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ripcord

(5,550 posts)
Sun Jun 13, 2021, 08:24 PM Jun 2021

Had a disturbing conversation with a relative

He is very upset that his taxes go towards Covered California which is how the state administers Obamacare. He looked right at me and was as serious as he could be when he said that if people who can't afford health insurance get hurt or sick they should just die, that is capitalism.

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Had a disturbing conversation with a relative (Original Post) ripcord Jun 2021 OP
I'm sorry but I think your relative is horrible. Trueblue1968 Jun 2021 #1
Tell him to cheer up, he could be living in France or Germany or Italy or the UK or....just about CTyankee Jun 2021 #2
What a horrible thing to think XanaDUer2 Jun 2021 #3
A number of our relatives heard this ripcord Jun 2021 #5
He's obviously not Christian RainCaster Jun 2021 #4
No no no, you don't understand.If you're a good person Jesus lays his hands on you & it's all better Hekate Jun 2021 #9
Or - if you get sicker and die it's because you were SO GOOD that Jesus wanted you to come home Maru Kitteh Jun 2021 #11
That's true, He did ask for a co-pay before healing RainCaster Jun 2021 #12
Jesus.... canetoad Jun 2021 #17
This is what Karl Marx meant when he said the religion was the opiate of the masses. Poor.... RussellCattle Jun 2021 #28
Wow - never thought of it that way! lagomorph777 Jun 2021 #29
You're welcome. It surprised me me too when I first read about it a few years ago. The.... RussellCattle Jun 2021 #30
I always thought it was critical of religion and favorable to Marx. lagomorph777 Jun 2021 #31
Jeez, now I'm confused. I thought that Christian folk, who hated Communism and Marx..... RussellCattle Jun 2021 #33
Yep, just reread your post and I was confused. Thanks again. RussellCattle Jun 2021 #34
Yeah, "you say that like it's a bad thing" is where I'm coming from. lagomorph777 Jun 2021 #36
Yeah, If he lost his health insurance and then got sick he would change his opinion fast. twin_ghost Jun 2021 #6
that is the truth we have to face KT2000 Jun 2021 #7
We have a winner ripcord Jun 2021 #8
Yeah, I guess just pray the hurt or sickness away, yep, that works really well. Guess likely RKP5637 Jun 2021 #10
That is capitalism. It's even worse. Capitalism will say you can starve if you refuse to work for jalan48 Jun 2021 #13
I dispise capitalism. I_UndergroundPanther Jun 2021 #14
You could use a capitalist retort. waterwatcher123 Jun 2021 #15
Nicely done. n/t Whiskeytide Jun 2021 #25
Thanks - waterwatcher123 Jun 2021 #39
And I am happy when they're this blunt. Because it removes any doubt about who they are. Baitball Blogger Jun 2021 #16
Does that apply to him if he loses his insurance? roamer65 Jun 2021 #18
What a sick individual. smirkymonkey Jun 2021 #19
Republicans don't like paying taxes stillcool Jun 2021 #20
Ugh..that is disturbing 😵 Demovictory9 Jun 2021 #21
Yep, that is capitalism in all its glory... Wounded Bear Jun 2021 #22
And then he said, ''I'm pro life!'' ... aggiesal Jun 2021 #23
Your relative surely hears that type of psychopathy... Buckeye_Democrat Jun 2021 #24
I feel lucky griffi94 Jun 2021 #26
And I imagine indigoth Jun 2021 #27
He quoted you the Rand Paul plan. nt GoodRaisin Jun 2021 #32
Family can be the most toxic things in your life. 634-5789 Jun 2021 #35
It is the lack of humanity that is really disgusting RANDYWILDMAN Jun 2021 #37
Are there any California members here on Covered California? ansible Jun 2021 #38

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
2. Tell him to cheer up, he could be living in France or Germany or Italy or the UK or....just about
Sun Jun 13, 2021, 08:34 PM
Jun 2021

every place on earth who have health care systems that either the government provides (UK) or one that has health care as a right under their citizenship. Ask him why it is that ALL those countries CHOSE that system. WE ARE THE EXCEPTION not the rule. Even Canada has one such system.

ripcord

(5,550 posts)
5. A number of our relatives heard this
Sun Jun 13, 2021, 08:44 PM
Jun 2021

I don't think he and his family will be invited to many gatherings from now on.

Hekate

(90,850 posts)
9. No no no, you don't understand.If you're a good person Jesus lays his hands on you & it's all better
Sun Jun 13, 2021, 09:01 PM
Jun 2021

So that’s what Republican Jesus would do. And if you get sick and sicker and die, it’s because you weren’t good enough and your prayer circle didn’t pray hard enough.

Never mind the Sermon on the Mount….



Maru Kitteh

(28,343 posts)
11. Or - if you get sicker and die it's because you were SO GOOD that Jesus wanted you to come home
Sun Jun 13, 2021, 09:12 PM
Jun 2021

And you had already done your work on Earth, or you shouldn't suffer any more, or one of your dead relatives needs you, or, or, or . . . . .


RussellCattle

(1,535 posts)
28. This is what Karl Marx meant when he said the religion was the opiate of the masses. Poor....
Sun Jun 13, 2021, 11:14 PM
Jun 2021

.....people in pain had only prayer to "ease" their suffering, while the rich could afford opiates.

RussellCattle

(1,535 posts)
30. You're welcome. It surprised me me too when I first read about it a few years ago. The....
Tue Jun 15, 2021, 12:27 PM
Jun 2021

....statement has always been misinterpreted as critical of religion as a means of disparaging Marx.

RussellCattle

(1,535 posts)
33. Jeez, now I'm confused. I thought that Christian folk, who hated Communism and Marx.....
Wed Jun 16, 2021, 06:39 PM
Jun 2021

....would use his quote about religion being the "opiate of the masses" as proof of his atheism and disdain for religion. I guess it depends on who is doing the quoting. It's like when we say today "you say that likes it's a bad thing" when we don't agree with someone's criticism.

KT2000

(20,590 posts)
7. that is the truth we have to face
Sun Jun 13, 2021, 08:54 PM
Jun 2021

many repubs believe that very thing. That is exactly what the "other side" is all about.

RKP5637

(67,112 posts)
10. Yeah, I guess just pray the hurt or sickness away, yep, that works really well. Guess likely
Sun Jun 13, 2021, 09:05 PM
Jun 2021

your relative thinks that too ...

jalan48

(13,896 posts)
13. That is capitalism. It's even worse. Capitalism will say you can starve if you refuse to work for
Sun Jun 13, 2021, 09:30 PM
Jun 2021

what the capitalist offers.

I_UndergroundPanther

(12,480 posts)
14. I dispise capitalism.
Sun Jun 13, 2021, 09:33 PM
Jun 2021

And fucking republicans twisted inhumane beliefs.

I wish having an R by your name meant public ridicule,not being listened to and public shunning,forever.

waterwatcher123

(144 posts)
15. You could use a capitalist retort.
Sun Jun 13, 2021, 09:41 PM
Jun 2021

Why should the rest of us pay higher health insurance costs because people knowingly take risks by refusing to get vaccinated for COVID-19? It would a capitalist approach to notify these people that their Intensive Care Stay (ICU) will not be covered when a safe option exits to avoid such an outcome (maybe not nice - but certainly a capitalist approach).

Baitball Blogger

(46,765 posts)
16. And I am happy when they're this blunt. Because it removes any doubt about who they are.
Sun Jun 13, 2021, 09:43 PM
Jun 2021

And I generally do not waste another second of my time with them.

stillcool

(32,626 posts)
20. Republicans don't like paying taxes
Sun Jun 13, 2021, 10:05 PM
Jun 2021

for any thing...except military. Every piece of land should be privately owned, and maintained. Reminds me of city parking meters being sold and maintained by foreign governments. People really believe that they are the chosen ones. If your relative had any say in my life, I wouldn't have made it past a year-old.

Wounded Bear

(58,728 posts)
22. Yep, that is capitalism in all its glory...
Sun Jun 13, 2021, 10:45 PM
Jun 2021

I'd rather not live in a country where that is true, though, so I like to regulate capitalism, thank you very much.

aggiesal

(8,935 posts)
23. And then he said, ''I'm pro life!'' ...
Sun Jun 13, 2021, 10:51 PM
Jun 2021

You'll never convince me that (R)'s/Conservatives are Pro-Life in any way.

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,858 posts)
24. Your relative surely hears that type of psychopathy...
Sun Jun 13, 2021, 10:51 PM
Jun 2021

... on a regular basis, if right-wing media is their thing.

They promote lack of empathy constantly.

griffi94

(3,733 posts)
26. I feel lucky
Sun Jun 13, 2021, 10:56 PM
Jun 2021

That I don't care if your relative is upset. I don't support trillions in military spending, privatizing everything that can have money sucked out of it, or subsidizing the fossil fuel industry. Not getting everything you want is part of living in a society.

RANDYWILDMAN

(2,678 posts)
37. It is the lack of humanity that is really disgusting
Thu Jun 17, 2021, 02:32 AM
Jun 2021

Sorry about your relative, most of us also have these type of people in our families as well.

Education and Empathy, we as a country need a hell of a lot more of it !!!!!!!

 

ansible

(1,718 posts)
38. Are there any California members here on Covered California?
Thu Jun 17, 2021, 11:32 AM
Jun 2021

I really wanted to lower my health insurance costs, but the requirements is insane. you need to be extremely poor to qualify

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