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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsGaetz all but ADMITTED underaged sex! "I never had sex with a 17-yo AS AN ADULT"!!!
So he implied he had sex with a 17-yo when he was younger? That doesn't get him off the hook.
drray23
(7,638 posts)if both are underage, you would not get prosecuted.
Effete Snob
(8,387 posts)You do know that it is legal for underage people in their late teens to have sex, yes?
Or did you think everyone who had sex in high school was a criminal?
I had sex with a 16 year old - when I was 16. That's not illegal.
I feel badly that you did not know this when you were younger.
CrackityJones75
(2,403 posts)Effete Snob
(8,387 posts)It can be fun, but it's not a game.
GregariousGroundhog
(7,526 posts)California's age of consent is 18 and there are no "Romeo and Juliet" exceptions to the law there.
Dr. Strange
(25,925 posts)So if two 17-year-olds have sex, then they're both considered rapists?
That seems weird.
GregariousGroundhog
(7,526 posts)Governor Newsom signed a law last year that made changes to who must register as a sex offender. Before the start of the year, an adult (such as an 18 year) old who had anal sex with a consenting minor (such as a 17 year old) was forced to register as a sex offender for life. There was no such automatic requirement for vaginal sex; it was at the discretion of the court.
ripcord
(5,547 posts)When the sex is consensual it is almost impossible to prove who the is victim.
cos dem
(903 posts)CrackityJones75
(2,403 posts)I am confused by your post.
If he wasnt an adult, two teenagers having sex is an issue? Jeez. I dont like the sound of that!
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,455 posts)USALiberal
(10,877 posts)argyl
(3,064 posts)It's not considered statutory rape, it's consensual sex. One day older than three years it is statutory rape. Many states have similar laws.
Towlie
(5,328 posts)
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... or to generalize it even further, an act between two consenting minors can't be a crime for one but not for the other.
Autumn
(45,120 posts)It's rare when teenagers don't have sex.
The words "AS AN ADULT" matter here.
NutmegYankee
(16,201 posts)greenjar_01
(6,477 posts)had sex with teenagers when we were ourselves teenagers, no?
I'm not sure what your point is here.
Chainfire
(17,659 posts)I agree 100% with you post above. I have been married to, and 100% faithful to, the same woman for 50 years, but we were making whoopie like rabbits before either of us were close to being adults. We wore out the back seat of my '65 Fairlane... We were married when she was 17 plus two months and I just turned 19.
There are plenty of real issues to go after Gaetz for, but lets not act like right-wingers and demonize him for that particular statement.
It does seem, anecdotally, to me that the more powerful or rich a man is, the easier his pants drop in places they should not. There seems to be a sexual entitlement that goes with power, fame and fortune. Of course, part of that may simply the ability to buy yourself out of trouble.
former9thward
(32,093 posts)progressoid
(49,999 posts)SYFROYH
(34,185 posts)Treefrog
(4,170 posts)Teens have sex with each other all the time. Even back when I was a teen, it happened. Im one of those who waited for adulthood (so to speak), but I was probably in the minority.
LizBeth
(9,952 posts)Unless 17 yr old boy and 10 yr old girl, at a certain point just kids having sex.
sir pball
(4,761 posts)I was 17 last time I has sex with a 17 year old, thank you very much.
liberaltrucker
(9,130 posts)Plenty of trees to bark up regarding Gaetz. This isn't one.
Mr.Bill
(24,334 posts)She was 16.