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pstokely

(10,529 posts)
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 07:49 PM Apr 2021

do you fell comfortable with indoor dining if you're fully vaxxed?

Last edited Tue Apr 13, 2021, 08:25 PM - Edit history (2)

I'm fully vaxxed and I'm a young(er) low(er) risk individual in a blue area of a red region with only local mask mandates currently in place and low(er) spead compared to MI, I don't feel comfortable quite yet but I know a few fully vaxxed boomer centrist leaning Dems (I think I'm further to the left than them) who have been out a few times since they've been fully vaxxed and with apporval from their non-epidemiologist primary care providers, if you don't, when will you feel comfortable? think I'll wait until at least the staff is fully vaxxed


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do you fell comfortable with indoor dining if you're fully vaxxed? (Original Post) pstokely Apr 2021 OP
Falling is never comfortable at my age. n/t rzemanfl Apr 2021 #1
Dr. Fauci says he won't go to restaurants yet, and I'll take his word for it. Ocelot II Apr 2021 #2
This message was self-deleted by its author roamer65 Apr 2021 #3
what's your risk level? pstokely Apr 2021 #5
Me either. I've went into a grocery store and went into a 7/11 to get a Slurpee since vaccinated liberal_mama Apr 2021 #55
Depends on how many are in the restaurant. roamer65 Apr 2021 #4
Yes. I went last Saturday for the first time in 14 months DenaliDemocrat Apr 2021 #10
That's how I feel too. Mr.Bill Apr 2021 #23
Generally no BannonsLiver Apr 2021 #6
I plan on staying put. pwb Apr 2021 #7
Not yet El Supremo Apr 2021 #8
Was in a restaurant Monday night unc70 Apr 2021 #9
How on earth would you know that? n/t Ms. Toad Apr 2021 #20
I personally knew everyone in my part of the restaurant unc70 Apr 2021 #31
And the staff? n/t Ms. Toad Apr 2021 #34
All of their staff are vaccinated unc70 Apr 2021 #41
That seems to me to be a big assumption. n/t Ms. Toad Apr 2021 #45
Not an assumption unc70 Apr 2021 #48
Doesn't matter how I feel. Mister Ed Apr 2021 #11
I wish more people understood this Skittles Apr 2021 #59
I went to breakfast yesterday with my son captain queeg Apr 2021 #12
When I go to a restaurant, I go during off peak hours Baltimike Apr 2021 #13
Not for the time being. DinahMoeHum Apr 2021 #14
I'm not eating out until this pandemic is officially over Wanderlust988 Apr 2021 #15
Yes. Your much more likely to get food poisoning or a venereal disease from your date. cinematicdiversions Apr 2021 #16
"What was the point of getting fully vaccinated if you're just going to continue to hide" pstokely Apr 2021 #27
Why would you fo to the hospital? CrackityJones75 Apr 2021 #30
The Pfizer and Moderna vaccines both have a 100% success rate of Jose Garcia Apr 2021 #47
Hallelujah!! Exactly!! beaglelover Apr 2021 #38
Nope. Not sure if I ever will be. Take out is fine with me. onecaliberal Apr 2021 #17
No. Besides, I cook as well if not better than restaurants I can afford. Auggie Apr 2021 #18
I have a huge wrap around porch MissB Apr 2021 #19
Might be best to wait for outdoors dining.. magicarpet Apr 2021 #21
Yes. We went out last weekend DesertRat Apr 2021 #22
Good for you!! Plus the food just tastes better beaglelover Apr 2021 #39
Yes, what a difference from the styrofoam containers! DesertRat Apr 2021 #53
"Feel" n/t MoonRiver Apr 2021 #24
I wonder why it is so many DU'ers don't use the "Edit" function? A HERETIC I AM Apr 2021 #33
Yep. See #1. n/t rzemanfl Apr 2021 #49
No. LisaL Apr 2021 #25
I've been going to restaurants for several months. Tarc Apr 2021 #26
I did go out with my spouse for her birthday - Ms. Toad Apr 2021 #28
I haven't been out to eat yet and don't know when I will go. Arkansas Granny Apr 2021 #29
I ate at a restaurant - outdoors - for the first moonscape Apr 2021 #32
Yes. I've been indoor dining and I'm 1/2 beaglelover Apr 2021 #35
No.. Deuxcents Apr 2021 #36
I'm the same way. Initech Apr 2021 #42
I'm waiting to hear from Fauci. I'm fulled vaxxed. CTyankee Apr 2021 #37
I've been out a few times lately. Initech Apr 2021 #40
Why go out when you can dine indoors at home? panader0 Apr 2021 #43
Yes... the risk is very low with reasonable precautions. Happy Hoosier Apr 2021 #44
We went out once inside after our two weeks Tree Lady Apr 2021 #46
Nope, not going to eat indoors for awhile. Raftergirl Apr 2021 #50
I'd still rather sit outside anyway. FoxNewsSucks Apr 2021 #51
Yes. Mainly because I live in New Mexico, and this state PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 2021 #52
Life is short.. Karma13612 Apr 2021 #54
I'd prefer not to help spread it: being fully vaxxed protects me struggle4progress Apr 2021 #56
No Meowmee Apr 2021 #57
I'll be honest. I've been out a number of times since being vaccinated and felt comfortable. clutterbox1830 Apr 2021 #58
Absolutely Not n/t OhioChick Apr 2021 #60
I've waited this long Retrograde Apr 2021 #61
No.... electric_blue68 Apr 2021 #62
Yes Deminpenn Apr 2021 #63

Ocelot II

(115,744 posts)
2. Dr. Fauci says he won't go to restaurants yet, and I'll take his word for it.
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 07:52 PM
Apr 2021

When he goes I'll go. I've ventured out to a grocery store, a Walgreens and a garden center since I was vaccinated but I still don't feel comfortable at the idea of spending time indoors with unmasked people.

Response to Ocelot II (Reply #2)

liberal_mama

(1,495 posts)
55. Me either. I've went into a grocery store and went into a 7/11 to get a Slurpee since vaccinated
Wed Apr 14, 2021, 01:48 AM
Apr 2021

I'm definitely not comfortable eating in a restaurant right now. I'm high risk with 3 co-morbidities. Plus I was a waitress for 10 years and I know how flu, colds, stomach bugs spread in a restaurant. I swear I was sick 90% of the time with every virus possible the entire time I was waitressing.

roamer65

(36,745 posts)
4. Depends on how many are in the restaurant.
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 07:54 PM
Apr 2021

This is a game of numbers.

If it’s really crowded, I would pass.

DenaliDemocrat

(1,476 posts)
10. Yes. I went last Saturday for the first time in 14 months
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 08:04 PM
Apr 2021

A friend owns a Chinese restaurant. We went at 14:00 and it was very empty. Staff all wore masks. They got a $50 tip too!

Mr.Bill

(24,303 posts)
23. That's how I feel too.
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 08:19 PM
Apr 2021

If they are operating at limited capacity, I guess I must be okay with it after being vaccinated because I did it before I was vaccinated.

BannonsLiver

(16,398 posts)
6. Generally no
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 07:58 PM
Apr 2021

However if there was a scenario where it might be possible to dine indoors in a mostly empty restaurant i might consider it. But certainly not at peak times. But then again who wants to eat dinner at 5 in the afternoon or lunch at 11 am or 3 in the afternoon. More likely to just stick with takeout.

El Supremo

(20,365 posts)
8. Not yet
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 08:01 PM
Apr 2021

I've had two Pfizers but I've gone 13 months without going into a restaurant. Some have closed permanently since then. I can wait. Maybe next week.

unc70

(6,115 posts)
9. Was in a restaurant Monday night
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 08:02 PM
Apr 2021

All restaurant staff are fully vaccinated, I believe the indoors patrons were all also vaccinated. Some dining outside were probably not.

unc70

(6,115 posts)
31. I personally knew everyone in my part of the restaurant
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 08:44 PM
Apr 2021

Monday is half price on all bottles of wine. I know most of the regulars. All of us inside confirmed our statuses with each other; our ages roughly 60-90. From what I could hear, people not fully vaccinated were requesting outside seating.

unc70

(6,115 posts)
41. All of their staff are vaccinated
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 09:09 PM
Apr 2021

The staffs of most of the restaurants around here are fully vaccinated or soon will be. Still wearing masks and following best practices.

While this is generally true around Chapel Hill, it is not so in much of rural NC.

unc70

(6,115 posts)
48. Not an assumption
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 09:33 PM
Apr 2021

I know the owners and many staff members at my Monday restaurant. Have been following their progress getting everyone vaccinated. The last couple of people in the back had just gotten their second shots, but hadn't waited by their full second two weeks.

Where it were just an assumption, I would still only eat outside.

Mister Ed

(5,940 posts)
11. Doesn't matter how I feel.
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 08:04 PM
Apr 2021

Comfortable, uncomfortable, whatever. Virus doesn't know or care how I feel. It just does what it does, and doesn't do what it doesn't do.

captain queeg

(10,208 posts)
12. I went to breakfast yesterday with my son
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 08:05 PM
Apr 2021

The place was limiting how many people were there and everyone wore masks when not seated at their table. I felt comfortable but would want to go somewhere crowded or with people standing around.
I also spent the night at a hostel. I had a private room, the dorm next to me was empty. Not sure if they were even putting people in those. Very few people there.

Baltimike

(4,146 posts)
13. When I go to a restaurant, I go during off peak hours
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 08:05 PM
Apr 2021

and never on the weekends. It is possible to dine out socially distanced...but you have to be an early bird so there aren't many people around

DinahMoeHum

(21,795 posts)
14. Not for the time being.
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 08:05 PM
Apr 2021

For now, since we're getting warmer weather, I'll still prefer to dine outdoors.

Fortunately, some of my favorite spots have roof gardens and outdoor beer gardens.

Wanderlust988

(509 posts)
15. I'm not eating out until this pandemic is officially over
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 08:07 PM
Apr 2021

I will takeout though. Besides, I do a lot of cooking at home anyway so my life isn't as dependent on dining at restaurants as others. Thank God, my mama taught me how to cook!

 

cinematicdiversions

(1,969 posts)
16. Yes. Your much more likely to get food poisoning or a venereal disease from your date.
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 08:07 PM
Apr 2021

At some point you have to start living life again and yes, actually living life has an element of risk to it.

What was the point of getting fully vaccinated if you're just going to continue to hide in your burrow?

pstokely

(10,529 posts)
27. "What was the point of getting fully vaccinated if you're just going to continue to hide"
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 08:26 PM
Apr 2021

staying outta the hospital at least?

Jose Garcia

(2,598 posts)
47. The Pfizer and Moderna vaccines both have a 100% success rate of
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 09:33 PM
Apr 2021

preventing death and hospitalations.

Auggie

(31,174 posts)
18. No. Besides, I cook as well if not better than restaurants I can afford.
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 08:14 PM
Apr 2021

Can’t match a wood burning pizza oven though. But I’ll save a ton of money.

magicarpet

(14,155 posts)
21. Might be best to wait for outdoors dining..
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 08:18 PM
Apr 2021

And seat yourself upwind from the other patrons. So you are not breathing the air exhaled by the other people eating there outdoors.

With the new strains and variants we must remain vigilant. When the CDC says no more mask required by those vaccinated,... then we finally know we can relax.

DesertRat

(27,995 posts)
22. Yes. We went out last weekend
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 08:18 PM
Apr 2021

Four of us, all 2+ weeks past our second vaccines went out for Mexican food, our first time inside a restaurant in 13 months.

The staff all wore masks and the restaurant asked patrons to wear a mask until you're seated. And they had reduced capacity, seating people in every other table or booth with plexiglass partitions between booths.

We had a Wonderful meal and drinks and a great time! It was wonderful to eat out and to feel "normal" again! We're planning to go out again this weekend.

DesertRat

(27,995 posts)
53. Yes, what a difference from the styrofoam containers!
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 10:35 PM
Apr 2021

And the pitcher of margaritas were fabulous! I'll never take dining out for granted again.

A HERETIC I AM

(24,371 posts)
33. I wonder why it is so many DU'ers don't use the "Edit" function?
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 08:48 PM
Apr 2021

How hard is it to go back and change an obvious mistake? There is no shame in it!


But to answer the OP's question, I never fell comfortable. I always fell hard.

Like now. I was wrong! He DID use the edit function.

FIVE TIMES!

And still the misspelling and no capitalization stands.

I'm going to bed.

LisaL

(44,973 posts)
25. No.
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 08:22 PM
Apr 2021

I get takeout.
Will be fine with eating outside in a restaurant that has an outside area, though.

Tarc

(10,476 posts)
26. I've been going to restaurants for several months.
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 08:24 PM
Apr 2021

Masks in, masks when leaving, waitstaff all wearing them. I feel fine with this setup.

Ms. Toad

(34,076 posts)
28. I did go out with my spouse for her birthday -
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 08:26 PM
Apr 2021

But I'm not comfortable, and generally we will only eat in outdoor locations for the foreseeable future. (We're both fully vaccinated, the restaurant was nearly empty, and I wore my mask except when I was actively eating.)

It wasn't quite warm enough for the outdoor locations to be open yet.

When I will be comfortable is (1) when there are fewer than 50 cases /100,000 in the county in which I'm dining and/or (2) when there is a 70-80% vaccination rate in the county in whch I'm dining. Until then - eating out indoors will be limited to eating with my spouse (and other fully vaccinated individuals) on special occasions at her request. The next will likely be our anniversary in September (at which it will likely stlll be warm enough to eat outdoors), then after that her birthday next April.

Arkansas Granny

(31,519 posts)
29. I haven't been out to eat yet and don't know when I will go.
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 08:28 PM
Apr 2021

Maybe after more people are vaccinated and the new case numbers stay low I'll consider it, but I don't feel comfortable with it right now.

moonscape

(4,673 posts)
32. I ate at a restaurant - outdoors - for the first
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 08:46 PM
Apr 2021

time last week and it was such an amazing, welcome event after the last long 13.5 months. No mask at all once at the table. So wonderful.

Since I’m on the Central CA coast where the weather is great, it doesn’t rain, and there are so many great outdoor choices, it’s easy to avoid indoors and not an issue. That said, because of being in a high-risk group, I’d probably avoid indoors anyway until a greater % has been vaccinated and there’s more data on variants.

Deuxcents

(16,248 posts)
36. No..
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 08:55 PM
Apr 2021

The staff up front might have masks..what about the preps n cooks/chefs. Nope.. I’ve become very comfortable at home. And getting better at it. I’ve had my first Moderna shot..2nd in two weeks n even then.. my niece is complaining..she just st turned 40.. stay home for just a while little longer is an eternity... just what did the people do in the 1918-1920’s during the pandemic? We seem to have little patience for anything anymore

Initech

(100,081 posts)
42. I'm the same way.
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 09:11 PM
Apr 2021

A while longer does feel like an eternity. How much longer? Days? weeks? Months? Another year of this shit? I get that everyone is getting restless and I'm in the same boat.

Initech

(100,081 posts)
40. I've been out a few times lately.
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 09:09 PM
Apr 2021

Mainly in outdoor areas and so far everything has been fine. It will be a while before I will be OK eating indoors.

panader0

(25,816 posts)
43. Why go out when you can dine indoors at home?
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 09:20 PM
Apr 2021

Kidding of course. I'm fully vaxxed now and not ready to eat out. If I could afford it even.
I'll wait.
I'll still be very careful for a while at least.

Happy Hoosier

(7,326 posts)
44. Yes... the risk is very low with reasonable precautions.
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 09:22 PM
Apr 2021

I ate at a restaurant today with another fully vaxxed friend. Restaurant was 1/3rd full with good distancing and open windows. I felt completely safe.

Tree Lady

(11,477 posts)
46. We went out once inside after our two weeks
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 09:22 PM
Apr 2021

Masks were off because we were eating and a girl sneezed twice few tables down. They had up booth plexiglass dividers but I lost feeling good about the evening after that.

Hubby and I decided to only eat outside after that until cases way down. We ate lunch yesterday outside and loved it.

Raftergirl

(1,287 posts)
50. Nope, not going to eat indoors for awhile.
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 09:44 PM
Apr 2021

But, now that better weather is here I will likely eat outside every once in a blue moon.

I am looking forward to entertaining outside on my patio with our friend group who have all been vaccinated.

FoxNewsSucks

(10,434 posts)
51. I'd still rather sit outside anyway.
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 09:47 PM
Apr 2021

I just like it better in nice weather. Last fall, I went back to a really good Italian restaurant in Salina KS on a work trip. I was going to get something to take back to the hotel, but they had put a few tables on part of the sidewalk so I ate there. I was the only one outside, indoors was about 50%. It was one of the rare wind-free days in KS, so even without the risk I still would have wanted to sit outside. Afterward, when I walked my dog around downtown, the other nice restaurant also had no one sitting outdoors, but the bar was packed with no one wearing a mask. This was last Sept, and that's a good example of Kansas stupidity.

I've only been to two indoor places since last March. Both times were in rural areas last summer shortly after restaurants reopened and before covid had started spreading in those small towns. High-ceiling places, and only two other tables being used.

I got my shot March 8, but I still wouldn't go to any crowded place, restaurant or anything. I'd only eat indoors in poor weather, and if there were few others there.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,862 posts)
52. Yes. Mainly because I live in New Mexico, and this state
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 09:59 PM
Apr 2021

has done an excellent job of closing down as needed and limiting restaurant seating. Right now we're up to 75% of capacity. As it warms up, I will tend to prefer to eat outdoors, but by midsummer I think I'll be fine inside even at full capacity.

Oh, and this state is so far the best in actually vaccinating people.

Karma13612

(4,552 posts)
54. Life is short..
Tue Apr 13, 2021, 10:40 PM
Apr 2021

Hubby (73) and I (67) have been going to indoor dining restaurants for some time now. We are now both fully vaccinated including the post 2 week wait period, as of March end.

We mask up and wash hands. We stayed away from any restaurants where the staff did not wear masks, before we were vaccinated.

It might sound cavalier but we know the risks, limited the dining to places with high standards reflecting COVID practices and generally stay away from crowds otherwise.

As I said, life is short.

I was more scared way back when it all started when I did the food shopping alone, and masked up, gloved up and wore an outer coat that stayed in the car between shopping trips. A year ago we wouldn’t dream of venturing other than to the food store. Back in the early days we even washed all the items I purchased using a mild chlorox solution. We had a little cleaning station in an outside gazebo next to the house. This was in cold Northern New York where the temps were in the 20’s and windy. I won’t forget how many times I stood outside my car cleaning my bare hands with alcohol gel before getting in the car to drive to the next store or back home. Gawd it was cold.

And the stress and fear of bringing the virus home to my older husband. Or contracting it myself.

We haven’t gotten lax, we’ve just realized that taking proper steps and precautions have proven to be useful and effective.

We all have to make our own decisions. So far, so good.


Meowmee

(5,164 posts)
57. No
Wed Apr 14, 2021, 01:58 AM
Apr 2021

I don’t eat in restaurants anymor anyway due to various health issues. Except for wf cafe occasionally but not since the pandemic at all.

clutterbox1830

(395 posts)
58. I'll be honest. I've been out a number of times since being vaccinated and felt comfortable.
Wed Apr 14, 2021, 01:59 AM
Apr 2021

I probably go to 2-3 restaurants a week and even went to a bar a few times. I know it is probably irresponsible, but needed to blow off steam and I live practically live alone now. I felt safe and comfortable for the most part.

Retrograde

(10,137 posts)
61. I've waited this long
Wed Apr 14, 2021, 02:32 AM
Apr 2021

Just before the local lockdown began, I had some surgery. I promised myself that when I was well enough to walk to a local expensive-but-gosh-they-are-good restaurant I would treat myself and my husband to a nice dinner. Then the county shut everything down. I feel I'm owed - but if I can wait a year plus another few months won't make much difference.

electric_blue68

(14,915 posts)
62. No....
Wed Apr 14, 2021, 05:02 AM
Apr 2021

I've eaten outside dining with my sister but it was around ? 5-6 months before we even did that. So we've eaten outside several times till it got too cold.

We were able to go out comfortably on my birthday because it was an unexpected 60°F to eat outside.

She says she might dine indoors, not me not yet. Numbers need to be much better.

I'll happily dine out once in a while as long as protocols are followed.

Deminpenn

(15,286 posts)
63. Yes
Wed Apr 14, 2021, 05:22 AM
Apr 2021

Have been going out to eat all along with no problems. Usually go during off-peak hours and dine alfresco when the weather's been nice, but no problems with indoor dining either.

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