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Checking in. How's your supply of empathy? (Original Post) Stinky The Clown Aug 2021 OP
None left n/t OhioChick Aug 2021 #1
+1,000! SheltieLover Aug 2021 #20
"Moron American" is the best description of these people I've ever heard... First Speaker Aug 2021 #2
Let them die, they would do it for you. Thomas Hurt Aug 2021 #3
Yes they would. Haggard Celine Aug 2021 #12
It depends ChazII Aug 2021 #4
I have NONE for the non-vaxed demtenjeep Aug 2021 #5
In Faux pas Aug 2021 #6
Very little, if any more. DinahMoeHum Aug 2021 #7
Still here. However,... GoCubsGo Aug 2021 #8
My empathy is leaking out as these morons have stuck me with thousands of pins and I can't plug the Tadpole Raisin Aug 2021 #9
Empathy- that's like feeling for other people Tbear Aug 2021 #10
This says it all for me! MLAA Aug 2021 #11
I used to have sufficient tolerance not to judge friends with conservative backgrounds hlthe2b Aug 2021 #13
Not as much as I wish I had. Ocelot II Aug 2021 #14
Quite lacking nycbos Aug 2021 #15
No empathy. All I have left is dick and bubblegum. AndyS Aug 2021 #16
Good one! MLAA Aug 2021 #28
Don't you think 'reducing empathy for the other' is the whole point of applegrove Aug 2021 #17
empathy gone...apathy yes... agingdem Aug 2021 #18
Yep Deuxcents Aug 2021 #19
All gone... not an ounce... Same for my pity bag, it's empty as well. secondwind Aug 2021 #21
I save my empathy for those who had no choice mercuryblues Aug 2021 #22
I'm saving it for the Afghans trying to get out. Nt spooky3 Aug 2021 #23
You still have empathy, Lars39 Aug 2021 #24
This message was self-deleted by its author lpbk2713 Aug 2021 #25
Depleted & benumbed. Still sending out the odd prayer for the people I love who won't vax... Hekate Aug 2021 #26
I have some. Maybe boston bean Aug 2021 #27
Do you have a microscope I can borrow to check? n/t Silent3 Aug 2021 #29
at level zilch choie Aug 2021 #30
Some left Red Mountain Aug 2021 #31
Approaching empty malaise Aug 2021 #32
I have empathy for the poor German soldiers who died in WWII PurgedVoter Aug 2021 #33
None left for "American Idiots" onecaliberal Aug 2021 #34
I'm as heartless as Servilia of the Junii. NurseJackie Aug 2021 #35
dormant. stillcool Aug 2021 #36
If you are among these, I have no f###s left for you. Funtatlaguy Aug 2021 #37
I used to have a lot, but not any more FakeNoose Aug 2021 #38
0 after 3 Covid tests, 2 direct exposures to my family JCMach1 Aug 2021 #39
I've got three tests scheduled in the next 10 days Ms. Toad Aug 2021 #52
I feel you Ms Toad... Yes, it sucks JCMach1 Aug 2021 #53
Crossing my fingers for you Ms. Toad Aug 2021 #58
Sorry, I got nothing... BadGimp Aug 2021 #40
None. I don't want to hear about the latest thing a moron did. I just don't care any more. Scrivener7 Aug 2021 #41
My empathy grows CrackityJones75 Aug 2021 #42
Let me check - I usually keep them on hangers next to my fucks 0rganism Aug 2021 #43
obviously the morons are hurting lots of non-morons in the areas they live Johonny Aug 2021 #44
My mother can't get pain-relieving surgery done Mariana Aug 2021 #45
It's good news for planet Earth. roamer65 Aug 2021 #46
This sums it up for me Leith Aug 2021 #47
After talking to my brother yesterday, less than nil. Initech Aug 2021 #48
My supply is steady but diminished MyMission Aug 2021 #49
Let me see . . . Ms. Toad Aug 2021 #50
I'm impressed they're okay with dying while doing what they love scrabblequeen40 Aug 2021 #51
let me check my well.................sand Shellback Squid Aug 2021 #54
Me👇 Nevilledog Aug 2021 #55
Let me check... Blue Owl Aug 2021 #56
Dry as well drilled 5 feet in Las Vegas. Xolodno Aug 2021 #57
100%. I'm watching people I know die. Their families are suffering. SYFROYH Aug 2021 #59
I don't want people to die if this awful stuff. So many leftyladyfrommo Aug 2021 #60
Behold the field in which I grow my fucks. Hotler Aug 2021 #61
Zero. Niagara Aug 2021 #62
For those who choose to remain unvaccinated, it's gone... SidDithers Aug 2021 #63
For anti-vaxxers, my empathy has been replaced by schadenfreude. JustABozoOnThisBus Aug 2021 #64

First Speaker

(4,858 posts)
2. "Moron American" is the best description of these people I've ever heard...
Mon Aug 23, 2021, 07:52 PM
Aug 2021

...I'm going to spread it as far and wide as I can. Maybe it will stick...it should...

ChazII

(6,205 posts)
4. It depends
Mon Aug 23, 2021, 07:55 PM
Aug 2021

sometimes a full tank other times running on fumes. Grief is taking its toll when it comes to my empathy account. Hope that makes some sense to the reader. My son and four others passed due to the GBM tumors - like Beau Biden, Kennedy and McCain had. Two friends were taken by Covid19.

Tadpole Raisin

(972 posts)
9. My empathy is leaking out as these morons have stuck me with thousands of pins and I can't plug the
Mon Aug 23, 2021, 07:57 PM
Aug 2021

holes up fast enough.

I’d use liquid glue but then I’d die from clogging up all the pores.

It’s a dilemma…

hlthe2b

(102,294 posts)
13. I used to have sufficient tolerance not to judge friends with conservative backgrounds
Mon Aug 23, 2021, 08:01 PM
Aug 2021

and to be honest most of them are well educated enough not to ever have been Trumpers and they DO believe in science, medicine, vaccines and all the rest that sane people do.

But, lately, I'm having a bit of a hard time not holding them at least somewhat responsible for all the pain and damage being done by RWers in Congress, State Legislatures, and Governor's seats. And what really sets me off is when they show (feign?) ignorance about events that lead me to believe they are still getting most or all news only from Fox.

Empathy is dwindling and I haven't even gotten to the Trump-loving world-hating 40%.

Ocelot II

(115,735 posts)
14. Not as much as I wish I had.
Mon Aug 23, 2021, 08:02 PM
Aug 2021

But it's tough these days. My empathy for the willfully unvaccinated is about used up but I do feel sorry for their kids and others who had no control over their decision. Saddest thing I read lately was about the woman who had been vaccinated and got a mild case but her two adult sons refused to be vaccinated and died within a day of each other. They were her only surviving children (until they weren't any more), and I'm sorry for her and angry at them for what they did to their mother - not for what they did to themselves, dumbasses that they were.

nycbos

(6,034 posts)
15. Quite lacking
Mon Aug 23, 2021, 08:03 PM
Aug 2021

I used to be an empathetic person. I have zero empathy for the selfish assholes to refuse the vaccine.

applegrove

(118,696 posts)
17. Don't you think 'reducing empathy for the other' is the whole point of
Mon Aug 23, 2021, 08:06 PM
Aug 2021

this libertarian covid no mask no vax kabooki theatre of death?

Response to Stinky The Clown (Original post)

Hekate

(90,714 posts)
26. Depleted & benumbed. Still sending out the odd prayer for the people I love who won't vax...
Mon Aug 23, 2021, 08:30 PM
Aug 2021

Because they are irreplaceable in my heart. They swallowed the lie.

Red Mountain

(1,735 posts)
31. Some left
Mon Aug 23, 2021, 08:45 PM
Aug 2021

but all out if they're taking up bed space that is needed for people who don't play Russian roulette.

PurgedVoter

(2,218 posts)
33. I have empathy for the poor German soldiers who died in WWII
Mon Aug 23, 2021, 08:48 PM
Aug 2021

Yes, they were Nazi pawns, but many of them had little choice and a lot of them were protecting their family and fighting for their country. The racists among them, picked hatred. I still pity them, but they earned their deaths. In all of these cases it was them or suffering elsewhere. So I regret their suffering, but at the same time, their deaths were for the greater good.

I have sympathy for the conservative idiots of the world. I wish they did not have to suffer. They probably suffered child abuse and they would be ostracized, hated and possibly killed by their spouse and community if they did not hold to their stupidity. Yet, in the final resolution, as sad as it is, you don't want Portuguese man-o-war in your child's bathing pool. I pity the damaged people who care not at all for the elderly who served and fought in WWII or your children and are happy to ignore truth and play propagating and mutating Russian roulette with their community, but I must rejoice when they go to their maker. Evolution is cruel but it has made the beautiful world that these people would destroy without a care.

Funtatlaguy

(10,879 posts)
37. If you are among these, I have no f###s left for you.
Mon Aug 23, 2021, 09:02 PM
Aug 2021

Anti Vaxers
Anti maskers
Pro Insurrectionists
Pro Trumpers
Hysterical anti Biden Afghan policies

JCMach1

(27,559 posts)
39. 0 after 3 Covid tests, 2 direct exposures to my family
Mon Aug 23, 2021, 09:06 PM
Aug 2021

And two (probably not Covid) illnesses in my family. THIS WEEK in Texas.

Please not I already have PTSD when it come to Covid after nearly dying of it last September.

Ms. Toad

(34,076 posts)
52. I've got three tests scheduled in the next 10 days
Mon Aug 23, 2021, 10:30 PM
Aug 2021

After a willfully unvaccinated student exposed me on Saturday.

That follows my daughter and boyfriend being ill with the creepy crud (not COVID - but still disconcerting), my foster son being exposed to COVID following life-threatening surgery, and another student flaunting the mask rules (ending up positive) then lying about close contacts with about 90 students.

Fortunately, I have not yet had personal experience with actually being sick with it. I got an aggressive cancer instead.

JCMach1

(27,559 posts)
53. I feel you Ms Toad... Yes, it sucks
Mon Aug 23, 2021, 10:50 PM
Aug 2021

I won't even bore you with the permanent stuff Covid did to my body.

But yeah, tired... Very, very tired.

Very sorry to hear about the cancer.

Ms. Toad

(34,076 posts)
58. Crossing my fingers for you
Tue Aug 24, 2021, 12:10 AM
Aug 2021

that the effects of COVID lessen over time. Take care of yourself.

I just sent a note out to my students explaining my absence today - doing a bit of education about COVID and appeal to their sense of responsiblility for the community (explaining that I'm not required to isolate, but I am because as a vaccinated person I'm less likely to have a severe case - or even know I have it - BUT - just as infectious if I do - and encouraging them to adopt the same attitude so we can stay in person for classes this year.)

I hope it reaches them.

Scrivener7

(50,955 posts)
41. None. I don't want to hear about the latest thing a moron did. I just don't care any more.
Mon Aug 23, 2021, 09:16 PM
Aug 2021

There is no sense wasting emotion on them.

What is going to happen is that Delta will rip through the population for a few months and they will get all the heartache we have tried to prevent for them. Those who survive, that is.

I just want it to happen fast.

 

CrackityJones75

(2,403 posts)
42. My empathy grows
Mon Aug 23, 2021, 09:17 PM
Aug 2021

My empathy grows over yonder in the field where I plant my fucks. See how it is but a barren lot of dirt.

0rganism

(23,957 posts)
43. Let me check - I usually keep them on hangers next to my fucks
Mon Aug 23, 2021, 09:18 PM
Aug 2021

Hmm, odd - the whole room looks empty.
Maybe over here in the corner... nope.
Well maybe some fell through the stairs... no, not seeing any there, either.
Sorry I think I'm fresh out of both. Hope you weren't looking to borrow any.

Johonny

(20,851 posts)
44. obviously the morons are hurting lots of non-morons in the areas they live
Mon Aug 23, 2021, 09:18 PM
Aug 2021

A lot children, doctors and nurses as well as neighbors etc ... Those people I have empathy for.

Mariana

(14,858 posts)
45. My mother can't get pain-relieving surgery done
Mon Aug 23, 2021, 09:19 PM
Aug 2021

because the hospitals are stuffed with these unvaccinated fuckers. You can imagine how I feel about them.

Initech

(100,081 posts)
48. After talking to my brother yesterday, less than nil.
Mon Aug 23, 2021, 09:28 PM
Aug 2021

He is dealing with a lot of stupid people coming to the ER and it's mainly anti-vaxxers. I am not empathetic at all to these clowns.

MyMission

(1,850 posts)
49. My supply is steady but diminished
Mon Aug 23, 2021, 09:35 PM
Aug 2021

I was recently visiting NYC where I was born and raised. Taking busses and subways to get around, they're air-conditioned but waiting on hot platforms and walking through oppressive tunnels and connectors I had empathy and respect for my fellow New Yorkers. Almost everyone was wearing a mask in the subway, and many wore them out on the streets too.

Empathy for those who aren't vaccinated, protest public health recommendations and mandates,, get sick, spread it, take up hospital resources, space and staff, not so much.

Ms. Toad

(34,076 posts)
50. Let me see . . .
Mon Aug 23, 2021, 10:25 PM
Aug 2021

I just wished the vaccine-refusing student who exposed me over the weekend severe consequences, but not severe enough that they leave her child parentless.

The day she exposed me I threw a full on tantrum at the 3rd group of "too special to wear masks" students I encountered. I don't think they knew what hit them.

I'd say pretty darn close to zero for anyone who is not actively taking steps to minimize the damage they do to others. And that lack of empathy extends to the "Not gonna wear a mask" crowd on DU.

Xolodno

(6,395 posts)
57. Dry as well drilled 5 feet in Las Vegas.
Mon Aug 23, 2021, 11:58 PM
Aug 2021

I have both friends and family opposed to the vaccine. Only a matter of time before I have to bury one of them (who knows, I may already have with the usual excuses)...and, sad to say, I'm probably going to be a bid cold about it. After all, they were cold to me for getting vaccinated.

SYFROYH

(34,172 posts)
59. 100%. I'm watching people I know die. Their families are suffering.
Tue Aug 24, 2021, 06:29 AM
Aug 2021

Lots of people die early from poor life decisions and I have empathy for them, too.

And COVID is a lousy and lonely way to die.

But this is such a good opportunity for the self-righteous to call them names and tell them to eff off that I wouldn't want to see that denied to them. I'm sure it brings meaning to their lives.

leftyladyfrommo

(18,868 posts)
60. I don't want people to die if this awful stuff. So many
Tue Aug 24, 2021, 07:29 AM
Aug 2021

of these people really didn't believe it was any big deal.

I have sympathy for all the families that are decimated by this stuff.

It's just an awful situation from every angle.

That said I get angry at the idiots who are still not vaccinated.

Hotler

(11,425 posts)
61. Behold the field in which I grow my fucks.
Tue Aug 24, 2021, 10:38 AM
Aug 2021

Lay thine eyes upon it and thou shall see that it is barren. Stolen from another DUer.

SidDithers

(44,228 posts)
63. For those who choose to remain unvaccinated, it's gone...
Tue Aug 24, 2021, 10:59 AM
Aug 2021

Every day we see stories of unvaccinated people dying, and their deathbed wish is that "everyone get vaccinated".

I've got nothing left for these people. They fucked around and found out.

Now, as far as I'm concerned, it's thinning the herd. Natural fucking selection in action.

Sid

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