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demmiblue

(36,899 posts)
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 08:30 PM Jan 2021

'It was torture' Police describe abuse boy endured before being rescued by Orlando server

ORLANDO, Fla. - An Orlando waitress is being hailed a hero after helping a boy escape from a possibly abusive home, police said.

During a news conference on Thursday, Flavaine Carvalho said she was working on her day off at Mrs. Potato Restaurant on South Kirkman Road on New Year's Day when she noticed at one of her tables, everyone got food except an 11-year-old boy.

She said when she asked if something was wrong with the food, the stepfather, Timothy Wilson II, told her the boy was going to eat dinner at home later.

That's when she said she noticed bruises on the boy's face and arms.

"I could see he had a big scratch between his eyebrows," Carvalho said. "Couple of minutes later, I saw a bruise on the side of his eye. So I felt there was something really wrong."

Carvalho says she wrote the boy a note that read, "Do you need help? Ok" and stood behind his parents where they couldn't see. After several attempts, Carvalho says that he signaled yes. Police were immediately called.



https://www.fox35orlando.com/news/it-was-torture-police-describe-abuse-boy-endured-before-being-rescued-by-orlando-server


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'It was torture' Police describe abuse boy endured before being rescued by Orlando server (Original Post) demmiblue Jan 2021 OP
Wow! ret5hd Jan 2021 #1
This boy was truly touched by an angel! abqtommy Jan 2021 #2
Impressive & Courageous! ProfessorGAC Jan 2021 #3
My gawd Demovictory9 Jan 2021 #4
Poor kid,... wonderful waitress,..... monster parents. magicarpet Jan 2021 #5
How the F could someone take a kid to a restaurant and not let him eat? lpbk2713 Jan 2021 #6
That was probably part of the torture and punishment. niyad Jan 2021 #51
Momma let this creature beat and torture her baby boy MagickMuffin Jan 2021 #7
The asshole looks like he has a bad hangover. lpbk2713 Jan 2021 #9
He looks like Alex Jones JHB Jan 2021 #18
Yes he does. lpbk2713 Jan 2021 #19
Yes, I was thinking soldierant Jan 2021 #28
Too many women EllieBC Jan 2021 #23
Poster from the 70's: SCantiGOP Jan 2021 #30
That's the truth! EllieBC Jan 2021 #31
i had that tshirt back in the day. flo kennedy said that. mopinko Jan 2021 #57
She's probably like my own self-serving mother canuckledragger Jan 2021 #25
Please do not use passive language for what he did obamanut2012 Jan 2021 #60
I see this, first thought is.. Grins Jan 2021 #66
That man looks like the devil. Demobrat Jan 2021 #8
Arrested: Timothy Wilson II & Kristan Swann Budi Jan 2021 #10
.....They just look the part..... titanicdave Jan 2021 #27
Awwwuh, baddy daddy haz a saddy. Grokenstein Jan 2021 #36
I hope these dear children get the help they need and deserve. democrank Jan 2021 #11
Sometimes? I can't imagine a case where it wouldn't. wnylib Jan 2021 #41
and often, you never get over it. mopinko Jan 2021 #59
... a lifetime. NurseJackie Jan 2021 #61
Such a powerful story. byronius Jan 2021 #12
Horrific! That poor boy... liberalla Jan 2021 #13
That woman who saved the child is FABULOUS! God Bless you Cozmo Jan 2021 #14
I know this sounds crass, but I hope this story brings a flood of material support. BobTheSubgenius Jan 2021 #15
Amen! soldierant Jan 2021 #29
Trust fund for the kids is accepting donations. Grokenstein Jan 2021 #37
God love her Joinfortmill Jan 2021 #16
I hope the fuckers go to prison for a long long time. MLAA Jan 2021 #17
Smart woman! And courageous! BlancheSplanchnik Jan 2021 #20
ironically, that gruesome twosome would stiff the waitress on her tip mnmoderatedem Jan 2021 #21
He said ratchet straps were tied around his ankles and neck, and he was hung upside down from a door Celerity Jan 2021 #22
Oh, lord. I shouldn't have read that piece. llmart Jan 2021 #32
Being a witness to abuse while growing up wnylib Jan 2021 #42
Thank you. llmart Jan 2021 #49
Planks! Thirty minutes! Neither one of those freaks could do a single rep. Grokenstein Jan 2021 #38
what are planks? n/t orleans Jan 2021 #39
Planks Grokenstein Jan 2021 #40
What is "doing planks"? wnylib Jan 2021 #43
... demmiblue Jan 2021 #48
Thanks. wnylib Jan 2021 #52
And you typically work up from practically 30 seconds MissB Jan 2021 #53
Is that 30 minutes of holding the position? wnylib Jan 2021 #54
Yes MissB Jan 2021 #55
Sadistic is the word that comes to my mind. wnylib Jan 2021 #56
Core, core, core. Ilsa Jan 2021 #63
Despicable "parents"....Thank goodness for this waitress and her caring to do something. nt iluvtennis Jan 2021 #24
.....Thanks to that fantastic.... titanicdave Jan 2021 #26
Knowing a bit about incarceration I can tell you that gomer NoMoreRepugs Jan 2021 #33
Probably did when he was a kid. wnylib Jan 2021 #47
That waitress is a hero MustLoveBeagles Jan 2021 #34
Please, NEVER-EVER return the children KT2000 Jan 2021 #35
This made me tear up. nt. Alex4Martinez Jan 2021 #44
Horrible. Torturing that child probably made that bully feel powerful. Marie Marie Jan 2021 #45
A tip of the hat for the server's heroism. oasis Jan 2021 #46
A pox on those who are cruel canetoad Jan 2021 #50
One evil mother and one very good woman malaise Jan 2021 #58
Monsters. d_b Jan 2021 #62
This man will reap what he has sown when he is prison. Vinnie From Indy Jan 2021 #64
Thank you for this post. Lucky this waitress noticed something and did something about it. nt PatrickforO Jan 2021 #65

lpbk2713

(42,769 posts)
6. How the F could someone take a kid to a restaurant and not let him eat?
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 08:52 PM
Jan 2021


Do judges still give out bread and water as punishment?

MagickMuffin

(15,960 posts)
7. Momma let this creature beat and torture her baby boy
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 08:55 PM
Jan 2021



Just look at what a catch he is that she would allow him to do those awful things to her children. I guess they deserve each other but the children deserve better. Now they might get that chance.

Big Shout out to Flavaine Carvalho! Observance has it place.





soldierant

(6,937 posts)
28. Yes, I was thinking
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 09:47 PM
Jan 2021

he looks like a mean drunk. Even if he wasn't actulley drunk when they took the shot (and if that's the case, he's probably an even meaner drunk.)

As an aside, if these people did this to their own kid, no wonder they don't care about kids being in cages.

EllieBC

(3,042 posts)
23. Too many women
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 09:36 PM
Jan 2021

think they need a man. You don’t. Dear fellow women, if you have babies your priority is THEM. You do not need a boyfriend. They have toys for that.

EllieBC

(3,042 posts)
31. That's the truth!
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 09:56 PM
Jan 2021

I’ve always said that if God forbid something happens to my husband I am not re-partnering until my youngest is well into his teens. It’s not worth the risk.

mopinko

(70,265 posts)
57. i had that tshirt back in the day. flo kennedy said that.
Fri Jan 15, 2021, 07:30 AM
Jan 2021

i made that button in the w years. not many ppl got it.

canuckledragger

(1,670 posts)
25. She's probably like my own self-serving mother
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 09:41 PM
Jan 2021

Whom never gave a shit about what her abusive alcoholic other did to his step-child whenever he threw a tantrum, as long as she got what she wanted.

May both of these cowardly assholes get exactly what they deserve.

obamanut2012

(26,154 posts)
60. Please do not use passive language for what he did
Fri Jan 15, 2021, 07:38 AM
Jan 2021

He tortured and beat the child, not "she would allow him." HE chose to do it, HE did it. He wasn't allowed to do it.

Should she have called LEOs IMMEDIATELY the first time he did it? Yes. Should she also go to prison? Of course. She sucks. She is terrible, she needs to never be in charge of any child again, but "she would allow him" is making what he did passive.

Our society uses passive voice like this is many ways to lessen the responsibility of male violence. We are even seeing it concerning the Insurrection. I catch myself doing it, too, and I have been trained to NOT use language like this. It's hard. All of us, as a society, need to do better. In both language, and in protecting our most vulnerable.

Grins

(7,239 posts)
66. I see this, first thought is..
Fri Jan 15, 2021, 05:19 PM
Jan 2021

...it’s the boyfriend. Sometimes the stepfather, but more often it’s the boyfriend. Seen it too many times.

Demobrat

(8,997 posts)
8. That man looks like the devil.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 08:58 PM
Jan 2021

Thank goodness that child is safe from him. I hope he is able to heal physically and mentally.

 

Budi

(15,325 posts)
10. Arrested: Timothy Wilson II & Kristan Swann
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 08:59 PM
Jan 2021
Timothy Wilson II was arrested on one count of 3rd Degree Child Abuse. Wilson was arrested a second time on January 6 and charged with multiple counts of Aggravated Child Abuse and Child Neglect.

Detectives also interviewed the child's mother, Kristan Swann, who reportedly admitted to knowing about the abuse and failed to seek medical care for her son. She was arrested and charged with two counts of Child Neglect.

Know their names & faces.
They look well fed 🤬



My god.

Grokenstein

(5,727 posts)
36. Awwwuh, baddy daddy haz a saddy.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 10:21 PM
Jan 2021

They should both be crying. People on both sides of the prison walls are going to want to ruin them on a daily basis.

democrank

(11,112 posts)
11. I hope these dear children get the help they need and deserve.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 09:05 PM
Jan 2021

Sometimes childhood trauma like this takes years to overcome.

mopinko

(70,265 posts)
59. and often, you never get over it.
Fri Jan 15, 2021, 07:34 AM
Jan 2021

my da was a drunk. it took me 40 yrs after he died to get over it.
in my 60's.

but he never did that kind of shit. and my mom never would have let him get away w it.
he used to whoop my brother's ass. but he rarely touched us girls.
she almost left him early in the marriage when she left him home w the oldest and came home to find a bruise on my oldest sister's butt.
but refuse a child food? would.not.have.flown.

Cozmo

(1,402 posts)
14. That woman who saved the child is FABULOUS! God Bless you
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 09:16 PM
Jan 2021

I takes one strong person to stand up. All of us need to be aware.

BobTheSubgenius

(11,572 posts)
15. I know this sounds crass, but I hope this story brings a flood of material support.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 09:17 PM
Jan 2021

For both the children, and Carvalho, if she needs it. I've not met many servers who couldn't do with an uptick in tips.

She and the children both deserve it.

Grokenstein

(5,727 posts)
37. Trust fund for the kids is accepting donations.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 10:23 PM
Jan 2021
"A trust account has been created in support of the children involved in this alleged abuse case. Those who wish to donate can send those donations to" (address in article)

Celerity

(43,581 posts)
22. He said ratchet straps were tied around his ankles and neck, and he was hung upside down from a door
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 09:33 PM
Jan 2021
He said he was hit with a wooden broom, and handcuffed and tied to a large moving dolly. He also said he didn’t get to eat on a regular basis as punishment."

Police say the boy was also forced to do planks for 30 minutes at a time. If he failed, he would be beaten.


llmart

(15,556 posts)
32. Oh, lord. I shouldn't have read that piece.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 09:56 PM
Jan 2021

I feel this poor child's pain inside of me when I read things like this. I saw child abuse in my house growing up and it stays with you for life. Fortunately, I was never the recipient of the worst of it because I learned to keep a low profile and not do anything to rile my father, but witnessing some of my siblings being abused was just as disturbing and I've spent many years, especially in my twenties trying to come to terms with what I saw.

That waitress is an absolute angel. She has probably saved that boy's life. I hope he gets a lot of help going forward.

wnylib

(21,648 posts)
42. Being a witness to abuse while growing up
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 11:10 PM
Jan 2021

is psychological abuse. I hope you are able to work through it.

llmart

(15,556 posts)
49. Thank you.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 11:18 PM
Jan 2021

I've spent a lifetime working through it. I've had a fairly decent life and am content even though I've had my share of difficulties just like most of us. One sister and I have just in the past several years been talking a lot of the stuff out together, but some of the other siblings try to sweep it all under the rug. Their lives have not been very successful or content.

Grokenstein

(5,727 posts)
38. Planks! Thirty minutes! Neither one of those freaks could do a single rep.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 10:25 PM
Jan 2021

Maybe they should be put on a very special exercise regimen. They could use a little tune-up.

MissB

(15,812 posts)
53. And you typically work up from practically 30 seconds
Fri Jan 15, 2021, 04:21 AM
Jan 2021

They aren’t easy to do. 30 minutes is crazy long.

titanicdave

(429 posts)
26. .....Thanks to that fantastic....
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 09:42 PM
Jan 2021

.....waitress for helping that 11 year old boy.....obviously the step...so called "father"....needs to be taken out to the backside of a barn some place and have his ass beaten until his nose bleeds !!!!.....

wnylib

(21,648 posts)
47. Probably did when he was a kid.
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 11:15 PM
Jan 2021

Abuse does not come out of thin air. Not all people who are abused become abusers, but all abusers were abused at some point in their lives.

KT2000

(20,590 posts)
35. Please, NEVER-EVER return the children
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 10:19 PM
Jan 2021

to the mother or this miscreant. No matter what line of bull they spew. Poor child.

canetoad

(17,197 posts)
50. A pox on those who are cruel
Thu Jan 14, 2021, 11:25 PM
Jan 2021

Just for the sake of cruelty. Especially towards children, animals, the disabled, the disadvanted and the helpless.

Vinnie From Indy

(10,820 posts)
64. This man will reap what he has sown when he is prison.
Fri Jan 15, 2021, 03:01 PM
Jan 2021

The one thing most all prisoners agree on is hating criminals that hurt children.

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