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TrogL

(32,822 posts)
Mon Sep 6, 2021, 09:11 PM Sep 2021

If you're beyond 6 weeks pregnant and want some advice on abortion...

...back when I was a youngin' and dinosaurs roamed the Earth, female acquaintances of mine would abruptly go to Switzerland "on vacation" *wink, wink, nudge, nudge, say no more, say no more* and come back all unpregnant.

Canada's border is open to fully vaccinated people.


I'm Canadian. Somebody sue me. Go for it.

(Note if you rec this you're complicit).

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If you're beyond 6 weeks pregnant and want some advice on abortion... (Original Post) TrogL Sep 2021 OP
Color me complicit! Karadeniz Sep 2021 #1
Can't scare me ornotna Sep 2021 #2
I'm complicit too: in the 'olden days,' elleng Sep 2021 #3
A nudge is as good as a wink to a blind bat, eh Squire? (nt) Hugh_Lebowski Sep 2021 #4
A solution for rich people is no solution at all. Touting legality is garbage when access is such a WhiskeyGrinder Sep 2021 #5
How many girls can afford a trip from Texas to Canada? 3Hotdogs Sep 2021 #35
When I was younger and growing up in rural SW Missouri in the Arkansas Granny Sep 2021 #6
Complicit here. momta Sep 2021 #7
Need to have money. Or an Underground Railroad. JenniferJuniper Sep 2021 #8
No need to gofund. Just donate to abortion funds in your area. WhiskeyGrinder Sep 2021 #13
This is a good resource if you want to donate. ShazzieB Sep 2021 #32
I see what you mean. Airfare is $464 one way TrogL Sep 2021 #18
there are nice cheap getaways to Costa Rica too. Captain Zero Sep 2021 #23
Women in most states just can't do that .... SarcasticSatyr Sep 2021 #9
Same in Canada, for that matter. The OP makes it sound so simple, when it really isn't, for WhiskeyGrinder Sep 2021 #11
What about the "morning after" pill? albacore Sep 2021 #10
What about it? It's good to have on hand, but it doesn't take away the need for abortion. WhiskeyGrinder Sep 2021 #12
Wouldn't it at least cut down on abortions? albacore Sep 2021 #31
Or solve the ultimate problem of bodily autonomy. littlemissmartypants Sep 2021 #36
Thank you BlueSky3 Sep 2021 #60
Welcome to DU, BlueSky3! calimary Sep 2021 #62
Thanks, calimary BlueSky3 Sep 2021 #68
You solve it by . . . HuskyOffset Sep 2021 #64
Plan B (morning after pill) works by preventing ovulation Mariana Sep 2021 #16
wealthy women have never had an issue Skittles Sep 2021 #14
👍 Joinfortmill Sep 2021 #15
Why are people reccing this? I'm curious. WhiskeyGrinder Sep 2021 #17
The Texas's law rewards snitches. alfredo Sep 2021 #25
I realize that, but "go to Canada" is utterly unworkable. Many people have trouble accessing WhiskeyGrinder Sep 2021 #42
It doesn't matter if it works, the show of defiance is what is important. alfredo Sep 2021 #46
It does matter if it works, because otherwise all it is is a show. WhiskeyGrinder Sep 2021 #47
It's important to keep the issue alive. alfredo Sep 2021 #73
It's important to note that, while Canadians have more or less "free" health care, BobTheSubgenius Sep 2021 #19
Happy to be complicit 😁 n/t iluvtennis Sep 2021 #20
Proudly complicit alfredo Sep 2021 #21
I applaud the workaround. Gore1FL Sep 2021 #22
In the pre Roe days a friend of ours had to go to NY. alfredo Sep 2021 #26
You are a true friend. Gore1FL Sep 2021 #27
Thanks. I know my city will accept Texas refugees. We are a red state with alfredo Sep 2021 #28
in illinois, it was wisconsin. mopinko Sep 2021 #50
there is the RU-486 orleans Sep 2021 #24
And what would women do in Texas if something went wrong? LeftInTX Sep 2021 #63
exactly. orleans Sep 2021 #69
Nice, if you can afford it. BlueKentuckyGirl Sep 2021 #29
Nice, if you can afford it. BlueKentuckyGirl Sep 2021 #30
Mandatory pg tests for travel agency female customers of child bearing age. keithbvadu2 Sep 2021 #33
I thought we were trying to come Karma13612 Sep 2021 #34
Sarcasm, irony, ridicule, travesty, satire keithbvadu2 Sep 2021 #39
Gotcha, thanks! Eom Karma13612 Sep 2021 #41
Complicit, checking in Hekate Sep 2021 #37
Unfortunately, out of reach for the population of women who most likely need the procedure. nt littlemissmartypants Sep 2021 #38
Good luck figuring out how to pry $10000 out of me KentuckyWoman Sep 2021 #40
Sweden wouldn't take my sister, nor would England (1969). Greybnk48 Sep 2021 #43
For a lot folks in the south and desert southwest, Mexico is closer. Texin Sep 2021 #44
This message was self-deleted by its author roamer65 Sep 2021 #45
Don't you need a passport now for Canada or Mexico? Most teens/young people won't have those. Liberty Belle Sep 2021 #48
My hunch is that doctors won't perform an abortion on anyone under 18 if they are from Texas LeftInTX Sep 2021 #70
So I'm wondering how the jurisprudence works TrogL Sep 2021 #49
I found the law TrogL Sep 2021 #59
This thread is an example of what annoys me. CrackityJones75 Sep 2021 #51
K & R billh58 Sep 2021 #52
You missed the point of the thread TrogL Sep 2021 #57
Thank you. dixiechiken1 Sep 2021 #67
I live in Switzerland. Come on over! nt LittleGirl Sep 2021 #53
Their will definitely be travel involved... lame54 Sep 2021 #54
I read a long time ago that Queen Anne's Lace Marthe48 Sep 2021 #55
My grandmother almost died from an herbal induced abortion...No!!! LeftInTX Sep 2021 #72
Exactly! Marthe48 Sep 2021 #75
I'm Now Your Aunt In Maryland Deep State Witch Sep 2021 #56
How incredibly kind TrogL Sep 2021 #58
Just had a frient try to get into Canada Racygrandma Sep 2021 #61
why there H2Oart Sep 2021 #65
Of course not every woman can just drop everything and fly off to Switzerland. totodeinhere Sep 2021 #66
im in texas and will help any woman who needs an abortion rdking647 Sep 2021 #71
The best way you can help right now is to donate to abortion funds in Texas or surrounding states. WhiskeyGrinder Sep 2021 #74
already done rdking647 Sep 2021 #76

elleng

(130,865 posts)
3. I'm complicit too: in the 'olden days,'
Mon Sep 6, 2021, 09:23 PM
Sep 2021

I helped a friend travel from Illinois to Italy; obviously, there was $$$ there.

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,327 posts)
5. A solution for rich people is no solution at all. Touting legality is garbage when access is such a
Mon Sep 6, 2021, 09:35 PM
Sep 2021

huge issue -- and it's a huge issue in Canada.

Arkansas Granny

(31,515 posts)
6. When I was younger and growing up in rural SW Missouri in the
Mon Sep 6, 2021, 09:44 PM
Sep 2021

50's and 60's, a classmate confided that her sister had gotten pregnant, but she had gone to see Aunt So&So who had killed the baby (her words). Neither of us knew exactly what that entailed, but it frightened both of us.

Aunt So&So lived in a tar paper shack that had no running water.

ShazzieB

(16,377 posts)
32. This is a good resource if you want to donate.
Mon Sep 6, 2021, 11:42 PM
Sep 2021

National Network of Abortion Funds

https://abortionfunds.org/

You can find listings of local abortion funds there, or donate to the network itself.

SarcasticSatyr

(1,178 posts)
9. Women in most states just can't do that ....
Mon Sep 6, 2021, 09:54 PM
Sep 2021

They have neither the time off from work, nor the money to afford it ..

albacore

(2,398 posts)
10. What about the "morning after" pill?
Mon Sep 6, 2021, 10:02 PM
Sep 2021

You can buy those things at Mall-Wart and Amazon.
What about women taking them if they think there is any chance they might have gotten pregnant?
I'm waaaay too old to know about the risks/advantages of that pill, so can somebody school me?
Girl goes on date...unplanned consensual sex.... takes pill... it's all good.

Yes... I know that would only cover part of the problem. I've read all the stuff at Guttmacher.

What do I not know?

https://www.guttmacher.org/report/characteristics-us-abortion-patients-2014

albacore

(2,398 posts)
31. Wouldn't it at least cut down on abortions?
Mon Sep 6, 2021, 11:40 PM
Sep 2021

No replacement for all the hassle, but at least some women wouldn't have to face the screaming assholes at the clinics...or the cops and snitches?
More and more women are using the "morning after" pill.



calimary

(81,220 posts)
62. Welcome to DU, BlueSky3!
Tue Sep 7, 2021, 05:50 PM
Sep 2021

Well, I'd say it starts in a place like this. Where we're talking about it and kicking ideas around, debating and maybe even test-driving strategies.

This place is a THINK TANK. A research institution. AND a safe harbor and hang-out. If it does NOTHING else, it lets you know you're not alone in how you feel and how you view the way things are in this country now.

I'm here every day. It sustains me, consoles me, inspires me, and gives me hope.

BlueSky3

(511 posts)
68. Thanks, calimary
Tue Sep 7, 2021, 07:55 PM
Sep 2021

I've enjoyed your posts. I've been here since 2012, but haven't posted much in the past. I come here to feel I'm in good company and to keep up with the news, always hoping for something to counteract what I see in the MSM. And to watch cat videos. 😊

Mariana

(14,856 posts)
16. Plan B (morning after pill) works by preventing ovulation
Mon Sep 6, 2021, 10:32 PM
Sep 2021

so no pregnancy occurs. If a woman is pregnant, it's way too late for that.

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,327 posts)
42. I realize that, but "go to Canada" is utterly unworkable. Many people have trouble accessing
Tue Sep 7, 2021, 07:57 AM
Sep 2021

an abortion in the next county; why is touting Canada a solution? Especially when millions of people in Canada find it difficult to access abortion care. It's not a solution, it's not the beginning of an idea, it's not even clever.

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,327 posts)
47. It does matter if it works, because otherwise all it is is a show.
Tue Sep 7, 2021, 10:52 AM
Sep 2021

Actual defiance includes supporting abortion funds on the ground.

BobTheSubgenius

(11,563 posts)
19. It's important to note that, while Canadians have more or less "free" health care,
Mon Sep 6, 2021, 10:54 PM
Sep 2021

that does not extend to citizens of other countries. The rate schedule is nowhere near what it would be for an uninsured person in the US, but it is by NO means "free."

alfredo

(60,071 posts)
26. In the pre Roe days a friend of ours had to go to NY.
Mon Sep 6, 2021, 11:17 PM
Sep 2021

That was the closest state to offer that service legally. We all chipped in to pay for the trip and medical costs.

Gore1FL

(21,128 posts)
27. You are a true friend.
Mon Sep 6, 2021, 11:19 PM
Sep 2021

I'd like to nationalize that effort. We need to organize the Underground Railroad II. I don't know how to do that.

alfredo

(60,071 posts)
28. Thanks. I know my city will accept Texas refugees. We are a red state with
Mon Sep 6, 2021, 11:21 PM
Sep 2021

Good Liberal cities, and a Dem governor.

Those of us that had jobs were able to help some for her journey.

mopinko

(70,088 posts)
50. in illinois, it was wisconsin.
Tue Sep 7, 2021, 01:01 PM
Sep 2021

there was a bus every saturday to a clinic just over the line.
it was money, but manageable. about $300, iirc. certainly has gone up, but the lack of insurance coverage, and funding behind pp and others have kept it pretty low, considering.

trouble is aftercare. the bus came back the same day. the 1 friend i had that did it bled pretty hard. she should have gotten care, but she just toughed it out.
there were 2 hospitals in town, but only 1 would have taken care of her. catholics,

orleans

(34,051 posts)
24. there is the RU-486
Mon Sep 6, 2021, 11:13 PM
Sep 2021

but that doesn't always work and it can cost around $800
if it doesn't work you end up paying for the surgical procedure on top of the $800

(i know someone who had to get the surgical procedure b/c that combo of pills that makes up ru-486 did not work)

i would recommend women in texas just make appointments for planned parenthood or a private practice doctor in a blue state nearby. and, if possible, travel with a friend

https://www.verywellhealth.com/ru486-the-abortion-pill-906956

LeftInTX

(25,272 posts)
63. And what would women do in Texas if something went wrong?
Tue Sep 7, 2021, 06:27 PM
Sep 2021

Not much help in Texas.

If using RU-486. Go to a blue state and take the pills under a provider's supervision. Come back when all risk of complications are over.

orleans

(34,051 posts)
69. exactly.
Tue Sep 7, 2021, 10:26 PM
Sep 2021

as i said: "i would recommend women in texas just make appointments for planned parenthood or a private practice doctor in a blue state nearby. and, if possible, travel with a friend"


BlueKentuckyGirl

(402 posts)
29. Nice, if you can afford it.
Mon Sep 6, 2021, 11:26 PM
Sep 2021

This law is hitting the poor women of Texas. They can't afford to leave Texas, let alone fly to Switzerland... or Canada..or Costa Rica or anywhere.

BlueKentuckyGirl

(402 posts)
30. Nice, if you can afford it.
Mon Sep 6, 2021, 11:34 PM
Sep 2021

This law is hitting the poor women of Texas. They can't afford to leave Texas, let alone fly to Switzerland... or Canada..or Costa Rica or anywhere.

keithbvadu2

(36,780 posts)
33. Mandatory pg tests for travel agency female customers of child bearing age.
Mon Sep 6, 2021, 11:42 PM
Sep 2021

Mandatory pg tests for travel agency female customers of child bearing age.

Same for airline travel going to places that have abortion capabilities.

Then, another pg test upon return to see if you have a $10k bounty opportunity against the ticket seller.

Karma13612

(4,552 posts)
34. I thought we were trying to come
Mon Sep 6, 2021, 11:49 PM
Sep 2021

Up with workarounds to the law.

Or am I confused on the general topic under discussion.

KentuckyWoman

(6,679 posts)
40. Good luck figuring out how to pry $10000 out of me
Tue Sep 7, 2021, 12:31 AM
Sep 2021

I'm old. Probably be dead before the ink is dry on the signature of whoever sues me.

Greybnk48

(10,167 posts)
43. Sweden wouldn't take my sister, nor would England (1969).
Tue Sep 7, 2021, 10:07 AM
Sep 2021

She was devastated. It all worked out, but it was not the path she wanted.

Response to TrogL (Original post)

Liberty Belle

(9,534 posts)
48. Don't you need a passport now for Canada or Mexico? Most teens/young people won't have those.
Tue Sep 7, 2021, 11:06 AM
Sep 2021

Their only option would be to drive to another state where it's legal, and how do you just vanish for a couple of days or more if you have parents, school, work etc?

Canada of course is an option for those with a passport and the financial means to travel that far, but also it takes time to book air passage and that means delaying until even later.

LeftInTX

(25,272 posts)
70. My hunch is that doctors won't perform an abortion on anyone under 18 if they are from Texas
Tue Sep 7, 2021, 10:35 PM
Sep 2021

Unless, they bring their parents with them, even if abortion is legal for those under 18 where they practice.

So, if a minor wants an abortion, they will need to bring their parents.

You would be surprised at how many doctors will "refuse" services due to liability.

TrogL

(32,822 posts)
49. So I'm wondering how the jurisprudence works
Tue Sep 7, 2021, 11:20 AM
Sep 2021

Last edited Tue Sep 7, 2021, 12:09 PM - Edit history (1)

Thanks to everyone who's responded so far.

"Fly to Canada" was the first thing that occurred to me. Back in the day there were no other options except coat hangers, shady doctors and Dr. Mortgentaler. I hadn't thought through some of the other ramifications which have since been pointed out.

I haven't read the law (where is it??) but I'm wondering if they've considered...

-does the prosecutor have standing for out-of-State offenders?
-can out-of-State actors sue?
-if multiple people sue, who has priority?
-if Thoughtcrime has been opened up, are thete other opportunities? I've got some heavyduty coveting going on.
-if everybody starts sueing everybody, isn't this going to clog the courts *hint,hint...*?

 

CrackityJones75

(2,403 posts)
51. This thread is an example of what annoys me.
Tue Sep 7, 2021, 01:10 PM
Sep 2021

We all know that shipping women off to (insert country) to get an abortion isn’t a cure all. No shit people I think we all know that. But it CAN be part of a solution when things become dire. It CAN help some, and that is the point. We all donate to things. This is another thing that can be donated to if a network is set up as has been done in the past.


Very clearly we need a better wide spread solution…. Like I don’t know… The fucking constitutional amendment in place. But for now can we continue farming ideas to help people where we can i stead of going for the easy shot and ripping people for making a suggestion?

lame54

(35,287 posts)
54. Their will definitely be travel involved...
Tue Sep 7, 2021, 02:21 PM
Sep 2021

For those who can afford it

Like the lawmakers girlfriends

Marthe48

(16,945 posts)
55. I read a long time ago that Queen Anne's Lace
Tue Sep 7, 2021, 02:24 PM
Sep 2021

a wildflower, can induce abortion. I never needed to know more, but held on to this knowledge. You can look for information online. I checked a few years ago, when another state passed another restrictive anti-women bill. The online information by and large says not to ingest this or other folk medicine.

So we can have legal, safe abortions. Or we can pass along other options.

Marthe48

(16,945 posts)
75. Exactly!
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 09:23 AM
Sep 2021

Please note that I was mentioning what used to be, and what we are heading back to.

Glad your Grandmother survived.

Deep State Witch

(10,424 posts)
56. I'm Now Your Aunt In Maryland
Tue Sep 7, 2021, 03:05 PM
Sep 2021

If you live in Texas and need an abortion, my husband and I are now your aunt and uncle in Maryland. You can come visit us for a few days. We have a futon, and I can help you get to any place that you want to "visit". The one catch is that you have to tolerate cats, because we have three of them.

Racygrandma

(109 posts)
61. Just had a frient try to get into Canada
Tue Sep 7, 2021, 05:20 PM
Sep 2021

He has a storage shed there, he used to live in Wisconsin, so he drove up there from here (kansas) and had the paperwork filled out, proof of a vaccine and a negative covid test, and could not get in because he used the wrong covid test. I think they do not want a lot of us there. They think we are too crazy.

 

H2Oart

(97 posts)
65. why there
Tue Sep 7, 2021, 07:26 PM
Sep 2021

I believe there are many states still following Rowe v Wade and say abortion is legal. A quick plane ride from the GQP states to the Common sense states will work too.

totodeinhere

(13,058 posts)
66. Of course not every woman can just drop everything and fly off to Switzerland.
Tue Sep 7, 2021, 07:29 PM
Sep 2021

And many poor women could not afford a trip to Canada.

 

rdking647

(5,113 posts)
71. im in texas and will help any woman who needs an abortion
Tue Sep 7, 2021, 10:37 PM
Sep 2021

and if someone wants to sue me ill counter sue them under federal law for civil rights violations.

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,327 posts)
74. The best way you can help right now is to donate to abortion funds in Texas or surrounding states.
Wed Sep 8, 2021, 08:01 AM
Sep 2021

linktr.ee/teafund
lilithfund.org
fundtexaschoice.org
bucklebunnies.org
linktr.ee/AfiyaCenter
linktr.ee/FronteraFundRGV
clinicaccess.org
inktr.ee/WestFundTx

Arkansas:
https://www.arabortionsupport.org/donate

Louisiana:
https://www.neworleansabortionfund.org/donate

New Mexico:
https://nmrcrc.org/donate
http://mariposafund.org/donation/

Oklahoma:
https://www.roefund.org/donate

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