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captain queeg

(10,242 posts)
Wed Aug 18, 2021, 11:25 PM Aug 2021

I never knew or thought about narcissism before TFG

Fortunately it appears to be a fairly rare condition. TFG will be used in text book examples in coming years. But my sister and I decided one of my brothers was one. Nothing so severe as the former occupant but definitely grandiose and self centered. He did have a sense of humor and could feel genuine sympathy and empathy occasionally. At least for awhile. I was just reading about severe grandiose, at least they verified that people like that are miserable inside. Glad to hear that with TFG, I hope he is as miserable as possible and now that he’s a civilian I hope he gets to hear everyone laughing at him often.

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I never knew or thought about narcissism before TFG (Original Post) captain queeg Aug 2021 OP
After listening to TFG's niece Mary, BigmanPigman Aug 2021 #1
Very clear TFG never cared about anybody else RANDYWILDMAN Aug 2021 #4
I guess there are two varieties, grandiose and vulnerable. captain queeg Aug 2021 #2
I Would Encourage You to Sharpen Your Psychological "Feelers" The Roux Comes First Aug 2021 #3
Wow - I have known lots of narcissists - at my job, in my hobbies, NewHendoLib Aug 2021 #5
TFG was a revelation for me-about my older brother Boxerfan Aug 2021 #6
Rampant among magats / incels SheltieLover Aug 2021 #7

BigmanPigman

(51,626 posts)
1. After listening to TFG's niece Mary,
Wed Aug 18, 2021, 11:39 PM
Aug 2021

it seems that true narcissists, like her uncle, are so screwed up that they are also sociopaths as well as narcissists. That means that they have no sense of guilt since they don't care about right and wrong. They only care about themselves and this a severe problem, especially when they are supposed to represent others.

RANDYWILDMAN

(2,675 posts)
4. Very clear TFG never cared about anybody else
Thu Aug 19, 2021, 12:02 AM
Aug 2021

Mary bless her heart, tried to foul him up at every turn.

All the dope's who watch Apprentice and Mark Burnett and NBC are the ones to blame.

Too bad our country was not able to handle a women for president, so we got a weak minded, vain, selfish idiot instead.

captain queeg

(10,242 posts)
2. I guess there are two varieties, grandiose and vulnerable.
Wed Aug 18, 2021, 11:56 PM
Aug 2021

Same drivers down deep but how they act can be different. TFG (and my brother) are of the grandiose variety.

The Roux Comes First

(1,300 posts)
3. I Would Encourage You to Sharpen Your Psychological "Feelers"
Thu Aug 19, 2021, 12:00 AM
Aug 2021

The yam is a pretty extreme case, but more moderate cases of narcissism seem to me to be pretty common. For one thing, that syndrome from what I have read is a fairly common component of the sociopath/psychopath profile.

NewHendoLib

(60,019 posts)
5. Wow - I have known lots of narcissists - at my job, in my hobbies,
Thu Aug 19, 2021, 12:03 AM
Aug 2021

in some of my family. Way too many. Social networking seems very effective at grooming them as well.

Boxerfan

(2,533 posts)
6. TFG was a revelation for me-about my older brother
Thu Aug 19, 2021, 12:03 AM
Aug 2021

He ticks all the boxes and is only motivated by greed. He's also a thief-has been since he was young & I was one of his many victims.

And he's managed to run a financial advisor service for decades. Makes fairly big bank but still will steal something he could easily afford. I'm glad I'm too broke to be a client.

And sadly when there was a horrible abuse of my Fathers trust my Sister & I trusted him with the legal portion. I now know that money was wasted & he probably cut a deal for himself.

My whole family is full of Narcissists so basically I have no family.

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