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sprinkleeninow

(20,255 posts)
Tue May 4, 2021, 12:15 AM May 2021

Not wishing to draw attention to myself re: charitable donations for India, but

these are our brothers and sisters in humanity. I just made one to the Hope Foundation, now, on 04 May, my mother's birthday. Her birthday actually slipped my mind with all the current stress.

Eternal Memory, Mom.
💛
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Not wishing to draw attention to myself re: charitable donations for India, but (Original Post) sprinkleeninow May 2021 OP
"Not wishing to draw attention to myself" left-of-center2012 May 2021 #1
My previous post: sprinkleeninow May 2021 #3
Thank you. MLAA May 2021 #7
Good job! I nearly chose Oxfam, but Hope Foundation was 1st choice. sprinkleeninow May 2021 #10
You have done a wonderful thing with your donation in your mom's memory! CaliforniaPeggy May 2021 #2
I was deeply moved to and will do some more soon. sprinkleeninow May 2021 #5
Sincere appreciation. UTUSN May 2021 #4
... sprinkleeninow May 2021 #6
Jose Andres and WCK moondust May 2021 #8
Thanks be. sprinkleeninow May 2021 #12
He is amazing. n/t moonscape May 2021 #20
May 4th is my favorite aunt's birthday, too. She was also my godmother. Rhiannon12866 May 2021 #9
Dear one, I'll remember you both to Heaven. Much love, 💛 sprinkleeninow May 2021 #13
Thanks so much, sweetie! Rhiannon12866 May 2021 #14
So thoughtful of you to remind all of us about this diaster in the other Raine May 2021 #11
I'm guilty as charged. 2nd gen. American. Spoilt. I've got it good regardless. sprinkleeninow May 2021 #15
Many thanks for bringing this up. Mine is a shout-out to Direct Relief & their India response... Hekate May 2021 #16
Goodness no, I don't mind! Next contrib. I'll consider this one. sprinkleeninow May 2021 #17
The leaders of their country should be trashed. DENVERPOPS May 2021 #18
But right now in this moment, 1 billion people need substantial help Hekate May 2021 #19
THIS malaise May 2021 #29
Thank you for this. You are a good person. Scrivener7 May 2021 #21
Thanks for caring. Not as well as I would like. Weary, sprinkleeninow May 2021 #22
To you too. Did you see someone? You were thinking of it. Scrivener7 May 2021 #28
I had an appointment with the primary care doc, but needed to cancel. sprinkleeninow May 2021 #30
I am concerned. These first years of the grief process are so dark. But they do pass. Scrivener7 May 2021 #31
Thank you for posting. I assume UNICEF USA is also Ilsa May 2021 #23
... sprinkleeninow May 2021 #24
Many of my husband's coworkers are directly from India. Ilsa May 2021 #26
I just had to donate and will again. It hits you hard when you visualize what they're experiencing. sprinkleeninow May 2021 #27
This message was self-deleted by its author sprinkleeninow May 2021 #25

MLAA

(17,327 posts)
7. Thank you.
Tue May 4, 2021, 12:36 AM
May 2021

I used your link and found Oxfam because they took PayPal and made a donation. Glad you encouraged me!

sprinkleeninow

(20,255 posts)
10. Good job! I nearly chose Oxfam, but Hope Foundation was 1st choice.
Tue May 4, 2021, 01:09 AM
May 2021

I was moved to deep sorrow watching the report earlier.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,698 posts)
2. You have done a wonderful thing with your donation in your mom's memory!
Tue May 4, 2021, 12:30 AM
May 2021

And to help our brothers and sisters who are suffering in India.

Thank you!

Rhiannon12866

(205,961 posts)
9. May 4th is my favorite aunt's birthday, too. She was also my godmother.
Tue May 4, 2021, 12:49 AM
May 2021

Thanks for pointing this out and for the suggestion!

Rhiannon12866

(205,961 posts)
14. Thanks so much, sweetie!
Tue May 4, 2021, 01:16 AM
May 2021

She was my Dad's older sister, had just one daughter who was a little younger than me so we grew up together, the closest thing I had to a sister. She was my first babysitter and shared my Dad's sense of humor. I miss her...

Raine

(30,540 posts)
11. So thoughtful of you to remind all of us about this diaster in the other
Tue May 4, 2021, 01:09 AM
May 2021

part of the World. It's easy to get caught up in what's happening here and not think about the suffering in other places. Thank you!

sprinkleeninow

(20,255 posts)
15. I'm guilty as charged. 2nd gen. American. Spoilt. I've got it good regardless.
Tue May 4, 2021, 01:20 AM
May 2021
"Easy to get caught up." Deception.

I grieve daily for my past life. I should've used more discernment. I was offered insight how to conduct my life, but looks like I willfully ignored that leading. Squandered gifted time, money... Woe unto me.

DENVERPOPS

(8,844 posts)
18. The leaders of their country should be trashed.
Tue May 4, 2021, 02:24 AM
May 2021

Not a lot unlike the leaders of another country we know......

My opinion:

Their leaders have sat on their collective butts, positioned and living at the top of their "class" system, doing nada to prepare for over a year. They knew it would hit their country big time at sometime in the future.

Their leaders were all focused on spending all their time and money trying to advance their nuclear weapons program.

No matter what is done now, it will be a matter of too little, too late.....Instead of manufacturing vaccine to sell to other countries, they should have been building humongous stockpiles and vaccinating their own people. All 1.2 Billion of them, most living in unfathomable poverty and crowded living conditions. They should have stockpiled PPE, O2, and respirators. As well as building massive care facilities with beds and other necessities.....

Sadly, it is how the Trump adminstration reacted, but worse considering the scale of their impending nightmare.


sprinkleeninow

(20,255 posts)
22. Thanks for caring. Not as well as I would like. Weary,
Tue May 4, 2021, 10:23 PM
May 2021

continued physical and emotional stress.

I don't achieve restorative sleep.

Feel like I'm on a hamster wheel.

Peace, good health and safety be to you. 💛

sprinkleeninow

(20,255 posts)
30. I had an appointment with the primary care doc, but needed to cancel.
Thu May 6, 2021, 12:14 AM
May 2021

I have other medical options. So there's that. Physically, I'm nearly spent a lot. Then it in turn alters my mental well-being.

I do have moments of joy/gladness.

Stuff keeps going sideways on me and that takes a toll. I'm tackling tax teturns now and have an aversion to that kind of activity. But I make myself get it done. Once accomplished, I have peace. It's been 2 years of dealing with husband's death, the legalities of it. This is what wearies me.

You show lovingkindness to me. 💛

Scrivener7

(51,004 posts)
31. I am concerned. These first years of the grief process are so dark. But they do pass.
Thu May 6, 2021, 08:25 AM
May 2021

I recently went through an enormously stressful period, which thankfully has passed. But I found Ashwaghanda helped. It's over the counter and you can get it in any good health food store. For me it evened out my mood, helped me to sleep, you can just take it when you need it, and had no side effects. And from what I read it was very safe.

I take very few drugs, so I'm very susceptible to their effects, but I found this worked well for me to help me on those days.

Ilsa

(61,698 posts)
26. Many of my husband's coworkers are directly from India.
Wed May 5, 2021, 12:38 AM
May 2021

My son's doctor is first generation US-born. He takes his family back every couple of years. He's one of the smartest people I've ever met.
Helping India through this is a worthy cause.

Response to Ilsa (Reply #23)

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