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left-of-center2012

(34,195 posts)
Fri Sep 10, 2021, 01:29 PM Sep 2021

1-year-old girl dies after being left in hot car all day in Texas

A 1-year-old girl has died after being left in a hot car all day in the Houston area, authorities said. On Thursday morning, the baby's mother drove three children -- ages 5, 3 and 1 -- to day care, where she dropped off the 5-year-old and 3-year-old, Harris County Sheriff Ed Gonzalez said.

The mother returned home and went about her day and apparently switched cars at some point, Gonzalez said. She returned to the day care late Thursday afternoon expecting to pick up three kids, but the staff told her only two were dropped off, the sheriff said.

A day care worker went with the mother back to their home where she found the 1-year-old girl at about 6 p.m., Harris County Sheriff's Sgt. Ben Beall told reporters.
Deputies said her body was on the floorboard.

The baby, who had been in car since 8:30 a.m., was pronounced dead at the scene, Beall said.
This marks the 20th hot car death this year, according to national nonprofit KidsAndCars.org.
Texas ranks No. 1 in the country for hot car deaths.

https://abcnews.go.com/US/year-girl-dies-left-hot-car-day-texas/story?id=79936978

https://ktvz.com/cnn-regional/2021/09/10/sheriff-1-year-old-girl-found-dead-in-vehicle-was-left-there-for-hours/

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1-year-old girl dies after being left in hot car all day in Texas (Original Post) left-of-center2012 Sep 2021 OP
I can see forgetting your phone in the car, but a baby? cayugafalls Sep 2021 #1
She didn't forget that the baby was in the car. marybourg Sep 2021 #3
I've had dogs my entire life. Always more than one at a time. Treefrog Sep 2021 #17
It's not about regard for children, or attention to children. Wingus Dingus Sep 2021 #19
I hear you. I've read all this before. I'm ADHD too. Treefrog Sep 2021 #24
thank you Skittles Sep 2021 #36
TX Only Cares About Your Life Until You're Born SoCalDavidS Sep 2021 #2
I'm a lifelong Texan. Please forgive me for this baby's death. Paladin Sep 2021 #10
I'm Sorry That They Control Your State SoCalDavidS Sep 2021 #11
Thanks for the patronizing "I'm sure there are some good people there" TheProle Sep 2021 #23
Not everybody engages in the region/state hate. Treefrog Sep 2021 #25
Thanks for saying so TheProle Sep 2021 #27
Don't let it sting. Treefrog Sep 2021 #28
True TheProle Sep 2021 #29
No one has argued otherwise. LanternWaste Sep 2021 #33
Yes. Treefrog Sep 2021 #35
They're only the "majority" Mr.Bill Sep 2021 #30
This happens in every state. Treefrog Sep 2021 #18
Thank you for holding onto liberal values in a red state XanaDUer2 Sep 2021 #21
Especially when you have to deal with disdain from your "fellow" Dems. Treefrog Sep 2021 #26
It sure wasn't fun being a Californian Mr.Bill Sep 2021 #31
I thought they had protocols where daycares expect the kids that are being dropped off. milestogo Sep 2021 #4
Body found on floorboard? Treefrog Sep 2021 #5
I feel sorry for this mother. Haggard Celine Sep 2021 #6
I honestly wish the car manufacturers would invent something that alerts when others jimfields33 Sep 2021 #8
my car does OriginalGeek Sep 2021 #34
I don't understand MenloParque Sep 2021 #7
Because in her mind, dropping her other two kids off Wingus Dingus Sep 2021 #9
Maybe she took her out of her car seat Bluesaph Sep 2021 #32
I cannot imagine the pain. WhiskeyGrinder Sep 2021 #12
This article about forgetting kids in cars, "Fatal Distraction," won a Pulitzer. Ocelot II Sep 2021 #13
I was about to post this Sympthsical Sep 2021 #14
This article fundamentally changed my thinking about what should happen to parents who forget their WhiskeyGrinder Sep 2021 #20
This is horrific, but I don't get how you "forget" your baby when the other two had to be in phylny Sep 2021 #15
Read the article in post #13 for an explanation. Ocelot II Sep 2021 #16
I will, thank you. phylny Sep 2021 #37
This message was self-deleted by its author phylny Sep 2021 #38
... Catherine Vincent Sep 2021 #22

marybourg

(12,618 posts)
3. She didn't forget that the baby was in the car.
Fri Sep 10, 2021, 01:41 PM
Sep 2021

She thought she had dropped her off at daycare with the older two.

With the hectic life many women with children live in this era, I can understand how a mom of 3 under 6 could have gotten confused. It’s very sad.

It could have been me. I’m thankful it wasn’t.

 

Treefrog

(4,170 posts)
17. I've had dogs my entire life. Always more than one at a time.
Fri Sep 10, 2021, 04:15 PM
Sep 2021

I have NEVER left them in a hot car.

I’d like to think people have that much thought about children?

Wingus Dingus

(8,052 posts)
19. It's not about regard for children, or attention to children.
Fri Sep 10, 2021, 04:36 PM
Sep 2021

It's a distracted brain that thinks its child-related tasks are all done because she went to the daycare and dropped off children, her brain registered that habitual task, and then her mind switched to other thoughts and concerns. I can understand completely how it happens, because I probably have ADHD (my kids do) and I am extremely forgetful and easily distracted and bad at multitasking.

 

Treefrog

(4,170 posts)
24. I hear you. I've read all this before. I'm ADHD too.
Fri Sep 10, 2021, 05:33 PM
Sep 2021

I’ll just never get this kind of thing.

Heart-breaking for all.

SoCalDavidS

(9,998 posts)
2. TX Only Cares About Your Life Until You're Born
Fri Sep 10, 2021, 01:37 PM
Sep 2021

After that, whether it's Guns, Covid, or neglectful parents, you're on your own.

Paladin

(28,252 posts)
10. I'm a lifelong Texan. Please forgive me for this baby's death.
Fri Sep 10, 2021, 02:25 PM
Sep 2021

No, I'm not completely serious. Getting a little weary of Texas being blamed for all the ills of the universe.

God bless this poor child. She deserved much better.

SoCalDavidS

(9,998 posts)
11. I'm Sorry That They Control Your State
Fri Sep 10, 2021, 02:40 PM
Sep 2021

I'm sure there are good people there, you're just drowned out by the majority. That's why the Democrats were unable to even come close to defeating the voting restrictions bill, nor the abortion law.

TheProle

(2,165 posts)
23. Thanks for the patronizing "I'm sure there are some good people there"
Fri Sep 10, 2021, 05:11 PM
Sep 2021

Almost 5.5 million of us voted for President Biden.

 

Treefrog

(4,170 posts)
25. Not everybody engages in the region/state hate.
Fri Sep 10, 2021, 05:35 PM
Sep 2021

Believe me, most of us on this board don’t judge people by where they live.

TheProle

(2,165 posts)
29. True
Fri Sep 10, 2021, 05:59 PM
Sep 2021

Part of me is still pissed about some of the comments about Texas women supporting the abortion law. Reading that while watching my wife, her mom and sisters all vacillating between tears and anger got me fed up with some of the regionalism bullshit.

 

Treefrog

(4,170 posts)
26. Especially when you have to deal with disdain from your "fellow" Dems.
Fri Sep 10, 2021, 05:37 PM
Sep 2021

I hate the dross I read here so often - putting people down for where they live.

milestogo

(16,829 posts)
4. I thought they had protocols where daycares expect the kids that are being dropped off.
Fri Sep 10, 2021, 01:43 PM
Sep 2021

So if one doesn't get dropped off, somebody notices.

Haggard Celine

(16,844 posts)
6. I feel sorry for this mother.
Fri Sep 10, 2021, 01:51 PM
Sep 2021

She really fucked up, of course, but she doesn't seem to have been deliberately neglectful of the child. This woman is going to be vilified by most everyone, and she'll no doubt be punished severely for her absent-mindedness. The State of Texas is nothing if not punitive. She's going to lose her kids and everything she has, most likely. Of course I feel for the child; that was a horrible way to die. But I can't help but put myself in that mother's shoes. What a mess!

jimfields33

(15,768 posts)
8. I honestly wish the car manufacturers would invent something that alerts when others
Fri Sep 10, 2021, 02:04 PM
Sep 2021

are in the car. I mean they alert when you hit a median in the road. Clearly something could be done.

As far as the mother goes, I feel for her. The floor board thing is strange though.

OriginalGeek

(12,132 posts)
34. my car does
Fri Sep 10, 2021, 06:18 PM
Sep 2021

I have a 2017 Chevy Colorado and it warns me to check the rear seat every single time I turn off the car if the back doors have been opened since the last trip.

MenloParque

(512 posts)
7. I don't understand
Fri Sep 10, 2021, 01:55 PM
Sep 2021

How in the hell this happens?!? There are no acceptable excuses. Some people don’t deserve children.

Wingus Dingus

(8,052 posts)
9. Because in her mind, dropping her other two kids off
Fri Sep 10, 2021, 02:09 PM
Sep 2021

made her brain say "mission accomplished" and it moved on to other matters. Probably the baby was quiet or asleep in the back and somehow she overlooked her.

Bluesaph

(703 posts)
32. Maybe she took her out of her car seat
Fri Sep 10, 2021, 06:11 PM
Sep 2021

And then got distracted and rushed the kids in and didn’t notice she forgot to take out the one year old.

I am having many stress related brain issues and ran a red light last week. Straight up ran it. I was thinking about all the things I had to do.

I’ve put my grandson in the car seat and buckled him up and thank god had to go back to the back seat to notice I had forgotten to attach the seat to the car.

Life is hard for busy moms and dads. We need to do better and car manufacturers need to invent something.

Sympthsical

(9,072 posts)
14. I was about to post this
Fri Sep 10, 2021, 02:50 PM
Sep 2021

There are psychological and neurological explanations behind this kind of forgetting.

Poor child. Poor mother.

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,325 posts)
20. This article fundamentally changed my thinking about what should happen to parents who forget their
Fri Sep 10, 2021, 04:50 PM
Sep 2021

children in cars, and also put me on a larger path toward thinking about punishment, incarceration, and police/prison abolition.

phylny

(8,378 posts)
15. This is horrific, but I don't get how you "forget" your baby when the other two had to be in
Fri Sep 10, 2021, 03:06 PM
Sep 2021

some kind of car seat/booster seat.

I think daycares should take the extra step of having you sign in by your child's name.

Smith, Jane - Check
Smith, John - Check
Smith, Joseph - whoops, where's the baby? OH MY GOD, IN THE CAR. Check.

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