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MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
Sun Jul 11, 2021, 08:26 PM Jul 2021

Republican incel men apparently all heard somewhere: "Nice guys finish last."

Problem is that they thought that meant they should act like assholes to women. But, see, that isn't what it means at all. It really means that women should come first. In all senses of that sentence.

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Republican incel men apparently all heard somewhere: "Nice guys finish last." (Original Post) MineralMan Jul 2021 OP
Nice double entendre. Ever thought about writing blues songs? brush Jul 2021 #1
The really weird thing is that they think they are treestar Jul 2021 #2
Check this out vercetti2021 Jul 2021 #4
Some messed up ones there treestar Jul 2021 #8
They don't vercetti2021 Jul 2021 #9
Really not crazy about the term 'incel' as an insult. Trisherella Jul 2021 #3
Agreed. Nexus2 Jul 2021 #6
It's their term for themselves. They made it up. Iggo Jul 2021 #7
Hahaha vercetti2021 Jul 2021 #5

treestar

(82,383 posts)
8. Some messed up ones there
Mon Jul 12, 2021, 10:41 AM
Jul 2021

If the girl really "gave them a chance" i wonder how "nice" they'd be afterward.

And why do they think the men who get the dates are all "assholes." Maybe if it does not work out perfectly.

They never have to deal with women who want them that they don't want. They never seem to think about or notice that!

vercetti2021

(10,156 posts)
9. They don't
Mon Jul 12, 2021, 11:23 AM
Jul 2021

From my experience, you can try too hard and come off desperate. Thus it falls back to the "I'm not good enough" mentality. Some are just simply not interested! But if you have confidence in yourself and just be yourself. Woman will find that attractive. Like oh he isn't an asshole. He is a nice person and loving.

But transitioning from male to female. I don't think I'll have issues with men considering I will be a lesbian lol but I know I'm setting myself up for the niceguy mentality.

Nexus2

(1,261 posts)
6. Agreed.
Sun Jul 11, 2021, 09:40 PM
Jul 2021

It sort of justifies/promotes the idea of persecution and self loathing among them and contempt from outsiders.

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