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Gaetz all but ADMITTED underaged sex! "I never had sex with a 17-yo AS AN ADULT"!!! (Original Post) George II Apr 2021 OP
yes it would. drray23 Apr 2021 #1
Umm... Effete Snob Apr 2021 #2
lol right?! CrackityJones75 Apr 2021 #5
The OP's dad was Eugene Levy Effete Snob Apr 2021 #6
It depends on the state. For example, your conduct would have been illegal in California GregariousGroundhog Apr 2021 #19
Wait, really? Dr. Strange Apr 2021 #24
Yes, and California law was discriminatory toward the LGBTQ community until January 1 of this year GregariousGroundhog Apr 2021 #27
But almost no one is charged in these cases ripcord Apr 2021 #25
He still acts like a child, so he thinks he's in the clear. cos dem Apr 2021 #3
huh? CrackityJones75 Apr 2021 #4
lol what WhiskeyGrinder Apr 2021 #7
I don't think you understand what you said. Nt USALiberal Apr 2021 #8
In Texas, a 14 y.o. girl can have sex with a male less than 3 years older than her. argyl Apr 2021 #9
Any law that would convict the male minor would logically have to also convict the female minor. Towlie Apr 2021 #10
Yeah it does. Underage people in their teens do have sex. That's a fact. Autumn Apr 2021 #11
"Does not Compute, Does not compute" said the Robot... NutmegYankee Apr 2021 #12
I think most of us greenjar_01 Apr 2021 #13
As much as I do not want to defend Gaetz Chainfire Apr 2021 #14
Are you going to indict half the teenagers in the country? former9thward Apr 2021 #15
Whaaa? progressoid Apr 2021 #16
yes. I think so. SYFROYH Apr 2021 #17
Are you serious here? Treefrog Apr 2021 #18
Why wouldn't it? Any more than charging an underage girl for having sex back with a boy. LizBeth Apr 2021 #20
I've never had sex with a 17 year old as an adult, either sir pball Apr 2021 #21
My HS sweetheart and I were both 17 at the time liberaltrucker Apr 2021 #22
The first time I had sex it was with an older woman. Mr.Bill Apr 2021 #23
Weird USALiberal Apr 2021 #26
 

Effete Snob

(8,387 posts)
2. Umm...
Fri Apr 30, 2021, 09:27 AM
Apr 2021

You do know that it is legal for underage people in their late teens to have sex, yes?

Or did you think everyone who had sex in high school was a criminal?

I had sex with a 16 year old - when I was 16. That's not illegal.

I feel badly that you did not know this when you were younger.

GregariousGroundhog

(7,526 posts)
19. It depends on the state. For example, your conduct would have been illegal in California
Fri Apr 30, 2021, 01:08 PM
Apr 2021

California's age of consent is 18 and there are no "Romeo and Juliet" exceptions to the law there.

GregariousGroundhog

(7,526 posts)
27. Yes, and California law was discriminatory toward the LGBTQ community until January 1 of this year
Fri Apr 30, 2021, 03:34 PM
Apr 2021

Governor Newsom signed a law last year that made changes to who must register as a sex offender. Before the start of the year, an adult (such as an 18 year) old who had anal sex with a consenting minor (such as a 17 year old) was forced to register as a sex offender for life. There was no such automatic requirement for vaginal sex; it was at the discretion of the court.

ripcord

(5,547 posts)
25. But almost no one is charged in these cases
Fri Apr 30, 2021, 03:01 PM
Apr 2021

When the sex is consensual it is almost impossible to prove who the is victim.

 

CrackityJones75

(2,403 posts)
4. huh?
Fri Apr 30, 2021, 09:30 AM
Apr 2021

I am confused by your post.

If he wasn’t an adult, two teenagers having sex is an issue? Jeez. I don’t like the sound of that!

argyl

(3,064 posts)
9. In Texas, a 14 y.o. girl can have sex with a male less than 3 years older than her.
Fri Apr 30, 2021, 09:56 AM
Apr 2021

It's not considered statutory rape, it's consensual sex. One day older than three years it is statutory rape. Many states have similar laws.

Towlie

(5,328 posts)
10. Any law that would convict the male minor would logically have to also convict the female minor.
Fri Apr 30, 2021, 10:13 AM
Apr 2021

 


... or to generalize it even further, an act between two consenting minors can't be a crime for one but not for the other.

Autumn

(45,120 posts)
11. Yeah it does. Underage people in their teens do have sex. That's a fact.
Fri Apr 30, 2021, 10:17 AM
Apr 2021

It's rare when teenagers don't have sex.

The words "AS AN ADULT" matter here.

 

greenjar_01

(6,477 posts)
13. I think most of us
Fri Apr 30, 2021, 10:26 AM
Apr 2021

had sex with teenagers when we were ourselves teenagers, no?

I'm not sure what your point is here.

Chainfire

(17,659 posts)
14. As much as I do not want to defend Gaetz
Fri Apr 30, 2021, 12:02 PM
Apr 2021

I agree 100% with you post above. I have been married to, and 100% faithful to, the same woman for 50 years, but we were making whoopie like rabbits before either of us were close to being adults. We wore out the back seat of my '65 Fairlane... We were married when she was 17 plus two months and I just turned 19.

There are plenty of real issues to go after Gaetz for, but lets not act like right-wingers and demonize him for that particular statement.

It does seem, anecdotally, to me that the more powerful or rich a man is, the easier his pants drop in places they should not. There seems to be a sexual entitlement that goes with power, fame and fortune. Of course, part of that may simply the ability to buy yourself out of trouble.

 

Treefrog

(4,170 posts)
18. Are you serious here?
Fri Apr 30, 2021, 01:03 PM
Apr 2021

Teens have sex with each other all the time. Even back when I was a teen, it happened. I’m one of those who waited for adulthood (so to speak), but I was probably in the minority.

LizBeth

(9,952 posts)
20. Why wouldn't it? Any more than charging an underage girl for having sex back with a boy.
Fri Apr 30, 2021, 02:08 PM
Apr 2021

Unless 17 yr old boy and 10 yr old girl, at a certain point just kids having sex.

sir pball

(4,761 posts)
21. I've never had sex with a 17 year old as an adult, either
Fri Apr 30, 2021, 02:27 PM
Apr 2021

I was 17 last time I has sex with a 17 year old, thank you very much.

liberaltrucker

(9,130 posts)
22. My HS sweetheart and I were both 17 at the time
Fri Apr 30, 2021, 02:43 PM
Apr 2021

Plenty of trees to bark up regarding Gaetz. This isn't one.

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