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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsLost my MIL last night
Completely unexpected, it was an accident in her home.
With everything else over the last 12 months this is especially hard hitting. Just a cherry on this crap sundae
She was mean, racist and republican but she was still family and will be greatly missed.
malaise
(269,062 posts)magicarpet
(14,155 posts).... that distressing reality well.
IA8IT
(5,555 posts)2naSalit
(86,650 posts)livetohike
(22,147 posts)the family .
Backseat Driver
(4,393 posts)I'm expecting things to get real in mine shortly. THE BIG NEWS! I've been the black-sheep and estranged by the rest of my FoO for nearly 30 years, but DH's MIL is in nursing care and her at home caretaker was my bro, who is very ill. Docs say he's got months and, OOT from both of us, sis is his PoA person. Suddenly, there's been some contact from the sibs, mostly apologetic and looking for ?, perhaps reconcilliation/truce/moral support with strong boundary walls...still pretty confusing in my old noggin it even happened. Sort of a "Can This Family Be Saved" moment. Proceeding w/caution...
mahina
(17,669 posts)DH = Dear Husband
FoO= family of origin
Is that right?
But OOT and PoA, I dunno
niyad
(113,362 posts)Makes sense. Thanks.
PoindexterOglethorpe
(25,862 posts)And thank you for FoO definition.
These are not terribly common abbreviations.
Please, please, please don't assume we know all of your typing shortcuts.
3catwoman3
(24,007 posts)Maybe out of touch?
ShazzieB
(16,426 posts)Backseat Driver
(4,393 posts)mahina
(17,669 posts)Everybody in my family thats not on my island is at least 2500 miles OOTs 🤣
sheshe2
(83,792 posts)Peace to you and yours.
mahina
(17,669 posts)Family, thats hard. Aloha.
niyad
(113,362 posts)cate94
(2,811 posts)IrishAfricanAmerican
(3,816 posts)mercuryblues
(14,532 posts)I hope your family stays strong through this.
Hortensis
(58,785 posts)COL Mustard
(5,906 posts)I know what you're saying about dealing with GQP supporters, but as you say they are still family.
Make sure you and yours take care of each other...this is a difficult time no matter the politics.
sinkingfeeling
(51,460 posts)diehardblue
(11,001 posts)boston bean
(36,221 posts)gademocrat7
(10,660 posts)samnsara
(17,622 posts)BobTheSubgenius
(11,564 posts)You are a very forbearing and accepting person. I hope this resolves quickly and as painlessly as possible for you.
Niagara
(7,627 posts)MustLoveBeagles
(11,612 posts)calimary
(81,322 posts)Virtual