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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsI was shocked to hear my doctor tell me
that members of our community have screamed at and harassed her and her staff over COVID-19, Delta, vaccines, and fake treatments. She's been screamed at for refusing to write prescriptions for ivermectin. Her children wear N-95 masks to school, but many other children and teachers won't.
I told my dr I was shocked to hear this, that I thought people here were smarter than this, but apparently I overestimate them. I told her and her nurse how much I appreciate them and their excellent care. Then I got my flu shot.

Sherman A1
(38,958 posts)But then I worked Retail for over 40 years.
True Blue American
(18,508 posts)When you deal with the public. There are ways to shut them down when they are rude. You also learn to do everything you can for a nice customer, as little are possible for the rude.
Sherman A1
(38,958 posts)and sometimes you just have to stand there and take it which happens far too many times.
True Blue American
(18,508 posts)Trueblue Texan
(3,319 posts)...is normal for public stress. This has become insane. Literally.
True Blue American
(18,508 posts)You never thought that would happen.
When I watched the Republicans rant at Blinken yesterday I thought to myself, those men should not be allowed any where near Government.
paleotn
(20,334 posts)if not a Medal of Honor. I learned early in life that I'm just not cut out for it.
Sherman A1
(38,958 posts)I just did what was necessary to pay the bills.
paleotn
(20,334 posts)True Blue American
(18,508 posts)I actually enjoyed my part time job. My steady customers would actually look for me.
Yesterday I had my few remaining flower beds cleaned up. The young man quoted me a low price. Then when I went out to pay him he said, You know,I have been thinking I like to do something nice, I am not going to charge you. My wife is a Nurse, we are not hurting. Little did he know it was a couple of days after a milestone birthday for me.
We then talked about the vaccine. He became deathly sick in the service from a Malaria vaccine. He told me why he was hesitant. We discussed it. His wife had hers. I understood why he was hesitant. I am hoping he takes my advice.
But young men like him are our future.
Aristus
(69,889 posts)I'm a guy, and most bullies are cowards, that's why.
I get yelled at by people upset about having to wear a mask in the clinic. But if they don't mask up, they have to get out. If they want their little aches and pains looked at, they need a mask. They grumble and complain, but they put the masks on.
Moebym
(1,033 posts)when faced with an adversary that would give them a run for their money.
Case in point: years ago, on one of my many visits to my parents in Saudi Arabia while they were living and working as expats, my family decided to spend some time at a shopping center in a nearby town. My mom and I, dressed conservatively in pants and long-sleeved shirts, walked into a shopping center ahead of my dad, only for a couple of men to jeer at us when they noticed we were alone. When my dad joined us, they scurried away like rats.
Treefrog
(4,170 posts)term.
Almost all of these stories seem to be by men, who usually then regale us with how they have a steely stare, or are built big or look like they are cut out of stone. Then follows the story of the ass-kicking theyd give the harasser if the steely glare didnt do the trick.
Im a small woman, 60ish, and not one person has harassed me yet.
True Blue American
(18,508 posts)Me big he man!
A tiny women can do more with her mouth to put them in their place !
Treefrog
(4,170 posts)I generally dont remember many names here, but I do remember that one lol!
True Blue American
(18,508 posts)I just had my flower beds cleaned out. I wrote the check. The young man was still working. I went to see how things were going. He said, You know sometimes I like to do nice things. I am not going to charge you for this! Little did he know it was a mile stone birthday for me. Then I told him.
ProfessorGAC
(72,546 posts)Most of these harassers are typical bullies. They really want "soft targets".
A sizeable guy is not a likely target, cut from stone or not.
Not about COVID, but I had the son of a cult member trying to give me noise about my flipping off his dad's T***p merchandise tent.
I'm not big and I'm nearly 65.
But, literally all I did was stand stock still, said zero, but stared at him constantly.
He walked away silently.
I wasn't a soft enough target, and I really didn't do anything.
True Blue American
(18,508 posts)oldsoftie
(13,538 posts)griloco
(848 posts)True Blue American
(18,508 posts)I have had a few, they do not do it again.
soldierant
(8,479 posts)country had different standards of behavior generally, different populations (percentage of Republicans and sanity of same - or not - as the case may be), and just different generally.
I try not to judge others' veracity on the basis of what would have happened in my neighborhood - unless they are i my neighborhood.
And even in the same neighborhood, different people may be treated differently for one reason or another.
I hadn't noticed that at all.
And I have to wonder if any guy needs ego boosting so much he'd post on a political forum.
Hey, if you say so. I just haven't seen it.
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Mariana
(15,523 posts)She's petite and looks like a teenager. She wasn't hurt, fortunately, but he gave her a good shove. She called police and the cop took a report but didn't arrest him. She got the impression that the officer knew the man, but that was never said outright. She has another job now where she doesn't have to interact with the public.
Nay
(12,051 posts)I have a Resting Bitch Face, even while wearing a mask.
SoCalDavidS
(10,599 posts)Some people are not so lucky. Yours knows what the hell is going on.
Ilsa
(62,761 posts)She wasn't raised in the South, either.
She's pretty up-to-date on our state's social services for the elderly, too. She'll likely be helping me get in-home hospice for my MIL.
Thomas Hurt
(13,931 posts)Act_of_Reparation
(9,116 posts)I know ICU and emergency med nurses who come home with new bruises every damned day.
Ilsa
(62,761 posts)muscle assistance when someone is getting out of control.
Sometimes it's the drugs, sometimes it's an altered mental state caused by UTIs, lack of sleep, or injury. Those are usually forgivable assaults. It's the spoiled magats throwing tantrums and fists that is unforgivable.
markie
(23,353 posts)Doctor here said she has heard every excuse in the book for not getting the shot... I'm thoroughly disgusted with a percentage of our fellow travelers in this land
mgardener
(2,026 posts)I was a school nurse.
I was told to go home by a state trooper once after an irate parent threatened a CPS worker and me.
She called the police and they came to school told me to get out !
appleannie1
(5,258 posts)All last year, before vaccines, people were usually grateful. Now they scream at you. Call you a liar for saying they have COVID. Call you names and all around are more than rude. Some refuse treatment and fight with you. All of them are among the unvaccinated.
True Blue American
(18,508 posts)appleannie1
(5,258 posts)ShazzieB
(20,539 posts)appleannie1: "All of them are among the unvaccinated."
Very telling, imo. There are also stories about peopke who realize they were wrong and beg for the vaccine when it's too late. I suspect those are a small percentage, but I'd love to know for sure.
roamer65
(37,588 posts)It would be like treating people at Jonestown, probably worse.
AllaN01Bear
(25,033 posts)even though ive been double vaxxed, i still wash hands and social distance .also wear mask.
True Blue American
(18,508 posts)For the workers. I always. Sanitize.
RKP5637
(67,112 posts)lambchopp59
(2,809 posts)But, their time is up soon. I've worked with some of them as a traveler. (keeping as wide a distance as possible)
I have no idea the fate that awaits those still stuck in this denial of basic medical practice but I'd certainly stay far away from any clinic or outfit that doesn't follow scientific protocols.
Where are this ilk going to go to work for? "Typhoid Mary Memorial"?
Zambero
(9,840 posts)Last edited Tue Sep 14, 2021, 11:42 AM - Edit history (2)
The virus will eventually find them.
vanlassie
(5,934 posts)True Blue American
(18,508 posts)People with not a shred of thought or caring.
If anyone is listening to the Blinken hearing the Republicans are all acting like Gym Jordan, calling names. Yelling, insults. Blinken is doing a Hillary.
Lucky Luciano
(11,600 posts)NJCher
(39,994 posts)and they had everything to live for. I just don't get it.
Math teacher (him)
Nurse (her)
Unvaccinated
May have contracted Covid at a water park (!? a water park during Covid????)
Having a baby and have four other kids at home
The nurse never even met her baby.
Captain Zero
(7,853 posts)Insurance. They qualify and should have it, but thanks to their irresponsible parents it is one more way we the vaccinated people and taxpayers have been dumped upon by the irresponsible and unvaccinated.
NJCher
(39,994 posts)because they are so selfish and power hungry, they don't care about the costs to the nation as a whole.
Another example: The CA recall is costing $200 million. There's an election in California next year!
You can't wait until next year for $200 million? Especially when your chances of winning are so pitiful?
Demovictory9
(35,674 posts)RKP5637
(67,112 posts)in the US. I had thought many were more intelligent than they are, that they would take care of their health ... apparently not. It's a real eye opener. What is really surprising are those wanting ivermectin. They will risk this, but not a proven vaccine. ... which brings me to my ongoing conclusion, many people are really fucked up.
True Blue American
(18,508 posts)Last edited Tue Sep 14, 2021, 05:38 AM - Edit history (1)
To give her ivermectin has died!
RKP5637
(67,112 posts)from this.
NJCher
(39,994 posts)We know many of them are in denial.
I read how denial is a coping mechanism, a stress reliever.
It is a scary disease. The images we see on television are scary.
So rather than be diligent and protect themselves, they deny it. They are reinforced with any number of all-too-willing shills like Larry Elder, who himself is vaccinated but yammers all the time about how no one else needs to be.
In this case it's not necessarily an intelligence thing, it's a mental well being and well adjustedness measure.
I am sure there are a multitude of reasons for people not taking the suggested measures to protect themselves. This, psychologically maladjusted, might be one of them.
RKP5637
(67,112 posts)Woodwizard
(1,172 posts)Yesterday I was doing a chainsaw carving demonstration a a big art and craft show. I carve under a canopy wrapped in deer fence this woman and two small children were very close while I was getting my gear ready my wife went over and told her it is going to get too loud for the kids. She told my wife to mind her business and she as the grandmother knew how to take care of the kids. This all happened without me knowing.
I get ready to start my saw and see them and wave them away she jumps up in a huff grabs the kids and marches off. Later she walked by and said to my wife I wont be buying any of your stuff! Like she would have anyway........ People..
Duppers
(28,330 posts)Most of these people should not be propagating.
Woodwizard
(1,172 posts)I work in my shop alone until we do shows, most people attending are great but when you have several thousand at an event there are always some real idiots. As a Heavy introvert it takes a few days after an event for me to deal with people again.
IronLionZion
(48,749 posts)there are news reports of folks being thrown out of their family/friend groups and so on for being part of the COVID crisis actors hoax or wanting kids to wear training burkas on their face in school, or other ignorant nonsense like that. People run for school board and other local offices on anti-mask anti-vax platforms. Somebody is voting for these idiots.
Trueblue Texan
(3,319 posts)...and crazier and crazier. I'm starting to think they're just afraid. They're afraid of everything, COVID, vaccines, Biden, Democrats, democracy. They've truly lost their minds and there is no talking to them. We just have to stand strong with other sane people and hope we are strong enough to withstand the elevated craziness for as long as it takes.
True Blue American
(18,508 posts)To ignore the crazies. What I have found out is those who know the least about how our Government works are the most susceptible to lies.
Watching Republicans scream at Antony Blinken yesterday shows they know what works with the fools.
But I did read the polls are with Biden. Republicans ignore who lied us into this 20 year war and ranted only about getting people out. They ignore the thousands that were evacuated.
empedocles
(15,751 posts)happening here. Puzzles me.