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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsRepublican incel men apparently all heard somewhere: "Nice guys finish last."
Problem is that they thought that meant they should act like assholes to women. But, see, that isn't what it means at all. It really means that women should come first. In all senses of that sentence.
brush
(53,791 posts)treestar
(82,383 posts)nice guys.
vercetti2021
(10,156 posts)treestar
(82,383 posts)If the girl really "gave them a chance" i wonder how "nice" they'd be afterward.
And why do they think the men who get the dates are all "assholes." Maybe if it does not work out perfectly.
They never have to deal with women who want them that they don't want. They never seem to think about or notice that!
vercetti2021
(10,156 posts)From my experience, you can try too hard and come off desperate. Thus it falls back to the "I'm not good enough" mentality. Some are just simply not interested! But if you have confidence in yourself and just be yourself. Woman will find that attractive. Like oh he isn't an asshole. He is a nice person and loving.
But transitioning from male to female. I don't think I'll have issues with men considering I will be a lesbian lol but I know I'm setting myself up for the niceguy mentality.
Trisherella
(14 posts)It sort of justifies/promotes the idea of persecution and self loathing among them and contempt from outsiders.
Iggo
(47,558 posts)vercetti2021
(10,156 posts)There is a whole Reddit dedicated to these idiots
https://www.reddit.com/r/niceguys/