother or this miscreant. No matter what line of bull they spew. Poor child.
Alex4Martinez
(2,198 posts)Marie Marie
(9,999 posts)oasis
(49,426 posts)canetoad
(17,197 posts)Just for the sake of cruelty. Especially towards children, animals, the disabled, the disadvanted and the helpless.
malaise
(269,210 posts)Two first rate deplorables - lock them up
d_b
(7,463 posts)Hell be a real tough guy in prison.
Vinnie From Indy
(10,820 posts)The one thing most all prisoners agree on is hating criminals that hurt children.