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PA_jen

(1,114 posts)
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 07:58 PM Jun 2021

My Dad passed away this afternoon.

For those that have been reading my post.. My Dad was fully vaccinated and still got covid. Please let this post be a warning. Don't let your guard down. Please use mask and social distancing.

Sorry I am on my tablet.

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My Dad passed away this afternoon. (Original Post) PA_jen Jun 2021 OP
Oh no - cilla4progress Jun 2021 #1
Right after Father's Day too. BigmanPigman Jun 2021 #2
The worse is it is 1 of my brother's birthday today PA_jen Jun 2021 #5
As sad as these losses are, it always does seem worse, if that... 3catwoman3 Jun 2021 #97
Not fun. Lost my father on my whistler162 Jun 2021 #182
So terribly sorry for your profound loss. FalloutShelter Jun 2021 #3
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #6
I'm so sorry vercetti2021 Jun 2021 #4
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #7
I am so very sorry... onecaliberal Jun 2021 #8
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #9
You have my sympathy. Loss of a parent is heart-rending. John1956PA Jun 2021 #10
It is helpful. I feel numb and there are tears in my eyes but I am not crying... PA_jen Jun 2021 #29
I'm so sorry for you Jen CountAllVotes Jun 2021 #114
Lost my dad to covid too wellst0nev0ter Jun 2021 #157
So very sorry for your loss Metatron Jun 2021 #165
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #67
I am so sorry. Laurelin Jun 2021 #11
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #31
I'm so very sorry for your loss Danmel Jun 2021 #12
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #68
I'm so sorry. hamsterjill Jun 2021 #13
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #69
I am so very sorry, Jen. hlthe2b Jun 2021 #14
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #71
Very sorry. And thanks for the reminder to be vigilant. 70sEraVet Jun 2021 #15
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #73
I am so sorry for your loss. n/t ms liberty Jun 2021 #16
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #74
Condolences. wendyb-NC Jun 2021 #17
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #75
I'm so sorry, Jen PlanetBev Jun 2021 #18
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #76
I worry because I took an ibuprofen before my first vaccination tavernier Jun 2021 #19
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #78
(((((((((Jen))))))))) I am so very sorry to hear this. Sending vibes for healing and comfort. niyad Jun 2021 #20
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #79
Warm thoughts to you. MuseRider Jun 2021 #21
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #80
Condolences ProfessorGAC Jun 2021 #22
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #82
So sorry to hear that. Solomon Jun 2021 #23
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #84
I'm so sorry for your loss. Ilsa Jun 2021 #24
Thank you. It doesn't seem real. PA_jen Jun 2021 #85
I am so sorry for your loss. LiberalLoner Jun 2021 #25
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #86
I'm so sorry, Jen. momta Jun 2021 #26
Thank you. I know I will not be doing any "normal" activities for a while. PA_jen Jun 2021 #87
I'm so sorry about your dad. area51 Jun 2021 #27
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #88
I'm so sorry. MineralMan Jun 2021 #28
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #90
So sorry for your loss, Jen. essaynnc Jun 2021 #30
Thank you. your kindness in responding to this post is appricated PA_jen Jun 2021 #91
I'm so sorry for your loss. Ilsa Jun 2021 #32
Thank you. please do stay safe. PA_jen Jun 2021 #93
' I lost my mom when I was 13. My dad dewsgirl Jun 2021 #112
I am so sorry PA_jen Jun 2021 #115
Thank you, I can't imagine the pain you are going through. dewsgirl Jun 2021 #124
Right now I am numb. I don' want to think and I can't cry. I feel guilty PA_jen Jun 2021 #131
Deepest condolences, Jen SheltieLover Jun 2021 #33
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #95
You're welcome, sweetie! SheltieLover Jun 2021 #119
So sorry XanaDUer2 Jun 2021 #34
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #96
I'm so sorry for your loss. yardwork Jun 2021 #35
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #99
I'm so sorry, jen Diamond_Dog Jun 2021 #36
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #100
I'm very sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. Not fair. He did the right thing. Take care. Evolve Dammit Jun 2021 #37
Thank you. He is proof that covid and the variants are not under control. PA_jen Jun 2021 #102
I agree. This is far from "over." I lost three family members last year, at least one definitely Evolve Dammit Jun 2021 #179
How sad malaise Jun 2021 #38
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #103
Very sad. You have my condolences. oasis Jun 2021 #39
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #105
So sorry, jen. JudyM Jun 2021 #40
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #106
I am so sorry to hear of your father's passing. smirkymonkey Jun 2021 #41
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #107
Peace and blessings to you and your family at this sad and difficult time. Tanuki Jun 2021 #42
Thank you. Yes, it has been very helpful tonight. PA_jen Jun 2021 #110
Condolences and love to you and yours. babylonsister Jun 2021 #43
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #111
Sorry to read this peggysue2 Jun 2021 #176
I'm so sorry for your loss. May your good memories livetohike Jun 2021 #44
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #116
I'm so very sorry. nt Phoenix61 Jun 2021 #45
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #117
RIP Ohio Joe Jun 2021 #46
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #118
... Nevilledog Jun 2021 #47
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #120
My heart goes out to you, Jen. badhair77 Jun 2021 #48
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #121
Very sorry for your loss. boston bean Jun 2021 #49
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #122
I'm so sorry StarfishSaver Jun 2021 #50
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #123
Sorry to hear this bluestarone Jun 2021 #51
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #125
I'm so very sorry for your loss, PA_jen. SalmonChantedEvening Jun 2021 #52
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #126
I'm so sorry for your loss. cate94 Jun 2021 #53
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #127
so sorry to hear. IbogaProject Jun 2021 #54
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #128
That's horrible. I'm so sorry to hear that. TheBlackAdder Jun 2021 #55
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #129
I'm so sorry for your loss. Ilsa Jun 2021 #56
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #130
I can't figure how this triple posted. Ilsa Jun 2021 #153
Sorry to hear that. Jim__ Jun 2021 #57
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #132
I'm very sorry for your loss. sinkingfeeling Jun 2021 #58
Thank you PA_jen Jun 2021 #135
That stinks. I'm so sorry MissMillie Jun 2021 #59
I am so sorry, Jen. sheshe2 Jun 2021 #60
I am sorry bobnicewander Jun 2021 #61
I am sorry. Scrivener7 Jun 2021 #62
I'm so sorry 😢 nt live love laugh Jun 2021 #63
I am so sorry for your loss. And I am shocked by the suddeness. I'll be thinking of you ... marble falls Jun 2021 #64
Very sorry to learn this. JohnnyLib2 Jun 2021 #65
So terribly sorry about your loss. nt RegularJam Jun 2021 #66
so sorry to hear. It is awful. Hamlette Jun 2021 #70
I'm so sorry for your loss, PA_jen. mia Jun 2021 #72
Deepest condolences canetoad Jun 2021 #77
My condolences Maggiemayhem Jun 2021 #81
This is just so sad.... turbinetree Jun 2021 #83
I am sorry for your loss. Stuart G Jun 2021 #89
My condolonces on your loss. CentralMass Jun 2021 #92
❤️ underpants Jun 2021 #94
That is terrible. GoodRaisin Jun 2021 #98
I am so sorry to hear. Ms. Toad Jun 2021 #101
I'm so sorry for your loss. Take care. n/t Greybnk48 Jun 2021 #104
Sincere and deepest condolences to you and your family. n/t SheilaAnn Jun 2021 #108
Oh Jen, I'm so sorry. Blue_playwright Jun 2021 #109
I'm so sorry!!! Beacool Jun 2021 #113
I'm so sorry, Jen. brer cat Jun 2021 #133
I'm... JoeOtterbein Jun 2021 #134
Would that it were not so.... Blue Owl Jun 2021 #136
So sorry to hear of your loss. TraceNC Jun 2021 #137
Condolences...So sorry to hear this. n/t EndlessWire Jun 2021 #138
... spanone Jun 2021 #139
I'm so sorry, Jen. catrose Jun 2021 #140
Sorry for your loss, that's awful. nt ecstatic Jun 2021 #141
My deepest condolences to you and your family. Niagara Jun 2021 #142
I'm so sorry. Dial H For Hero Jun 2021 #143
I am so sorry about your Dad passing away. raging moderate Jun 2021 #144
So sorry. ancianita Jun 2021 #145
I am so sorry for your loss. gldstwmn Jun 2021 #146
my condolences LymphocyteLover Jun 2021 #147
My deepest condolences Moostache Jun 2021 #148
I'm so sorry to hear this. Snackshack Jun 2021 #149
Very sorry for your loss Stinky The Clown Jun 2021 #150
which variant did he have? Cryptoad Jun 2021 #151
Jen, I'm so sorry. summer_in_TX Jun 2021 #152
Sending you and your family love💕💕💕💕💕💞💞💞 MLAA Jun 2021 #154
So sorry for your loss. Vibes to the whole family. applegrove Jun 2021 #155
I'm so sorry for your loss. (eom) StevieM Jun 2021 #156
I am so sorry KT2000 Jun 2021 #158
So sorry. littlemissmartypants Jun 2021 #159
Deepest sympathy to you and your family, Jen. Granny M Jun 2021 #160
Some pain can lie too deep for tears . . . Judi Lynn Jun 2021 #161
I am so, so sorry for your loss Withywindle Jun 2021 #162
I'm so sorry for your loss, Jen. Unknown Beatle Jun 2021 #163
... MiHale Jun 2021 #164
I'm so sorry, Jen. Metatron Jun 2021 #166
I'm so sorry, Jen OhioChick Jun 2021 #167
Deepest condolences Jen... Grief is the hardest thing... BlancheSplanchnik Jun 2021 #168
I'm Sorry BeerBarrelPolka Jun 2021 #169
Therre are no words DFW Jun 2021 #170
OMG, how awful and unexpected! lark Jun 2021 #171
I'm sorry to hear your sad news PJMcK Jun 2021 #172
I'm so sorry for your loss. May your dad RIP Maraya1969 Jun 2021 #173
I'm so sorry for your loss Wicked Blue Jun 2021 #174
My sad condolences to you and your family. BobTheSubgenius Jun 2021 #175
I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad. sdfernando Jun 2021 #177
I'm so sorry seta1950 Jun 2021 #178
All my sympathy, PA_jen. calimary Jun 2021 #180
Sorry to hear about your Dad Marthe48 Jun 2021 #181
Unbelievable MFM008 Jun 2021 #183
So sorry. SYFROYH Jun 2021 #184

3catwoman3

(24,054 posts)
97. As sad as these losses are, it always does seem worse, if that...
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 09:28 PM
Jun 2021

...is possible, when it occurs on or near a day that should be a happy day.

Wishing you strength as you adjust to this inevitable change.

John1956PA

(2,657 posts)
10. You have my sympathy. Loss of a parent is heart-rending.
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 08:07 PM
Jun 2021

I hope you gain comfort in knowing that you are being though of, and in knowing that you have the respect of many of us at DU for taking a moment to add a cautionary note for the public good.





 

wellst0nev0ter

(7,509 posts)
157. Lost my dad to covid too
Tue Jun 22, 2021, 12:53 AM
Jun 2021

This April.

Too numb to post about it then, only took your post to write about it now.

I know that feeling

Danmel

(4,928 posts)
12. I'm so very sorry for your loss
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 08:07 PM
Jun 2021

I hope that sweet memories of your beloved dad bring you comfort and peace.

hlthe2b

(102,379 posts)
14. I am so very sorry, Jen.
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 08:09 PM
Jun 2021

It is heart-breaking when I know he did all he could to stay safe.

My thoughts are with you.

wendyb-NC

(3,330 posts)
17. Condolences.
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 08:14 PM
Jun 2021

Such a sad loss. Take good care of yourself. Sending good vibes for peace and healing your way. May your Dad R.I.P.

PlanetBev

(4,104 posts)
18. I'm so sorry, Jen
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 08:14 PM
Jun 2021

There is no good time for this to happen, but what a shock this must be for you. My warmest wishes to you and the family at such a difficult time.

tavernier

(12,406 posts)
19. I worry because I took an ibuprofen before my first vaccination
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 08:15 PM
Jun 2021

And then found out that we weren’t supposed to do that.

I think we are all a little bit paranoid.

So very sorry for your loss.

niyad

(113,582 posts)
20. (((((((((Jen))))))))) I am so very sorry to hear this. Sending vibes for healing and comfort.
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 08:15 PM
Jun 2021

please know that your DU family is here for you.

momta

(4,079 posts)
26. I'm so sorry, Jen.
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 08:21 PM
Jun 2021

And thank you for sharing your story. It can be helpful to those of us who believe we are opening up too fast. I know that won't ease your pain at this moment. Sorry.

Sending warmth and strength to you and your family.

PA_jen

(1,114 posts)
87. Thank you. I know I will not be doing any "normal" activities for a while.
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 09:20 PM
Jun 2021

I hope the CDC do address these break thru cases slow down the opening if they can.

essaynnc

(801 posts)
30. So sorry for your loss, Jen.
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 08:24 PM
Jun 2021

You don't know me, but I know that losing a loved one is one of the hardest things in life. My heart to you.

Steve

Ilsa

(61,698 posts)
32. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 08:25 PM
Jun 2021

What a horrible, tragic twist of circumstances. Thank you for the warning. I've been trying to stay safe.

dewsgirl

(14,961 posts)
112. ' I lost my mom when I was 13. My dad
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 09:38 PM
Jun 2021

acted as a mother and father to me and he was amazing. He passed away 10 years ago at 67 of Pancreatic Cancer. I miss him every single day. I know how awful that pain is, I am truly sorry. Losing one's parent, no matter how old we are, is one of the worst things us as humans can go through.







dewsgirl

(14,961 posts)
124. Thank you, I can't imagine the pain you are going through.
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 09:44 PM
Jun 2021

I have read more than a few of these stories. Although I think when I bring it up in conversation, people think I'm crazy. It is beyond scary.

PA_jen

(1,114 posts)
131. Right now I am numb. I don' want to think and I can't cry. I feel guilty
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 09:50 PM
Jun 2021

I am not crying. I know it is a process.

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
119. You're welcome, sweetie!
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 09:41 PM
Jun 2021


Please remember yo eat, sleep, and breathe deeply. Great self-care is essential now, as grieving is hard work, physically, too.

Evolve Dammit

(16,778 posts)
179. I agree. This is far from "over." I lost three family members last year, at least one definitely
Tue Jun 22, 2021, 12:07 PM
Jun 2021

covid. Rest of her family was very ill as well. The other two I'm not sure (FL where numbers are suppressed). Again, my sincere condolences.

JudyM

(29,280 posts)
40. So sorry, jen.
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 08:29 PM
Jun 2021

Heartfelt condolences and wishes for moments of peace as you are grieving. Went through it not long ago, myself…

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
41. I am so sorry to hear of your father's passing.
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 08:30 PM
Jun 2021

Please take care of yourself and check in here to let us know how you are doing. May your father rest in peace.

Tanuki

(14,922 posts)
42. Peace and blessings to you and your family at this sad and difficult time.
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 08:33 PM
Jun 2021

I hope it helps to know that so many here are lifting you up in our hearts. 💕



Ilsa

(61,698 posts)
56. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 08:46 PM
Jun 2021

What a horrible, tragic twist of circumstances. Thank you for the warning. I've been trying to stay safe.

Ilsa

(61,698 posts)
153. I can't figure how this triple posted.
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 11:41 PM
Jun 2021

My kid grabs my phone sometimes. Maybe he messed with it.

MissMillie

(38,582 posts)
59. That stinks. I'm so sorry
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 08:52 PM
Jun 2021

It's a statistical possibility... and I think we all understand that.

Doesn't make it hurt any less.

my sympathies

marble falls

(57,270 posts)
64. I am so sorry for your loss. And I am shocked by the suddeness. I'll be thinking of you ...
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 09:00 PM
Jun 2021

You are so right about masks. Thank-you for being strong enough to think of us with your warning.

Hamlette

(15,412 posts)
70. so sorry to hear. It is awful.
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 09:07 PM
Jun 2021

losing a parent is hellish. Hopefully your good memories will soon blunt the pain.

mia

(8,363 posts)
72. I'm so sorry for your loss, PA_jen.
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 09:08 PM
Jun 2021

I was with my father when he passed away. I think about that moment every day. Peace and love to you and your family.

Ms. Toad

(34,101 posts)
101. I am so sorry to hear.
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 09:32 PM
Jun 2021

I've been beating the mask-wearing drum as loudly as I can. I'm sorry your family has to bear the brunt of this hard reality.

TraceNC

(254 posts)
137. So sorry to hear of your loss.
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 09:54 PM
Jun 2021

And thank you for the warning about the virus. Sharing your dad’s experience may very well save a life here.

 

Dial H For Hero

(2,971 posts)
143. I'm so sorry.
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 10:33 PM
Jun 2021

I lost my father just three months ago. I'm starting to feel better, and in time you will as well.

ancianita

(36,137 posts)
145. So sorry.
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 10:34 PM
Jun 2021

I feel terrible for your loss and grieving. May you feel his love always.
Thank you for your warning.

gldstwmn

(4,575 posts)
146. I am so sorry for your loss.
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 10:36 PM
Jun 2021

I lost my sister on January 20th. We need to do more to get to herd immunity.

summer_in_TX

(2,754 posts)
152. Jen, I'm so sorry.
Mon Jun 21, 2021, 11:38 PM
Jun 2021

Bless you and yours through this sad time.

Thank you for caring even with your grief for your dad about all of us and to warn us that COVID still kills and can even kill those vaccinated.

KT2000

(20,588 posts)
158. I am so sorry
Tue Jun 22, 2021, 01:26 AM
Jun 2021

and it looked like things were improving. Peace to you PA_jen.
And thank you for the reminder.

Judi Lynn

(160,631 posts)
161. Some pain can lie too deep for tears . . .
Tue Jun 22, 2021, 03:21 AM
Jun 2021

You will pass through your adjustment at your own pace.

So sorry this has happened to your irreplaceable father.

Thinking of you, hoping you will find comfort soon. It will come.

Withywindle

(9,988 posts)
162. I am so, so sorry for your loss
Tue Jun 22, 2021, 04:06 AM
Jun 2021

People are acting like it's over. It's really really really not. Holding you and your dad in my thoughts.

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
168. Deepest condolences Jen... Grief is the hardest thing...
Tue Jun 22, 2021, 07:54 AM
Jun 2021

Love and strength to you as you live with this huge loss. 😢💔

DFW

(54,445 posts)
170. Therre are no words
Tue Jun 22, 2021, 09:33 AM
Jun 2021

Especially if you were close. I was there 20 years ago, and to me it's like it was last week.

Do your best to live with it, because you never get over it. My sympathies!

lark

(23,158 posts)
171. OMG, how awful and unexpected!
Tue Jun 22, 2021, 09:46 AM
Jun 2021

You have my deep condolences, I know what it's like to think someone is doing ok, and then all of a sudden, they are gone. That's what happened to my mom.

PJMcK

(22,052 posts)
172. I'm sorry to hear your sad news
Tue Jun 22, 2021, 09:48 AM
Jun 2021

My dad died 3 weeks ago and I share your loss.

I hope we both can find peace.

sdfernando

(4,942 posts)
177. I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad.
Tue Jun 22, 2021, 11:39 AM
Jun 2021

Losing a parent is never easy but I'm sure you know he loved you so much. He will always be a part of you life and your heart.

calimary

(81,510 posts)
180. All my sympathy, PA_jen.
Tue Jun 22, 2021, 12:27 PM
Jun 2021

So sorry. Fathers Day will probably always be bittersweet for you, now.

They don’t last forever, these Dads (and Moms too).

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