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MineralMan

(146,288 posts)
Thu Sep 2, 2021, 01:28 PM Sep 2021

Abortion in Early 1960s California - Illegal for Most, Possible for Some

Abortion was 100% illegal in my home state when I was in high school, and before, and quite a while after. Hell, even contraceptives, such as they were, were illegal if you were under 21 and unmarried. A guy under 21 couldn't buy condoms back then. They were only legally sold by pharmacists. In my small town, the only pharmacist knew your parents, and your girlfriend's parents, too.

Here's a secret: Teenagers were having sex anyhow. Maybe an older friend would buy condoms for you, or you'd stock up when you traveled to Arizona or Nevada, where there were sold in every gas station restroom. Or you used alternative contraceptive practices, but those only worked if you were very, very careful.

Guess what? Girls got pregnant. Teenagers are not very good at following safe sex practices without contraception. So, girls got pregnant. How many? Well, my high school class had just 104 students in i. Of those, about half were girls. I personally know of 8 who got pregnant from my class alone. No doubt there were others I did not know.

What did a pregnant girl do? Well, sometimes she got married, if she was over 16 and could get her parents' permission to get married. Three of my classmates went that route. Oddly enough, all three are still married to their boyfriends of that time, more than 50 years later. Other girls went to "visit their aunt" in some other place for a while. "Where's Judy?" "Oh, she's staying with her aunt for a while."

No abortions were available, so a teenage pregnancy was definitely a life-changing thing. Except for a few girls. They had well-off, influential parents. Their parents could come up with enough money and influence to get one of the local doctors to "make the pregnancy go away." It was very expensive. It wasn't an option unless you had money and influence. But it was an office procedure, so nobody was the wiser. Except we were.

We all knew which doctor it was. Everyone knew which doctor it was. But, few could afford those services at the time, and the doctor was very careful about only doing abortions for the daughters of people he knew could never tell on him. Doctors know all sorts of things about their patients. Enough said.

So, if you were wealthy and had some sort of influence, your daughter didn't have to deal with an unwanted pregnancy. For everyone else, though, safe, medical abortions were impossible to obtain.

We are in danger of returning to those days. Let's not, please.

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Abortion in Early 1960s California - Illegal for Most, Possible for Some (Original Post) MineralMan Sep 2021 OP
My mom told me similar stories. madaboutharry Sep 2021 #1
Yes, it was, and in many ways. MineralMan Sep 2021 #3
When I was in college, early 1970s, we passed the hat Wicked Blue Sep 2021 #2
Sadly, too many did not even have that option. MineralMan Sep 2021 #4
Lots of teen pregnancies and lots of teen marriages followed by lots of divorces LeftInTX Sep 2021 #5

madaboutharry

(40,209 posts)
1. My mom told me similar stories.
Thu Sep 2, 2021, 02:54 PM
Sep 2021

One girl she knew had an abortion on the kitchen table. A few got married. Another girl went on a vacation with her parents to Sweden.

It was a most terrible time to be female.

MineralMan

(146,288 posts)
3. Yes, it was, and in many ways.
Thu Sep 2, 2021, 03:29 PM
Sep 2021

I was a co-valedictorian in my class at graduation. I shared that with a girl, who was probably smarter than I was, although how would you tell? She was a great friend of mine in school. I got counseled to go to college and major in engineering. She got told that she'd make a great executive secretary, if she went to business school.

Fortunately, she didn't listen to that school counselor and ended up becoming a neurosurgeon. Me? I ended up writing for magazines.

There were so many blocks put in the paths of young women back then, and that didn't go away for a couple more decades, really. I felt that way at the time, but didn't really understand how serious the discrepancy was until a few more years had passed.



Wicked Blue

(5,832 posts)
2. When I was in college, early 1970s, we passed the hat
Thu Sep 2, 2021, 02:58 PM
Sep 2021

and collected money for a pregnant classmate to fly to Haiti.

I can't even begin to imagine how terrified she must have been.

MineralMan

(146,288 posts)
4. Sadly, too many did not even have that option.
Thu Sep 2, 2021, 03:31 PM
Sep 2021

I've known many women my age who missed their opportunities in life because of the general prejudice against women and expectations of what they should and should not do. It always seemed wrong to me, but I didn't recognize how wrong for many years after becoming an adult.

LeftInTX

(25,305 posts)
5. Lots of teen pregnancies and lots of teen marriages followed by lots of divorces
Thu Sep 2, 2021, 03:58 PM
Sep 2021

Where I lived...
A handful of girls went away....

I knew 2 who managed to get abortions, but I have no idea of how....

It was a thing to "trap a guy" with a pregnancy where I lived, so there's that......
Girls wanted to get married, so what better way than to get pregnant....

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