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Nevilledog

(51,176 posts)
Tue Apr 20, 2021, 11:25 AM Apr 2021

The girl in the Kent State photo and the lifelong burden of being a national symbol



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From the Magazine: In 1970, an image of a dead protester immediately became iconic. But what happened to the 14-year-old kneeling next to him?

The girl in the Kent State photo and the lifelong burden of being a national symbol
In 1970, an image of a dead protester at Kent State became iconic. But what happened to the 14-year-old kneeling next to him?
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2:28 AM · Apr 20, 2021


https://www.washingtonpost.com/magazine/2021/04/19/girl-kent-state-photo-lifelong-burden-being-national-symbol/

Last May, when Mary Ann Vecchio watched the video of George Floyd’s dying moments, she felt herself plummet through time and space — to a day almost exactly 50 years earlier. On that afternoon in 1970, the world was just as riveted by an image that showed the life draining out of a young man on the ground, this one a black-and-white still photo. Mary Ann was at the center of that photo, her arms raised in anguish, begging for help.

That photo, of her kneeling over the body of Kent State University student Jeffrey Miller, is one of the most important images of the 20th century. Taken by student photographer John Filo, it captures Mary Ann’s raw grief and disbelief at the realization that the nation’s soldiers had just fired at its own children. The Kent State Pietà, as it’s sometimes called, is one of those rare photos that fundamentally changed the way we see ourselves and the world around us. Like the image of the solitary protester standing in front of a line of tanks in Tiananmen Square. Or the photo of Kim Phuc, the naked Vietnamese girl fleeing the napalm that has just incinerated her home. Or the image of Aylan Kurdi’s tiny, 3-year-old body facedown in the sand, he and his mother and brother having drowned while fleeing Syria.

These images shocked our collective conscience — and insisted that we look. But eventually we look away, unaware, or perhaps unwilling, to think about the suffering that went on long after the shutter has snapped — or of the cost to the human beings trapped inside those photos. “That picture hijacked my life,” says Mary Ann, now 65. “And 50 years later, I still haven’t really moved on.”

Mary Ann Vecchio has granted few interviews in 25 years, and as a child of the ’60s — with her own entanglement with the FBI — she’s still a bit wary. Partway through the first of what would go on to be a dozen interviews over the phone, she stops abruptly. “Are you doing this on your own?” she asks. I’m freelancing, I tell her. Is that what she means? No, she wants to know if I’m working with a political party. Or law enforcement. “When you’ve lived the life I have,” she says, “you still worry that maybe people are after you.” She also tells me she’s researched me before agreeing to speak. “I’m a little FBI-ish myself, in a renegade way,” she says. “And I’m also still that hippie kid who always sees a rainbow.”

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The girl in the Kent State photo and the lifelong burden of being a national symbol (Original Post) Nevilledog Apr 2021 OP
Very cool Rustyeye77 Apr 2021 #1
K&R berniesandersmittens Apr 2021 #2
Surreal Bayard Apr 2021 #3
It was my 16th birthday. rsdsharp Apr 2021 #6
And...... AZ8theist Apr 2021 #4
They seem to have migrated to killing POC almost exclusively, though. BobTheSubgenius Apr 2021 #13
I was almost afraid to read this. I thought she might have become a Trumper... Dream Girl Apr 2021 #5
History doesn't repeat, but it does rhyme... Wounded Bear Apr 2021 #7
Ohio 4 Maj 1970 described in Swedish psych folk TomWilm Apr 2021 #8
There are so many times Mary Ann Vecchio might have given up or been broken by her experiences, crickets Apr 2021 #9
Read that this morning Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Apr 2021 #10
I had no idea she was only 14 PatSeg Apr 2021 #11
Me too! BobTheSubgenius Apr 2021 #14
It was a college campus PatSeg Apr 2021 #15
Exactly right. Both of those! BobTheSubgenius Apr 2021 #22
I think she skipped school that day and went to the university for fun catrose Apr 2021 #16
She was a runaway from Florida, traveling around the country. SeattleVet Apr 2021 #17
At 14? Whoa! PatSeg Apr 2021 #19
Different times nt cinematicdiversions Apr 2021 #23
Yes, very much so PatSeg Apr 2021 #25
Could be. It's been a long time since I read the first where-is-she-now article. catrose Apr 2021 #20
Yes, she looks like a grown woman in that photo. smirkymonkey Apr 2021 #24
Same here PatSeg Apr 2021 #26
A lot of people look older in pics and videos from older days JI7 Apr 2021 #31
Same here. I was surprised kcr Apr 2021 #27
Yes, it is the first time PatSeg Apr 2021 #28
i loved reading this -- thanks for posting this! nt orleans Apr 2021 #12
At the time, pictures of dead were fairly common -- the Vietnam war was going on. Klaralven Apr 2021 #18
That photo caused a bit of a stir in my family-My Mom was her doppelganger Boxerfan Apr 2021 #21
It's a good article. I recommend it. NT mahatmakanejeeves Apr 2021 #29
This was a great article. Recommended strongly. SoonerPride Apr 2021 #30
Kick for history Rustyeye77 Apr 2021 #32
 

Dream Girl

(5,111 posts)
5. I was almost afraid to read this. I thought she might have become a Trumper...
Tue Apr 20, 2021, 12:59 PM
Apr 2021

Good to know she’s still a “hippie kid who always sees the rainbow”.

crickets

(25,982 posts)
9. There are so many times Mary Ann Vecchio might have given up or been broken by her experiences,
Tue Apr 20, 2021, 01:30 PM
Apr 2021

but she didn't let that happen. Her spirit is still strong, she's made a life for herself, and she still cares about making a positive difference for others around her in whatever way she can. What an amazing woman.

Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin

(108,155 posts)
10. Read that this morning
Tue Apr 20, 2021, 01:37 PM
Apr 2021

The woman is only two years older than me. Can't imagine going through what she did at that age.

PatSeg

(47,564 posts)
11. I had no idea she was only 14
Tue Apr 20, 2021, 01:49 PM
Apr 2021

I'd always assumed she was a college student in her late teens or early twenties.

PatSeg

(47,564 posts)
15. It was a college campus
Tue Apr 20, 2021, 02:04 PM
Apr 2021

so I assumed all the young people were college age and she really looks older than 14.

catrose

(5,071 posts)
16. I think she skipped school that day and went to the university for fun
Tue Apr 20, 2021, 02:22 PM
Apr 2021

She wasn't protesting; she didn't know anyone who died. It was a heavy burden.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
24. Yes, she looks like a grown woman in that photo.
Wed Apr 21, 2021, 05:18 PM
Apr 2021

Not a criticism, just noting that she looked much more mature that most 14 years olds I know, who are still basically little girls.

PatSeg

(47,564 posts)
26. Same here
Wed Apr 21, 2021, 05:51 PM
Apr 2021

My own daughter at 14 looked very much a kid, but I have known some young girls who looked eighteen or nineteen.

JI7

(89,261 posts)
31. A lot of people look older in pics and videos from older days
Wed Apr 21, 2021, 06:53 PM
Apr 2021

Maybe it was because life was tougher and we didn't have many things then that we have today.

Also the concept of youth is different .

kcr

(15,318 posts)
27. Same here. I was surprised
Wed Apr 21, 2021, 05:53 PM
Apr 2021

What a heartbreaking read. It was eye-opening to discover just how devastating the impact was on her entire life. The relentless fallout she endured. Her meeting with the photographer after all those years. It's the first time I've ever seen her really talked about. She's only ever been that girl in the picture.

PatSeg

(47,564 posts)
28. Yes, it is the first time
Wed Apr 21, 2021, 06:08 PM
Apr 2021

I've heard her mentioned aside from the photo, even though the image is burned into my brain.

 

Klaralven

(7,510 posts)
18. At the time, pictures of dead were fairly common -- the Vietnam war was going on.
Tue Apr 20, 2021, 03:35 PM
Apr 2021

Lots of 18-year olds were sent to Vietnam to shoot and kill the Cong, typically with the M-16 military version of the AR-15.

Boxerfan

(2,533 posts)
21. That photo caused a bit of a stir in my family-My Mom was her doppelganger
Tue Apr 20, 2021, 07:41 PM
Apr 2021

We got the Life Magazine issue in the mail like everyone else. And I immediately saw the lady in aguish looked exactly like my Mom. I had no idea she was 14 in the photo. My Mom was late 20's at the time.

She got calls from far away family asking what she was doing at Kent State.



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