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rustysgurl

(1,040 posts)
Thu Aug 5, 2021, 11:58 PM Aug 2021

The Absolute Unmitigated Gall

Woman from KS who is overweight, with high blood pressure and known lung issues, goes on a family vacation to Florida ... FLORIDA. They all get it. She dies. Of course, none of them were vaccinated. Now, the family has set up a GoFundMe asking for help to transport their mother's body back to KS and for funeral expenses. Is it wrong for me to be absolutely fuming???

More at the link.

[link:https://www.kshb.com/news/local-news/lansing-couple-asks-public-for-help-with-funeral-costs-for-family-member-who-died-from-covid-19?fbclid=IwAR2cnDwHdll7j_6N9-29S0-hMlQXAjKYAB9aOXkpYpY6Kf8LrXIGNessds8|

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The Absolute Unmitigated Gall (Original Post) rustysgurl Aug 2021 OP
From the Hoarse Whisperer LetMyPeopleVote Aug 2021 #1
To the black and white people who choie Aug 2021 #6
This is the truth. The "compulsive refusal" would go away if we Scrivener7 Aug 2021 #9
Maybe TFG will pay that bill RainCaster Aug 2021 #2
Obviously, yes. You should not fume. These people actually learned their lesson. Earth-shine Aug 2021 #3
We should still try to have compassion for them... Stinkfoot007 Aug 2021 #4
Sounds like she had a death wish. littlemissmartypants Aug 2021 #5
AAARGHHH!!!! DET Aug 2021 #7
Nah, too much energy to "fume" about it... Wounded Bear Aug 2021 #8
For the life of me, North Shore Chicago Aug 2021 #10
why is a television station aiding in the grift by posting their GoFundMe link?? fucking shills Celerity Aug 2021 #11
Yeah, actually it is out of line for you to be fuming. JHB Aug 2021 #12
I guess "fuming" was too strong a word rustysgurl Aug 2021 #13

choie

(4,111 posts)
6. To the black and white people who
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 01:30 AM
Aug 2021

say they’ll get the vaccine: what the hell are you waiting for??! An engraved invitation???

 

Earth-shine

(4,044 posts)
3. Obviously, yes. You should not fume. These people actually learned their lesson.
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 12:14 AM
Aug 2021

They lost their Mom and are now going to get vaxxed. They paid a terrible price.

I, for one, will not fund them.

These people are defeated and frankly, pathetic. You should not waste your energies on them.

Save your righteous anger for those who are actively fighting against us, like the governors of certain southern states.

Peace to you.

Stinkfoot007

(19 posts)
4. We should still try to have compassion for them...
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 12:27 AM
Aug 2021

…regardless of the fact that they don’t deserve it. I’d draw the line on sending money, though.

littlemissmartypants

(22,808 posts)
5. Sounds like she had a death wish.
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 01:29 AM
Aug 2021

And someone needs to tell the family that FEMA will help with that funeral.

Under the Coronavirus Response and Relief Supplemental Appropriations Act of 2021 and the American Rescue Plan Act of 2021, FEMA is providing financial assistance for COVID-19 related funeral expenses incurred after January 20, 2020.

https://www.fema.gov/disaster/coronavirus/economic/funeral-assistance

DET

(1,324 posts)
7. AAARGHHH!!!!
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 02:23 AM
Aug 2021

”She was a strong Christian woman” I’m trying to feel compassion for these people, but it’s a real struggle.

North Shore Chicago

(3,326 posts)
10. For the life of me,
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 07:34 AM
Aug 2021

as ignorant and ridiculous as these people are, I find it impossible not to feel a twinge of sympathy.

Fuck-head head trump holds the majority of the blame for the obliviousness these folks have/had.

It is a choice to give or not give for their fund-raising.

JHB

(37,162 posts)
12. Yeah, actually it is out of line for you to be fuming.
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 08:00 AM
Aug 2021

We all understand being fed up with these arrogant nitwits, but there's a point where you have to let it roll off.

Them begging for money because they played Russian Roulette and lost seems as good a place as any to shrug shoulders and move on.

rustysgurl

(1,040 posts)
13. I guess "fuming" was too strong a word
Fri Aug 6, 2021, 01:24 PM
Aug 2021

Frustrated would probably have been a better choice.

Reactions to the story range from sympathy for the family (understood), anger at those pointing out that she/they sort of brought this on themselves to words much more harsh than mine. I am not an unfeeling person. I DO have sympathy for their loss. But I draw the line at being asked to donate to someone who had the money for a big family vacation to Florida but didn't think of the possible consequences of those actions.

I AM glad they are now getting vaccinated. And maybe this story will convince others to get vaccinated as well. Let's hope so.

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